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egunna:
the girl no strong mentally. I mean, she shud have taken it in her strides and moved on with life. I watched her video where she was repeatedly lamenting what she will tell her parents. Wetin consign parents and virginity?if I no tell them, how Dem wan kno. Lastly, may God provide for us to take care of our children. If the family was buoyant financially, all these wudnt be happening.

Na one of those girls that are weak mentally.

I know few that are in 300 level now..

Guys should be careful of them.

But for the Asaba Odogwu, he is a predator and has done many bad stuff. I think his cup was full.

Apologies to the girl's love ones. Why would guy even rape girl's that are not dammed pretty. As in, what exactly did he see that made him lost control.

Drsnives:
How are we sure she's a virgin as she claimed.. no offence doh.. cos am sure it was pk

Well, the guy didn't dispute her claim in their chats. That's enough conviction

Quelme:
Runs girl. The truth is finally coming out gradually.

I think she was trying to sell her virginity, that's clearly different from typical usual sex

Kalulu44:
Very useless nonentity. Couchie wey him for still dey chop now if to say him play cards well and spoil that girl with gifts and money

My Brother, even meself spit on the guy o.

I hate it when men don't know how to be men. To begin with, he has no business knacking a 20 year old (virgin or not). The girl never mature nau. She's still a child! Which kind paedophilic tendency be that one?

Let's even assume the deed has now been done, at that point, he was supposed to placate her. Make her feel special and give her whatever she wants. To lose virginity no be child's play nau, the girl was probably ridden with guilt. But his pampering, care and attention would have given her the strength to overcome it. He failed the poor girl and now he will pay for it.

Make I tell you one short story. There's one corper I met in NYSC. We were so close that a lot of people started assuming that we were dating. Even both of us come begin dey act like lovers. Funny enough, we both knew each other's partner.

One fateful day, cold catch hanty enter my room. We sha knack and our eyes clear. Afterwards, I sensed the guilt in her and how she started feeling like she was used and dumped. I kukuma took the initiative by asking her out properly and formalizing the thing (at the expense of my then relationship). We come start the relationship full time. We did it till we both finished NYSC and still continued a few months after.

What's my point exactly? A man should never make a lady feel used (no matter the circumstance). Knack is already enough of a big deal for some of them, making them feel used afterwards is like hitting a person who is already down. How much more a small girl who is just 20. Haba nau! The guy really fall hand!

All the small girl wanted was for him to pamper and care for her after doing the do. And he couldn't even do that. Now, see the result.

May the soul of that girl find eternal rest. I feel really sorry for her.

motayoayinde:
This girl's story is one of the most heartbreaking stories I've read this year.
So naive.
So sad.
😢

Pls
Apologies to her loved ones.

However, is naive the right word or stupid.

To me, at her age and level of social media exposure, I think stupidity is more appropriate.

Apologies once again to her love ones..

ravensckar:
My Brother, even meself spit on the guy o.

I hate it when men don't know how to be men. To begin with, he has no business knacking a 20 year old (virgin or not). The girl never mature nau. She's still a child! Which kind paedophilic tendency be that one?

Let's even assume the deed has now been done, at that point, he was supposed to placate her. Make her feel special and give her whatever she wants. To lose virginity no be child's play nau, the girl was probably ridden with guilt. But his pampering, care and attention would have given her the strength to overcome it. He failed the poor girl and now he will pay for it.

Make I tell you one short story. There's one corper I met in NYSC. We were so close that a lot of people started assuming that we were dating. Even both of us come begin dey act like lovers. Funny enough, we both knew each other's partner.

One fateful day, cold catch hanty enter my room. We sha knack and our eyes clear. Afterwards, I sensed the guilt in her and how she started feeling like she was used and dumped. I kukuma took the initiative by asking her out properly and formalizing the thing (at the expense of my then relationship). We come start the relationship full time. We did it till we both finished NYSC and still continued a few months after.

What's my point exactly? A man should never make a lady feel used (no matter the circumstance). Knack is already enough of a big deal for some of them, making them feel used afterwards is like hitting a person who is already down. How much more a small girl who is just 20. Haba nau! The guy really fall hand!

All the small girl wanted was for him to pamper and care for her after doing the do. And he couldn't even do that. Now, see the result.

May the soul of that girl find eternal rest. I feel really sorry for her.

Ameen

maasoap:
I think she was trying to sell her virginity, that's clearly different from typical usual sex

She may not want to sell...

However, many young girls nowadays don't know what they want.

They desire many goodies that makes life comfortable, they don't have legit means of getting it so they look for alternatives. In so doing they loose guards to predators.

Kobojunkie:
Forced sex is such a trivial issue?

How did you know it was forced? Psychology, a girl that got raped would not be demanding for a certain amount of money. The fact that she is demanding for money has totally nagate a force sex claims.

May Almighty God give us the wisdom and money to train our daughters in a Godly ways.

yemmit90:
➜How did you know it was forced?
➜ Psychology, a girl that got raped would not be demanding for a certain amount of money. The fact that she is demanding for money has totally nagate a force sex claims. May Almighty God give us the wisdom and money to train our daughters in a Godly ways.

According to the story, the man did not deny the claim that it was forced. He also supposedly admits to knowing he should have paid her more than he did for the act.

2. That is a very stewpid conclusion to jump to! In Nigeria, families demand compensation from killers for the death of a loved one. It has become commonplace for people to settle for whatever they can get for their hurt. So, what psychological nonsense has you claiming that a girl demanding compensation after she had been raped is impossible?

3. Raise yourself and your sons well, too. Sex is a transaction that both entities have to consent to and agree upon beforehand. This man's story could have been avoided if he had at least kept his smallhood in his pants.

emydnobl:
I believe it's authentic, no responsible lady will be on camera and be shaking y*nsh with mini skirt and multiple rings. It says a lot about her.

How does that justify her rape
What's wrong with you people sef

3kay945:
Be thankful to God o....

Some of us are struggling to caution that dude down there.

Lol bro... The dude is really stubborn and a very big problem for men, to be honest.
The thing is, when e set for me there's a way a woman will behave with her body language and I'll know if she wants it or not.
If I sense she doesn't want, I'm turned off immediately. And it's good that way.

3kay945:
Pls
Apologies to her loved ones.

However, is naive the right word or stupid.

To me, at her age and level of social media exposure, I think stupidity is more appropriate.

Apologies once again to her love ones..

Don't assume everyone knows what everyone should know.
Your level of exposure compared to that of many is like the distance between east and west.

In 2026, some people are still victims of yahoo boys schemes that you probably knew about 15 years ago.

Kalulu44:
But she said they can get from the guy's phone. Even her own that disappeared can be retrieve thru network providers

So you're telling me network providers can hack WhatsApp and retrieve deleted messages
What school did you attend pls

BarrElChapo:
She herself said the chats will be on the guys phone, I assume you watched the video. So it’s not our responsibility to doubt the veracity of this chat.

But from the chat here, this is her phone not the guy's

lightwind:
This was chats from Odogwu Asaba WhatsApp.

No
Read it again and check the chats with blue tick

motayoayinde:
Don't assume everyone knows what everyone should know.
Your level of exposure compared to that of many is like the distance between and west.

In 2026, some people are still victims of yahoo boys schemes that you probably knew about 15 years ago.

At 20 yrs... with many death and rape cases that have been brought to light in social media. It is a red flag for any girl meeting someone he doesn't want to mingle with in an hotel. She should at that age know this little common sense.



And Yahoo victim is different, deception is more used there.

But the lady walked with her two legs into an Hotel o, to meet the opposite sex.

kullozone:
Lol bro... The dude is really stubborn and a very big problem for men, to be honest.
The thing is, when e set for me there's a way a woman will behave with her body language and I'll know if she wants it or not.
If I sense she doesn't want, I'm turned off immediately. And it's good that way.

I still imagine how people rape. If a lady say no, I stop immediately, . I wont even beg cos.,I have my pride too.

And If I must even persuade a little, the lady must be very hot. But to beg, I can't do that.

Kukutente23:
So you're telling me network providers can hack WhatsApp and retrieve deleted messages
What school did you attend pls

Kobojunkie:
According to the story, the man did not deny the claim that it was forced. He also supposedly admits to knowing he should have paid her more than he did for the act.

2. That is a very stewpid conclusion to jump to! In Nigeria, families demand compensation from killers for the death of a loved one. It has become commonplace for people to settle for whatever they can get for their hurt. So, what psychological nonsense has you claiming that a girl demanding compensation after she had been raped is impossible?

3. Raise yourself and your sons well, too. Sex is a transaction that both entities have to consent to and agree upon beforehand. This man's story could have been avoided if he had at least kept his smallhood in his pants.

1. He did not consent to it as well, and if you read the text well, you will see that there was a bargain or transaction between them before sex. The guy only wanted to play her street by paying just 10k instead of agreed price of 50k. From the chat, the issue consigning the girl was not really about rape but his failure to pay the agreed prize.

2. You said some families demand compensation for rape victims but this case is not the same. She was not asking for compensation but their agreed price before the sex.

3. You are wrong once again, women determine who to have sex with and not men. Men have absolute no power to initiate sex with an unwillings woman without her consent. Anything contrary to this is called rape. Besides, how do you expect him to keep his penis when a girl is ready to service it.

Macphenson:
The girl committed suicide because she felt her long guarded virginity was lost for just #10k.

This guy messed up. He would have pampered this girl considering she was disvirgend by him. He was supposed to have spoilt that girl with gifts and funds. He is too stingy. After forcefully disvirgining a girl, you give her just 10k, haba, instead of telling her love stories you are threatening her. She was even regretting not going to aAbuja to give it to that man as he would have paid her nothing less than 50k.

Outside the words of the girl, there is no public evidence that she was raped, and the text message suggested she was ready to give up her virginity for 50k to anorher person in Abuja.

What I am assuming from the messages is that the girl is generally unstable, the guy should have noticed it and avoid going to bed with her.

Once he has made that mistake, he should have handled her with care until she calm down, instead of playing macho with her which resulted in her taking her own life.

You call a 20yr old minor?

Eleph:
This guy don buy market.
Definitely, he must have been doing it for a long time with other minors.

rickpat:
Speechless....shaking my head...

It's shocking the way s×x is now been monetize....
Highest bidder or what......na wa

Na so e be O. Even hoelosho dey find who go love am and spend for her

E nor surprise u my guy? virgin ko

lightwind:
Bros, is it the girl on this video ?

Zionmdde:
She died a useless death
Something like this is not worth dying for
Who are you leaving the Criminal for? So won't you be alive to at least fight for justice so the dangerous predator will not have the freedom to prey on others

Everything about the girl is so naive
How could you enter a hotel room with a guy you were not planning to sleep with.

This is very painful and heartbreaking. As for the Criminal, if I say what I wish, NL will ban me.

Nothing in the message suggests she wasn't ready to sleep with him. She was ONLY ANGRY because he gave her 10k. She said she would have gotten 50k if she had gone to Abuja.

Borrow2222:
If the chart is true, the guy should present it in court.

Looks to me like a deal gone wrong.

She is angry because he didn't pay her a reasonable amount.

Once money is involved, the issue of rape might be ruled out.

It's now a normal transaction with a runs girl.

This was after the fact. They didnt agree on sex before he graped her. Thats all that matters

Kukutente23:
So you're telling me network providers can hack WhatsApp and retrieve deleted messages
What school did you attend pls

Sorry sir, I didn't attend four walls of a class. But I have led an investigation with SARS men that retrieved information from an abandoned sim card thru network providers

PattersonHR:
E nor surprise u my guy? virgin ko

E surprised me o, na wetin make i asked d question na, if na she be that

Warri girls! Hmm

Girl that he should have turned into his personal biiiitch
100k would have wooowed her

Macphenson:
The girl committed suicide because she felt her long guarded virginity was lost for just #10k.

This guy messed up. He would have pampered this girl considering she was disvirgend by him. He was supposed to have spoilt that girl with gifts and funds. He is too stingy. After forcefully disvirgining a girl, you give her just 10k, haba, instead of telling her love stories you are threatening her. She was even regretting not going to aAbuja to give it to that man as he would have paid her nothing less than 50k.

What love stories will a 40yo tell a 20yo. Rubbish
The very stvpid odogwu of Asaba is even married man with three kids.

I wonder why someone will do such. If u can pay 10k why not just carry prostitute from the get go, why forcefully have ur way with someone that didn't agree. He should face the music and pay for his crime but the girl taking her life menh.

7upnigeria:
Nothing in the message suggests she wasn't ready to sleep with him. She was ONLY ANGRY because he gave her 10k. She said she would have gotten 50k if she had gone to Abuja.

Guy please avoid my mention

Omoawoke:
All shades of wrong


You all gone cracked in this country

Chai!!

Damn it motherrrfkerr

I’m so pissed off

How do I unsee this misery… sore to the eyes and irritating my thought process



Forcefully sir!

She said forcefully !!!

That’s rapppee

And I’d say again, taking advantage of a girls vulnerability even if force is not used, it’s still rape!

For instance , a girl is desperately in need of funds to sort out emergency situations like rent, medical bills, food, school fees and a man told her he would give her the money on condition of sex.. and the girl did it out of pressure, that’s still rape even if they both go to hotel to do it..

I think the law should be able to protect people who are exploited for sex even though no physical force was used

because u were there live and direct, when they were doing it