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Poll: Have you ever successfully recovered money after being scammed through a bank/fintech transfer?
✅ Yes, I recovered the money
24% (11 votes)
❌ No, I was unable to recover it
75% (34 votes)
This poll has ended |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by ajbiggie(m): 8:10pm On Aug 17 |
Your don go oo next time call the person before you make such payment, you were careless and they can scam you again using another format. Just be very careful online |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Agadinaagwuofe: 8:12pm On Aug 17 |
StrangeListing:This is exactly the correct sequence but the issue is to recover/arrest the culprit you might have spend like twice of the money defrauded. Nigeria police can track and arrest the person involved but the question is at what cost? I sincerely hope somehow you will get lucky by trying to make the report through NPC-NCCC maybe a good police officer might take interest and decided to do it pro bono. Just do your best. |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by MissOpe(op): 8:22pm On Aug 17 |
Hungrychicken:I did, they insisted on me getting a court order or police report....... |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by MissOpe(op): 8:24pm On Aug 17 |
Agadinaagwuofe:Thanks so much , I appreciate your input on this ...🙏🙏. I will do my best on this case |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by femi4: 10:06pm On Aug 17 |
MissOpe:rule no 1, never pay into an unfamiliar account |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by sharone21(f): 10:21pm On Aug 17 |
If after ALL procedures you follow and still no solution, PRAY on the matter and on the scammer/s involved. No peace for the wicked Then, move on |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Goo0dHardDick: 10:21pm On Aug 17 |
MissOpe:Why you cover the scammer name and details? Secondly, that money has since been moved out of that account. Don't bother wasting your time, energy and more money because at the end, you'll likely not get it back at all. This is Nigeria |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Melagros(m): 10:38pm On Aug 17 |
MissOpe:Just forget it, check my previous post (it made it to the front page) police follow duped me ontop |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Bayoonanuga: 11:47pm On Aug 17 |
sharone21:make she forget 200k like that Always think before comment online next time |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by ufotunang: 12:31am On Aug 18 |
Lukuluku69:..she should had call the person on phone first to confirm..but just rushed to send the money |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by ufotunang: 12:36am On Aug 18 |
MissOpe:.why did you not call her on phone first to confirm.. before sending her money...when typing her bank account details did her name appear in the bank account details she gave to you or another name... |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Hungrychicken(m): 3:19am On Aug 18 |
MissOpe:I’m really sorry about that 🙏🏽 |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by ussv: 4:40am On Aug 18 |
The account you paid into, did it match your friend`s name ? That is what you could have verified |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by haybee2018(m): 5:04am On Aug 18 |
Firstly...I sincerely sympathise with you on this. No one is immune to mistakes in this life. (we're all on a life-long learning Institute in this entity called 🌎) Secondly, from all of your replies to people's comments and all (even with your original post which is the "subject matter") you seem to be a KIND HEARTED and SOFTLY SPOKEN individual who could barely hurt a fly. May you find favours too. Just to save repeated reiterations....Scammers really have their ways (they're smart individuals). Out of all the comments posted, the only reasonable one amongst all is the person who pointed out that if the recipient account is a random POS operator and that if he/she still has some change left in the account, then the FREEZING of a thing will work out which might enable you get some of your funds back. Just that Nigeria is such a F33KKED up country whereby somethings don't really work out the way it ought to be. Just be of góod cheers and try your possible best on it's recovery process. I pray it works out good |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by tiswell(m): 6:24am On Aug 18 |
MissOpe:You just might end up spending over 200k pursuing this matter. |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Parachoko: 7:42am On Aug 18 |
MissOpe:You shouldn't have replied the nuisance Don't you know your friend name? If toh say nah OPay to OPay, OPay would have flagged his/her account. You might spend more than 100k to report the account o Be careful next time |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Kukutente23: 8:03am On Aug 18 |
Lukuluku69:That's not how it works They tell you that you're sending the money to their cousin or brother who is in hospital that they are trying to send money to but Network is failing them. A simple caution when someone is asking for your help in such circumstance is to tell them to call you |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by MissOpe(op): 9:30am On Aug 18 |
Parachoko:I will. Thanks so much sir/ma🙏 |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by MissOpe(op): 9:31am On Aug 18 |
Hungrychicken:Thanks so much🙏🙏🙏 |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by MissOpe(op): 9:33am On Aug 18 |
ufotunang:She gave me the impression that she was in a Market place and was trying to make payment to an agent..... I called her and everywhere was noisy.. But I've learnt bitterly from this experience... Never again. |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Psoul(m): 10:13am On Aug 18 |
MissOpe:Sorry for the lose. My lesson in life is that I do not worry much about ppl I don't trust cos it will be hard to get hurt from them cos I keep them at arms length. The people I never let my guard down for are those that I trust cos they are always close and that is where things that will kill can easily come from. Trust can get you killed. I know you got easily tricked cos the msg came from the contact of someone you trusted. I pray the recovery efforts yield positive result. Pls No Lose Guard again. |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Nobody: 10:16am On Aug 18 |
MissOpe:why don’t you post the chat evidence if it’s really real and truth You sha wan use style make your post Dey front page |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by VanuatuWycombe: 11:50am On Aug 18 |
MissOpe:Nibo? The fund has been moved. Don’t you know that the skkamma used a POS shop to collect it? He collected that and went to another POS shop. That’s why he gave you another account number. It is the POS operator that will suffer the account freezing consequences but not the skkamma. The only way you can catch the skamma is if the POS operator eventually transferred the money to the skkkammma’s account. You may even need to arrest the POS operator, for you to be able to trace the sk.ama. Now imagine if the POS operator and skamma.a live in a state very far from you. How do you arrest trace and arrest him? I am 100% certain that the skam a will collect the money in cash, to avoid being traced. He won’t mind loosing some charges to the POS operator— after all, it’s a free money. He could pay up to 20k fee to the POS operator and smile home with 180k. When next someone reaches out to you for money, call the person, to be sure it’s actually the person. You may also request the person to do a voice note to be sure. Let the person know why you requested for such so that the person doesn’t feel you are demeaning him or her. That’s what I do. |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by ufotunang: 5:01pm On Aug 18*. Modified: 5:28pm On Aug 18 |
MissOpe:..ok very sorry about that....but when you were typing her bank account details on your phone..did her name appear or another person name appear on the bank account details |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by MissOpe(op): 7:05pm On Aug 18 |
VanuatuWycombe:Thanks for your input bro.. I guess there are some lessons you need to learn in a bitter and hard way. This is one of it ... |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by Ushame: 10:41pm On Aug 18 |
MissOpe:Not possible. Would a scammer use the pos of an operator that could get to him, knowing fully well there is a probability of reversal ? I doubt it. For someone to be smart enough to run a stranger street by acting like a black-yanch-money-looking-familiar-person, he must be smart. |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by MissOpe(op): 3:41pm On Aug 19 |
StrangeListing:Many thanks for your response to my ordeal.. I've been able to report officially online.. Hopefully I get a positive result from all these....
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| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by yemre: 12:13pm On Aug 21 |
Hello @MissOpe, were you able to recover your funds? In case of another time, whenever you receive such a request from anybody (even if it's your mum), no matter the amount, pls call the person to confirm. Her phone might have been stolen; she might be held at gunpoint; anything could be/could have happened. |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by MissOpe(op): 12:53pm On Aug 21 |
yemre:Good morning, Yemre. At this juncture, I’m honestly confused and don’t really know what to make of the whole situation. The message I initially received from her was that she needed money to send to her exchange agent so she could pick up her husband. I sent the #200,000 in good faith. Shortly afterwards, she requested another #135,000, and that was when I became suspicious. I asked her to prove that I was actually speaking with her, but she kept giving excuses and avoided properly confirming her identity. Because of this, I reached out to her in-laws. That was when I was told that her so-called husband had reached out to them and said that her phone had been stolen and her line had been compromised. Fortunately, I reached out to her best friend yesterday, and she confirmed something I didn't know before that she had actually travelled to Ghana, and her husband also travelled from Canada to Ghana so they could meet. According to her friend, she was sending pictures and videos throughout the journey, even when she got to the airport and checked into the hotel, until her phone eventually became unreachable. She also told her friend confidentially that her in-laws must not find out that she was travelling to Ghana to meet their son, apparently similar to what happened about three years ago when she also asked me for money to meet up with her husband. My concern now is this: because she didn't carry me along or tell me anything about this trip to Ghana, what if she returns and simply sticks to the story that her phone was stolen and compromised, when in reality she had travelled to Ghana to meet her husband? What also worries me is that, up till now, she hasn't reached out to me despite apparently hearing that I was scammed through her phone/number. Her line has also remained unreachable. At this point, I honestly don't know what to believe. Part of me is beginning to suspect that she may actually have been the one who made the request for the money, but I don't want to accuse her without knowing the truth. My biggest concern now is that she may return, maintain the story that her phone was stolen, and then refuse to refund the money. I genuinely don't know what to do at this point, and that's why I'm trying to understand the situation as much as I can... By the way, Palmpay seem not to be effective about the reports I made days back.. I called the customer care team and they keep saying they havent gotten my report, something I did more than thrice via their app.
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| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by yemre: 3:56pm On Aug 21 |
MissOpe:Your chats here did not show that you spoke with her before releasing that money, and that was an error on your part! (You only chatted). I had a similar experience when a friend I've not seen in a while chatted to request for 250k. What saved me was that I called just to know that she actually did. The chat came in around 11:30pm or so but I didn't respond.i only called in the morning for confirmation after she'd gone to retrieve her line. It was then she told me that her phone was stolen the previous night. Back to recovery. Tell that her best friend what happened and let her confirm with the lady in Ghana. But, to be very frank with you, I don't see her admitting that she requested that money (even if she did). A friend that could remember to ask you for an emergency fund but wouldn't remember to let you know that she'd be going on a journey! I just hope Palmpay and Opay responds eventually and do something about it. If it was a regular bank now, a lien could be placed on the account (based on the court order) and she could be arrested any day she enters any branch to lodge a complaint. But fintech? I don't know! |
| Re: Scammed Of ₦200,000 Through A Friend’s Whatsapp – Please Advise by MissOpe(op): 5:07pm On Aug 21 |
yemre:Thanks for your concern, Yemre. I've told her friend everything that happened between the two of us, and everyone I've spoken to about this has advised me to be patient and wait until she returns before drawing any conclusions. My greatest fear right now, like you rightly pointed out, is that she may come back and maintain that she was not the one who requested the money. Considering that I was the one who escalated the matter to her in-laws after I suspected I had been scammed especially because the money was sent to an account that wasn't hers, I worry that she may be reluctant to tell me the truth about her trip. From what her friend told me, she had specifically confided in her that she didn't want her in-laws to know she was travelling to Ghana to meet her husband. So, knowing that I have already contacted the in-laws and told them I suspected her phone had been compromised, she may feel that if she tells me about the trip, I could eventually tell them. By the way, I genuinely didn't speak with her directly before sending the money. Like I mentioned earlier, this is not completely unusual between us. There has been a previous occasion when I lent her money when her husband came in and she was trying to sort out a few things but was financially stuck. So when she reached out this time, I honestly didn't think twice before helping her. I believed I was simply helping a friend who needed me. |
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