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I hate the notion that some humans try to feel they are perfect humans.

Every man or woman has a favorite child. It’s not that you don’t love or care for the rest, but there is always one particular one you love so much.


Maturity might not make you expose it but deep inside your heart, you know your favorite child.

Don’t come to this thread to say the word “EQUAL” only a supernatural being has that capability

Believe it or not , every family has a favorite child, my own is my first born son, but he is my challenge too between me and the father, my mum loves me too, she hears my voice the moment she wakes up and she will call me b4 going to bed, if she does not hear my voice a day she will call everyone in my house to know who has spoken to me , maybe because am the lastborn

I love my second daughter most but nobody is aware, it is only known to me.....
This things are real because no matter how loving you are, there is that child that understand you to the fullest and you will probably like him or her the more...
What makes a mother or father loves some children is their hard working spirit, the zeal for education and self discipline....

dollytino4real:
Believe it or not , every family has a favorite child, my own is my first born son, but he is my challenge too between me and the father, my mum loves me too, she hears my voice the moment she wakes up and she will call me b4 going to bed, if she does not hear my voice a day she will call everyone in my house to know who has spoken to me , maybe because am the lastborn

Thanks for being truthful

Kemical23:
I love my second daughter most but nobody is aware, it is only known to me.....
This things are real because no matter how loving you are, there is that child that understand you to the fullest and you will probably like him or her the more...
What makes a mother or father loves some children is their hard working spirit, the zeal for education and self discipline....

Thanks for your sincerity.

I'm my mother's least favourite child while I'm my father's favourite... There's not a week that goes by without him and I gisting over the phone.

My mother was also my grandmother's least favourite child and I enjoyed every moment of it whenever the old lady was around the house as she'll be scolding my mother at every chance given like she's still a little girl...

As for my own children, well, give me five years and I'll come back with the answer.

HacheNoire:
Thanks for being truthful

is my experience

While not sounding perfect as mentioned, I don’t believe I have a favorite child

I love all of them so dearly and I discipline them in equal measures
Can’t think of anyone being favorite

i have 2 kids, twins and both are my favorite and both are of both sexes.i vowed to either do for both or for none at same time. i was the least favorite by my parents and 2nd child. our first, man like me, and our last, a girl, living abroad, are their most favorite. our first born particularly made sure say my parents hate me, said so many lies make them see me as devil, and he, as angel, so them go treat like esau, and i personally asked him to stop lying about me to them, cos my parents are wealthy with 2 mansions and a mighty bungalow. them train them till phd, finance their wedding, buy them car. me, them only trained to first degree, my car, marriage and masters, i got by myself. am already a phd student, and the most wealthy of all. my other 2 siblings,3rd and 4th are the priority i have. as i balance, i arranged each of them 2.5 for business, which they are handling. the rest, i just ignore them. ma when i don hold cash,as an adult about to marry parent's try to dey close, but i block all that late hour friendliness.

HacheNoire:
I hate the notion that some humans try to feel they are perfect humans.

Every man or woman has a favorite child. It’s not that you don’t love or care for the rest, but there is always one particular one you love so much.


Maturity might not make you expose it but deep inside your heart, you know your favorite child.

Don’t come to this thread to say the word “EQUAL” only a supernatural being has that capability

Eba50:
i have 2 kids, twins and both are my favorite and both are of both sexes.i vowed to either do for both or for none at same time. i was the least favorite by my parents and 2nd child. our first, man like me, and our last, a girl, living abroad, are their most favorite. our first born particularly made sure say my parents hate me, said so many lies make them see me as devil, and he, as angel, so them go treat like esau, cos my parents are wealthy with 2 mansions and a mighty bungalow. them train them till phd, finance their wedding, buy them car. me, them only trained to first degree, my car, marriage and masters, i got by myself. am already a phd student, and the most wealthy of all. my other 2 siblings,3rd and 4th are the priority i have. as i balance, i arranged each of them 2.5 for business, which they are handling. the rest, i just ignore them. ma when i don hold cash,as an adult about to marry parent's try to dey close, but i block all that late hour friendliness.

It is not about you expressing it through delivery, kind or wants. It’s is that, out of the two, your have a favorite one.

You said your siblings were favored ahead of you, but do you know of all your sibling that were favored, your dad still had favorite one among them.

It’s normal for parents not to show it but in some way, other kids get to know. Like the one who knows how to press dad’s “MUMU” bottom which could be due to different reason.

Parents love their kids and that’s uncontested, but there is one that is loved more.

You might find it hard to accept now, but over years, you will accept.

HacheNoire:
It is not about you expressing it through delivery, kind or wants. It’s is that, out of the two, your have a favorite one.

You said your siblings were favored ahead of you, but do you know of all your sibling that were favored, your dad still had favorite one among them.

It’s normal for parents not to show it but in some way, other kids get to know. Like the one who knows how to press dad’s “MUMU” bottom which could be due to different reason.

Parents love their kids and that’s uncontested, but there is one that is loved more.

You might find it hard to accept now, but over years, you will accept.

well its difficult and to chose among them, but let me say its first born, cos he is a son. the last one is now abroad

Eba50:
well its difficult and to chose among them, but let me say its first born, cos he is a son. the last one is now abroad

Now you talking!

That one that can make you laugh like a baby, press your mumu button repetitively and still hijack your things and you still be smiling.

Sometimes, we men don’t even know we exhibit it. It’s the siblings, friends, and neighbors that see it. Wives do too. They know and can answer that question on your behalf.