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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by MatrixReloaded: 4:44pm On Aug 31

You got to understand one thing no body came this life with a woman tied to him. Hence I watch a Facebook video where a lady was narrating how men leave there spouse in Nigeria and get entwined with white women or black women in farther land.
To be honest with you, if you ever listen to women and there antics as a man, your downfall will be ten folds.
Why are our parents don't even reach 100 years of you are around late 70s and 80s kids anymore because they married 1 woman and have to prove the modern society that they are righteous in the eyes of Men and not there creator.
If you see oyibo wey house you, cover you in times of need and provided for you please do yourself a favor and marry her asap. If you return back home that same wife will nag you, cheat on your absence and eventually leave you with a bastard child.
Men lift your heads high, if you are capable of taking second wife please do, but don't make mistake to keep a nagging woman around you too long. Jejely leave her and travel to another country and build a new empire. Your legs are not tied in a particular location.

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Dogalmighty17: 4:45pm On Aug 31

We need to understand that there is a huge difference between the teachings of Apostle Paul and the teachings of Jesus Christ. Christ never condemned polygamy. Paul did.

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Guestmale: 4:46pm On Aug 31

Imalwayshorny:
Even solomon and David marry multiple wives in the Bible and make it to heaven

Solomon and David were not christians. No room for a Christian to be polygamous. Any pastor telling his member to marry more than one wife doesn't receive that from Christ.

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by oglalasioux(m): 4:49pm On Aug 31

Namaster:
There's NO need to marry a second wife.

Benefits of marriage for men is already SCANTY.
A wife who DENIES you sex is a BLESSING.
A DIVINE opportunity to rectify your MISTAKE by CHASING away.

CHASE her away and LEASE pooosies.

Personalising something with a HOLE in it is a BAD idea.
Just LEASE it.

You are wise.

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Lovelink1991(op): 4:54pm On Aug 31

werisetogether:
Is this Bible teaching or "content creation"?

People need to read their Bible for themselves o

Was there a place in the Bible that give wife the power to deny husband sex?
It takes one decision to lead to the other

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by stuffs2002: 4:54pm On Aug 31

Righteousness2:
Pastor, Bishop, Prophet, Apostle, Reverend and so on are all Titles. They are not Substitutes to the BIBLE, the Word of GOD. They are NOT the Standard.

The HOLY BIBLE , the Word of GOD is the Standard.
If you follow the Hearesy this So called Pastor is saying, you are ultimately living in Adultery and you are on the Highway to Destruction.

The Solution to Sin/ evil is not Evil.

You have never read your Bible

Exodus 21:10: If a man marries a second wife, he must not reduce the food, clothing, or marital rights of his first wife.

Deuteronomy 21:15–17: If a man has two wives and loves one more than the other, he must still give the proper inheritance rights to the firstborn son, regardless of which wife he favors.

Genesis 4:19: Lamech is the first man recorded in your Bible to take two wives, Adah and Zillah.

1 Samuel 25:42–44: David married multiple wives, including Abigail and Ahinoam.

2 Samuel 12:8: Through the prophet Nathan, God states that He gave David his master Saul's house and wives.

2 Chronicles 13:21: King Abijah grew powerful and took fourteen wives, fathering numerous children.

Cc
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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by judewrites: 4:56pm On Aug 31

Guestmale:
Solomon and David were not christians. No room for a Christian to be polygamous. Any pastor telling his member to marry more than one wife doesn't receive that from Christ.

If Jesus said this:

Matthew 19 (KJV)
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⁴ And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
⁵ And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
⁶ Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Then under the new testament we are expected to marry one wife.

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by DrChukki: 4:59pm On Aug 31

Righteousness2:
Pastor, Bishop, Prophet, Apostle, Reverend and so on are all Titles. They are not Substitutes to the BIBLE, the Word of GOD. They are NOT the Standard.

The HOLY BIBLE , the Word of GOD is the Standard.
If you follow the Hearesy this So called Pastor is saying, you are ultimately living in Adultery and you are on the Highway to Destruction.

The Solution to Sin/ evil is not Evil.

Show me one scripture where God instructed man to marry only one wife.

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Igbophobia: 5:01pm On Aug 31

prinsam30:
How is he a fake pastor for saying the gospel truth, pls humanity first B4 religion, I stand with the pastor weda him na fake or not buh this one dey talk the truth

Anyone who counters what Jesus says is a fake prophet. It doesn't matter if they're pastors or Imams.

What the Bible says is clear, and only fake religions and cults counter it.

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by stuffs2002: 5:02pm On Aug 31

judewrites:
If Jesus said this:

Matthew 19 (KJV)
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⁴ And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
⁵ And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
⁶ Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Then under the new testament we are expected to marry one wife.

But same Bible didn't say three, four, five etc cannot become one

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by cr7lomo: 5:04pm On Aug 31

Jayhome24:
Yes, well supported polygamy was never termed a sin in the bible. Full stop.

Simps allowed feminists manipulate them to think its wrong

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by westside365: 5:04pm On Aug 31

All these kind of pastors,avoid them. They will give you first class ticket to hell.

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by judewrites: 5:05pm On Aug 31

stuffs2002:
But same Bible didn't say three, four, five etc cannot become one

But it says a man shall cleave to his wife-(singular) not wives.

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by drimzsmoke(m): 5:07pm On Aug 31

Lovelink1991:
Was there a place in the Bible that give wife the power to deny husband sex?
It takes one decision to lead to the other

Even the Bible said neither the wife nor the husband must deny their partner sex!!!

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by APOPTOSIS: 5:11pm On Aug 31

Jayhome24:
Yes, well supported polygamy was never termed a sin in the bible. Full stop.

Even if it's a sin in the Bible who cares?
Why should a Book written by the Whiteman define how u live your Life?
Ain't you ashamed at this point?
Are you critical at all?
So, you still think GOD sat down somewhere to write the Bible and Quran...and same God went ahead to disburse them to us.
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Why shouldn't something in Africa that the white man fails to do be a sin internationally?
Same way most of u use the ENGLISH LANGUAGE to measure intelligence...I can only weep for you Guys
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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by pocohantas(f): 5:13pm On Aug 31*

Some day they will have an advice for women going through same. Maybe paternity fraud would reduce.

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Angelfrost(m): 5:13pm On Aug 31

Sigh... Once upon a time, only men of honor and divine integrity were termed Pastors.

The way Christianity has been watered down, especially by Protestants (Pentecostals) just beggars belief.

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Jayhome24: 5:14pm On Aug 31

APOPTOSIS:
Even if it's a sin in the Bible who cares?
Why should a Book written by the Whiteman define how u live your Life?
Ain't you ashamed at this point?
Are you critical at all?
So, you still think GOD sat down somewhere to write the Bible and Quran...and same God went ahead to disburse them to us.
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Why shouldn't something in Africa that the white man fails to do be a sin internationally?

Ate you alright? Can't you read and understand? What I'm I saying and what are you saying?

Read my comment again and again pls..

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by alizma: 5:14pm On Aug 31

Stephen0mozzy:
Hehe... I don't like polygamy.

I'm a man. If you don't wanna be intimate with me as your husband, when I'm doing right by you - providing for the house, respecting you, then you go go your pa house.

I go marry a new wife jejely and sofri file divorce. Can't leave her in the same house make she no go teach new wife bad thing.

Are you married? Be sincere

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Deffi(m): 5:20pm On Aug 31

evil pastor sent from hell... Anyone that has more than one wife is living in adultery

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Patiks: 5:21pm On Aug 31

Imalwayshorny:
Even solomon and David marry multiple wives in the Bible and make it to heaven

That was before Jesus came. Jesus instructed Christians to marry one wife and one husband only . He used creation story to buttress his point: God made them a male and a female (only).

If God the creator thought one wife will not be enough, He would have done the needful by providing the appropriate number of wife to satisfy His beloved Adam. After all, He's the one who even came up with an idea of a wife for Adam.

Truth is, if He had made only Adam without Eve, nobody would have beaten Him (and nobody would have even known what a woman would look like).

You people should respect God and obey His instructions. He knows how to discipline a misbehaving spouse if the couple know His will for them and invite Him into their lives.

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by tiswell(m): 5:25pm On Aug 31

froxydydx:
What of women that are being denied sex by their husbands?

They should marry another husband fa.

Case closed🔒

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Stephen0mozzy: 5:25pm On Aug 31

alizma:
Are you married? Be sincere

I'm not. I'm engaged.

But I don't see marriage changing my principles. You can read my comment again where I acknowledge the place of doing my own duties.

But then again, people tolerate all sort of things especially because they didn't have hard conversations before jumping into marriage. I have hard conversations with my woman, and she knows intimacy is important to me. If she then decides to weaponize sex by withholding when I'm not failing in any of my responsibility, she'll leave please.

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by ChiefS(m): 5:28pm On Aug 31

The wife of one of my brothers has denied him sez for almost 2 years despite all entreaties the woman has remained defiant. In this case what should the man do? Should he castrate himself or what?

Righteousness2:
Pastor, Bishop, Prophet, Apostle, Reverend and so on are all Titles. They are not Substitutes to the BIBLE, the Word of GOD. They are NOT the Standard.

The HOLY BIBLE , the Word of GOD is the Standard.
If you follow the Hearesy this So called Pastor is saying, you are ultimately living in Adultery and you are on the Highway to Destruction.

The Solution to Sin/ evil is not Evil.

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Righteousness2(m): 5:34pm On Aug 31

The Word of GOD will not Change because of you, me or your brother.
Issues of life will always be there.
If Eternity in Heaven Matters to you, irrespective of Whatever, you will stick with God and his Word.

ChiefS:
The wife of one of my brothers has denied him sez for almost 2 years despite all entreaties the woman has remained defiant. In this case what should the man do? Should he castrate himself or what?

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Lovit(m): 5:35pm On Aug 31

I support the Pastor

There is nowhere in the Bible that God said every man must marry one wife, the Europeans passed this doctrine to us

Even in the bible, Paul gave as a requirement for a man to be a Bishop that he must be a man with only one wife, that means those who were not Bishops then were allowed to marry many wives

The Patriarchs of the Christian faith were all polygamous, Abraham, David, Solomon, Isaac, Jacob etc

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by seyichicago(m): 5:36pm On Aug 31

Namaster:
There's NO need to marry a second wife.

Benefits of marriage for men is already SCANTY.
A wife who DENIES you sex is a BLESSING.
A DIVINE opportunity to rectify your MISTAKE by CHASING away.

CHASE her away and LEASE pooosies.

Personalising something with a HOLE in it is a BAD idea.
Just LEASE it.

What are you saying can't get a massage from ur statement.

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Righteousness1: 5:36pm On Aug 31

God did not send this man to say this.
Someone else moved him to say so.
Every idle word spoken by anyone shall be given account of before God on the final day.

Pastor huh

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Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Lovit(m): 5:40pm On Aug 31

Guestmale:
Solomon and David were not christians. No room for a Christian to be polygamous. Any pastor telling his member to marry more than one wife doesn't receive that from Christ.

And yet you sing... Jesus son of David

So David na Muslim?

Abeg! Abeg!!

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by MaxInDHouse(m): 5:47pm On Aug 31

The man must do everything within his capability to make peace with his Eve but if she deliberately refuses him sex then the matter should be taken to the congregation elders because it means she is about to deny Christ who said:

"What God has yoked together, let no man put apart.” Matthew 19:6

She is deliberately SEPARATING WHAT GOD has joined together and so she is denying Jesus therefore the husband has every right to take any action against her because according to Jesus she is now worse than unbelievers for ignoring what God's son commanded! Matthew 18:15-17

Re: Marry A Second Wife If Your Wife Continue To Deny You Sex Pastor Told Members by Atlantis585: 5:50pm On Aug 31

And what is your advise for women if their husbands deny them sex?

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