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Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Segzy19: 8:22pm On Aug 12
Whatever oy decide to do, do not go to the police station without a lawyer and or people that can defend you strongly... Never trust the police.... They have been compromised. You sef, wise up nau.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by eagleonearth(m): 8:41pm On Aug 12
Oludiary:
Statement of Events
I was working with an elevator company as an Elevator Technician when I came to Nigeria. A few months later, I received a message on LinkedIn from a man who wanted to establish an elevator company. He told me he needed me to help build the company and serve as the Lead Elevator Engineer. I agreed to the offer, resigned from my previous employment, and joined his company.
A few weeks after I resumed, I noticed that the man began involving me in some of his other businesses, including his paper business and other activities unrelated to elevator engineering. I did not initially complain, but this began affecting my career and the work I was employed to do.

I also observed how he treated some of his other employees. On several occasions, I witnessed him verbally harassing and physically mistreating staff, including slapping them.

Regarding my own employment, the man has little or no technical knowledge of elevator engineering. Whenever I made professional recommendations or raised concerns about technical decisions, he often rejected them. However, when the consequences of those decisions occurred, he would blame me heavily and make me feel as though I was incompetent or did not know what I was doing.

The major incident occurred on a Friday. After completing our normal schedule for the day, I planned to repair the company's generator because I knew we had a very demanding schedule on Monday and I wanted to ensure that the generator was functioning properly beforehand.

The man repeatedly ordered me to return to the office. I politely explained to him, "Sir, if we don't fix this generator now, it could delay us on Monday." Despite my explanation, he continued insisting that I return to the office. Based on the previous circumstances and my assessment of the situation, I refused to immediately leave the generator.

He then came out of his vehicle and approached me aggressively, appearing as though he wanted to physically assault me. I tried to move away from him to avoid a confrontation. However, he grabbed my clothing and pulled it forcefully, causing one of my buttons to come off.

There were police officers present at the scene. He ordered them to put me into his vehicle, but they refused after witnessing what had happened. He then called other police officers on patrol, who subsequently arrested me.

At the police station, he made several allegations against me, including an allegation that I was the person who assaulted him. I was detained from Friday until Monday. During this period, he allegedly gave money to the police officers. My mother eventually came to the station on Monday and secured my release.

I was told that he would only allow me to be released on the condition that I sign an undertaking stating that I would continue working for him. I was under significant pressure and had already spent several days in detention, so I agreed to sign the undertaking in order to secure my release.

Immediately after I signed the undertaking, his treatment of me became worse. At the end of the month, he deducted two days' pay from my salary. I asked him why the money had been deducted because, to the best of my knowledge, I had not missed those two working days. He told me that the deduction was for the days I had spent in police detention.

I became upset about this and returned to the police station to report the matter. However, the police were unable to recover the money for me.

I subsequently informed him that if he expected me to continue working for him, I wanted my salary to be paid weekly, with my monthly salary divided into four payments. He refused this arrangement. Since then, I have not resumed work.

I now believe that because the undertaking did not prevent me from stopping work, he has decided to pursue an assault case against me. I have now been invited to the police station tomorrow in connection with the alleged assault.

I maintain that I did not assault him. I attempted to avoid a physical confrontation when he approached me aggressively, and he was the person who grabbed my clothing and pulled it.

I am concerned about what may happen at the police station tommorow and would like proper legal advice and protection regarding my rights, the alleged assault case, the undertaking I signed under pressure, my unpaid/deducted wages, and the circumstances surrounding my previous detention.
oga find any human right lawyer near you and get that man dealt with
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Oxygen1998: 8:49pm On Aug 12
Looks like she's joking. By their names we shall know them
folake4u:
Yes I am.

Are you both based in Zambia?
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by soccerlite: 10:00pm On Aug 12
Just go one better FM radio in your state wey do program on human rights to report

If you dey Ibadan go jaafun Eto re at almond fm
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by CarlosTheJackal: 10:26pm On Aug 12
Oludiary:
To engage lawyer is the problem now
Take this story to X. Tag the @PoliceNG and other media houses
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by SalamRushdie: 12:24am On Aug 13
Some of you really lack courage , how would you allow another person treat you like that ? You must have been coming off to him as desperate and weak ..Next time anyone comes to poach you better look at the person well
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by themanderon: 7:36am On Aug 13
May God not allow us run into mad people. Amen.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Lekan239(m): 7:55am On Aug 13
Oludiary:
Statement of Events
I was working with an elevator company as an Elevator Technician when I came to Nigeria. A few months later, I received a message on LinkedIn from a man who wanted to establish an elevator company. He told me he needed me to help build the company and serve as the Lead Elevator Engineer. I agreed to the offer, resigned from my previous employment, and joined his company.
A few weeks after I resumed, I noticed that the man began involving me in some of his other businesses, including his paper business and other activities unrelated to elevator engineering. I did not initially complain, but this began affecting my career and the work I was employed to do.

I also observed how he treated some of his other employees. On several occasions, I witnessed him verbally harassing and physically mistreating staff, including slapping them.

Regarding my own employment, the man has little or no technical knowledge of elevator engineering. Whenever I made professional recommendations or raised concerns about technical decisions, he often rejected them. However, when the consequences of those decisions occurred, he would blame me heavily and make me feel as though I was incompetent or did not know what I was doing.

The major incident occurred on a Friday. After completing our normal schedule for the day, I planned to repair the company's generator because I knew we had a very demanding schedule on Monday and I wanted to ensure that the generator was functioning properly beforehand.

The man repeatedly ordered me to return to the office. I politely explained to him, "Sir, if we don't fix this generator now, it could delay us on Monday." Despite my explanation, he continued insisting that I return to the office. Based on the previous circumstances and my assessment of the situation, I refused to immediately leave the generator.

He then came out of his vehicle and approached me aggressively, appearing as though he wanted to physically assault me. I tried to move away from him to avoid a confrontation. However, he grabbed my clothing and pulled it forcefully, causing one of my buttons to come off.

There were police officers present at the scene. He ordered them to put me into his vehicle, but they refused after witnessing what had happened. He then called other police officers on patrol, who subsequently arrested me.

At the police station, he made several allegations against me, including an allegation that I was the person who assaulted him. I was detained from Friday until Monday. During this period, he allegedly gave money to the police officers. My mother eventually came to the station on Monday and secured my release.

I was told that he would only allow me to be released on the condition that I sign an undertaking stating that I would continue working for him. I was under significant pressure and had already spent several days in detention, so I agreed to sign the undertaking in order to secure my release.

Immediately after I signed the undertaking, his treatment of me became worse. At the end of the month, he deducted two days' pay from my salary. I asked him why the money had been deducted because, to the best of my knowledge, I had not missed those two working days. He told me that the deduction was for the days I had spent in police detention.

I became upset about this and returned to the police station to report the matter. However, the police were unable to recover the money for me.

I subsequently informed him that if he expected me to continue working for him, I wanted my salary to be paid weekly, with my monthly salary divided into four payments. He refused this arrangement. Since then, I have not resumed work.

I now believe that because the undertaking did not prevent me from stopping work, he has decided to pursue an assault case against me. I have now been invited to the police station tomorrow in connection with the alleged assault.

I maintain that I did not assault him. I attempted to avoid a physical confrontation when he approached me aggressively, and he was the person who grabbed my clothing and pulled it.

I am concerned about what may happen at the police station tommorow and would like proper legal advice and protection regarding my rights, the alleged assault case, the undertaking I signed under pressure, my unpaid/deducted wages, and the circumstances surrounding my previous detention.
your boss(owner of the company) said leave the generator and go to your desk, u wey be jagaban say no and continue doing it. Its see finish na, the man did nit structure his business properly ehnce the see finish. I know in many professional work place out there, 98% of staff can never even speak to the owner of a company directly, wgere there us supervisor, manager, etc. And even if a supervisor tell you to do something and u refused u will chop query, second time disobeying, u dey go ur papa house. Na the owner of that company no get sense with his behaviour and he dont deserve to own all wgat he have
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by DenreleDave(m): 7:55am On Aug 13
folake4u:
Good morning Ma'am. Please kindly send me a mail.
Hello Aunty Folake,

I have a lady friend that will need your help.. She worked for a school and she wasn't paid for 2 months.. She has to stop the work and after several calls, she has not yet been paid.


Can i send you a mail as well?
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by RillJ(m): 10:03am On Aug 13
I wish you brought this up when the assault incident happened.

Do you still have the shirt he tore on you on the fateful day?
Do you have the contact of the Police officers who witnessed what happened and also declined your boss' request to put you in the car before the patrol team came along?
Which Police station did he report you at?

NB: If you have the above, you can, with proper guidance turn this case against him and hopefully restrict his proclivity to maltreat his staff in the future.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by esthel(f): 10:17am On Aug 13
nothing in this world is by force, if you refuse to resume at that office there is no where he can tender that undertaking, it was obtained by coercion and duress. Better get a lawyer and use him for infringement of your fundamental rights, join those police to the suit. If you can afford further, institute an action at the National Industrial court.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by esthel(f): 10:19am On Aug 13
its an illegal contract and holds no water
gigabyte13:
Immediately you signed that document, you agreed to his terms......
You just signed your enslavement contract.
Some fight na fight to finish.

The moment l noticed say , you dey toxic lasan l leave your job for you, including the pay.
Life already gets enough problems in stock
I no fit go add more

Better go find better lawyer if not your suffering just start.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by folake4u: 10:40am On Aug 13
DenreleDave:
Hello Aunty Folake,

I have a lady friend that will need your help.. She worked for a school and she wasn't paid for 2 months.. She has to stop the work and after several calls, she has not yet been paid.


Can i send you a mail as well?
Hi Denrele

I charge for legal consultation. If this is up your sleeve, we can talk.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Chuksgeo: 11:14am On Aug 13
Oludiary:
Statement of Events
I was working with an elevator company as an Elevator Technician when I came to Nigeria. A few months later, I received a message on LinkedIn from a man who wanted to establish an elevator company. He told me he needed me to help build the company and serve as the Lead Elevator Engineer. I agreed to the offer, resigned from my previous employment, and joined his company.
A few weeks after I resumed, I noticed that the man began involving me in some of his other businesses, including his paper business and other activities unrelated to elevator engineering. I did not initially complain, but this began affecting my career and the work I was employed to do.

I also observed how he treated some of his other employees. On several occasions, I witnessed him verbally harassing and physically mistreating staff, including slapping them.

Regarding my own employment, the man has little or no technical knowledge of elevator engineering. Whenever I made professional recommendations or raised concerns about technical decisions, he often rejected them. However, when the consequences of those decisions occurred, he would blame me heavily and make me feel as though I was incompetent or did not know what I was doing.

The major incident occurred on a Friday. After completing our normal schedule for the day, I planned to repair the company's generator because I knew we had a very demanding schedule on Monday and I wanted to ensure that the generator was functioning properly beforehand.

The man repeatedly ordered me to return to the office. I politely explained to him, "Sir, if we don't fix this generator now, it could delay us on Monday." Despite my explanation, he continued insisting that I return to the office. Based on the previous circumstances and my assessment of the situation, I refused to immediately leave the generator.

He then came out of his vehicle and approached me aggressively, appearing as though he wanted to physically assault me. I tried to move away from him to avoid a confrontation. However, he grabbed my clothing and pulled it forcefully, causing one of my buttons to come off.

There were police officers present at the scene. He ordered them to put me into his vehicle, but they refused after witnessing what had happened. He then called other police officers on patrol, who subsequently arrested me.

At the police station, he made several allegations against me, including an allegation that I was the person who assaulted him. I was detained from Friday until Monday. During this period, he allegedly gave money to the police officers. My mother eventually came to the station on Monday and secured my release.

I was told that he would only allow me to be released on the condition that I sign an undertaking stating that I would continue working for him. I was under significant pressure and had already spent several days in detention, so I agreed to sign the undertaking in order to secure my release.

Immediately after I signed the undertaking, his treatment of me became worse. At the end of the month, he deducted two days' pay from my salary. I asked him why the money had been deducted because, to the best of my knowledge, I had not missed those two working days. He told me that the deduction was for the days I had spent in police detention.

I became upset about this and returned to the police station to report the matter. However, the police were unable to recover the money for me.

I subsequently informed him that if he expected me to continue working for him, I wanted my salary to be paid weekly, with my monthly salary divided into four payments. He refused this arrangement. Since then, I have not resumed work.

I now believe that because the undertaking did not prevent me from stopping work, he has decided to pursue an assault case against me. I have now been invited to the police station tomorrow in connection with the alleged assault.

I maintain that I did not assault him. I attempted to avoid a physical confrontation when he approached me aggressively, and he was the person who grabbed my clothing and pulled it.

I am concerned about what may happen at the police station tommorow and would like proper legal advice and protection regarding my rights, the alleged assault case, the undertaking I signed under pressure, my unpaid/deducted wages, and the circumstances surrounding my previous detention.
No evidence with all this your exposure, you couldn't even involve a lawyer and you said you are exposed, naa!
I am disappointed with you, I mean if you knew all these, you should have started documenting your evidences before this incident.
Go and get a lawyer and plan on using other colleagues who aligns with you in pursuing a legal case with him, including using human rights activists
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by goggle48: 11:43am On Aug 13
Your story be like Nigeria movie way I watch,oga na man you be use your head.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Barteze: 12:45pm On Aug 13
Oludiary:
Statement of Events
I was working with an elevator company as an Elevator Technician when I came to Nigeria. A few months later, I received a message on LinkedIn from a man who wanted to establish an elevator company. He told me he needed me to help build the company and serve as the Lead Elevator Engineer. I agreed to the offer, resigned from my previous employment, and joined his company.
A few weeks after I resumed, I noticed that the man began involving me in some of his other businesses, including his paper business and other activities unrelated to elevator engineering. I did not initially complain, but this began affecting my career and the work I was employed to do.

I also observed how he treated some of his other employees. On several occasions, I witnessed him verbally harassing and physically mistreating staff, including slapping them.

Regarding my own employment, the man has little or no technical knowledge of elevator engineering. Whenever I made professional recommendations or raised concerns about technical decisions, he often rejected them. However, when the consequences of those decisions occurred, he would blame me heavily and make me feel as though I was incompetent or did not know what I was doing.

The major incident occurred on a Friday. After completing our normal schedule for the day, I planned to repair the company's generator because I knew we had a very demanding schedule on Monday and I wanted to ensure that the generator was functioning properly beforehand.

The man repeatedly ordered me to return to the office. I politely explained to him, "Sir, if we don't fix this generator now, it could delay us on Monday." Despite my explanation, he continued insisting that I return to the office. Based on the previous circumstances and my assessment of the situation, I refused to immediately leave the generator.

He then came out of his vehicle and approached me aggressively, appearing as though he wanted to physically assault me. I tried to move away from him to avoid a confrontation. However, he grabbed my clothing and pulled it forcefully, causing one of my buttons to come off.

There were police officers present at the scene. He ordered them to put me into his vehicle, but they refused after witnessing what had happened. He then called other police officers on patrol, who subsequently arrested me.

At the police station, he made several allegations against me, including an allegation that I was the person who assaulted him. I was detained from Friday until Monday. During this period, he allegedly gave money to the police officers. My mother eventually came to the station on Monday and secured my release.

I was told that he would only allow me to be released on the condition that I sign an undertaking stating that I would continue working for him. I was under significant pressure and had already spent several days in detention, so I agreed to sign the undertaking in order to secure my release.

Immediately after I signed the undertaking, his treatment of me became worse. At the end of the month, he deducted two days' pay from my salary. I asked him why the money had been deducted because, to the best of my knowledge, I had not missed those two working days. He told me that the deduction was for the days I had spent in police detention.

I became upset about this and returned to the police station to report the matter. However, the police were unable to recover the money for me.

I subsequently informed him that if he expected me to continue working for him, I wanted my salary to be paid weekly, with my monthly salary divided into four payments. He refused this arrangement. Since then, I have not resumed work.

I now believe that because the undertaking did not prevent me from stopping work, he has decided to pursue an assault case against me. I have now been invited to the police station tomorrow in connection with the alleged assault.

I maintain that I did not assault him. I attempted to avoid a physical confrontation when he approached me aggressively, and he was the person who grabbed my clothing and pulled it.

I am concerned about what may happen at the police station tommorow and would like proper legal advice and protection regarding my rights, the alleged assault case, the undertaking I signed under pressure, my unpaid/deducted wages, and the circumstances surrounding my previous detention.
What will happen if you don't go to the police station? What could have happened if you had resigned when you noticed the work wasn't what you anticipated and his bad temper?
My honest advice to anyone who cares and values his career growth AVOID ONE MAN UNSTRUCTURED BUSINESS at all cost. Emphasis on UNSTRUCTURED.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Goo0dHardDick: 1:00pm On Aug 13
Oludiary:
To engage lawyer is the problem now
Are you sure you're okay at all?

Someone is maltreating you and yet you still sign an undertaking to work for him as your released conditions. May God never allow me to be this poor in life. I thank my God for making me a business man who works for myself and control my business alone with my workers.

oga, I expected you and your family to double the amount of whatever he paid to those police and tear that useless undertaking paper. God forbid. I reject poverty!
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Goo0dHardDick: 1:05pm On Aug 13
Oludiary:
I already stayed back home but the police has been urging me to go back.
Now I have been invited tomorrow
To slap you just dey hungry me. Na police dey decide your life for you?
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Goo0dHardDick: 1:05pm On Aug 13
We4all:
The police cannot decide for you. File a counter accusation that your life is being threatened, and let's see how it goes.
He is a mumu man. Leave him to be behaving like a Sissy
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Goo0dHardDick: 1:08pm On Aug 13
Oludiary:
Morning ma…please can I get your contact ?
Go to the barrack and get 2 soliders there. Pay them 10k each and let them follow you to the police station
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by 3kay945(m): 3:07pm On Aug 13
pinkygurl:
Little threats and fake fake threats indeed.
Seems you have not worked with a very toxic boss before. Especially a cultist boss or the arrogant juju occultic ones who did blood money ritual to get their money.
Little threats indeed. Don't be unfortunate.kindly fvck outta my mentions
When it gets to your turn, do as you opined.

No need for much talk.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by DenreleDave(m): 3:48pm On Aug 13
folake4u:
Hi Denrele

I charge for legal consultation. If this is up your sleeve, we can talk.
This is noted.. Let me pass this across to her.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by mamaafrik(m): 4:25pm On Aug 13
KlasicDee:
Hello bro. I am a journalist with a reputable medium. If what you have narrated is what actually happened. My media organisation is interested in this case. Kindly private chat me on whatsapp; 08037102689. I will like to be with you at the police station and follow up this matter. Expecting to hear from you..
kindly quote him to enable him say this your suggestion
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by pinkygurl(f): 4:34pm On Aug 13
3kay945:
When it gets to your turn, do as you opined.

No need for much talk.
When it gets to your turn, do as you opined too. Period!.
@me ,it can never get to my turn for such toxic 🤢 prolonged abuse, cos from the very first abuse, l don level the eye boss shaprpaly put am for e place he/she won't dare try such nonsense with me ever again. Don't be unfortunate fvck off my mentions
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by folake4u: 5:12pm On Aug 13
DenreleDave:
This is noted.. Let me pass this across to her.
Alright then.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by folake4u: 5:15pm On Aug 13
Oxygen1998:
Looks like she's joking. By their names we shall know them
Lol perhaps. I gave a quotation for legal consultation and it's been crickets.
Re: My Boss Is Assaulting Me by Oludiary(op): 9:59pm On Aug 13
SmartyPants:
Where exactly are you located?
I am located in Lagos and the office is also in Lagos
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