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Nollywood actor, Jimmy Rolland, has claimed that his former wife deceived him into believing she was a virgin before they got married, describing the revelation on their wedding night as one of the biggest disappointments of his life.

Speaking on the African A-List podcast in an episode uploaded on Saturday, the actor said he ignored several warning signs before marrying his ex-wife because he was convinced she was truthful.

“I am not a fool. I saw signs, but I was hypnotised by my mother-in-law,” he said.

According to Rolland, both his mother and some friends had advised him against the marriage after what he described as spiritual consultations.

“My mother and friends made spiritual consultations and warned me not to marry her, but I did not listen,” he said.

The actor said he and his former wife dated for four years before getting married and that she repeatedly told him she was a virgin.

“She told me she was a virgin, so I did not bother to make attempts to make love to her. We dated for four good years,” Rolland said.

He explained that after their introduction, she insisted they wait until after their wedding before becoming intimate.

“After our introduction, she said, ‘Till the wedding night.’ I had to wait for some months, then on the wedding night, it ended up to be a lie,” he said.

Rolland said he was devastated by the discovery and admitted he considered ending the relationship at the time.

“I was disappointed, and I should have walked away, but I did not. It was not me,” he said.

Reflecting on the breakdown of the marriage, the actor said the most painful part was losing access to his two children after the separation.

“What was disheartening is that we have two kids together, and she took them away.”

He claimed the emotional distress of being separated from his children later affected his health.

“Because of the children she took away, I had a stroke.

“Because of too much thinking about those children, I had a stroke,” he said.

Rolland added that his mother continues to mourn the separation from her grandchildren.

“My mother still cries because she wants to see those children,” Rolland said

The actor did not disclose when the marriage ended or whether there are ongoing legal proceedings regarding custody of the children.

Source

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What can a young man do under such circumstances? I think the answer is nothing. Most of them do lie about their sexuality.

This one too be actor? Every one is an actor these days.

This is one of the categories of men that gave gheghe relevance

On top say she "lied" to you, na she leave you no be you leave her. Is it not supposed to be the other way around? You never ready to say wetin end your marriage. Fish brained men and lies. After using their bad character to scatter their marriage, they'll now start forging lies to paint their partner bad.

I hope Madam Alakara didn't lie to Yekini Amoda too!

Nollywood actor, Jimmy Rolland, has claimed that his former wife deceived him into believing she was a virgin

Chai...when the virginity is fake they won't open their thighs so that you won't dive in easily and burst their lies...if you are a virgin let your hymen be your shield not your closed laps.

Sorry sir... experience and wisdom helped you uncover the lie. Take heart. Trust is gone is the marriage

dominique:
On top say she "lied" to you, na she leave you no be you leave her. Is it not supposed to be the other way around? You never ready to say wetin end your marriage. Fish brained men and lies. After using their bad character to scatter their marriage, they'll now start forging lies to paint their partner bad.

The day women stop playing the victim card, the world will taking them more seriously

This was part of unfaithfulness that led to your final break-up.Fake integrity and character have only short lifespan.

Only God know how many 'virgin lies' the daughters of Eve don use collect marriage certificate

Zero expectations so far, I've learnt that and since then life have been a bit navigable.

Managing expectations should be something most of us should look out for in life.

solomondiamond:
Nollywood actor, Jimmy Rolland, has claimed that his former wife deceived him into believing she was a virgin before they got married, describing the revelation on their wedding night as one of the biggest disappointments of his life.

Speaking on the African A-List podcast in an episode uploaded on Saturday, the actor said he ignored several warning signs before marrying his ex-wife because he was convinced she was truthful.

“I am not a fool. I saw signs, but I was hypnotised by my mother-in-law,” he said.

According to Rolland, both his mother and some friends had advised him against the marriage after what he described as spiritual consultations.

“My mother and friends made spiritual consultations and warned me not to marry her, but I did not listen,” he said.

The actor said he and his former wife dated for four years before getting married and that she repeatedly told him she was a virgin.

“She told me she was a virgin, so I did not bother to make attempts to make love to her. We dated for four good years,” Rolland said.

He explained that after their introduction, she insisted they wait until after their wedding before becoming intimate.

“After our introduction, she said, ‘Till the wedding night.’ I had to wait for some months, then on the wedding night, it ended up to be a lie,” he said.

Rolland said he was devastated by the discovery and admitted he considered ending the relationship at the time.

“I was disappointed, and I should have walked away, but I did not. It was not me,” he said.

Reflecting on the breakdown of the marriage, the actor said the most painful part was losing access to his two children after the separation.

“What was disheartening is that we have two kids together, and she took them away.”

He claimed the emotional distress of being separated from his children later affected his health.

“Because of the children she took away, I had a stroke.

“Because of too much thinking about those children, I had a stroke,” he said.

Rolland added that his mother continues to mourn the separation from her grandchildren.

“My mother still cries because she wants to see those children,” Rolland said

The actor did not disclose when the marriage ended or whether there are ongoing legal proceedings regarding custody of the children.

Source

https://www.operanewsapp.com/ng/en/share/detail?news_id=7950913bd22950a6414acf3e3737abf5&news_entry_id=s35446305260726en_ng&open_type=tanscoded&request_id=fb8e476a7c9bf50cf140059efabfe06b9b4d6c0b&from=publisher

Honestly,men dey see sege for women hand in this life. It was like Lord Luggard was involved when God was institutionalizing marriage that made it so difficult for married people to live together in peace these days in particular

Virginity has never been just a personal issue. Across many cultures, traditions and religions, it has long been associated with purity, commitment and honour before marriage. Whether people agree with those beliefs or not, they remain deeply important to many individuals and families.

It's also true that for many men, a future spouse's virginity matters. Many women recognise this reality too, which is one reason some choose to hide or lie about their sexual history. That doesn't necessarily mean the expectation is right or wrong, but it does show that the issue carries real social significance.

At the same time, healthy relationships are built on honesty and shared values. If virginity is important to someone, they have the right to seek a partner who shares that value. If it isn't, they have the same right. Respecting different beliefs while being truthful with each other is a better foundation than deception.

FOR THE IT'S NOT IMPORTANT AND ARE YOU A VIRGIN YOURSELF GANG,

No one has the right to dictate what another person should value, accept, or how they should see the world. Your personal lack of appreciation for something does not make it worthless to everyone else.

Trying to discourage others from valuing something simply because you don't is not wisdom. It's manipulation. It's an attempt to impose your own worldview on everyone else, and that is one of the most dishonest forms of control.

Dogalmighty17:
This one too be actor? Every one is an actor these days.

I swear I don't know him. And I have never seen him in any movies... Nollywood Hollywood or Bollywood. If so am an actor to.. I act movies everyday even here on nairaland😂😂😂😂

Mu mu!
Man

Virgin to you na achievement

Simps go on learn in the hard way

If you fail to see the signs, you will finally see wonders

dominique:
On top say she "lied" to you, na she leave you no be you leave her. Is it not supposed to be the other way around? You never ready to say wetin end your marriage. Fish brained men and lies. After using their bad character to scatter their marriage, they'll now start forging lies to paint their partner bad.

You sounded so much like their next door neighbor

Dogalmighty17:
This one too be actor? Every one is an actor these days.

Which of them u b now then

dominique:
On top say she "lied" to you, na she leave you no be you leave her. Is it not supposed to be the other way around? You never ready to say wetin end your marriage. Fish brained men and lies. After using their bad character to scatter their marriage, they'll now start forging lies to paint their partner bad.

I also feel he is being economical with the truth. Why come out at all when you were not ready to tell it all? He is obviously hiding somethings. But we really don't need to know, cos we don't care. I don't even know him. It was the headline that made me to click thinking there would be a good story behind it but this is rubbish.

Dodoyo equals to mumu man! 😏

Man was not looking for a real human being, with flaws and mistakes, he was looking for a perfect 'birgin' that would be fresh just for him

No wonder his marriage failed.

How are men being so childish? If they born a man let him be a man. This is crazy. Me wey dey knack shege comot for babes body without talking about marriage.

The other day I decided to check how many girls I disvirgined in my adventure and to my surprise I counted about 9.
Interestingly about four of them despite being married still beg me for us to meet till date.

Lamidi come ooo, dem run our man street.


But why do women do this?
Or they think the man won't notice?
As much wey em be or what?

Na wa o

Which kind mumu man come be this one.

I shock o

Let's just have a little fun with this! It's all about the little details. It's a simple, elegant affair. a few little observations, really. It's all about the perception, you know? And the best part is, it's all so delightfully playful.

Na so one told me she's a virgin for years only for me to find out that she gave birth to the boy calling her anty in their house. Omo na so discussion change from virgin to single mother. E be like film!

dominique:
On top say she "lied" to you, na she leave you no be you leave her. Is it not supposed to be the other way around? You never ready to say wetin end your marriage. Fish brained men and lies. After using their bad character to scatter their marriage, they'll now start forging lies to paint their partner bad.

Awon Relationship expert how did you know he forged lies to paint his partner bad....and why did you dodge what he said about the manipulative gender who said she was a virgin.

I will continue to say this any man in this 21st century that women are still using that line for and he is still falling for it is a fooooool...in this age were even teenagers are having sex like rabbits.

This is what ghe ghe was saying about manipulative women.

solomondiamond:
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ngs regarding custody of the children.

Source

https://www.operanewsapp.com/ng/en/share9b4d6c0b&from=publisher

She took the children away and you could not do like Ooni of ife to find another woman and give her Belle? Or did the nuclear weapon stop working

To everyone out there, both male and female, don't remain stuck in any situation because of what people will say.