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BigYash:
Baba wan his name included in the will..


40years ago. Even if he nack his father side chick.. e no reach to keep beef for forty years now.. abi he spoil his father juju?

I am just thinking

You think na everybody be like you, agbojul’ogun (waiting for properties). I bet you don’t know how much he’s worth for you to say that Sir Kay wants a share from his father’s wealth after almost 40 years of separation😂 If you know what it means not to have a father’s figure you won’t open mouth talking this gibberish. Okoya wey get heart like stone like the dimwit in Aso Rock. What am I even saying, they are birds of the same feather.

What could a child of 6 years must have committed to deny him forgiveness? I have been seeking for explanation for over 20 years but all I get is silence from him

MarkNsukkaBread:
For your father to take such a hard stance against you means you were a very wayward child who caused him great pains

How e take concern Nigeria economy.

Oh wow, I thought Shade Okoya was the only wife.

Polygamy and wahala be like butter and bread indeed.

folake4u:
Oh wow, I thought Shade Okoya was the only wife.

Polygamy and wahala be like butter and bread indeed.

You see how the first wives have been completely erased from the narrative.

Probably the only two prominent Nigerians I can think of who married second wives and did not disappear their first wives were GEJ and Abiola

for everyone else first wife may as well have never existed.

AngelicBeing:
Really, tell me more oooooo

The story is on the pages of news paper

BigYash:
Baba wan his name included in the will..

You sabi book, well well. 😂
The guy don come see say time don near for im Papa to kick bucket, na im the guy man come dey find peace by fire, by force. At least, if im Papa drop #1 billion dollars for am, e go make sense. 😎

MarkNsukkaBread:
When it gets to your turn you can go and kneel down to beg your son because you want to appear unAfrican!

Decorum you man or girl. I asked a question and you have no answers why not hush 🤫?

Biodun556:
The story is on the pages of news paper

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

GloriousGbola:
You see how the first wives have been completely erased from the narrative.

Probably the only two prominent Nigerians I can think of who married second wives and did not disappear their first wives were GEJ and Abiola

for everyone else first wife may as well have never existed.

I'm surprised that he has a first wife o.

You're right, GEJ never hid his own and we like him for that.

Atiku Abubakar as well. I know Titi Abubakar, he has other wives too.

folake4u:
I'm surprised that he has a first wife o.

You're right, GEJ never hid his own and we like him for that.

Atiku Abubakar as well. I know Titi Abubakar, he has other wives too.

For fatai Okoya to be doing this in public and not private tells you hanty shade has completely puzzu blocked him from his father

You women dey try sha. Or maybe not. Close your eyes and hold your breath for 30 seconds


I doubt the man's fortune will outlive him. All I see shade and the pikins doing is glam lifestyle. There are a lot of opportunities to take eleganza to the next level but they are stuck in the 80s.

Bobo no wan miss out from the man's will. Come o, dis Sade no go get somebody wey go dey help her farm inside her farm? I'm sure the husband no fit farm again and the babe still dey farmable.

I don't know what happened between the Okoyas, but I know it's not good to take sides when our parents are going through a separation or divorce. Taking sides can affect the child or children who support one parent's decision over the other's. The child can also be the most affected and the one who loses the most, especially if the other parent is filthy rich, like Mr. Okoya.

Is your mum still alive? If yes ask her some deep questions about what went wrong. 2. Are you truly sure he is your biological father?? These questions may sound stupid but if truly you have explored all avenues to make peace with your dad and yet he refused to forgive you, then there is more to it.






[quote author=Jamesvito post=140958045]I have experienced the same pains. For the past 30 years ive been on that lane. What's so painful is that I have gone to beg for forgiveness for countless times yet no response. I have sent siblings nothing, sent other extended family members yet no result. Up till now, I can't really say what went wrong becos the issue started very very early in my childhood. The most annoying aspect is that the same man is the one going about demarketing me, his son. I have since decided to hand over everything to God.

You no go beg ke, when country hard die and rent don go up scatter. Many of us common folks no get anybody to run to, na God dey sustain us.

Alhaji Okoya should please forgive him, to hear is woman, to forgive is divine.

folake4u:
I'm surprised that he has a first wife o.

You're right, GEJ never hid his own and we like him for that.

Atiku Abubakar as well. I know Titi Abubakar, he has other wives too.

Barrister Folake how far now? We no dey see your break light for our area again.

folake4u:
Oh wow, I thought Shade Okoya was the only wife.

Polygamy and wahala be like butter and bread indeed.

The logical non-emotional peace-loving gender that avoids drama.

Fiscus105:
Prodigal son thought, baba would quickly kpai, so that he would come back and should step mom and rest of family shege promax and started leaving larger than life, ...... squandered what baba used several years to labour for in twinkle of an eye.

But God spares baba life, and prodigal son continuing rotten and roaming about aimlessly around the street, he quickly change gear to reverse mode.

After 40 years at age 66..?

You gotta be kidding me

na in yoruba culture

We4all:
I don't know what happened between them, but I have observed that most polygamous and promiscuous Nigerian men are quick to deny and abandon their children, if they are not in good terms with their mothers.

So many men have kids outside wedlock which they know about, but they don't care about these kids. It's insane to treat your kids differently regardless of whether they were born outside wedlock or not.

We4all:
I don't know what happened between them, but I have observed that most polygamous and promiscuous Nigerian men are quick to deny and abandon their children, if they are not in good terms with their mothers.

So many men have kids outside wedlock which they know about, but they don't care about these kids. It's insane to treat your kids differently regardless of whether they were born outside wedlock or not.

You can't understand till you are in their shoes...you can't claim a shoe will size you, you first need to.be able to afford, meaning you are not qualified to judge in this case.

dominique:
Sade by her own admission is the 6th wife, other wives have exited the house for her though remained married to Alhaji. Whether it's love or juju, whatever it is she used to hold Alhaji is very very strong

Use juju hold Alhaji?

Alhaji wey get scorpion picture all over his commercial properties?

That one go hard 😂😂😂😂

GloriousGbola:
For fatai Okoya to be doing this in public and not private tells you hanty shade has completely puzzu blocked him from his father

You women dey try sha. Or maybe not. Close your eyes and hold your breath for 30 seconds


I doubt the man's fortune will outlive him. All I see shade and the pikins doing is glam lifestyle. There are a lot of opportunities to take eleganza to the next level but they are stuck in the 80s.

Hahahaha, what if Aunty Shade has nothing to do with the whole family drama, and Alhaji is acting on his own accord?

Truly, polygamous lifestyle isn't all that glamourous.

Maeve7:
The logical non-emotional peace-loving gender that avoids drama.

Sis! 😂😂😂😂

It is women that are the emotional ones actually. Funny people.

How have you been, Mama.

folake4u:
Hahahaha, what if Aunty Shade has nothing to do with the whole family drama, and Alhaji is acting on his own accord?

Truly, polygamous lifestyle isn't all that glamourous.

https://www.nairaland.com/8768887/shade-okoya-blocked-me-seeing

The estranged first son of billionaire businessman, Chief Razaq Okoya, Fatai Okoya, has opened up on his alleged attempts to reconcile with his father.

Speaking during a TikTok Live session following his public apology, Fatai said he had repeatedly tried to reach his father, sometimes through his friends, but struggled to get close to him.

“I have tried very much to get in touch with my father,” he said, adding, “Most of the time, I was not allowed to get close to him.”

Recounting his experience at his father’s 86th birthday celebration on January 12, 2026, Fatai said he received a VIP welcome but was allegedly stopped from approaching his father by his wife, Shade Okoya.

Hanty Shade is securing the bag for her pikins

thomas2024:
You think na everybody be like you, agbojul’ogun (waiting for properties). I bet you don’t know how much he’s worth for you to say that Sir Kay wants a share from his father’s wealth after almost 40 years of separation😂 If you know what it means not to have a father’s figure you won’t open mouth talking this gibberish. Okoya wey get heart like stone like the dimwit in Aso Rock. What am I even saying, they are birds of the same feather.

You no wise. If say money dey reach human,why politicians still dey loot your future? Even the richest in Africa still dey find more money till date.. How much is his son worth ,make we start from there?

GloriousGbola:
https://www.nairaland.com/8768887/shade-okoya-blocked-me-seeing



Hanty Shade is securing the bag for her pikins

Na wa. Wahala really wear bone straight wig.

BigYash:
You no wise. If say money dey reach human,why politicians still dey loot your future? Even the richest in Africa still dey find more money till date.. How much is his son worth ,make we start from there?

Na you wise pass now. I sure comprehension skills dey worry you, no wonder you pass through miracle centre to write SSCE

Wether Shade likes it or not, Fatai is the first son o...

The best thing that baba can do is execute a valid will before departure else Sade go fight taya.

tnerro1:
Shade no go gree for am , na fight to finish be this, you wan come chance her first son at this late stage

folake4u:
Sis! 😂😂😂😂

It is women that are the emotional ones actually. Funny people.

How have you been, Mama.

Too much blood going down there, too little left for the brain.

I’ve been good my darling. How are you?

Maeve7:
Too much blood going down there, too little left for the brain.

I’ve been good my darling. How are you?

😂😂😂😂

The logical ones indeed.

Glad to hear that, Mama. I'm fine as well, thanks for asking. 🤗

Maeve7:
Too much blood going down there, too little left for the brain.

I’ve been good my darling. How are you?

Leave us jare.