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Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by Gerrard59(m): 2:14pm On Jul 26
The thing is that women are expenses. Associating yourself as a man with a woman for non-academic/non-professional reasons means you will spend one way or the other, whether you like/want it or not.
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by Omalicious1: 2:15pm On Jul 26
enemyofprogress:
"Don't Date If You Can't Afford It!" — Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate on Relationships and Money.

Veteran Nollywood actress Bukky Wright has set social media on fire after sharing her opinion on the financial responsibilities of men in relationships.

According to the actress, a man should naturally provide for the woman he is dating without waiting for her to ask.

In her words:

"She doesn't even need to ask you. It's your responsibility as a man to know that your woman needs to dress well and look good. She should be your pride."

Reacting to the term "gold digger," Bukky Wright didn't hold back:

"I hate it when men call women gold diggers. What do you expect her to dig? I won't advise any woman to dig anything less than gold."

When asked if men who cannot afford the financial demands of dating should stay away from relationships, she responded:

"Then don't date if you cannot afford it! Or date according to your level."

Her comments have since divided opinions. While some people agree that a man should be willing to support his partner, others believe that modern relationships should be built on love, partnership, and shared responsibility, rather than placing the financial burden on one person.

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A clear example a Poverty Alleviation Program disguised as a RELATIONSHIP.
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by chidiokay: 2:32pm On Jul 26
Britishpea:
Hope u know the number of marriages and real ships that she had that she left?? She got marrieds about 4 times!!! She has no morals pls. She's a senior OS!! she's only justifying her life. It's expected of her to have had a change in mentality but well
i waant even going to go this far to thrash, Coming from a Woman that couldnt even show One man as Crown ...lavishing money on her

Bukky wright work for her money, she pays are own Bills eitther through escort service/movie or Business

My question to Bukky .. aunty where is your Provider,@ 50+ you still bear ur papa surname e easy you no dey Adenuga or Adeleke house as spoilt wife ..

young gurlz una don hear, wait For E moneys ..is coming
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by boxypane: 2:38pm On Jul 26
Omoawoke:
She’s 100% correct …
A man’s responsibility is to cater for a woman, and the woman should submit to the man..
Anything other than that is very wrong !
Go and read again. Was that assertion based on dating or marriage?
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by IbnB: 2:44pm On Jul 26
12345baba:
This woman aging na negative aging.
Na filter
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by keemsleek(m): 2:44pm On Jul 26
Krankhead:
Who is she? No husband, what's her job.
Husband ke, om not sure she married but was once married. She n old yoruba movie actress who just made a come back. Big Aunty dies days with big god
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by LordLicifer(m): 2:49pm On Jul 26
Who takes this kinda people's opinion serious? Anyway, i bet she didn't realise that her father, uncles and brothers are also Men..

What a mow run!
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by ufotunang: 3:03pm On Jul 26
Usmanovic95:
E go reach one time every single guys go dey avoid Nigerian ladies because of this warped mindset that relationship must be transactional.The worst part is that after spending on her,there is still no guarantee she won't cheat on you😌.
...will konji allow men to avoid Nigerian ladies
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by Anatolia: 3:05pm On Jul 26
A lot of this foolish women when they gain some notoriety and money, they start talking trash online and misguide other foolish women to become more foolish.
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by ufotunang: 3:18pm On Jul 26
Omoawoke:
She’s 100% correct …
A man’s responsibility is to cater for a woman, and the woman should submit to the man..
Anything other than that is very wrong !
..but a woman should not put all her hope on a man..she shoul plan her future, be ambitious, work , career lady and be financially independent..they are ladies that are successful without much depending on men and putting their hope on men for financial help or to provide their needs
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by ufotunang: 3:19pm On Jul 26
Nigerians ladies take dating and men as job vacancies
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by omode2(m): 3:26pm On Jul 26
Bukky Wright and Bolaji Basia, that year.
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by integrity16(m): 4:05pm On Jul 26
Then date as many women as you want if you can afford it. Right?
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by Britishpea: 4:12pm On Jul 26
chidiokay:
i waant even going to go this far to thrash, Coming from a Woman that couldnt even show One man as Crown ...lavishing money on her

Bukky wright work for her money, she pays are own Bills eitther through escort service/movie or Business

My question to Bukky .. aunty where is your Provider,@ 50+ you still bear ur papa surname e easy you no dey Adenuga or Adeleke house as spoilt wife ..

young gurlz una don hear, wait For E moneys ..is coming
They are misleading ppl. They have turned the social media to evil.
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by Britishpea: 4:13pm On Jul 26
ZUBY77:
You have said everything. She is just trying to justify her life and mistakes, just to feel good.
Inside her, she is completely damaged and empty and she knows it. I only pitty the empty heads with wigs that will destroy themselves because of her
She's damaged. But they have to keep good optics for people who feel their presence. They have their audience and it is not you or I
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by SAMBARRY: 4:20pm On Jul 26
Mansa6:
You won't hear an Okonjo Iweala or Dangote's daughter or even Otedola's say such pedestrian, primitive "scarcity minded" nonsense...
o please cool
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by SAMBARRY: 4:20pm On Jul 26
anonimi:
What is there to hear about women being UNABLE to work, add value to society and earn a living huh
yinmu
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by Judolisco(m): 5:00pm On Jul 26
omooba969:
Your advice would be difficult to follow bcoz our Nigerian women would have to first unlearn their current idea of relationship. The hardworking and supportive women in our midst are the rare gem! wink
it depends on how their parents raised them....
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by oloruntobi1992: 6:17pm On Jul 26
SAMBARRY:
Aunty bukky angry dusties,draculas and draculinas will come for you o grin

Them no dey like hear this kain matter o grin
She has been married 5 times. And is now single.
That's your role model?
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by oloruntobi1992: 6:18pm On Jul 26
keemsleek:
Husband ke, om not sure she married but was once married. She n old yoruba movie actress who just made a come back. Big Aunty dies days with big god
Haha. She has been married for 5 times and is now single.
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by keemsleek(m): 7:26pm On Jul 26
oloruntobi1992:
Haha. She has been married for 5 times and is now single.
You just didn't hold back... our aunty na expensive OS that's y she can't give good advice cos she hasn't stop doing the job that what furnish her life style. Seriously she's some girls role model
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by YemmieDiya08: 7:52pm On Jul 26
I don't expect anything less to come out from the mouth of an Old ashana/olosho of the industry...am not surprised....dis one wey OBESERE,WASIU AND CO don knack tire....wen she dey hot....talkless of the movie industry.....
She lived in my family house close to Yaba tech and unilag for years...and I know how men came calling in midnight...politicians,Fuji musicians to come and knack her.....I got to know OBESERE through the fact that he comes calling in the midnight to knack her....OLOSHO AGBALAGBA....
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by Cromagnon: 8:24pm On Jul 26
You do realiser what acting strong means?
PulaPower:
Really?

Tbh, I didn’t really know much of her personal relationship life but she was a strong woman for movie then..
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by Mansa6: 10:00pm On Jul 26
SAMBARRY:
o please cool
"Poor" folk..
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by SAMBARRY: 10:47pm On Jul 26
Mansa6:
"Poor" folk..
na that poverty go kpai you

I'm rich cool

And wealthy cool
Re: Don't Date If You Can't Afford It - Bukky Wright Sparks Heated Debate by Cubeman: 4:56am On Jul 27
In America where she ran to,did any man even look her way at all? Did she date anyone? Did anyone date her, not to talk of spending money on her? A beautiful woman ran away to America, came back old and ugly and started spewing thrash in order to gain attention. She should sharrap. Don't mislead the few remaining sensible young girls with a dream you failed to realize yourself. In America,all the money you spent was your money. No man spent a dime on you. Old woman,sharrap once again.
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