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MasterTeeUSA:
and you know that how?

No ne unilag aristo that year... forget matter... shade wey grow for slum .... na better concoction she use grab that man....on top ashawo work ooo... we know the story .. I de unilag that year ... the man come give am mitsubishi montero that year ....

He must have exhausted all private avenues, because it is clear the old man doesn't want to speak to him.

This public thing is just manipulation to mount public pressure on the man and his wife.

This will even vex his father more.

LagosOrigin:
Are you a baby?

How can a Second wife abi 3rd wife stop you the first son from seeing your father ?

I taya oo! Just walk into the house and demand to see your father byforce. What nonsense!

There is no justification for the nonsense that Fatai did. So you left your father for 40yrs because a lady whom you are older than got married to your dad who is a muslim and can marry as many as he can. So what has changed - did the wife die or has she left his dad? Baba Fatai is not a responsible son to Chief Okoya.

ajalawole:
if your papa at 45 marry a young wife who is 20yrs and she talk to you anyhow, how you go feel with papcy. Am sure fatai isn't the only one having problems with the dad in that house, just that he speaks up that was why.

Why does he need social media to talk to or see his father.

What nonsense!

MasterTeeUSA:
The son has not learnt any lesson. If your father wanted to speak to you, he would reach out. The wife cannot stop him from speaking to you. It is like saying your Dad does not have a mind of his own which is a subtle insult. You may think you are degrading your father's wife, but you are really insulting your Dad by claiming he has no manhood. You should focus on building your life, and stop trying to reconcile with the hope of getting a part of his will or money. Children must learn to be successful in their own rights. Your parents' wealth is not an entitlement. Clearly, he is still a boy without much sense.

That person you're calling boy is in his 60s. Please show some respect

omooba969:
It's not sensible to make such a bold statement.

haaaaaa, no talk like dat o. Na Sade get the remote to Okoya's heart. Whatever she says or tells Okoya is the first. If care is not taken, this guy might not inherit anything from his father.

enemyofprogress:
haaaaaa, no talk like dat o. Na Sade get the remote to Okoya's heart. Whatever she says or tells Okoya is the first. If care is not taken, this guy might not inherit anything from his father.

He is not a guy, he is in his 60s. Please show some respect

thomas2024:
Is stealing his daddy money a big deal? Did he steal a stranger’s money? Oga I don steal my popsi money, I don steal my momsi money, did they disown me?

Tell me if you’ve not done such?

And disobedience to your father not to marry a particular woman is? Since you capable to do it on your own, I think you don't need to come back for reconciliation, after all, you are already grandparents.

Meanwhile, his father would allow him to run his business aground, since stealing is not a sin in your own family.

tonykel1:
When I was working in Eleganza with Tunde Okoya, the second son of Razaki Okoya, who was the Director in the Eleganza Indsustries way back, I recall that it was Tunde the second son who use to give this guy stippends to live on. As a matter of fact, Fatai Okoya was living in the official quarters of Elegaza located inside Site II, close to Billings Way, Oregun. This matter has been long......

He is not a guy, he is in his 60s. Please show some respect

thomas2024:
Is stealing his daddy money a big deal? Did he steal a stranger’s money? Oga I don steal my popsi money, I don steal my momsi money, did they disown me?

Tell me if you’ve not done such?

And this oone would wonder why he has tinubu like rulers ruling over him.

His dad's business employs people...stealing the business money could harm the business, and put people's jobs at risk.

(I hope you won't excuse your kids stealing money from you o...because in my experience, such kids graduate from that to big time crime)

How can 42 - 44 year old Shade block this egbon from contacting his father? He wasn’t ready at the time. He should tell the truth.

Update: I don old. Shade who was 28 years old yesterday is now 49. Why the man never find young blood?

The story clear me say no be that woman born that child.

I love this thread ;Ddifferent perspectives.

I love this thread different perspectives.

hush15:
There is one other way to get your father's attention: go and be successful. He may never admit it but he will be fuckin proud of you.

That was probably what he thought, but things don't always work that way.

When you've offended your father, come and be successful without asking for forgiveness, let the universe be seeing you.

What kind of nonsense is this? A woman your father married when you were already in university, or even finished, blocked you from your father? I am not doubting the possibility, but you were already a man when your father married her; since then, now you are a grandfather and still crying? What's that?

enemyofprogress:
haaaaaa, no talk like dat o. Na Sade get the remote to Okoya's heart. Whatever she says or tells Okoya is the first. If care is not taken, this guy might not inherit anything from his father.

@bolded...but she's his wife fgs. So who's supposed to have the remote to Chief's heart if not his beloved wife?

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Noted. I will show him some respect but he needs to respect his father as well. Public display of apology also shows he is not matured.

AfahaAbia:
That person you're calling boy is in his 60s. Please show some respect

Jamorezzi:
The story clear me say no be that woman born that child.

Which woman? Ogbeni, are you high?

thomas2024:
I’m sure women have not gotten your remote button or mumu button to say “it’s a crass way of thinking”. If women get you ehn, let me swallow my spit

Lol, so when husband and wife are working together in harmony, it means the wife has got his remote button...inukwa!

MasterTeeUSA:
Noted. I will show him some respect but he needs to respect his father as well. Public display of apology also shows he is not matured.

I think he's ill-advised.

Fiscus105:
And disobedience to your father not to marry a particular woman is? Since you capable to do it on your own, I think you don't need to come back for reconciliation, after all, you are already grandparents.

Meanwhile, his father would allow him to run his business aground, since stealing is not a sin in your own family.

The cause of the father disowning this man has nothing to do with who he married. The man is lying. I’m sure he was a criminal as a young man that did so many wayward things that his father had to just disown him for his peace of mind. He was probably on drugs and stealing up and down the place on a daily basis. Shameless man. Imagine at 66 coming to do this shameful social media thing. And the useless wife sef follow dey talk. Just imagine the entitlement

kpankpangolo:
How can 42 - 44 year old Shade block this egbon from contacting his father? He wasn’t ready at the time. He should tell the truth.

42 to 44 say wetin? Meobizy, she’s your age mate. She’s 50

cr7lomo:
No ne unilag aristo that year... forget matter... shade wey grow for slum .... na better concoction she use grab that man....on top ashawo work ooo... we know the story .. I de unilag that year ... the man come give am mitsubishi montero that year ....

As old as you are...capping nonsense!

omooba969:
Even if Chief chop vegetable, kíni big deal? Shade has been looking after that man and his empire for donkey years, and they have children together. So na now una dey com with vegetable story - wicked Nigerians!

Remember, Shade is a bonafide legally wedded wife of Chief Rasaq Okoya.

I continue to maintain that it is a woman behind this moniker

Wotowotoman:
I continue to maintain that it is a woman behind this moniker

Are you the famous 'Olu Maintain'?

omooba969:
Are you the famous 'Olu Maintain'?

Yes ma. How you take know ma?

tonykel1:
When I was working in Eleganza with Tunde Okoya, the second son of Razaki Okoya, who was the Director in the Eleganza Indsustries way back, I recall that it was Tunde the second son who use to give this guy stippends to live on. As a matter of fact, Fatai Okoya was living in the official quarters of Elegaza located inside Site II, close to Billings Way, Oregun. This matter has been long......

Looks like those kind of lazy children that refused to work harder for their own keeps.

He should have done well and somewhere outside Nigeria doing business.

Older children should stop unnecessary distractions and disturbance of their aging parents. He should have his own life, businesses, jobs and family to be content with at 66yo and not start or carry on with old drama.

No need cycling back to your old father or mother for anything. You are either coming to gift something or stay on your own.

very much so...and an embarrassment. Where are the Elders in their community? Couldn't he had reached out to father's friends and business associates privately?

omooba969:
I think he's ill-advised.

At 66years of age.Na for baba Okoya birthday you want to reconcile 40 years estrangement be that. Make it make sense now.

Shade no be your issue.