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Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 - Foreign Affairs (2) - Nairaland

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Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by BigYash:
I can't blame him. That question is very annoying,most especially with the kind of hoe low shows wen full everywhere these days..
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Mrexcell(m): 10:09am On Jul 19
No need to pester or disturb anyone who is not married no matter the age, many of these unmarried people have so many genuine stories to tell why they are not yet married if u get close to them, stories of partner betrayals and not able to find a compatible partner.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by BarrElChapo(m): 10:09am On Jul 19
This should be a lesson to all to fuckin’ mind your business.

Yes he’ll probably spend the rest of his life in jail but the other person is dead 😏
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by clockwisereport: 10:13am On Jul 19
July 31

July 29

When today is July 19

It is either it will happen in future or it happened years before 2026
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by EmmyMaestro(m): 10:14am On Jul 19
And a lot of people asking you when will you marry, if you ask them about their own marriage, they are enduring
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by EmekaBlue(m): 10:14am On Jul 19
As u kpai ur neighbor now and dem catch u. Ur eyes don clear abi
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Sonnobax15(m): 10:15am On Jul 19
ajalawole:
am almost 40 and don't even have girlfriend yet... People can say whatever they liked I don't care, when it's time I will do wetin dey my mind. Not people putting pressure on me or so. A cousin did introduction last year, the babe leave am this year, not even upto 2month she gets married. Most of those ladies of nowadays don't think at all. May we not settle with the wrong person.
I swear bro. May we not settle with the wrong people. That's my everyday prayer.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Holluwhakemmy(f): 10:16am On Jul 19
O
Seeplusplus:
Lol

Be like na wetin some Nigerian evening newspaper suppose start de do
and you will be the first victim to kpai
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Uchesis: 10:16am On Jul 19
dreamwords:
grin grin.
Op go and marry
Don’t wait till 45
You never still learn from this story abi?


Hand go soon touch you grin
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Sonnobax15(m): 10:17am On Jul 19
correctguy101:
Lols.

I go save this one dey show my friends o. Dem dey disturb me too much.

Lwkmd 🤣🤣
. 😊😊. . my brother,no let anybody pressure you cheesy. As for myself, anything wey go make me consider woman again for this my life na specifically because of procreation.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by muyico(m): 10:19am On Jul 19
depression nah serious issue
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Fiscus105(m):
Miggs:
The man is my hero

I am older than him and i am not interested in children,marriage or any form of relationship.

I am not lgbt plus in anyway.I just want to live a quiet,peaceful life and concentrate on myself.So far,so good.

The End.
If indeed you are what you said above, most especially @ bolded, you would only read and bypass the story without single reaction let alone comment.


Meanwhile many of you hide under a personal choice, even though there is one, or more underlying issues that making it hard for you to get married.

1. Impotency.

2. Financial difficulty.

3. Family problem.

4. Joblessness.

5. Depression, among others.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by EMDIEY: 10:21am On Jul 19
3rd world countries and their wahala.
What does it take to mind your business?
I always wonder why neighbours who knew nothing about each other will suddenly think they should know everything about themselves.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by AhmeduandOkopi: 10:27am On Jul 19
E don kwogide for indo...
Face your front and hold where you hold.
E for good if nobody worry nobody
Olofofo people ready to smell ya shit to know wetin you chop.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by runsapp(f): 10:27am On Jul 19
Chineke as how na , why will he do that. This people eh I no understand
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Holluwhakemmy(f): 10:27am On Jul 19
It's good to always mind your business others people affairs is not your concern
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Uchesis: 10:30am On Jul 19
clockwisereport:
July 31

July 29

When today is July 19

It is either it will happen in future or it happened years before 2026
I guess time travel is real grin
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Uchesis: 10:31am On Jul 19
EmmyMaestro:
And a lot of people asking you when will you marry, if you ask them about their own marriage, they are enduring
Sone of them never officially marry sef. Dem just carry another man daughter put for them house


grin
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by fatosky1(m): 10:33am On Jul 19
Kingzjayzee:
https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/se-asia/indonesian-man-kills-neighbour-who-kept-asking-him-why-he-was-not-married-at-45
It is always good to mind your business. Everyone is going through one struggle or internal burden that people around may not know and the person prefer to keep it private for their own sanity.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by AngelicBeing: 10:36am On Jul 19
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Funny.

If to say this man na Nigerian,he for don too kpai many people angry. Cuz the rate at which people keep poke nosing and asking single adults why they aren't married here is just too much angry. Like say we dey do competition of marriage for here.
Lol 😂, and for you, you are always mentioning banny, banny and bannies, all the bannies wey you don offend , go soon gather to fight you oooooo including your warri girlfriend wey don chop your 470 million naira and she don run go Australia oooooo mucheche oooooo hahaha 😂
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Uchesis: 10:36am On Jul 19
Fiscus105:
If indeed you are what you said above, most especially @ bolded, you would only read and bypass the story without single reaction let alone comment.


Meanwhile many of you hide a personal choice, even though there is one or more underlying issues that making it hard for you to marry.

1. Impotency.

2. Financial difficulty.

3. Family problem.

4. Joblessness.

5. Depression, among others.
Oga face your marriage and leave single guys alone.


Shebi you say it is personal?
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by eghuan1(m): 10:38am On Jul 19
Is this news from the future or last year?

It's reported that the incident happened on July 29th, is my calendar wrong?


Kingzjayzee:
https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/se-asia/indonesian-man-kills-neighbour-who-kept-asking-him-why-he-was-not-married-at-45
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Biodun1929(m): 10:38am On Jul 19
I can relate with that man.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Jayhome24: 10:41am On Jul 19
That is vert serious but the neighbour too should have let him be, marriage nor be by force na.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by omowolewa: 10:43am On Jul 19
That bad, he should.not l visit Nigeria. Else...
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Biodun1929(m): 10:43am On Jul 19
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Funny.

If to say this man na Nigerian,he for don too kpai many people
angry. Cuz the rate at which people keep poke nosing and asking single adults why they aren't married here is just too much angry. Like say we dey do competition of marriage for here.
The bolded is so funny 😆😆😆😆😆
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by jchioma: 10:44am On Jul 19
Apus:
First rule is to avoid any personal relationships with your neighbors when new to an area. Don't go beyond greeting. You marry sef, they will womb-watch your spouse and start asking useless questions or making funny insinuations. It's so irritating.
He should have given him a very stern warning or report him to the authorities for constant harassment or relocate entirely.
Relocate? Because a neighbor was taunting him? No na! Did you even know who moved in first? Why would he move when nobody was paying his rent for him?

He should have just ignored the pest of a neighbor and let him keep fooling himself until he becomes like a broken record. But I guess there were other underlying issues that came to an head with the situation leading up to murder, like quarrels over chicken space and all of that.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by dederocs(m): 10:45am On Jul 19
Mind your business
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by OpinionCounts(m): 10:46am On Jul 19
The killers anger was not just that the victim (his neighbour) always asked him when he was going to get married, He stated clearly that the neighbour always asked in a way to ridicule him, make jest of him. That is where the real pain and anger to kill him stemmed from.
And a lot of times, people that ask this questions add ridicule in their tune, not knowing that it really upsets and pains the unmarried person, especially when you don't know the challenges and difficulties he is going through that has led to him being unmarried at that age.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by Biodun1929(m): 10:48am On Jul 19
Miggs:
The man is my hero

I am older than him and i am not interested in children,marriage or any form of relationship.

I am not lgbt plus in anyway.I just want to live a quiet,peaceful life and concentrate on myself.So far,so good.

The End.
Omo...how are you handling this situation. I ask cos I'm kinda in the same shoes, and I almost got physical with one of my friend's last month. If not for some of our mutual friends, I already planned to cut the guy off permanently. The guy wahala too much on top this marriage matter.
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by wallrichy: 10:55am On Jul 19
Re: Indonesian Man Kills Neighbour Who Kept Asking Him Why He Was Not Married At 45 by CanadaOrBust: 10:56am On Jul 19
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Funny.

If to say this man na Nigerian,he for don too kpai many people angry. Cuz the rate at which people keep poke nosing and asking single adults why they aren't married here is just too much angry. Like say we dey do competition of marriage for here.
Especially the mothers.
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