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One of the greatest skills a Muslim can develop is learning how to control anger.

Let's be honest: people will disrespect you.

Some will insult you. Some will misunderstand you. Some will speak to you in ways you never expected. Some will deliberately provoke you just to see your reaction.

You cannot control how everyone treats you, but you can control how you respond.

Not every insult deserves a reply. Not every argument deserves your participation. Not every provocation deserves your anger.

Sometimes, the best response is silence. Sometimes, it is walking away. And sometimes, it is forgiving someone who does not even deserve an explanation from you.

Allah describes the people of taqwa with these beautiful words:

“Those who restrain their anger and pardon people—and Allah loves those who do good.”

Qur'an 3:134

Notice the two qualities mentioned: restraining anger and pardoning people.

It is one thing to feel angry; it is another thing to allow anger to control your tongue, your actions, and your relationship with others.

And it is even greater to forgive when you have the power to retaliate.

The Prophet once advised a man who asked him for advice:

“Do not become angry.” — Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī

This does not mean you will never feel anger. It means you must learn not to let anger control you.

Before you reply to that insulting message, pause.

Before you say those hurtful words, pause.

Before you destroy a relationship over a moment of anger, pause.

Ask yourself: “Will my response please Allah, or will I regret it later?”

Remember, being able to defeat someone in an argument does not necessarily make you strong. Being able to control yourself when anger rises is a greater victory.

The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The strong person is not the one who overcomes others in wrestling; rather, the strong person is the one who controls himself when angry.” — Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī and Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim

This week, practise restraint.

You don't have to win every argument. You don't have to answer every insult. And you don't have to give everyone the reaction they expect from you.

May Allah purify our hearts, help us control our anger, grant us the strength to forgive, and make us among those He loves.


O Allah, we ask You for good character and seek refuge in You from bad character.

Yes. If you stop to throw stones at every dog that barks at you, when will you reach your destination?

Good teaching from Islam. Closer to what Apostle Paul preached.

On Sunday they will innudate us with mindbending rubbish

Them teach them this them do that.who is fooling who?

Thank God it's another weekend

Very nice piece, life demands patience. Patience is a virtue and not everyone has it.

If it doesn't provoke you, then you can't call it a provocation.
Every provocation will always make you angry but your reaction is all that matters.
You don't need to react to all provocations.

But your anobi never control his own

Here is propt muham controlling his anger

Number 1 self dey control anything controllable

Even prophet of allah was so compassionate, he always control his provocation, that is why you love him!

MrPresident1:
Yes. If you stop to throw stones at every dog that barks at you, when will you reach your destination?

Good teaching from Islam. Closer to what Apostle Paul preached.

On Sunday they will innudate us with mindbending rubbish

Meanwhile this is the kind of a person somebody should be following his teaching every Friday right?

Antiiislam:
Meanwhile this is the kind of a person somebody should be following his teaching every Friday right?

Esau.

Islam will rule you. Will rule your household, will rule you for ever.

attat:
If it doesn't provoke you, then you can't call it a provocation.
Every provocation will always make you angry but your reaction is all that matters.
You don't need to react to all provocations.

You are correct. Your reaction is more important than their action. You can't control them but you can control yourself.

MrPresident1:
Esau.

Islam will rule you. Will rule your household, will rule you for ever.

Is it after your religion crawls back to its hole it'll rule you?

Antiiislam:
Is it after your religion crawls back to its hole it'll rule you?

The serpent you serve too will be crushed. Esau

ANTlSIAAM:
Number 1 self dey control anything controllable

Show us the next HADITHS whether he was pardon or he was killed...
Or are you afraid to tell us what happened to him ...
Should we so you the Solomon own way killed him commander and still sleep with her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 according to the dear bible

MrPresident1:
The serpent you serve too will be crushed. Esau

Let's behold who is serving a serpent. Sufu

Expanse2020:
Show us the next HADITHS whether he was pardon or he was killed...
Or are you afraid to tell us what happened to him ...
Should we so you the Solomon own way killed him commander and still sleep with her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 according to the dear bible

Bobo yii, o si wa laye, emi eyan gun oo

Expanse2020:
Show us the next HADITHS whether he was pardon or he was killed...
Or are you afraid to tell us what happened to him ...
Should we so you the Solomon own way killed him commander and still sleep with her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 according to the dear bible

Enjoy the next hadith mr sule

RightChanneI:
Even prophet of allah was so compassionate, he always control his provocation, that is why you love him!

You deserved death when you commit treason and blasphemy the God...
Did you want me to provide several verses to back it up from the dear bible..

ANTlSIAAM:
But your anobi never control his own

You deserved death when you commit treason and blasphemy the God...
Did you want me to provide several verses to back it up from the dear bible..

Expanse2020:
You deserved death when you commit treason and blasphemy the God...
Did you want me to provide several verses to back it up from the dear bible..

Wait sule depe junior, kini o si nse l'aye? Oye ki o ti join anobi e nibiti o wa

Expanse2020:
You deserved death when you commit treason and blasphemy the God...
Did you want me to provide several verses to back it up from the dear bible..

My thought is that o ti join awon ancestors e nii

Sule depe senior mr doffman dofman, we are happy to see your brother, Expanse2020 back to his feet

Antiiislam:
My thought is that o ti join awon ancestors e nii

You de cry now ...
I said should I brought evidence of blasphemy from God out from the bible 🤣😂 you cannot say yes

Expanse2020:
You de cry now ...
I said should I brought evidence of blasphemy from God out from the bible 🤣😂 you cannot say yes

Sule, sebi anobi e dey control his provocation?

Why you wan shift the goal post bayi?

Expanse2020:
You deserved death when you commit treason and blasphemy the God...
Did you want me to provide several verses to back it up from the dear bible..

You first need it for insulting Jesus!

RightChanneI:
You first need it for insulting Jesus!

Insulting Jesus 🤣🤣🤣
Abeg which one of the Jesus are you talking about
There a lot of Jesus we know
Mel Gibson
Mike and others
Or the messiah (peace be upon him) if it is this one they never born any Muslims to abuse or speak ill about him unless he want to die...
Muslim can't ever abuse or speak ill any prophets is against our law...

Unless you are talking about the comedian and the book written with 1000 of unknown authors call bible ...

You should know the difference guy
Antiislam

Expanse2020:
Insulting Jesus 🤣🤣🤣
Abeg which one of the Jesus are you talking about
There a lot of Jesus we know
Mel Gibson
Mike and others
Or the messiah (peace be upon him) if it is this one they never born any Muslims to abuse or speak ill about him unless he want to die...
Muslim can't ever abuse or speak ill any prophets is against our law...

Unless you are talking about the comedian and the book written with 1000 of unknown authors call bible ...

You should know the difference guy
Antiislam

Maybe black Jesus 🤣🤣

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