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Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 - Foreign Affairs - Nairaland

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Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Kingzjayzee(op): 3:16am On Jul 19
A 45-year-old man in Indonesia allegedly killed his 60-year-old neighbour after he was hurt and became annoyed by the latter’s persistence in asking him why he was not married.

Indonesian media reported that the incident took place in South Tapanuli regency, located in North Sumatra, on July 29.

The victim was a retired civil servant named Asgim Irianto, said the region’s Assistant Police Commissioner (AKP) Maria Marpaung on July 31, according to Indonesian media outlet Detik Jogja.

AKP Maria said that based on a statement provided by Mr Asgim’s wife, the attacker, Parlindungan Siregar, arrived at their home at about 8pm on July 29 wielding a piece of wood, and began attacking the victim without warning.

Mr Asgim ran out to the street, where he was pursued by Parlindungan before he was struck by a blow to the head. After he was felled, Mr Asgim was allegedly beaten further by Parlindungan.

Residents in the area eventually stopped the beating and rushed Mr Asgim to the hospital, but he died before reaching, said AKP Maria

According to AKP Maria, Parlindungan said during questioning by police that he was determined to beat Mr Asgim to death because he was hurt by how often his neighbour asked him, in jest, why he was not married.

Prior to the fatal attack, the two neighbours reportedly also had arguments when the chickens they respectively owned went to the other’s coop, reported Detik Jogja.
https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/se-asia/indonesian-man-kills-neighbour-who-kept-asking-him-why-he-was-not-married-at-45


Note: This story happened in 2024

Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by PulaPower: 4:21am On Jul 19
Para everywhere..

Xxxxxxx
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Kemical23(m): 5:54am On Jul 19
Wonderful...
Just disturbing people s private life..
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Sonnobax15(m): 6:37am On Jul 19
lipsrsealed
Funny.

If to say this man na Nigerian,he for don too kpai many people angry. Cuz the rate at which people keep poke nosing and asking single adults why they aren't married here is just too much angry. Like say we dey do competition of marriage for here.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by brain54(m):
:::


To kpai person just dey hungry am before. He just need small excuse.


Pikin dey cry because him mama go market, what would an orphan child now do?🤷



When will you get married he kpai neighbor, what would he have done if he was married and that neighbor slept with his wife?

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Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Namaster: 7:38am On Jul 19
ENDORSED!

God PUT you on this earth to MIND YOUR BUSINESS.

IF you CANNOT do that, he'll send an AVENGING ANGEL to retrieve you.

#FreeThatAngel.

My boy ain't done NOTHING wrong.

grin
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Apus: 8:23am On Jul 19
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Funny.

If to say this man na Nigerian,he for don too kpai many people angry. Cuz the rate at which people keep poke nosing and asking single adults why they aren't married here is just too much angry. Like say we dey do competition of marriage for here.
First rule is to avoid any personal relationships with your neighbors when new to an area. Don't go beyond greeting. You marry sef, they will womb-watch your spouse and start asking useless questions or making funny insinuations. It's so irritating.
He should have given him a very stern warning or report him to the authorities for constant harassment or relocate entirely.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Axis313(m): 8:28am On Jul 19
The guy got anger issues,maybe that's why he hasn't settled down.
And for the neighbor,I won't say he got what he deserved, but sometimes it is wise to mind your own business.
I remembered one short story we were told when we were young about tortoise 🐢 and his grandson.
His grandson asked him:grandpa you are the only one that have lived longest in our town, can you tell me the secret, and the tortoise reply was:I always mind my own business,I don't poke nose into matters that doesn't concern me.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by dreamwords: 9:53am On Jul 19
grin grin.
Op go and marry
Don’t wait till 45
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Seeplusplus: 9:55am On Jul 19
Lol

Be like na wetin some Nigerian evening newspaper suppose start de do
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by HacheNoire: 9:56am On Jul 19
🤣😂🤣

Some dudes got no chill! Always eager to put someone in a box at the slightest provocation.

Now, he will never be free again!
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by AntiChristian: 9:56am On Jul 19
He don reach the level to yamutu am?

Abeg watch your mouth o!

Single people dey para!

Their blood is hot!
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Shurtman79(m): 9:56am On Jul 19
Hmmḿmmmmm life don happened to that one undecided
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by DeltaBachelor(m): 9:56am On Jul 19
Chai. This is too extreme abeg. Why kill him na ?
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Eba50: 9:57am On Jul 19
i remember the days in Nigeria, that criminals, such as murderers and armed robbers were executed within a week after been arrested, when executioners were sometimes, within court premises, putting on masks. oh i wish we could resume it like then wey evil dey fear good
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Sonofgod1990(m): 9:57am On Jul 19
Yarimo brother. Nnnnnns
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Rapmoney(m): 9:57am On Jul 19
Lol. E don happen. People wey nor dey like to mind their business.

Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by tiswell(m): 9:57am On Jul 19
He definitely is suffering from acute mental health problems.

Naija angry mob would have sent him faster to his maker sad
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Sonofgod1990(m): 9:58am On Jul 19
Eba50:
i remember the days in Nigeria, that criminals, such as murderers and armed robbers were executed within a week after been arrested, when executioners were sometimes, within court premises, putting on masks. oh i wish we could resume it like then wey evil dey fear good
I will bring it back when I become Nigerian president after Daddy tinubu in 2035
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Miggs(m): 9:59am On Jul 19
The man is my hero

I am older than him and i am not interested in children,marriage or any form of relationship.

I am not lgbt plus in anyway.I just want to live a quiet,peaceful life and concentrate on myself.So far,so good.

The End.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by kullozone(m): 9:59am On Jul 19
dreamwords:
grin grin.
Op go and marry
Don’t wait till 45
Abi you see what just happened to someone who didn't mind his business?
Continue oh

Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Gotocourt: 9:59am On Jul 19
Omorr na to begin kpai naija babes.

From Hello, next thing na marriage angry
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by brain54(m): 10:00am On Jul 19
Rapmoney:
Lol. E don happen. People wey nor dey like to mind their business.
:::


People don't mind their business still get nipped in the bud.



Phycos are everywhere these days.

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Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by bluefilm: 10:01am On Jul 19
That was too harsh

He should have moved to another location to avoid such pokenosing neighbor

Now, he will have to constantly answer that question on a daily basis inside Sanko
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by correctguy101(m): 10:02am On Jul 19
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Funny.

If to say this man na Nigerian,he for don too kpai many people angry. Cuz the rate at which people keep poke nosing and asking single adults why they aren't married here is just too much angry. Like say we dey do competition of marriage for here.
Lols.

I go save this one dey show my friends o. Dem dey disturb me too much.

Lwkmd 🤣🤣
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by DenreleDave(m): 10:02am On Jul 19
grin grin grin grin

Make we gather laff

grin grin grin
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Oisagbai78: 10:05am On Jul 19
July 29 when we still dey 19? When the crime happen sef? Maybe na last year sha.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Kharol1234:
That's why they say always mind your business...
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Kokaine(m): 10:07am On Jul 19
Toh.... make learn to mind business oh
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by ajalawole(m): 10:07am On Jul 19
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Funny.

If to say this man na Nigerian,he for don too kpai many people angry. Cuz the rate at which people keep poke nosing and asking single adults why they aren't married here is just too much angry. Like say we dey do competition of marriage for here.
am almost 40 and don't even have girlfriend yet... People can say whatever they liked I don't care, when it's time I will do wetin dey my mind. Not people putting pressure on me or so. A cousin did introduction last year, the babe leave am this year, not even upto 2month she gets married. Most of those ladies of nowadays don't think at all. May we not settle with the wrong person.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by stasius: 10:08am On Jul 19
Very good. Always mind your business.

If you like marry. If you like don't marry. It is not my business.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Batman2412(m): 10:08am On Jul 19
Good job. Na why I dey avoid people. Them go carry your own matter for head like Gala, leave their own wahalla. If marriage na good thing, maka chukwu, walahi talahi, nobody go tell you "goan marry." God wey create heaven and earth no create wife for himself. Him only begotten son wey don dey reach 4,000 years still single. Ekwensu (s@t@n) sef refused to marry. Paulo talk for Bible say if you marry, you go get wahalla for this life, say e go better make you no marry. Una go dey form nons3ns3 dey wahalla people wey never marry. Mis3ry loves company. Na because you dey suffer for your marriage wey nobody send you, naim make you dey wahalla other people make them marry. If no be say I no like j@il, I for don kpai people here for asking that disgusting question. Dem tell una say I dey miss anything by being a manchelor? Mtchew
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