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How Would I Do And Manage With Parents That Poor Senses Of Reasoning by Cleties(op): 9:25am On Oct 10*

It so unbeatable seeing my own parents turning all against me in the house 🏠 cause of their poor mentality,I tried in contributing all my efforts, just to make them know that I'm going to give them a life which they actually deserve to, but It seems like as days is unfolding nothing still changes in them at all with their characters and altitudes towards every thing .I'm beginning to feel strange at them already thinking of how to part a Life without them, doing things aside their knowledge,how would i just be struggling to survive with my parents when I'm the only one taking all responsibility on myself and they don't see it as if I had did anything. every single moment is like a thousand days going all through all this is what really makes mylife unbearable seeing them around always gives me more sadness and I felt it's high time I should left them and start from some where else.

Re: How Would I Do And Manage With Parents That Poor Senses Of Reasoning by Samantha125(f): 1:01pm On Oct 10

Sometimes people don't know what they have until it's gone, do yourself a favour by getting yourself a place to stay and leave that house... Don't call and don't visit, give them their space... And don't send them any money since in their eyes, you're unworthy of taking good care of them.

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Re: How Would I Do And Manage With Parents That Poor Senses Of Reasoning by Kobojunkie: 1:40pm On Oct 10

Cleties:
● It so unbeatable seeing my own parents turning all against me in the house 🏠 cause of their poor mentality,I tried in contributing all my efforts, just to make them know that I'm going to give them a life which they actually deserve to, but It seems like as days is unfolding nothing still changes in them at all with their characters and altitudes towards every thing . I'm beginning to feel strange at them already thinking of how to part a Life without them, doing things aside their knowledge,how would i just be struggling to survive with my parents when I'm the only one taking all responsibility on myself and they don't see it as if I had did anything. every single moment is like a thousand days going all through all this is what really makes mylife unbearable seeing them around always gives me more sadness and I felt it's high time I should left them and start from some where else.

1 . This reads like you are attempting to speak in riddles to me. Are you saying you wish to impose upon and control the lives of your parents? Or are you trying to tell us you are struggling and letting no acknowledgement from them? Which is it? 😐😐

Re: How Would I Do And Manage With Parents That Poor Senses Of Reasoning by Cleties(op): 4:29pm On Oct 10

Kobojunkie:
1 . This reads like you are attempting to speak in riddles to me. Are you saying you wish to impose upon and control the lives of your parents? Or are you trying to tell us you are struggling and letting no acknowledgement from them? Which is it? 😐😐

... :I don't wantto sound as if im rude here but the fact is that my parents are so ungreatfull and appreciative towards every thing I did for them, cause of their poor mindset about life,it feels like I'm that too much personal also with the things that concerns them instead of making myself more better, demostic violence has become an order of the day in our home . Ahh!!?? man gat tired.

Re: How Would I Do And Manage With Parents That Poor Senses Of Reasoning by Kobojunkie: 4:46pm On Oct 10

Cleties:
... :I don't wantto sound as if im rude here but the fact is that my parents are so ungreatfull and appreciative towards every thing I did for them, cause of their poor mindset about life,it feels like I'm that too much personal also with the things that concerns them instead of making myself more better, demostic violence has become an order of the day in our home . Ahh!!?? man gat tired.

What is an example of what it is you do for them that you wish for them to be grateful for? What do you mean by domestic violence? Against your person? Or your parents fighting each other? What is your particular reason for sacrificing your personal happiness for what you claim is for the sake of your parents? 😒😒

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Re: How Would I Do And Manage With Parents That Poor Senses Of Reasoning by ghettochild(m): 10:09pm On Oct 10

U are a grown up who shouldn't live under or with ur parents..
Get out there ...spread ur wings and blossom

Re: How Would I Do And Manage With Parents That Poor Senses Of Reasoning by hakeemhakeem(m): 2:37am On Oct 11

Op you need to response to @kobojunkie question to determine whether your parents are poor mentality as you said. Thank God you will be a parent one day

Re: How Would I Do And Manage With Parents That Poor Senses Of Reasoning by Cleties(op): 12:45am On Oct 19

hakeemhakeem:
Op you need to response to @kobojunkie question to determine whether your parents are poor mentality as you said. Thank God you will be a parent one day

.op as you said kindly give an update on how to change towards my parents cause the pains and suffering is so much..all hearing

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