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Rapmoney:
Oga, the chats were screenshots and not retrieved.

Rapmoney:
You are not far from the truth. The threat and lack of adequate compensation led to her committing suicide.

Modified: I have seen some of her videos. I really doubt it that the girl was a virgin as she claimed. Rape is a criminal offence, yes no doubt, but the girl could not have been a virgin from some of her videos I saw and what she was doing.

It is easier for a cow to pass through the eye of a needle than to find a 20 year-old virgin in Agbarho, Delta State. I know those places. Na my area. Make nobody tell me nonsense.

Rapmoney:
You are not far from the truth. The threat and lack of adequate compensation led to her committing suicide.

Modified: I have seen some of her videos. I really doubt it that the girl was a virgin as she claimed. Rape is a criminal offence, yes no doubt, but the girl could not have been a virgin from some of her videos I saw and what she was doing.

It is easier for a cow to pass through the eye of a needle than to find a 20 year-old virgin in Agbarho, Delta State. I know those places. Na my area. Make nobody tell me nonsense.

Omoawoke:
All shades of wrong


You all gone cracked in this country

Chai!!

Damn it motherrrfkerr

I’m so pissed off

How do I unsee this misery… sore to the eyes and irritating my thought process



Forcefully sir!

She said forcefully !!!

That’s rapppee

And I’d say again, taking advantage of a girls vulnerability even if force is not used, it’s still rape!

For instance , a girl is desperately in need of funds to sort out emergency situations like rent, medical bills, food, school fees and a man told her he would give her the money on condition of sex.. and the girl did it out of pressure, that’s still rape even if they both go to hotel to do it..

I think the law should be able to protect people who are exploited for sex even though no physical force was used

Robertgreene1:
The girl even regretted not giving it to the other Abuja man for 50k So girls now sell their virginity toto to the highest bidders Na so una dey do for here

sisisioge:
How long did the moment last for this SoB to have created this everlasting destruction! Why!

Unfortunately for him, he won't even get sympathy from his fellow comrades because the virginity part pains them more than the ra.pe and life lost! If it were to be a non virginity girl, they would have supported the anofia! Now we are all on the same page calling this evil art EVIL!

Rest in peace to the girl. I hope others will learn to protect themselves from the vultures disguising as humans! Dont be stup.id in this life fa! It is well.

Omoawoke:
The worst set of humans , in the same category with arm robbers are those ones who take advantage of a girl’s desperate moment to push her to sex for money…

For example, a girl who is almost homeless or whose sibling is sick at hospital and needs emergency fund to rescue the situation and a man knows this and tell her he would give her the money on condition of sex… such man is evil and a demon

agentarcher:
Those who don't know the guy has admitted to the crime and was begging the girl's parent and her twin sister for forgiveness. The girl is a twin. It was a fellow content creator who lead the arrest against him and he was pleading they settle the matter. That there is confession. The only thing now is if the family will take the settlement and forget the matter or take the matter to court. He has to prove it was an agreement to have sex and he simply didn't pay well and she killed herself, but information is that he deleted the chat from his end.

Omoawoke:
I can confirm that many potential rapisttt plenty for Nairaland

Omoawoke:
I’m really surprised why you feel attacked?

Would you see someone in desperate need of money and use that opportunity to exploit the girl for sex?

Seems your answer would be yes!

Well, to any man that does that… may karma visit them… may they be in desperate situation and may they be taken advantage of

Lol, or you think only girls fall into this category…

The universe knows how to teach people bitter lessons …


A girl has a sick mother, she’s trying everything to raise money to help her mother… she goes to a man and the man condition is for sex before he can help her … well he has his way with her and gave her the money… - she did this out of limited options and desperation…

Well the man enjoyed the sex but karma is sweet… his time came and sickness came upon him… he needed urgent funds to save his life and he needed 10M… he put up his property worth 50M for sale, someone saw his desperation and offered to buy it for 9M … of course he was desperate and he sold it at that cheap price…

You all will learn! All of you humans! You all will learn till you become wise in the nature of the universe

joseph1832:
Does it read like the girl didn't givee her consent from the WhatsApp messages.

She gave her consent for the promise of 50K. The Asaba bloke deceived her. Period.

JoeEeL:
People may admit to crime when there is a devastating consequence such as death. They do that to prevent public justice in this 3rd world country and to assuage the emotions of the public until things bcom clearer and more facts appear. As u can see the new developments, even the case of rape is now being debated.

Its just like hitting a young chap to the floor while driving. In most instances you the driver instantly bcoms the villain, whereas many accidents are actually caused by the victims, usually by jay-walking, crossing the road carelessly, refusal to use a head bridge, failure of the government to provide pedestrian crosses and traffic lights etc. Most drivers first flee, a tacit admission of guilt. But are they really guilty?

Use ur upper

BondRiv:
I take the responsibility to impact knowledge when necessary. It is why I must state it clearly to you now that consent can be withdrawn at any time before the conclusion of the act. It can't be done retroactively. My advice to you is to have self-control. You certainly have the wrong mentality and barely any knowledge of the law regarding this.

To this current situation, I have not seen anything, including those messages where she consented to sex. Now having been raped as alleged, she still sought for the same assistance that brought her there.

It is not in doubt that she needed financial assistance. But It has nothing to do with consenting to sex. This was not a hook-up transaction. He did not invite her for sex. At no point did the parties agree on such terms. What has been consistent was sex without consent and that is rape.

agentarcher:
You are speaking to the son of a lawyer here. There is a reason lawyers always tell their clients never to speak without them being there like the case of adeyemi who refused to even to respond to what his name is. The moment that guy admitted and started pleading he gave a confession right there. The chat posted online can not paint the full picture. The court can argue the girl responded that way due to emotional instability. Even the chat has to be proven to be legit in the eyes of the court. The only way the case dies now is if the family accepts a settlement and agree to accept the story that it was sex service deal gone wrong. The guy definitely forced himself on the girl and the girl wanted compensation for it. She went there for sex and must have gotten cold feet and didn't want to proceed until a fair agreement was reached. The guy overpowered her and forced himself on her. She then demanded that she be compensated fairly and the matter will die, the guy refused her demands. The girl killed herself and the guy knows he bleeped up. The fact he deleted all the messages from his end is another rope around his neck. His only saving grace are two things, he has enough money to influence the judge in his case to pick out minor things and make them look like important information, the second is settlement which I am sure will happen. The parents from the video, their body language look like people who will rather settle than go to court.

joseph1832:
You should read the WhatsApp messages very well, so the knowledge your sought to impact, will be impacted on you, before you impact on others.

Consent may be withdrawn at anytime, even in the heat of action, no doubt, but from the WhatsApp messages, she gave her consent with the promise of being given 50K in exchange for her virginity. Asaba or whatever his name is, deceived her, and gave her 10K instead, this is why she was so distraught. Evening telling him, if she had gone to Abuja, the other guy would have given her that amount.

Let's not try to twist things that are so visible and clear. Once consent is given, it is given, it can't be withdrawn after the heat of action. Does that even make sense. After you're done with her, she then say she doesn't give her consent anymore

agentarcher:
You are speaking to the son of a lawyer here. There is a reason lawyers always tell their clients never to speak without them being there like the case of adeyemi who refused to even to respond to what his name is. The moment that guy admitted and started pleading he gave a confession right there. The chat posted online can not paint the full picture. The court can argue the girl responded that way due to emotional instability. Even the chat has to be proven to be legit in the eyes of the court. The only way the case dies now is if the family accepts a settlement and agree to accept the story that it was sex service deal gone wrong. The guy definitely forced himself on the girl and the girl wanted compensation for it. She went there for sex and must have gotten cold feet and didn't want to proceed until a fair agreement was reached. The guy overpowered her and forced himself on her. She then demanded that she be compensated fairly and the matter will die, the guy refused her demands. The girl killed herself and the guy knows he bleeped up. The fact he deleted all the messages from his end is another rope around his neck. His only saving grace are two things, he has enough money to influence the judge in his case to pick out minor things and make them look like important information, the second is settlement which I am sure will happen. The parents from the video, their body language look like people who will rather settle than go to court.

Rapmoney:
You are not far from the truth. The threat and lack of adequate compensation led to her committing suicide.

Modified: I have seen some of her videos. I really doubt it that the girl was a virgin as she claimed. Rape is a criminal offence, yes no doubt, but the girl could not have been a virgin from some of her videos I saw and what she was doing.

It is easier for a cow to pass through the eye of a needle than to find a 20 year-old virgin in Agbarho, Delta State. I know those places. Na my area. Make nobody tell me nonsense.

BondRiv:
Attach the chat that supports your position. This is how some of you spread falsehood for something that can easily be verified. Nothing in that chat shows or even implies that she went to him for sex. What she has been seeking was financial assistance. No agreement for sex can be seen. In fact, the allegation that her virginity was FORCEFULLY taken is in the chat.

joseph1832:
What proof do you have that her virginity was forcefully taken, if not just her say so?

Have you seen the video of her twerking in the club with two guys clubbing till the break if dawn. The one spreading falsehood is her.

You can even ask yourself, what a so called 20 year old, is doing traveling from East to West, even saying she should have gone to meet a guy in Abuja and the guy would give her 50K. Puhlease.

JoeEeL:
Then find d money elsewhere. When I was working hard for money and being sex-starved, these women were sleeping around.

And when i finally get it, I should give it up for free? How many women would reciprocate by accepting to give me money on the condition of sex only?

Pls gerrout!

BondRiv:
We have the chats and her video. She confided in her twin sister too (potential witness). Then you have his admission.

Investigation is still ongoing and will uncover more. There will be medical reports. So he should stop begging. The public demands justice. This case must go to court, where it will be proven by the state whether he is guilty or not.

What is not in dispute is the fact that she needed financial assistance. What I dispute is consensual sex between them. If she wanted to have sex in exchange for assistance, she would have accepted the Abuja offer.

You can't be serious. What does twerking in the club have to do with this? A lady that twerks in a club consents to sex? Unbelievable.

BondRiv:
Being the son of a lawyer and actually being a lawyer yourself are two different things. Parts of your comment here, including your last sentence reveal that you don't have a good knowledge of the law on this issue. Another thing that is clear from your comment is that the corruption in the system has shaped your perception.

Let me start by correcting you where you said "the court can argue..." The court does not argue. It reaches a decision after listening to the arguments of lawyers before it.

This case can't die by the family accepting any "settlement and calling it a sex deal gone wrong" as you wrongly stated. I find it troubling that you hold this view given the fact that you stated that:

"The guy definitely forced himself on the girl and the girl wanted compensation for it."

You also stated that: "She went there for sex and must have gotten cold feet and didn't want to proceed until a fair agreement was reached."

How did you know that she went there for sex? Nothing supports this your position.

An important thing you must know is that all crimes are against the state, even though there are victims of crime. In lesser offences, there is a possibility of plea bargaining with the involvement of the family. But in serious offences such as rape which carries a life sentence, you can't settle to mitigate sentence.

Indeed, it is always advisable to have legal counsel in matters like this before speaking. Now he has made the admissions he did. What I think everyone should be concerned about now is justice. This is a serious case of rape that has also led to suicide. The family can still be awarded compensation after conviction. However, he cannot settle this. It is in the interest of the public that he should be prosecuted.

agentarcher:
It's good to think and process your words in your head before you talk. I have been to courthouse and read multiple case files from my dad's library. it is obvious you don't know how the court works or how reality works. This case is something I follow cause I know people handling it. There multiple rape cases that have been settled with families and nothing has happened to the person that committed the act. Before a case is taken to court it has to be submitted. If the family and the arresting officer as well as everyone involved in the primary stage of the case is settled it will never see the day of court. There are multiple evidence that suggested she went there for sex. The girl in question is a twin and has been buried by the family which I am sure you don't know. You are not even from our town where the girl is from. A courthouse is just a stone throw from my house. The girl in question was supposed to go to Abuja to meet someone else, but this guy told her to come to asaba to meet him in an hotel that he will teach her content creation. She mentioned she was a virgin and the guy said no problem. After the whole rubbish that happened the girl messaged him that it would have been better she went to Abuja because the guy there would have given her more money, but now she lost her virginity she was keeping for 10k, if the chat provided is true. In the chat she also wrote to the guy that he forced himself on her and he has to compensate her properly. The lawyer representing favor family currently is trying to use the case to extort money. it is a lady. You can do your research and see. Just because the public has been made aware of the case doesn't mean it has gone to court. If all parties involve come out and say it was a misunderstanding, the only way that case goes to court is if the government sue the guy to court. Right how it's not the state vs. it wasn't the state that lead the arrest of the guy. It was Israel Joe who told the family that he knows who to call in the police force that he trusts that will get the useless Ifeanyi.

agentarcher:
It's good to think and process your words in your head before you talk. I have been to courthouse and read multiple case files from my dad's library. it is obvious you don't know how the court works or how reality works. This case is something I follow cause I know people handling it. There multiple rape cases that have been settled with families and nothing has happened to the person that committed the act. Before a case is taken to court it has to be submitted. If the family and the arresting officer as well as everyone involved in the primary stage of the case is settled it will never see the day of court. There are multiple evidence that suggested she went there for sex. The girl in question is a twin and has been buried by the family which I am sure you don't know. You are not even from our town where the girl is from. A courthouse is just a stone throw from my house. The girl in question was supposed to go to Abuja to meet someone else, but this guy told her to come to asaba to meet him in an hotel that he will teach her content creation. She mentioned she was a virgin and the guy said no problem. After the whole rubbish that happened the girl messaged him that it would have been better she went to Abuja because the guy there would have given her more money, but now she lost her virginity she was keeping for 10k, if the chat provided is true. In the chat she also wrote to the guy that he forced himself on her and he has to compensate her properly. The lawyer representing favor family currently is trying to use the case to extort money. it is a lady. You can do your research and see. Just because the public has been made aware of the case doesn't mean it has gone to court. If all parties involve come out and say it was a misunderstanding, the only way that case goes to court is if the government sue the guy to court. Right how it's not the state vs. it wasn't the state that lead the arrest of the guy. It was Israel Joe who told the family that he knows who to call in the police force that he trusts that will get the useless Ifeanyi.

BondRiv:
Attach the chat that supports your position. This is how some of you spread falsehood for something that can easily be verified. Nothing in that chat shows or even implies that she went to him for sex. What she has been seeking was financial assistance. No agreement for sex can be seen. In fact, the allegation that her virginity was FORCEFULLY taken is in the chat.

Imindmybusiness:
I like men that remove emotions from reasoning. You my friend are a great man.

Cherrybae:
You nailed it, people only comment out of emotions.

With this chat and money mentioned. There is no case of Rape here but a deal gone wrong.

If this guy gets a good lawyer, he might win this case