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Funny enough she doesnt even know what she'sdoing. The courtwill gavoir the man because everything they acquire since after the marriage will be divided with the man going.home with even more. She thinks divorce is the best way.
Foolish woman

Pierocash:
See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers

She will never be married again. The 35 million will soon finish. One day you will realize you made a mistake. You should have just given him maybe 5 million to calm the tension and invest the rest immediately or give him the car. He will keep quiet. But no man will take such independence. If it's his own, all of you will gather with your family and finish the money but if it's the woman money, you will start seeing the woman colors. This is a case of - YOUR MONEY IS OUR MONEY, MY MONEY IS MY MONEY. Very greedy and selfish gender!

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I believe you are not married. Maybe you will never be. Your type don't get husband no matter who prayed for them.

SURElee:
God bless you.
That man and his family especially his mom are evil.

Imagine a man wants to Lord over her inheritance?
Why didn't his father leave him inheritance? What was his father doing when he father was working and leaving behind an inheritance for his daughter?


Foolish family who wants to use threat of marrying another wife to collect her inheritance say na horseband he be.

Mschewww

Dreal1247:
This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.

It's a shame that you talk like a child . At your age you still don't know that women and lies are like 5&6. When you listen to the man's side of the story . You will understand all this she said are all lies . Don't judge by listening to one person

People that are attacking the women, did they read the whole story please?
The man and his family are good diggers

Women and lies are like 5&6. When you listen to the man's side of the story . You will understand all this she said are all lies. Men even if you are married build yourself without letting your wife know cause only a fuulish man will trust a woman.

Women can be brutal with their decisions.

How can she give you her inheritance, you don't even ask for 15 to 20% of this value to activate a project, the lady knew her hub is lavish spender so her decision is ok

sharone21:
You are talking as a single man or fiance to a woman, I guess NOT as a parent/ dad.

When it's your turn, leave N35m for your daughter to dash her husband N5m or N10m.

I repeat, he is NOT entitled to her PARENT's/ father's inheritance. Even me, I won't put eye on my hubby's inheritance, HABA! Weak men these days.....Na wa o

Rest, you know nothing about life and family.

As I am typing this I am sitting here with my wife, I need N300k to fix my car, my wife just received a bonus of N3m from her officer, I asked her to borrow me N300k and she is here giving me all the fixed plans she has made before the money came including the children, her mortgage payment etc but nothing was planned for me.

I am not surprised by her actions, I will have to borrow from others when she has the money in her account, this is what we see in many homes

Dshocker:
Rest, you know nothing about life and family.

LoL.....Boys everywhere!

Pierocash:
See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers

. You are a rare Nigerian with a rare thinking cap. You must a fair judge. You will definitely go very far in life. Just keep it up.

But if it was the man's money, it will be for both of you ba? many women today have inherited so many men properties and monies, for example me myself,I have my wife as my next of kin of all my assets and my monies in the bank, even my pension have my wife as my next of kin, because I did it because she is the mother of my kids, I believe if she is charge of my things it will benefit my children, but when I read stories like this it makes me want to change my mind, because maybe if it all this was hers , she for no send me.
am still thinking of my next action after reading this.

Had it been it was the man that got that much money, will she agree the man spend it alone?

I think the family should have come together to deliberate on how to spend and invest some of the money, the woman was greedy, but the man also did not do well

If I were the man, the moment she decides to take everything alone and leave you out, just ignore and move on with your life. from that moment start planning your retirement alone while still married to her

In Nigeria, a man's money is for the family while the wife's money is for her alone. what a warped tradition!

onomej4u:
People that are attacking the women, did they read the whole story please?
The man and his family are good diggers

All the woman needed to do was sit down with the husband and analyze how to spend the money, giving the man like N2m to hold body while she buys whatever and invest the rest, that wouldn't be a bad idea

If she had done that, the story for no long like this. both of them didn't do well but the lady has more of the blame

Dreal1247:
This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.

Exactly. It is not his money but her father. He should respect her decision please

brain54:
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Most Women are selfish. It's no longer news na.


If it was the man that made that kind of money there is no way he wouldn't have included her in his plans... no matter how remotely.


I have a female platonic friend that recently got a better paying job and doubling her earnings. So many red flags I have noticed about her and even down to what she started posting on her status recently.


Women are wired differently from men.


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I agree and that’s why when men make money, it should not be totally visible to their partner because she will find excuses to lay claim of her husband money. On the other hand, if the story is true, then the husband should please back out and has no right lay claim to her properties because he himself has not been responsible.

Pierocash:
See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers

Well I agree with you. The said husband shouldn’t have gone in that direction he took. He was too desperate also and could kill that lady.

Omoluabi16:
She should have cashed out all the money and lay it at the feet of her husband like the times of old. I'm not comfortable with modern women. Strong-headed, highly opinionated, boastful, ambitious, not submissive, giving opinions without being asked. Why make plans without her husband's input?

Exactly!!! She should have put the money in a big calabash added palmoil and feathers for effect . Sacrificial giving of a submissive wife to her husband, modern women don't just get it.

😂😂 It's interesting how some people are saying, "If it were the man, he would have included her in his plans," yet they seem to have overlooked the part where she said almost everything in the house belonged to her.
If that's true, it suggests she had already been generous and selfless with what she had. Sometimes we become so focused on defending one side that we ignore important details in the story.
It's always better to consider the full context before passing judgment.

chicfarmer:
The Man is wrong for demanding ALL the money. But the woman for involve her husband in the planning of how to manage the money. Afterall, marriage na for better for worse. If it happened that she fell seriously sick, will the man abandon her?

If your papa leave money for you, at least let the breeze reach oga side na

From all that she stated you would realise that the man was spending his money on other women outside. He had no good intention for the money, they would have become worse of if she had released the money to him.

She took the right decision and saved herself from a life of regret at old age.

Good women are hard to find.
Young lady,you absolutely did the right thing.
Ur husband was never appreciative of ur contributions.
I know his type.

amancalledgodd:
At least gehgeh don leave clue for us.

Thank Hod for gehgeh

Way long before GehGeh the red pill have been preaching it here.

Pierocash:
See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers

My brother will if it is ordinary 35M go work the money make you know. She took the right decision. Can't you see the the man was living off her while he spent his own money on flexing. If you support him then that shows that you may be like him.

Let me ask you a question if she was your sister would you support the idea that she released the money to the man?

Proserpina:
Exactly!!! She should have put the money in a big calabash added palmoil and feathers for effect . Sacrificial giving of a submissive wife to her husband, modern women don't just get it.

small play wey I dey play otilo farrrr. Afi sacrificial giving. 🤣🤣🤣

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Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M



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Motherhood and sisterhood in general are proud of you.Yet some fo@ls on this nairaland will be preaching and telling men not to marry because its only woman that benefits most in the marriage. And I don't blame them ,they are talking from their b∆d experience of marrying us€less women just like them.

Dreal1247:
This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.

The man is a mumu, if he was the one with the money, the woman will be giving him advice to buy land and build, where she will eventually inherit
A woman can leave u in a second. Don’t kill your self for them

Omoluabi16:
small play wey I dey play otilo farrrr. Afi sacrificial giving. 🤣🤣🤣

Lol...
We are saying the same thing nah

You see how greedy and selfish women can be?

35m that can disappear in weeks