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Dreal1247:
This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.

God bless you.
That man and his family especially his mom are evil.

Imagine a man wants to Lord over her inheritance?
Why didn't his father leave him inheritance? What was his father doing when he father was working and leaving behind an inheritance for his daughter?


Foolish family who wants to use threat of marrying another wife to collect her inheritance say na horseband he be.

Mschewww

How can you ask her to give you her inheritance? Really? It is the wife that will do any giving out of her generosity not for him to make such a demand! He ended his marriage by himself! Mtcheew!

That her husband is a leech.

timay1:
Yea. He had a good case when the woman went all selfish and didn't include the husband with her plans.

But the foolish man threw all that away the moment he demanded that she transfer the whole money to his care, and threatened her with infidelity and divorce. That was a major and unnecessary escalation. What a useless man.

Oga let's leave that talk, lets be a bit critical when thinking, a bit forensic when we're making judgement, let me point out four things to your to prove to you she's evil, 1. When the money came she totally forgot that the husband is part of her, she mentioned everything she'll do for her self she totally forgot that it was the husband that spent his hard earn money to marry her or did she marry the husband? Or the man picked money from the ground for that, 2. There's no reasonable human being on earth that will tell you to transfer all you inheritance to him because he's your husband, she's just using that lines for justification of her actions, they call it pity lines, a lot Women are very selfish and greedy, they only see you as something when the going is good...
3. She has a side guy outside who is coaching her.
4. She's a Feminist
let me not say much my brother

The man is a lazy thieving asshole and as a Nigerian man he does not rep me!

Marriage of strange bed fellows!
Yes, it is awkward for the man to feel entitled to all or any portion of the money, but clearly the woman had no love or regard for him, she was just waiting for a day she would be 'made'.
Maybe she will genuinely love her next man enough to be submissive.

Dreal1247:
This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.

I don't think U are married yet, women can be very terrible when given power and money.
You may be surprised that all she wrote here are lies about her husband because she wants to appear as the victim. Forget that gender o

Pierocash:
See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers

Hahaha, I wondered what 35m Wan do for her that long. Well, if I be the man, my only question would be, what are you going to do with the money. If she talk and didn't include me, I will advise her and tell her good luck.

As a man focus on your self and business. Don't chook.eye inside woman money. It gives you more power and confidence. At worse, you fit just tell her to lend you 5m from there to boost your business. If she no gree, still tell her, no issue and move.

Blame the man for everything, he should have calm and wait for her outcome, they're married everything she acquire is automatically for our kids, if i were the husband, i wil be more nice nd knack her another pregnant make she nurse pregnancy and money together nah

Women money is their her personal property, men money is our money.

Oxb90:
Tomorrow someone will tell me ladies are easily deceived. Give woman power na their you go know say saying love you na scam.

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Ask your brothers who took their wives abroad, they will tell you that they are now the new wives

Never judge from a One-Sided story.... The narrator might present the narrative to suit her plans

Dreal1247:
This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.

In as much as i don't support the way the husband and his family went about it, the woman was not reasonably ok as well, under your husband you want to buy a car, build a house and keep everything to yourself, while he watches.

As a reasonable woman, she should have bought a car of at least N5m for the husband, or give him the money, then keep the rest, but she keeping everything to herself shows how selfish she is.

Materialism.
The gold standard for contemporary Nigerian families.
So unfortunate.

Mariangeles:
If she had transferred the money to him, he would've used it to popori his side-chic, or married a second wife.
She knows the kind of man she's married to.

The husband was wrong for saying that, or expecting the wife to surrender such money to him, it doesn't make sense.

However, the wife wasn't considerate and wise, if she thinks properly, she would have known that keeping everything to herself would bruise her husband's ego, at least she should have bought a car of N5m, or gift her husband N5m and keep the remaining N30m.

Dshocker:
In as much as i don't support the way the husband and his family went about it, the woman was not reasonably ok as well, under your husband you want to buy a car, build a house and keep everything to yourself, while he watches.

As a reasonable woman, she should have bought a car of at least N5m for the husband, or give him the money, then keep the rest, but she keeping everything to herself shows how selfish she is.

She owes the man absolutely nothing.
She owes the family absolutely everything.
That is the mentality of a healthy family.
Individualism, selfishness, the lack of sacrifice is killing families and reverberating to destroying the Nigerian society.
Me, me, me, me....

brain54:
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Some men are disadvantaged when expressing their emotions.


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not SOME men, its MOST men are disadvantaged...

Dshocker:
In as much as i don't support the way the husband and his family went about it, the woman was not reasonably ok as well, under your husband you want to buy a car, build a house and keep everything to yourself, while he watches.

As a reasonable woman, she should have bought a car of at least N5m for the husband, or give him the money, then keep the rest, but she keeping everything to herself shows how selfish she is.

Surprised to hear this from Nigerian men....

NOBODY, absolutely NO ONE should have expectations of the other person's inheritance from parents be it male or female....We should stop setting traps for ourselves in marriage under any guise( submissiveness etc). Let him wait for his mum to leave him her wealth( at least) even if his dad was too lazy to do that.

Haba, so much entitlement --- Money that will still rub off on him, directly( through house maintenance stuffs as she has been doing previously) or indirectly ( through kids).

A man that has been threatening the wife with 2nd wife can as well use her dad's sweat to spend on side chic or even actual 2nd wife which isn't uncommon these days. As she left the marriage, zero from him unlike if she was a white woman who would still demand for 50% of his wealth despite keeping HERS.

Good decision from the woman. I don't know why some men like to embarrass themselves like this.

Men like this are a shameless...the lady should run far...dude shoild not get a dime from that money.

A man that earns more than his woman but cannot furnish the home and make it comfortable for the family is a SIMP. Sure, a woman can help her man if she sees him struggling but not that he becomes entitled.

ONLY A SIMP WILL DO WHAT THIS MAN DID.
Simping is not only when you allow a woman to chop ur money like these redpillers think.

If this thing hasn't happened to someone close to you, you won't understand. Men need to sit up

Makavelli001:
Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M



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sharone21:
Surprised to hear this from Nigerian men....

NOBODY, absolutely NO ONE should have expectations of the other person's inheritance from parents be it malr or female....We should stop setting traps for ourselves in marriage under any guise( submissiveness etc). Let him wait for his mum to leave him her wealth( at least) even if his dad was too lazy to do that.

Haba, so much entitlement --- Money that will still rub off on him, directly( through house maintenance stuffs as she has been doing previously) or indirectly ( through kids).

A man that has been threatening the wife with 2nd wife can as well use her dad's sweat to spend on side chic or even actual 2nd wife which isn't uncommon these days. As she left the marriage, zero from him unlike if she was a white woman who would still demand for 50% of his wealth despite keeping HERS.

In everything we do as humans, we have to apply wisdom, legally, morally or more traditionally, the money belongs to the woman, no doubt.

Forget the nonsense excuse she gave to buttress her point that the family responsibilities has been on her, i know how women react, by lying, when they want to seek for sympathy.

At least, sacrificing N5m and keeping N30m shouldn't be too much, if she wanted to wanted to fulfill all righteousness and give no room for anyone to blame her, when they hear the story.

Otherwise, why did she get married in the first place.

Abandoning your marriage because of 35million naira shows that you are not wise and the marriage ment nothing to you in the first place.
Definitely you don't love that Man, you were just tolerating him in the relationship. Real wife would have planned together with their husband knowing that they grow together and crash together.
If you are not careful one tomboy will just clean up the money from you and then you remember your former husband and will begin to seek for a way back.

Dshocker:
In everything we do as humans, we have to apply wisdom, legally, morally or more traditionally, the money belongs to the woman, no doubt.

Forget the nonsense excuse she gave to buttress her point that the family responsibilities has been on her, i know how women react, by lying, when they want to seek for sympathy.

At least, sacrificing N5m and keeping N30m shouldn't be too much, if she wanted to wanted to fulfill all righteousness and give no room for anyone to blame her, when they hear the story.

Otherwise, why did she get married in the first place.

You are talking as a single man or fiance to a woman, I guess NOT as a parent/ dad.

When it's your turn, leave N35m for your daughter to dash her husband N5m or N10m.

I repeat, he is NOT entitled to her PARENT's/ father's inheritance. Even me, I won't put eye on my hubby's inheritance, HABA! Weak men these days.....Na wa o

Druss:
Husband didn't behave well. I would be upset however if my wife came into possession of 35m naira and didn't give me anything from it.

Let her give you, so you can use it to bankroll your side chic(s)

kimjessey2019:
If na man receive that money the first thing he would want to do is spoil his wife😂

Because men think they are wise but they are not.
If it's me, my husband won't even know such money exist.
I'm wondering how the man even got to know about it

My dear go and enjoy your father's money, and as for the man you earn more than your wife still she buy most of the things in the house,shame on you

okomile:
Good move
I trusted and worked hard when I was young. Paying bills, ensured that we live comfortably

Now, I wish I can turn back the hands of time with hubby behavior. Like I said earlier, I will not leave the marriage but will ensure I live my life comfortably in my own terms.


Marriage for some of us na scam

Ah swear..
Marriage that a lot of us entered just to be called "responsible" by society and bear children... If you like, go and loose guard

Leepeak:

Don't bring your wife abroad ooo
I nor talk anything ooo
I was talking to a lady today about it
80% of women divorce their husbands if Dem get money I nor need to hear the man part
Forget

Opportunity for 80% of men to marry new wife.
Men should be happy with such opportunity.
New wife wey them dey use threaten their wives at the slightest provocation

Women are generally very stingy, greedy and self-centered, we the married men know what we are going through, we are just been matured and showing understanding, if it were to be the man that has the 35m naira, the man will go ahead and spend it with the woman without the world knowing anything about it

In all you do, never believe all you see on social media, especially from a woman. My token

timay1:
Yea. He had a good case when the woman went all selfish and didn't include the husband with her plans.

But the foolish man threw all that away the moment he demanded that she transfer the whole money to his care, and threatened her with infidelity and divorce. That was a major and unnecessary escalation. What a useless man.

The very good writing skills, I want you to tell husband to call me, I need to hear his side of the story.

spiceadole:
Let her give you, so you can use it to bankroll your side chic(s)

Let me play along with your stupid post. Better than her spending it on her side guys.

I thank GOD my wife doesn't think or behave like you or the woman in the OP. A couple built on love or Christian values would never behave like this.