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Before Pregnancy: “I want 4 kids.” 😍👶🏽👶🏽👶🏽👶🏽

Me after Two: 😭😂

My mum had 10 kids and made it look so easy. I honestly thought, “If my mum can have 10, surely I can handle 4.” 😂

But now that I have TWO…
I don't think I can do this anymore! 😭😂

I love my children so much ❤️, but please… two is enough for me! 😂🙏🏽

Mummy, how did you do 10? 😭😂❤️

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https://youtube.com/shorts/ddL2ftdoMQA?si=zlNGWecAB8MNDgG-

So what efforts are you making to prevent getting pregnant again?

Samantha125:
So what efforts are you making to prevent getting pregnant again?

Very important question.

Contraceptive implant.

Okay, but something tells me that you might have another child...😌😌😌

RevenuesBoost:
Very important question.

Contraceptive implant.

Your mum did 10 while mine did 11. They were able to do such numbers because women of their generation were stronger and much more hardworking. This is unlike women of nowadays that have become so weak due to the so called western civilisation.

I remember when my mum was still bearing children. She was always busy working hard in our farms and markets from conception to childbirth. She never sat at a place pressing phones and eating junks the way ladies of nowadays do. The result was that delivery was much easier for her as she delivered immediately following onset of labour.

Myself and some of my siblings were delivered either at home or on her way to maternity. None of her labours lasted up to 10 minutes. Nowadays, we think we are helping our women by over pampering them until they become so lazy and clumsy such that delivery becomes a huge problem for them. So op, if your fear stemmed from labour pains, then I'll advise you to always increase your physical activities during the last trimester of your pregnancy. It helps to make the delivery process more seamless.

Jman06:
Your mum did 10 while mine did 11. They were able to do such numbers because women of their generation were stronger and much more hardworking. This is unlike women of nowadays that have become so weak due to the so called western civilisation.

I remember when my mum was still bearing children. She was always busy working hard in our farms and markets from conception to childbirth. She never sat at a place pressing phones and eating junks the way ladies of nowadays do. The result was that delivery was much easier for her as she delivered immediately following onset of labour.

Myself and some of my siblings were delivered either at home or on her way to maternity. None of her labours lasted up to 10 minutes. Nowadays, we think we are helping our women by over pampering them until they become so lazy and clumsy such that delivery becomes a huge problem for them. So op, if your fear stemmed from labour pains, then I'll advise you to always increase your physical activities during the last trimester of your pregnancy. It helps to make the delivery process more seamless.

Cho..cho..cho...Why not help your wife carry her pregnancies so she can give you 20 kids.

RevenuesBoost:
Very important question.

Contraceptive implant.

Your husband should go for a vasectomy. After going through child birth, women shouldn't stress their bodies with any contraceptive implant.

Samantha125:
Okay, but something tells me that you might have another child...😌😌😌

😭😂😂

Jman06:
Your mum did 10 while mine did 11. They were able to do such numbers because women of their generation were stronger and much more hardworking. This is unlike women of nowadays that have become so weak due to the so called western civilisation.

I remember when my mum was still bearing children. She was always busy working hard in our farms and markets from conception to childbirth. She never sat at a place pressing phones and eating junks the way ladies of nowadays do. The result was that delivery was much easier for her as she delivered immediately following onset of labour.

Myself and some of my siblings were delivered either at home or on her way to maternity. None of her labours lasted up to 10 minutes. Nowadays, we think we are helping our women by over pampering them until they become so lazy and clumsy such that delivery becomes a huge problem for them. So op, if your fear stemmed from labour pains, then I'll advise you to always increase your physical activities during the last trimester of your pregnancy. It helps to make the delivery process more seamless.

Yes exercise is needed but whether you exercise or not, the pain is nobody's mate.
No woman is weak, everyone has their own childbirth experience.
Some even have severe complications, some die in the process.

Some women have bad experiences of which the placenta might want to come out before the baby and CS is the only solution to this and every second counts to whether the mother and baby will survive this.



Most mothers never speak of labour pain because they see it as the strength of a woman.
Ask your Mum to sincerely tell you what labour pain feels like.
You just have to keep your eyes open during the pain because if you close them due to the pain...
It's just like you're living and dying at the same time.

Those days Women barely use family planning methods, so they had no choice than to have multiple kids.

My mum said the church she attended said family planning was sin.
If you ask your Mum, she'll tell you her reasons and if she had her way, she wouldn't have so much children.

After the Labour stress, the kids will still stress you.
Just two and I'm almost losing my mind, how much more 5 or 10 or more.
God abeg!

We4all:
Your husband should go for a vasectomy. After going through child birth, women shouldn't stress their bodies with any contraceptive implant.

Isn't a bad idea but
I wouldn't want him to do that.
It's just like asking me to take out my womb.

Reason: We're still young

RevenuesBoost:
Yes exercise is needed but whether you exercise or not, the pain is nobody's mate.
No woman is weak, everyone has their own childbirth experience.
Some even have severe complications, some die in the process.

Some women have bad experiences of which the placenta might want to come out before the baby and CS is the only solution to this and every second counts to whether the mother and baby will survive this.



Most mothers never speak of labour pain because they see it as the strength of a woman.
Ask your Mum to sincerely tell you what labour pain feels like.
You just have to keep your eyes open during the pain because if you close them due to the pain...
It's just like you're living and dying at the same time.

Those days Women barely use family planning methods, so they had no choice than to have multiple kids.

My mum said the church she attended said family planning was sin.
If you ask your Mum, she'll tell you her reasons and if she had her way, she wouldn't have so much children.

After the Labour stress, the kids will still stress you.
Just two and I'm almost losing my mind, how much more 5 or 10 or more.
God abeg!

Simply accept the fact that women of this generation are too lazy and weak!

Jman06:
Simply accept the fact that women of this generation are too lazy and weak!

Simply accept the fact that no woman is weak and lazy and you need help.

And you are supposed to be somebody's husband right?

Jman you're stressing me out...😒😒😒

Jman06:
Simply accept the fact that women of this generation are too lazy and weak!

Samantha125:
Jman you're stressing me out...😒😒😒

Lolzzz... Samma, how am I stressing you out?

RevenuesBoost:
Simply accept the fact that no woman is weak and lazy and you need help.

And you are supposed to be somebody's husband right?

Of course I'm married and I love my wife so much. That does not change my stance on the subject matter. I have come to accept the changes in our women and make extra efforts to assist my lovely wife during this period of her pregnancy.

You're still asking?😒😒😒

You're giving me a headache.

Jman06:
Lolzzz... Samma, how am I stressing you out?

Samantha125:
You're still asking?😒😒😒

You're giving me a headache.

Please tell me how. Is it because I said that ladies of this generation are too weak and lazy to carry pregnancy?

Yes

Jman06:
Please tell me how. Is it because I said that ladies of this generation are too weak and lazy to carry pregnancy?

Samantha125:
Yes

But that's the reality. Many of them don't even want to get pregnant at all.

They didn't know better,
Child mortality was high and they had to increase their chances. It was also needed for their time.


The same mothers who had 10,12 kids would not encourage their daughters to have 5 sef. They know it is not fun. Men have a picture-perfect image of their mothers sufferings. Though they wouldn't do those things if they are women. That is how smart and selfish many are. So in a country like Nigeria where maternal mortality is one of the highest in the world, you don't need to prove with your womb that you are strong to a man. He should grow a womb and born 20 sef.

RevenuesBoost:
Before Pregnancy: “I want 4 kids.” 😍👶🏽👶🏽👶🏽👶🏽

Me after Two: 😭😂

My mum had 10 kids and made it look so easy. I honestly thought, “If my mum can have 10, surely I can handle 4.” 😂

You look very beautiful.
This newborn came with a lot of glow.

Probably because they're career women and don't have the time to be getting pregnant and staying at home to look after the children or coming home after a long day to be entertaining them... There are men who also don't want to have children because parenthood is a talent not everyone has.

Jman06:
But that's the reality. Many of them don't even want to get pregnant at all.

Samantha125:
Probably because they're career women and don't have the time to be getting pregnant and staying at home to look after the children or coming home after a long day to be entertaining them... There are men who also don't want to have children because parenthood is a talent not everyone has.

Hmmmmm...it just boils down to laziness and weakness of nowadays women! Such mindset is very bad because it does not support continuous existence of life on earth.

Your mothers didn't have any careers and were full time homemakers, so you can't compare the two, there are some men who also don't want children...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

And the beginning always has an end, perhaps it's time for humanity to make way for new species take over the world.

Jman06:
Hmmmmm...it just boils down to laziness and weakness of nowadays women! Such mindset is very bad because it does not support continuous existence of life on earth.

Samantha125:
Your mothers didn't have any careers and were full time homemakers, so you can't compare the two, there are some men who also don't want children...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

And the beginning always has an end, perhaps it's time for humanity to make way for new species take over the world.

Our mothers were not just housewives, many of them were into one occupation or the other. My own mum was into farming and trading. Having careers shouldn't be an excuse for modern women to shun procreation.

You call informal farming and trading whereby you set up your own working hours a career?😂😂😂

And what do you have to say about those men who also don't want to have children?

Jman06:
Our mothers were not just housewives, many of them were into one occupation or the other. My own mum was into farming and trading. Having careers shouldn't be an excuse for modern women to shun procreation.

Samantha125:
You call informal farming and trading whereby you set up your own working hours a career?😂😂😂

And what do you have to say about those men who also don't want to have children?

Some of those men make the decision out of ignorance and many of them regret it on the long run. It's just like every other poorly-informed decisions people make and end up regretting such. No man in his right senses would choose not to have children.

My husband and I only plan on having two and after that, WE'RE DONE!!!

Jman06:
Some of those men make the decision out of ignorance and many of them regret it on the long run. It's just like every other poorly-informed decisions people make and end up regretting such. No man in his right senses would choose not to have children.

pocohantas:
They didn't know better,
Child mortality was high and they had to increase their chances. It was also needed for their time.


The same mothers who had 10,12 kids would not encourage their daughters to have 5 sef. They know it is not fun. Men have a picture-perfect image of their mothers sufferings. Though they wouldn't do those things if they are women. That is how smart and selfish many are. So in a country like Nigeria where maternal mortality is one of the highest in the world, you don't need to prove with your womb that you are strong to a man. He should grow a womb and born 20 sef.




You look very beautiful.
This newborn came with a lot of glow.

So true

Awwwwwwww 🥰🥰🥰
Thanks ❤️