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VeryWickedMan:
Better to have just used her for rituals

You no get any plans to go heaven o.

This is what happens when you marry your enemy

tuoyoojo:
If a man can do this to the woman he claims to love, what would he do to his enemies

Men like this, only have power for their spouse when they go outside they turn to ice water

🥱.

Marital journey is not for the weak oooo
Interesting

1. As you burn your wife like this, you go like make them burn you like this so?

2. As you burn your wife like this, she go still dey attractive to you so?

3. Where human beings dey put their brain when them they vex so?

You are a real MVP. You said it all. The man should have calm his temper and go out to chill. The woman really frustrated him.

Marvieduke:
The heart of some men is very wicked but I will blame the woman first for provoking the man...

I’m beginning to believe what someone said that women are mentally not ok. How could she have burnt the man’s clothes without his permission?Omo,Una when dey live with woman for the same house dey try oooo.

I just had to laugh,when I read the headline. I know she provoked him ,but he should have walked away.

FlamingBulb:
I saw the news and cried do you know why?

My name is also Jacob and I am from Kogi

I have always been trying all I could to support my wife and 3kids but she never appreciates and uses insult on me on daily basis

This is someone who has never in her life worked so I am the only one working even when I lost my job for 2yrs I still managed to provide and there was nvr a day we did not eat 2times in my house.

Today I did all I could and prepared the best meal for my family and I served my wife this king I can pleased her again but what she said next shocked me.
"weting you dey use Ur head think? I said what I want is rice today and why did you prepare yam and give me"
Meanwhile she just said...ah if I fit see red oil rice...same here told my kids go to lesson when you are back we prepare yam.

I was so angry we insulted each other I used words in her life she will never recover

We have not talked to eachother till now BC I was angry and I don't care if she is too.

I used words I am not suppose to use like I fit kill you for this house you don't know me.

So now I saw this news and was like ehhn

Women can destroy you ooooo, I won't lie to you my wife is 80% good but you see snobbing, ignoring, lack of encouraging words, motivation she lacks to them.

You're not alone.
Be careful with them.
Nobody will listen to the man now, but women can destroy you without even touching you. Their mouth is bad.

This old man 33years? Make una dey whine una self

NationalFocusNG:
https://nationalfocusng.com/2026/08/16/kogi-police-arrest-man-for-setting-wife-ablaze-in-lokoja/

The Kogi State Police Command arrested a 33-year-old man, Jacob Irewa, for allegedly setting his wife ablaze during a domestic dispute. pic.twitter.com/aY6NPxwTL6

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) August 16, 2026

VeryWickedMan:
Better to have just used her for rituals

Are you well at all?
Ritualism doesn't work. Only ignoramuses waste human life in ritualists that never works.

If ritualism works, Oyibo would have used all Africans for ritual.

Maybe his jazz is in the clothes she burnt

Kogi love

Hmmm, no comment on his religion, book and prophet.

Let this be in the north, ....................
That's when people will reign hell on ............

Crime has no religion, tribe or region.

33yrs indeed. Was that the football age he used in tricking the lady into marrying him?

Now his body would calm down. That is if his lovely wife doesn't go to bail him.

An eye for an eye should be the judgment for this cruel act.

Marvieduke:
The heart of some men is very wicked but I will blame the woman first for provoking the man...

You are a good judge

VeryWickedMan:
Better to have just used her for rituals

you be mumu

FlamingBulb:
I saw the news and cried do you know why?

My name is also Jacob and I am from Kogi

I have always been trying all I could to support my wife and 3kids but she never appreciates and uses insult on me on daily basis

This is someone who has never in her life worked so I am the only one working even when I lost my job for 2yrs I still managed to provide and there was nvr a day we did not eat 2times in my house.

Today I did all I could and prepared the best meal for my family and I served my wife this king I can pleased her again but what she said next shocked me.
"weting you dey use Ur head think? I said what I want is rice today and why did you prepare yam and give me"
Meanwhile she just said...ah if I fit see red oil rice...same here told my kids go to lesson when you are back we prepare yam.

I was so angry we insulted each other I used words in her life she will never recover

We have not talked to eachother till now BC I was angry and I don't care if she is too.

I used words I am not suppose to use like I fit kill you for this house you don't know me.

So now I saw this news and was like ehhn

Women can destroy you ooooo, I won't lie to you my wife is 80% good but you see snobbing, ignoring, lack of encouraging words, motivation she lacks to them.

If you don't learn how to ignore so many attitude of women, you will have problem leaving with wife.

That is why they do call man who is married, a responsible man. They know such man carries so much responsibilities in his head, nagging and non appreciative are among such responsibilities.

Osteen89:
How this person take be 33 years?

It's possible he's saying the truth about his age.

I'm honestly 31 but I look atleast 37. Apart from my family members and my childhood friends/secondary mates, people find it hard to believe me when I introduce my self.

Yes there are people like that!

You are a confirmed wicked human being just as your birth given name denotes. Horrible human being.....

VeryWickedMan:
Better to have just used her for rituals

pocohantas:
33yrs indeed. Was that the football age he used in tricking the lady into marrying him?

Now his body would calm down. That is if his lovely wife doesn't go to bail him.

Big madam, It's possible this man is saying the truth about his age.

I'm honestly 31 but I look atleast 37. Apart from my family members and my childhood friends/secondary mates, people find it hard to believe me when I introduce my self and it sometimes makes me feel bad.

Yes there are people like us.

One of the best goalkeepers of this generation, Donnarumma of Manchester City looks much older than his age, dude is 27, but he looks 37, even have baldhead. During an interview, his mother reveals that he had always looked older than his age since childhood. Infact during football competitions, his mother had to show his birth certificate to the organisers because they'd never believe he was still a teenager.

FlamingBulb:
I saw the news and cried do you know why?

My name is also Jacob and I am from Kogi

I have always been trying all I could to support my wife and 3kids but she never appreciates and uses insult on me on daily basis

This is someone who has never in her life worked so I am the only one working even when I lost my job for 2yrs I still managed to provide and there was nvr a day we did not eat 2times in my house.

Today I did all I could and prepared the best meal for my family and I served my wife this king I can pleased her again but what she said next shocked me.
"weting you dey use Ur head think? I said what I want is rice today and why did you prepare yam and give me"
Meanwhile she just said...ah if I fit see red oil rice...same here told my kids go to lesson when you are back we prepare yam.

I was so angry we insulted each other I used words in her life she will never recover

We have not talked to eachother till now BC I was angry and I don't care if she is too.

I used words I am not suppose to use like I fit kill you for this house you don't know me.

So now I saw this news and was like ehhn

Women can destroy you ooooo, I won't lie to you my wife is 80% good but you see snobbing, ignoring, lack of encouraging words, motivation she lacks to them.

you prepared food for your wife ? What did I just read ?

If the marriage no sweet you again, DIVORCE her and let her go....


Feel free to enjoy yourself same goes for you womens.

I thought as much. There's certainly something he kept in those clothes or probably used the clothes for jazz. Imagine having colour riot or rainbow colours kind of T.Shirts. 7 different colour T.Shirts for wetin naa......Most Nigerian are so much into Jazz these days especially those that call themselves man or woman of God.....

Kobicove:
Maybe his jazz is in the clothes she burnt

Threedoorsdown:
This is what happens when you marry your enemy

It's possible. 7 short-lives of different colors for the seven days of the week.
Some of these fake pastors could be into fetish stuff

bigdammyj:
Noted.

How difficult it is to walk out?

Some will not let you walk away peacefully,all hell will let loose if you try. Lots of people out there are rage bait.

FlamingBulb:
I saw the news and cried do you know why?

My name is also Jacob and I am from Kogi

I have always been trying all I could to support my wife and 3kids but she never appreciates and uses insult on me on daily basis

This is someone who has never in her life worked so I am the only one working even when I lost my job for 2yrs I still managed to provide and there was nvr a day we did not eat 2times in my house.

Today I did all I could and prepared the best meal for my family and I served my wife this king I can pleased her again but what she said next shocked me.
"weting you dey use Ur head think? I said what I want is rice today and why did you prepare yam and give me"
Meanwhile she just said...ah if I fit see red oil rice...same here told my kids go to lesson when you are back we prepare yam.

I was so angry we insulted each other I used words in her life she will never recover

We have not talked to eachother till now BC I was angry and I don't care if she is too.

I used words I am not suppose to use like I fit kill you for this house you don't know me.

So now I saw this news and was like ehhn

Women can destroy you ooooo, I won't lie to you my wife is 80% good but you see snobbing, ignoring, lack of encouraging words, motivation she lacks to them.

Eeyah!

Sorry about your situation.

Take this facts:

* You ignored the red flags when you were dating. Even if the dating were to be for two weeks.

* You failed to include the terms and the conditions in the marriage. On no condition should anyone marry someone who will not.contribute to the family upkeep.

* You are still allowing her to use emotional sentiments on you.

* There are hard decisions to make. But I cannot suggest them here.

Best of luck Nigga.