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Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by Shamo007: 10:58am On Sep 13
Weekend nko? E dey still work? He should go in for it what nonchalant attitude no care for the family
ZombieDredd:
Oga, don't bankers and some workers leave 6am and return 7pm?

What are you on about, don't throw your senses away na.

Has it occured to you the woman might have threatened them ?
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by BeardedMeat(m): 11:09am On Sep 13
Bluffly:
He is aware and he is the one that also arrested her ba? Please think.
Where did he say he got arrested her in the video?
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by Dozman88: 11:09am On Sep 13
He is aware Jare!!!!.. he married an alpha female that he could not control!!!.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by BeardedMeat(m): 11:10am On Sep 13
Caseless:
Do you think at all? He said he goes to market and comes back in the evening. He might not know.
I believe the man.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by BeardedMeat(m): 11:17am On Sep 13
ARISHEM:
I don't believe him. You married her so you know the kind of woman she is.
You watched the video from your friend's phone, then your wife told you that it is AI and you quickly believed and stopped asking questions. You did not query her why your daughters were targeted even if it was AI and made no effort to identify the culprit.

If he is aware or unaware that his wife is into adult content creation he shouldn't have let the matter slide after seeing that video
He never let the matter slide. He was still processing the incident when police showed up.

My brother, there are things you'd see and be stunned and confused and weak at the time that you won't even know what to do. Your vision will first become blurry.

People are wired differently. While some men's first reaction would be to immediately beat the woman to death, some would react by isolating themselves to process what they just witnessed.

For a woman that can do this, you must know she's a jezebel, an unrepentant witch who probably is the master of the house.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by BeardedMeat(m): 11:27am On Sep 13
nedekid:
Abeg, Oga you knew. We know the despiration of some of our brodas for criminality and seeking money by any means is real. The wife said she earned over $300k or N420m, where did he think that money came in form if he was not even the mastermind?
The quest for money by those folks ehh? My 60k I paid for compressor of which they sent me a repaired one that messed up my Ac system is still stuck in ladipo, once money enters their hands it never returns. Yesterday I needed a brain box for a Toyota hiace, they said price, I agreed, they said they will send someone to bring it, we pay for his transport, we agreed, next was that he called back that we should send the 155k first before the person comes, we said no, guess what they did not agree lol. Bloody fraudsters and thives, once you send the money they will send a crappy, faulty one, yor try to return it, they will say it was you that spoilt it hence your money is lost!
Bloody criminals group of people.
Guy you knew of the abuse of those kids, man up and take responsibility!
She made 300 dollars which is about N420k. She said so while the police interviewed her. If you have seen video of the arrest and where they live, you won't be misled. Looking at her gaan and the so called husband, do they look to you like people living the life?

Your post has a lot of tribal bigotry in it though you refrained from using the exact words. This is a part of you I'm yet to discover umunede kid 😃
The problem you cited is a common denominator in every sector. The mechanic working on that car is no different no matter his tribe ditto your electrician, cook, pastor, etc. Everyone is looking for a loophole to dupe the next person.

What has brought you this low?

I believe this man is telling the truth. He sounds dumb to me and may just an ordinary guy who married a jezebel that's used to having her way for peace to reing in their home.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by Kelvinjeff(m): 11:38am On Sep 13
Until you're married, you won't know how to react or judge the man. It easier being said than done🤞....
May God see him through
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by soccerlite: 11:46am On Sep 13
Let the punishment worth the crime...

Imagine what this woman would do to other children if she have the opportunity

The woman should be sentenced to d3ath

Satanic woman
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by BeardedMeat(m): 11:46am On Sep 13
buchai:
That woman is not qualified to be mother or a guidance
She's a jezebel from the darkest part of hell.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by BeardedMeat(m): 11:54am On Sep 13
UrPapa:
Most igbomen are very timid especially when it comes to dealing with their wives
You’ll only hear them for King Kong outside
You must be from the Niger delta or middle belt, those ones see their wives as another furniture in the house. An urhobo man would have been in jail now for murdering his wife. Then the kids will loose both parents. Let the law take care of criminals.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by Holy2Glory: 12:32pm On Sep 13
galantjoe:
I doubt he is saying the truth. The molestation was happening in their house. Where has he been every night.
Definitely the younger children should have told him what their mom was to them.

That man is culpable except he says he was not living with his wife and children
If he lives with them on daily basis, he must be aware of the abuses
Why are you thinking backwards man?
How can a man know about the molestation of his own daughter in his own house and keep quiet? Are you so unmerciful? So if you see your own daughter been molested by your wife or anyone else in your own house you will be quite? What then Maks you think you are better than this man? How do Nigerians think very awkwardly. Spare the man that shit!
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by stormborn28(m): 2:15pm On Sep 13
12345baba:
go and marry first then we can have these discussions again
Oga. You are the one who is not making sense here. As a parent you are suppose to discuss with your children about what they did during the day. Even when I travelled, the moment I am back my children will narrate to me what transpired while I was away.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by stormborn28(m): 2:16pm On Sep 13
12345baba:
it's possible he doesn't know. Man go wake up go hustle come back for night with hope the kids àre with there mother and having the best care they can get. The mum can brainwash the kids that was shes doing is good for them and they should keep it within themselves . What does a 7 year old know.
Oga. You are the one who is not making sense here. As a parent you are suppose to discuss with your children about what they did during the day. Even when I travelled, the moment I am back my children will narrate to me what transpired while I was away.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pigmania: 2:38pm On Sep 13
nedekid:
Abeg, Oga you knew. We know the despiration of some of our brodas for criminality and seeking money by any means is real. The wife said she earned over $300k or N420m, where did he think that money came in form if he was not even the mastermind?
The quest for money by those folks ehh? My 60k I paid for compressor of which they sent me a repaired one that messed up my Ac system is still stuck in ladipo, once money enters their hands it never returns. Yesterday I needed a brain box for a Toyota hiace, they said price, I agreed, they said they will send someone to bring it, we pay for his transport, we agreed, next was that he called back that we should send the 155k first before the person comes, we said no, guess what they did not agree lol. Bloody fraudsters and thives, once you send the money they will send a crappy, faulty one, yor try to return it, they will say it was you that spoilt it hence your money is lost!
Bloody criminals group of people.
Guy you knew of the abuse of those kids, man up and take responsibility!
Not 300k ooo, 300 dollars
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pigmania: 2:47pm On Sep 13
pocohantas:
This their work doesn't stop them from having time to cheat, watching football or drinking beer. The only time it is a hindrance is being present parents or guardians to the minors in their household.
Speak for your own husband.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pocohantas(f): 3:02pm On Sep 13
pigmania:
Speak for your own husband.
My husband isn't the one online claiming to be so busy to notice what is happening in his home. So maybe you should fix that.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by Father4all: 3:05pm On Sep 13
A typical useless father
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pigmania: 3:13pm On Sep 13
pocohantas:
My husband isn't the one online claiming to be so busy to notice what is happening in his home. So maybe you should fix that.
I should fix what? I actually quoted you because you said nothing wrong about the woman's actions. You said nothing about the woman at all, na only the man you use as example and generalization for your bias.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by greatermax77(m): 3:30pm On Sep 13
ZombieDredd:
Oga, don't bankers and some workers leave 6am and return 7pm?

What are you on about, don't throw your senses away na.

Has it occured to you the woman might have threatened them ?
They can't know all that's happening in their homes unless they person becomes suspicious and install CCTV.
Many women are weapons fashioned against their husbands. Pray never to marry a Jezebel, She will always conduct herself in lovely manners when the husband is around but turns to demon immediately the man leaves
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by ussv: 3:33pm On Sep 13
This is so sad, it will take the grace of God to keep that child sanity and dignity intact because of the extreme violation she has undergone under the hands of her most trusted protector.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by Prettychild(f): 3:52pm On Sep 13
imsoftcash:
Husband Claims I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter for Adult Content.


"The husband testified to what transpired between his wife and his daughters, stating: 'I had no idea my wife was using our 7-year-old daughter and other children for adult content.'


Read below and watch: 'I had no idea that my wife was using our 7-year-old daughter to create adult content. I discovered it on Thursday evening when someone sent me the video.'


— The husband of the woman who sexually abused her 7-year-old daughter and used her to create adult content stated that he was unaware of his wife’s actions. Watch below

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It’s possible. Most of these men think that providing for the family is the importance of a father so they channel their body, soul and spirit towards that and don’t even have a relationship with their kids
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:12pm On Sep 13
Bluffly:
➜He is aware and he is the one that also arrested her ba? Please think.
They may have had a disagreement over money or something, leading to him contacting the authorities to have her arrested. It is weird for a father or mother not to notice that his own children are being abused in the same home. Children usually talk without filters. So, is he having us believe he never talked to his daughter all throughout the time the abuse had been taking place? 😒😒
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pocohantas(f): 4:29pm On Sep 13
pigmania:
I should fix what? I actually quoted you because you said nothing wrong about the woman's actions. You said nothing about the woman at all, na only the man you use as example and generalization for your bias.
This thread isn't about the woman's actions, but the husband's complicity. Please learn to comprehend and stay on track.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by 12345baba(m): 4:33pm On Sep 13
stormborn28:
Oga. You are the one who is not making sense here. As a parent you are suppose to discuss with your children about what they did during the day. Even when I travelled, the moment I am back my children will narrate to me what transpired while I was away.
it's u that's not making sense Mr Daddy's day out. U have the orientation to that do u think that's everybody that has that. U feel ur wise and everybody should adopt ur style even if it's the best. Basically when u leave home , it's expected ur kids with there mum is the best possible place they can be until proven otherwise. U can even ask and they tell u fine because the mum must have threatened them. U think life straight like that
Mr ITK
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by 12345baba(m): 4:37pm On Sep 13
stormborn28:
Oga. You are the one who is not making sense here. As a parent you are suppose to discuss with your children about what they did during the day. Even when I travelled, the moment I am back my children will narrate to me what transpired while I was away.
shut up again. Ur kids can lie to u at that moment cos they have been threatened. Na u get monopoly to wisdom. Life never play movie for u, that's ur thinking na one way
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pigmania: 4:37pm On Sep 13
pocohantas:
This thread isn't about the woman's actions, but the husband's complicity. Please learn to comprehend and stay on track.
Okay the WOMAN did right, and the MAN was wrong. You can be happy now.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pocohantas(f): 4:40pm On Sep 13
pigmania:
Okay the WOMAN did right, and the MAN was wrong. You can be happy now.
No part of my post said that and bold of you to think my happiness is dependent on the validation of an unverified e-entity. Quite bold...
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by 3kay945(m): 4:42pm On Sep 13
cr7lomo:
How many women hv u guys held culpable after her husband is caught molesting the kids... u all with stand with the woman...
Is woman the head of the home huh

grin

Their position is different, bro.



As I said earlier, the man might not knkw but he shouldn't be exonerated.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pigmania: 4:44pm On Sep 13
pocohantas:
No part of my post said that and bold of you to think my happiness is dependent on the validation of an unverified e-entity. Quite bold...
What has boldness got to do with this? It was ignorant of you to assume and type what you didn't verify about the man, you obviously fired blank shots at the male gender.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pocohantas(f): 4:53pm On Sep 13
pigmania:
What has boldness got to do with this? It was ignorant of you to assume and type what you didn't verify about the man, you obviously fired blank shots at the male gender.
Youngman, it was extremely ignorant of you to assume I had no words for the woman. I did not need you to tell me to speak on the cruelty of the woman when I did. So let this be the last time, you by any means convince yourself, you are that important ), or I post for your applause/validation. Okay? Enjoy the rest of your weekend.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by pigmania: 4:58pm On Sep 13
pocohantas:
Youngman, it was extremely ignorant of you to assume I had no words for the woman. I did not need you to tell me to speak on the cruelty of the woman when I did. So let this be the last time, you by any means convince yourself, you are that important ), or I post for your applause/validation. Okay? Enjoy the rest of your weekend.
Firing shots at my ego now eh? Stop shooting blanks. I never said I was important, and I've not been stalking you to see where and when you condemned the woman's actions. You fabricated an opportunity to also call me 'extremely ignorant' lol, enjoy your evening too.
Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by Kukutente23: 4:58pm On Sep 13
nedekid:
Abeg, Oga you knew. We know the despiration of some of our brodas for criminality and seeking money by any means is real. The wife said she earned over $300k or N420m, where did he think that money came in form if he was not even the mastermind?
The quest for money by those folks ehh? My 60k I paid for compressor of which they sent me a repaired one that messed up my Ac system is still stuck in ladipo, once money enters their hands it never returns. Yesterday I needed a brain box for a Toyota hiace, they said price, I agreed, they said they will send someone to bring it, we pay for his transport, we agreed, next was that he called back that we should send the 155k first before the person comes, we said no, guess what they did not agree lol. Bloody fraudsters and thives, once you send the money they will send a crappy, faulty one, yor try to return it, they will say it was you that spoilt it hence your money is lost!
Bloody criminals group of people.
Guy you knew of the abuse of those kids, man up and take responsibility!
If you insist he knew why is the woman not saying so
It's very easy for the woman to accuse him of being an accomplice don't you think
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