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Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by Rashduct4luv(op): 9:25am On Jul 24
Raising children is one of the greatest responsibilities and blessings in Islam. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ emphasized the importance of nurturing righteous, knowledgeable, and compassionate children who will be the torchbearers of faith and good character. Here are practical Islamic tips to help Nigerian parents raise good children, supported by authentic references. We really need more parents who are really available for the kids!

1. Start with a Strong Foundation of Faith
Instill the love of Allah and the Prophet ﷺ from an early age.

“O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire...” (Qur’an 66:6)
The Prophet ﷺ said: “Each of you is a shepherd and each of you will be asked about his flock.” (Bukhari)
Practical Tip: Teach children basic Islamic beliefs, prayers, and the importance of worship early on.

2. Lead by Example
Children learn most from what they see.

The Prophet ﷺ was the best role model in character, kindness, and worship.
Advice: Parents should embody the values they want their children to adopt—honesty, patience, respect, and generosity.

3. Teach Good Manners and Respect
Adab (good manners) is central in Islam.

“And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy...” (Qur’an 17:24)
The Prophet ﷺ said: “I was sent to perfect good manners.” (Ahmad)

Practical Tip: Encourage polite speech, respect for elders, and kindness to siblings and others.

4. Educate with Wisdom and Patience
Islam values knowledge and patience in teaching.

“Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction...” (Qur’an 16:125)
The Prophet ﷺ was patient and gentle with children.

Advice: Use positive reinforcement, avoid harshness, and explain the reasons behind rules.

5. Encourage Regular Prayer and Worship
Prayer is the pillar of Islam and shapes discipline.

The Prophet ﷺ encouraged teaching children to pray at age seven and to discipline at age ten. (Abu Dawud)

Practical Tip: Make prayer a family routine and celebrate milestones in children’s religious growth.

6. Provide a Balanced Education
Combine religious and worldly knowledge.

“Say, ‘Are those who know equal to those who do not know?’” (Qur’an 39:9)

Advice: Support formal education alongside Islamic studies to prepare children for life’s challenges.

7. Instill a Sense of Responsibility
Teach children accountability for their actions.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Every one of you is a shepherd and every one of you will be asked about his flock.” (Bukhari)

Practical Tip: Assign age-appropriate chores and encourage honesty and trustworthiness.

8. Promote Compassion and Charity
Encourage empathy and helping others.

“And they give food in spite of love for it to the needy...” (Qur’an 76:cool

The Prophet ﷺ was generous and taught kindness to all creatures.

Advice: Involve children in charity and community service.

9. Protect from Harmful Influences
Guard children’s hearts and minds.

“And do not follow what you have no knowledge of...” (Qur’an 17:36)

Practical Tip: Monitor media consumption, teach critical thinking, and encourage good company.

10. Make Dua (Supplication) for Your Children
Parents’ prayers are powerful.

The Prophet ﷺ often prayed for his children’s guidance and success.
Example Dua: “My Lord, make me an establisher of prayer, and [many] from my descendants...” (Qur’an 14:40)
Advice: Regularly pray for your children’s faith, health, and happiness.

Raising good children in Islam requires a holistic approach combining faith, character, education, and love. Nigerian parents can draw strength from the Qur’an and Sunnah to nurture children who are not only successful in this world but also beloved servants of Allah in the Hereafter.

May Allah bless all Nigerian families with righteous, healthy, and happy children. Ameen.
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by AntiisIam1: 12:05pm On Jul 24
Are Boko Boys, Isil, Iswap, etc good children?
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by Pureheart07: 1:16pm On Jul 24
You rather keep mute if you don't know what to say.
free2ryhme:
The almajiris, how many are good children? Is ti not the same quran you people draw strength to make this group of children
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by free2ryhme: 1:54pm On Jul 24
Pureheart07:
You rather keep mute if you don't know what to say.
Why are triggered that you are being exposed 😂😂😂
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by AdamuKD: 1:56pm On Jul 24
Dahomeywarrior1:
Thank God I am a Christian

Which kind religion be this when dey update their book like apple apps 😂😂😂😂
Una funny for this forum grin grin
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Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by abbasajao(m): 2:28pm On Jul 24
Dahomeywarrior1:
Thank God I am a Christian

Which kind religion be this when dey update their book like apple apps 😂😂😂😂
What do you mean by updating their book?
Quran is the only book that has not been altered since over 1400 years of its existence. No single letter has changed.

You are the one in the wrong association called Christianity. The association formed after the Jesus( Isah Ibn Mariam) had left.
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by jokerphilics(m): 2:49pm On Jul 24
AntiisIam1:
Are Boko Boys, Isil, Iswap, etc good children?
They are not Muslim even if they claim so
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by jokerphilics(m): 2:50pm On Jul 24
free2ryhme:
The almajiris, how many are good children? Is ti not the same quran you people draw strength to make this group of children
How well travelled are you? How many almajiris are in the west despite the high number of muslims there?
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by jokerphilics(m): 2:51pm On Jul 24
Dahomeywarrior1:
Thank God I am a Christian

Which kind religion be this when dey update their book like apple apps 😂😂😂😂
How many versions of the bible are there in ? Please state.
How many versions of the QUR'AN are there also?
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by motayoayinde: 3:05pm On Jul 24
Baarakallahu feekum.
Quite useful.
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by StoryHaven: 3:53pm On Jul 24
Children like the Bokos
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by free2ryhme: 7:46pm On Jul 24
jokerphilics:
How well travelled are you? How many almajiris are in the west despite the high number of muslims there?
I've been to Gubio, Bama, Magumeri, Biu, and Jere, so I'm speaking from firsthand experience.

I think your argument overlooks the realities on the ground and lacks critical analysis.

The Almajiri system, as it currently exists, would struggle to survive in many parts of Southern and Western Nigeria because the social, cultural, and economic conditions are very different.
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by aylive02(m): 8:09pm On Jul 24
abbasajao:
What do you mean by updating their book?
Quran is the only book that has not been altered since over 1400 years of its existence. No single letter has changed.

You are the one in the wrong association called Christianity. The association formed after the Jesus( Isah Ibn Mariam) had left.
. Continue deceiving yourself. No be the same Qur'an goat chop some portions?
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by Goddyrichie(m): 10:02pm On Jul 24
abbasajao:
What do you mean by updating their book?
Quran is the only book that has not been altered since over 1400 years of its existence. No single letter has changed.

You are the one in the wrong association called Christianity. The association formed after the Jesus( Isah Ibn Mariam) had left.
I love and respect every religion and na every religion I fit practice but u see Islam GOD forbid bad thing cuz of Islam no peace in d world they’re d only religion that kill whoever doesn’t practice they’re evil religion even they’re Quran e get as e b they’re ways too
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by jokerphilics(m): 6:20pm On Jul 25
free2ryhme:
I've been to Gubio, Bama, Magumeri, Biu, and Jere, so I'm speaking from firsthand experience.

I think your argument overlooks the realities on the ground and lacks critical analysis.

The Almajiri system, as it currently exists, would struggle to survive in many parts of Southern and Western Nigeria because the social, cultural, and economic conditions are very different.
So why use what is a menace to a particular region as an overall conclusion to Islam. Though we use the same QUR'AN but the almajiris was not drawn from the QUR'AN. If it is, you would have seen almajiris everywhere there are muslims.
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by free2ryhme: 8:06pm On Jul 25
jokerphilics:
So why use what is a menace to a particular region as an overall conclusion to Islam. Though we use the same QUR'AN but the almajiris was not drawn from the QUR'AN. If it is, you would have seen almajiris everywhere there are muslims.
I also staying in kano CBN quarters on hadeija road

Alimajiri are everywhere
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by skup008(m): 8:09am On Jul 30
Goddyrichie:
I love and respect every religion and na every religion I fit practice but u see Islam GOD forbid bad thing cuz of Islam no peace in d world they’re d only religion that kill whoever doesn’t practice they’re evil religion even they’re Quran e get as e b they’re ways too
Try get a copy of the quran and read. Seek for knowledge and not base on propaganda you have heard. Their is no one who has killed or force people to accept their religion more than the Christian (crusaders). Quran 2 vs 256 was clearly started that no compulsion in accepting this religion (islam).
When people bring the societal problem in the north to judge Islam, I asks them why they do not use the societal growth in Dubai(UAE), Qatar etc as example.
Islam never ask anyone to kill unjustly or terrorise. Isn't it funny that when people from other religions do wrong, the individual is blamed for his wrong doing. But when someone claiming to be Muslim does wrong, is religion is blame?
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by Goddyrichie(m): 1:29pm On Jul 30
skup008:
Try get a copy of the quran and read. Seek for knowledge and not base on propaganda you have heard. Their is no one who has killed or force people to accept their religion more than the Christian (crusaders). Quran 2 vs 256 was clearly started that no compulsion in accepting this religion (islam).
When people bring the societal problem in the north to judge Islam, I asks them why they do not use the societal growth in Dubai(UAE), Qatar etc as example.
Islam never ask anyone to kill unjustly or terrorise. Isn't it funny that when people from other religions do wrong, the individual is blamed for his wrong doing. But when someone claiming to be Muslim does wrong, is religion is blame?
since I was born no other religion have kill someone while calling they god name if not for Islam and what of d one I witnessed myself what do u call that u know d truth but u trying to use words to convince me try more
Re: Practical Islamic Tips For Raising Good Children! by Rashduct4luv(op): 8:54am On Jul 31
free2ryhme:
The almajiris, how many are good children? Is ti not the same quran you people draw strength to make this group of children
Help us send this to their parents since you know them and want to help them!
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