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Kemical23:
1. This girl is not a virgin..
2. Why will you go and meet a total stranger in different city in an hotel..
3.from what i read online, after they had sex he didn't give her what they discussed or what she was expected rather he gave 8k and said he will send her 50k later, so when she get back home and waited for this man to send this money but to no avail he was not responding and that was when she begin to voice out...
4. From my observation this girl was depressed for over long time before this incident...
5. The man is a very wicked man, he has the money but still want to eat his cake and have it...
6. To all men who treat women badly have it in your mind that anytime any day whenever a woman accuse of rape know that the public will believe....
7. Sex is not food, whether see follows you to your house or hotel if she doesn't want to have sex with you let her go and stop forcing women to have sex with you...
8. And to all olosho if you don't want to have sex with them then avoid their money..
Again:
1. How can someone who claimed she was raped will ask for her remaining balance and still went ahead and said she would have gone to Abuja instead of asaba..
2. Why didn't she shout for help when he was about to rape her, instead asking for her 50k which is the fixed price...
3. As a man pray never to find your self in a situation like this..

I don't support any of them both the man and the girl .

Well said. No 4 can easily be missed, but the girl is likely to have been dealing with depression for sometime, this was just the last straw, that broke the Camels back.

Zionmdde:
Let the accused speak out and tell us the girl wasn't a virgin. It's not in your place to do that

How can he speak us when he has been silence. I am sure you were amongst those that spoke he should be eliminated the moment the news first broke out

nairalandankrah:
Because she was seen dancing in a club, she's no more a virgin... ? then the rapist should be released? Like wtf?. Does her choice of life style define how she should get justice?.
We talking about justice...not virginity or club or her dress style... JUSTICE IS FOR EVERY HUMAN, NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE OR WHAT YOU REPRESENT.

DEAL WITH THAT MAN SO OTHERS WILL LEARN

She wasn't dancing in that video, those guys were sexually assaulting her.

Nonsense, I guess my statement up there doesn't make sense to you right?

Same way I find it hard to define "a girl travelling across city to an hotel with a total stranger without telling her family members to have sex or taste it for the first time" as rape

Virginity my ass

Virgin or not the issue is that she was graped abi na only virgin dem dey grape why are you guys shaming her for clubbing. Even if she's a club girl doesn't mean she should be graped.

Kemical23:
1. This girl is not a virgin..
2. Why will you go and meet a total stranger in different city in an hotel..
3.from what i read online, after they had sex he didn't give her what they discussed or what she was expected rather he gave 8k and said he will send her 50k later, so when she get back home and waited for this man to send this money but to no avail he was not responding and that was when she begin to voice out...
4. From my observation this girl was depressed for over long time before this incident...
5. The man is a very wicked man, he has the money but still want to eat his cake and have it...
6. To all men who treat women badly have it in your mind that anytime any day whenever a woman accuse of rape know that the public will believe....
7. Sex is not food, whether see follows you to your house or hotel if she doesn't want to have sex with you let her go and stop forcing women to have sex with you...
8. And to all olosho if you don't want to have sex with them then avoid their money..
Again:
1. How can someone who claimed she was raped will ask for her remaining balance and still went ahead and said she would have gone to Abuja instead of asaba..
2. Why didn't she shout for help when he was about to rape her, instead asking for her 50k which is the fixed price...
3. As a man pray never to find your self in a situation like this..

I don't support any of them both the man and the girl .

Actually, i think the man must have been dissappointed that the girl was not a virgin, hence he failed to give her the money he had promised her

Kemical23:
Rugged that is it, asaba is just the victim here

But guyman no try. He for just sort the babe. Na where him dey at fault.

egunna:
thay odogwu no get sense. All these wahala no dey necessary. If he had sent that girl 100k sef, all these wud not be happening. She only wanted the money, her virginity no mean shit to her. When she chat am say "if to say she go abuja, she go collect at least 50k from the other man", na there I Kno say 100k for stop this madness. Now he is willing to give everything he has for this to go away. Fear women, see the last video wey she do, forming innocent girl come see this one for club now.

I agree, even 50k would have stopped all these who knows? But he should still have given her enough to make her feel satisfied. I have had contacts previously with many so called hook ups gals, i always make sure they eat, drink to their satisfaction and still give enough to keep them happy many times they are the ones calling and begging me asking if they can come to me they even thank and tell me they enjoyed themselves well last time


If i can't afford to do it this way i forget it. Simple! Some people are fragile when it comes to handling their emotions so their emotions are not to be played with

One time i encountered one of these gals immideately she finished eating and drinking she fell into a deep sleep i left her alone till morning when she woke up i had alread ordered breakfast for her, got ready to leave for work, she insisted that i must pay her even though no sex happened, i told her she fell asleep so i couldn't touch her she said well... You for still do de ting even tho say i dey sleep na dat one sweet pass. I was like, NO! I can't have sex with a gal deep at sleep it isn't my style. I told her she looked very tired while she slept so i can't do that, my thing is, the two of us must participate equaly in the sex otherwise i no do!


Is still paid her without no sex to avoid emotional black mails. i even told her stay here in the hotel sleep well, watch TV, take shower and leave when you want and leave the keys at the reception. That girl don call me taya say she wan come see me, even offering free sex but i say, sorry baby! i am busy with work.

flokii:
Please tell us.. how were you able to establish the fact that the girl in question was vulnerable?.
The said girl is 20 years old which makes her an adult able to make her own decisions and live with the consequences of her actions.

You sanctimonious people just have a way of whipping up unnecessary sentiments using emotional blackmail. Someone like me with very high IQ can't buy into such nonsense.

I didn't exonerate the Asaba guy in my post, infact he should be prosecuted in court, let the law takes its due course in the matter.. what I implied was that the girl might not be the person everyone thinks she is (a saintly virgin). Try to have understanding, it will help you a lot.

Alot of u know how to speak English but don't have basic understanding..

A vulnerable person isn't necessarily a minor or a disabled...
Being vulnerable can come from a position where you're not able to help yourself at that point in time..

A broke man is vulnerable....
A stranded 30yrs old woman is vulnerable...
A mourning mother of 5 is vulnerable....
In this case, a 20yrs old girl who is having financial challenges due to the financial state of her family is vulnerable....
It means that, she can be exploited for sexual gratification.....
Let's go back to the case of the lady from years ago, she was desperately looking for a job and someone from the social media offered to help who then raped and killed her after she went to see him... Was she vulnerable? Yes she was because circumstances put her in a position where evil people can easily take advantage of her.
What about the other lady who went to read in a church in Edo state and ended go dead after being raped by several guys.... Was she vulnerable, yes she was... Was she an adult.. Yes she was.....

Now see it this way.... It's your right to walk anytime of the day...
What if you're walking along your street, hungry. Depressed, confused and someone calls you to offer you help....u go to meet him and he attempts to rob you or worst still, harvest your organs... Are you an adult? Yes you are..... Are you vulnerable? Yes you are... Is anyone supposed to blame you at that point

Whatever the girl did with her life should not be for you to judge... If she likes she had danced with a million men in the past.... There is no law prohibiting her from dancing with men....
No one deserves to be raped in our society...
Even professional prostitutes, they do not deserve to be raped or sexually taken advantage of!!!

It's reactions like this from people like you that will make rape cases under reported in Nigeria because instead of providing support for victims, you're asking questions like. What was she looking for in his house. Why did she wear short skirt, why did she follow him to watch movies and all that...

The last Nigerian virgin

She is only having fun like most girls do. She was not asking to be raped.

Nigerians love stories of who put what inside who. Una go dey police everybody privates while doing the same behind closed doors. Kenyans are worse in doing the same.

The little I know of this story is a man killed himself over false accusations. Who don go don go. False accusations did not start killing people three days ago and they will continue till the end of time.

I watch her suicide video and I told my wife what killed her was not just because she was rape, rather it was because she was raped for nothing. If that bastard had given her 200k i can beat with my life that she wouldn’t had killed herself. Reasons are 1. She hug him after everything even if she says it’s not her mind.
2. She allowed him to take off her dress. Even if as she claimed it was a mistake
3. She still decide to pass the nite with him which she later left because he was making another advance.( her reasons for wanting to pass the nite was because it was getting late but later left after it got later than when she was to had left. Who want to spend one additional minute with his enemy.
4. She said she won’t go till he give her money for drug. Who takes drug when u want to kill urself. What is the drug for.
5 she said he pretended he want to make a transfer of 50k which she saw was fake. Meaning she was looking out for the money.
That bastard would have given her the money Im sure all this wouldn’t have happened.
My Advice to young ladies don’t ever travel to see any young man of today with the believe that nothing will happen. If they don’t succeed to have their way and also decide not to hurt u, they can leave u stranded.

CJStarz:
Her parents failed her. They weren't even there to give her strong emotional support

This is the worst problem people face now, no one is there for you, i dont blame them though, teach people how to be alone cos especially in africa, things have changed.

Odogwu's Media Team of fellow räpists are working round the clock to demonize the poor girl.

She was rocking two guys in a club, so what? Does that excuse the fact that Odogwu räped her mercilessly and left her for dead?

Abegi!

Let Odogwu be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. Next time, he'll control his dick and avoid little children.

Person when them rape, them still buy her indomie and give her 10k for transport...

Read the story very well... She is a virgin and she was forced to do it.


“I met him online on Monday and I told him that I’m going through some problems and i need money to sort out a family problem and that I was worried. I told him that I know of a man he has helped me a lot when I was in Asaba but the man is not staying in Asaba the man is staying in Abuja but he wants to sleep with me but I can’t go and I texted him that I need his advice and I texted him for that advice so I will know if he will be able to give me any ideas or advise on how to make money or just advise. I just needed someone to talk to because I don’t have a friend I don’t have any friend. I told him he said I should not go. Even without me telling him I would not have gone to that Abuja because I have not been to Abuja before. Secondly I know I’m a virgin that was what I told him and I would have still not gone. I just told him to let the burden out of me. He said I should not go that I should come to meet him in Asaba on Friday. When he said I should come and meet him on Friday he said he was going to help me. He did not tell me that let me come that he was going to sleep with me that he was going to give me the amount of money I want NO. He just told me can you come to Asaba on Friday? I will help you. My phone was on disappearing mode so I don’t have screenshots of those messages anymore but I’m sure it will be on his phone since my phone is on 24 hours disappear.
He did not engage on any conversation with me on sex that I will now say okay I’m going there I know he wants to sleep with me with the money No.
There was no conversation of such. So we planned on Friday. I went to the park. He said I should get to the park and call him. I went there He called me on video call to be sure I was in the park. He sent me the transport fare to pay because I told him i don’t have a dime. My parents were not aware. None of my family member was aware. I only told my sister my twin sister I’m going to Asaba I sent her the phone number of the man in case anything happened to me but I didn’t tell her what I was going there for because me I don’t know.
I got there. I went to his shop from there he said he wants to go to the Carwash. We went to the Carwash then we went to the hotel. In my mind what is he doing in the hotel ok maybe this is where he normally stays,so even before we entered they told me this is where he normally lodge normally stay most times.
I was not scared I didn’t have it in mind that he will do anything sex because he is a popular person and he will not like to do rubbish because people will drag him online. That was where my mistake came from.
We went inside. He started saying stuff, he likes me he wants to be with me and all that then I was on top of the bed foolish me I allowed him to pull my clothes that was where I made the mistake. I now told him that please I cannot do this . I’m still a virgin. I had to remind him maybe he did not remember i had to remind him. I cannot do this. Even if I want to do it. I want to do it with someone I’m dating, for love and not for money. I cannot do it for money or anything.
Even about the money even when him even carry me enter bed him no tell me say okay how much do you want or I will give you the money. We did not bargain on sex with money.
You know he is a man he was already pulling my clothes. I was trying to stop him but no he was still pulling me so I said okay This man is going to do this thing by force He pulled my clothes. I told him No. So he tried he was now saying that the thing was not entering. I now told him that I’m a virgin it will not enter just let me go. He said Okay. As e see say I wan stand up , you know I’m lying down in the process of me to turn on my side and stand up him come use my back him come turn use my back face ground him come use him hand cover my mouth and then he pressed my back on the bed. He was now grappling me I was shouting nobody could hear. I couldn’t even shout well because of the pressure of his hand on my mouth so he did it. Immediately My hymen burst he now stopped. I came out of the bed it was very painful. I thought that the thing did not even enter. I came down immediately I saw blood coming out of my body I was crying. I was crying and insulting him The worst part was that he said thank God that he did not know how it made me feel that he has been wanting to disvirgin a girl that he has never done it before that he has been craving for it. He said he is so happy doing this.
Did I do it with you genuinely? You grapped me you are still telling me to my face that you are happy doing this. So I went to the bathroom. I could not even clean myself I was standing and crying watching the blood coming out of my body because I was already thinking that I had disappointed my parents that I have disappointed myself.
so he came to the bathroom he was behaving as if he was sorry. He was begging me Kneeling down in the bathroom. I thought about it that I did not tell my parents that I’m coming here to Asaba. “

Favour Agbro,tells a heartbreaking story in a viral video before committing Su*%#!!SIDE after she alleged that content creator, Odogwu Asaba,gr@yped her

He should go to jail...

[quote author=callmeDDD post=140063203]Abi na her monthly circle she dey do wey she dey call virgin? She felt cheated, and may be the guy did a raw thing and she felt uncomfortable. But in all , her family failed her. She is totally opposite of what her twin sister portrayed and looked like. It was depression and mode in which the guy threatened her that lead to her death. The guy added salt to her injury, and she couldn't cope.



Is she even dead!!!😏.

Na KWESHION I dey ask ohhh!!🙏

Kemical23:
1. This girl is not a virgin..
2. Why will you go and meet a total stranger in different city in an hotel..
3.from what i read online, after they had sex he didn't give her what they discussed or what she was expected rather he gave 8k and said he will send her 50k later, so when she get back home and waited for this man to send this money but to no avail he was not responding and that was when she begin to voice out...
4. From my observation this girl was depressed for over long time before this incident...
5. The man is a very wicked man, he has the money but still want to eat his cake and have it...
6. To all men who treat women badly have it in your mind that anytime any day whenever a woman accuse of rape know that the public will believe....
7. Sex is not food, whether see follows you to your house or hotel if she doesn't want to have sex with you let her go and stop forcing women to have sex with you...
8. And to all olosho if you don't want to have sex with them then avoid their money..
Again:
1. How can someone who claimed she was raped will ask for her remaining balance and still went ahead and said she would have gone to Abuja instead of asaba..
2. Why didn't she shout for help when he was about to rape her, instead asking for her 50k which is the fixed price...
3. As a man pray never to find your self in a situation like this..

I don't support any of them both the man and the girl .

You cannot use behaviour to discredit virginity. They are nasty and spoilt virgins. I was over thirty years as a guy when I had my first sex. But if you heard me speak you will think I have had sex multiple times. Behaviour does not describe sexuality. Some girls have terrible behaviour and disciplined with sex. Or event and situations cannot be concluded the same way because they are always exceptional in human behaviour.

Rapmoney:
I posted this on Family Section, but una move am go Celebrity Section.

Modified: When I said that this generation of young people are only loud online, but many of them are very empty, it sounded like a joke. The said Odogwu Asaba seems not to be an educated person. He was arrested for alleged rape, and not murder as some dumb people have been screaming. Some have been adding tribal and political colourations to the issue. Imagine!

My main concern is the issue of parental irresponsibility here, because with how the society is moving, there is likely to be more victims like Favour Agbro in the nearest future.

Let the law take its course and unravel what actually transpired. If the suspect had sent 100k or 200k to the girl, do you think this issue would have seen the light of the day? If Odogwu Asaba had given the girl 10 million Naira as a gift, and she goes on social media to flunt it, the same people ranting here would have been saying: 'Oh, God when'?

The other day, a young woman went online to talk about how she slept with different guys in a day. When problem arises tomorrow, people will still come online to rant.

If a wayward life is profitable, please encourage your sons and daughters to embrace it when you start having children.

You go explain tire.

If the deed was done by MC Oluomo rather than odogwu, would you be writing this article to explain what you don't know

Tinubu till 2031.

richiejedi:
That she was seen in wherever dancing with guys doesn't make her wayward or spoilt,she can do all of these and chose to keep her virginity,so don't judge her base on that,girls that mix with guys alot are more decent..

"girls that mix with guys alot are more decent.."
No reasonable person will fall for this....
So you will be happy and proud when your daughter mix alot with guys

Marvieduke:
Sincerely I don't feel pity for this girl

Surprising coming from a woman
Why do you say so

creativejagaban:
You go explain tire.

If the deed was done by MC Oluomo rather than odogwu, would you be writing this article to explain what you don't know

Tinubu till 2031.

If you want to do your political campaign, take it to Politics Section. Maybe you missed your way here.

Kemical23:
1. This girl is not a virgin..
2. Why will you go and meet a total stranger in different city in an hotel..
3.from what i read online, after they had sex he didn't give her what they discussed or what she was expected rather he gave 8k and said he will send her 50k later, so when she get back home and waited for this man to send this money but to no avail he was not responding and that was when she begin to voice out...
4. From my observation this girl was depressed for over long time before this incident...
5. The man is a very wicked man, he has the money but still want to eat his cake and have it...
6. To all men who treat women badly have it in your mind that anytime any day whenever a woman accuse of rape know that the public will believe....
7. Sex is not food, whether see follows you to your house or hotel if she doesn't want to have sex with you let her go and stop forcing women to have sex with you...
8. And to all olosho if you don't want to have sex with them then avoid their money..
Again:
1. How can someone who claimed she was raped will ask for her remaining balance and still went ahead and said she would have gone to Abuja instead of asaba..
2. Why didn't she shout for help when he was about to rape her, instead asking for her 50k which is the fixed price...
3. As a man pray never to find your self in a situation like this..

I don't support any of them both the man and the girl .

No matter, guys should never rape. If she was in the mood before,and she changes her mind, it's her prerogative. Just lock up and wake. Its better than the troubles that comes with rape. Toto is sweet but only for a moment. The pain that comes with it when it goes south is forever. It is never worth it.

Rapmoney:
This is late Favour Agbro, dancing sexually with two young men in a nightclub. This is the same 20 year-old 'virgin'.

With all sincerity, I blame her parents because things like this are remotely caused by parental responsibility. Why should a 20 year-old girl be seeking financial assistance from unknown men outside while her parents are alive and healthy? Why would a 20 year-old girl come off as a breadwinner because she is into TikTok content creation?

The smallest unit of the society is the family. When family values are eroded, east becomes west, and north turns south.

Video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YocR9StOoCI

Oga, make una stop all this gaslighting! Rape is rape! Whether favour is a prostitute or whatever! You left the rapist and start attacking the victim! Is it because the rapist is an obidient?

As the law takes it's course with favour, let it also not forget the dauda of the east. Him too should be investigated. Nor be to de shout minister upandan be d thing. Be a accountable.

Misterone:
Oga, make una stop all this gaslighting! Rape is rape! Whether favour is a prostitute or whatever! You left the rapist and start attacking the victim! Is it because the rapist is an obidient?

You don't seem to get the msg. Yes rape is rape but what are the events and signs that led to this? That's what the OP is pointing at. Here, we have to use our sense to see beyond the ordinary. Not just emotions and political or tribal affiliations. The girl's parents firstly failed her. Even them should be investigated. As for the odugwu guy, Kirikiri still has space and will love to have him.

Dennisochampa:
This person wen post this article is evil.
Even if she was rocking the devil himself, whose business is it...
Does it mean she deserves to be violated in that manner??
Why are Nigerians so evil?
Why go up and dig videos of her in a night club.
How does that change the fact that her fundamental human right was grossly violated by an agent of the devil?
Or u are trying to say that she got what she deserved because she's not innocent
When I say our leaders are a reflection of who we are as a people, people go say na lie...
See how we are now trying to paint the victim as a bad person even....
E no go better for whoever bring this one up...

She go night club...
She rock 100 men... And so bloody what?
Does that make her deserving of being sexually violated?
I'm sure this idiot who wrote this has violated someone before....

Them plenty for Nairaland, and Seun allows it.

They always blame the victim.

ikeno:
Even if him send 30k give the girl and told her he will balance up later She for no reason him matter.
But my question be say why she come kpia herself cause of N50k e no make sense atall

Have you heard of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) .
Rape can cause that in woman and that mental health disorder can make people commit suicide.

ikeno:
Even if him send 30k give the girl and told her he will balance up later She for no reason him matter.
But my question be say why she come kpia herself cause of N50k e no make sense atall

Have you heard of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) .
Rape can cause that in a woman and that mental health disorder can make people commit suicide.

Her parents should carry the blame.how do you allow a 20 years old virgin travel all alone from Warri to Asaba all in the name of learning how to create content