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Some times, it's not easy as you said.
I have never dated who I don't like.

Along the line, I will discover that I don't have a future with such person.

Sometimes it take months or years.

That doesn't make me a wicked person.

The reason why I stay long in the relationship is to see whether there will be a change.

Leemzyy:
No matter the millions he invested in her, he has no little right to do what he did, I hope he rot in jail and spend the rest of his miserable life there

u go fit spend 50k for person?the girl ate money and also wanted to go take the last preek.she got what she deserved.no rip to waste.E good make women Dey die small small.All una eyes Dey men money wey una papa and brothers no get.U hardly here of such abroad.Nigerian women are thief’s

ceejay80s:
Where u read this one from?
Hints or hearts magazine?

Things like that dey happen plenty times naa.

Jennyclay:
then you unstable emotional broke Men should stop gifting what you can’t let go to a woman.

If you gift me anything in the relationship and you want to collect them back after breakup, I will just report you to the police.

It’s a gift and it belongs to me forever

na ur type die so.the ones who believe they are so smart.i know ur type.

highchief1:
u go fit spend 50k for person?the girl ate money and also wanted to go take the last preek.she got what she deserved.no rip to waste.E good make women Dey die small small.All una eyes Dey men money wey una papa and brothers no get.U hardly here of such abroad.Nigerian women are thief’s

Nigeria Men are Skirt chasers

Why not do the needful by calculating all you have collected and refund to have peace of mind instead of your suggestion. Your suggestions still makes you feels like you are smart and is dangerous for your safety either you broke the communication or not, as far as you are still alive and he needs to treat your fuckup, your file will be reopen.

Return all you used emotional blackmail to collect as men don't give for love but for interest and once you took away is interest assurance isn't certain again.

Jennyclay:
May God continue to deliver us from evil men

In most cases, your “Ex” is ur number 1 enemy, I wonder why you break up with ur ex and you guys are still communicating especially when he spent heavily on you

The more you communicate with your ex, the more he keeps remembering how much he has spent on you and want a revenge

in general the culture weather in family marriage or business is deliberately designed to turn people against one another.
how many movies promote the kind of behavior that led to this.
popular culture is designed to be an enemy of the population turning everybody against each other.
so this is not over yet.

Gbadugbakun:
The average Nigerian girl is extremely greedy, wicked and heartless.

Lmao.

Nigerian girls should learn from this, not every man will take breakup easily especially if he spent alot on you, I don't support the foolish guy act but Nigerian girls should stop being greedy. if you know you don't like a man that is sponsoring you, let him know immediately.

Imagine in This Tinubu Terrible Economy, A Young Man Who Was Able to Set a Woman By Providing An Accommodation And Setting up a Business For Her to Prove His Love For Her, Then in Turn Because of Greed Of The Girl And Her Parents Rejected The Chima Guy And Switched to Another Suitor, Even Planing to Formalize The Marriage By December Without Considering Chima's Sacrifice, Pains, Betrayal, Rejection, And Heart Broke, The Parents Failed in Their Duties, Let Them Also Accept The Consequences of Their Failures, And Let Chima Also Face The Wrath Of The Law,
New Suitor Should Move on, And Carryout a Thorough Background check Before Going to His Next Relationship.

GloriousGbola:
is there any link or is this another made up story to absolve the guy of blame?

you may as well add more spice to the story - he bought her a range rover

does this guy look like someone who has millions just sitting around like that?
why don't you show us evidence of his liquidity? every other day people like you say they knacked a fish head girl for price of indomie. your story is not adding up,
also, since as nigerians we celebrate transactional relationships, does this mean if a woman killed a guy who jilted her - we should also open threads warning men about the consequences of having sex with woman with no plans to marry them?

perpetual baddie fumbler geng unwilling to take responsibility

RapMoney's tale is false. It is a case of her cheating, and he killed her, not that he spent millions on her and she jilted him. Why people deliberately spread lies about an innocent and dead person is unbelievable. Wizarab10 did the same thing about Augusta until her brother cleared the air.

My own has always been simple: men should spend on themselves and their immediate ones. If a woman says no, you let go. No wonder these lads keep getting arrested in the yukay and abroad in general. It means literally all would get arrested in a few months if they live in Japan, a country where young ladies wear all manner of short skirts and bum shorts. The bum shorts I have seen are unbelievable. Camel toe na water.

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From their TikTok handles, he was a verifiable plumber while she was a fashion designer.

OriOko88:
Why is heartbreaks abound in ur family like this. Hope no be curse. Why girls dey live una gan? Ur cousin,then you again. Go for deliverance o

and you are talking as if heartbreaking is a new norm. You aren't even ashamed of yourself saying heartbreak is a curse.

Gerrard59:
RapMoney's tale is false. It is a case of her cheating, and he killed her, not that he spent millions on her and she jilted him. Why people deliberately spread lies about an innocent and dead person is unbelievable. Wizarab10 did the same thing about Augusta until her brother cleared the air.



From their TikTok handles, he was a verifiable plumber while she was a fashion designer.

these riff raff spend time they should be using to better themselves making up incel stories about women.

but the real tell is that so many women who actually do decide to go for lower tier guys get murdered or killed often for rituals

Honestly, this is why I want the legal system to work well and swiftly in the country. If a girl jilted you and does not fulfil her promise to marry you, even after all the sunk cost, you sue her in court. The alternative, which is in vogue, is to call out the girl on social media platforms. At least, that leaves an online footprint.

Lastly, stop taking on parental responsibilities. These girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunties. Let them be responsible for their upkeep.

GloriousGbola:
these riff raff spend time they should be using to better themselves making up incel stories about women.

but the real tell is that so many women who actually do decide to go for lower tier guys get murdered or killed often for rituals

Yes. In fact, upon seeing the news, I reminded myself that it is the poorer/illegal guys who commit heinous crimes more than well-off men. I am yet to see a well-educated/good looking man caught for rituals.

So the tale of "stay with your poor boyfriend in order to avoid ritualists" is false.

My concern in all of this is the slow legal system. Just shoot on sight. The next thing, he would escape as the other man in Imo. Nigerians should thank God that I cannot be a politician because people go die tire.

GloriousGbola:
these riff raff spend time they should be using to better themselves making up incel stories about women.

but the real tell is that so many women who actually do decide to go for lower tier guys get murdered or killed often for rituals

The same 'riff-raffs' have achieved more in life than your biological father.

ajalawole:
Hmmm. My cousin did introduction all the way from Kwara to Kano October last year..
January this year, the lady say she isn't doing again. She gets married 3months later after breakup with my cousin.
I don't blame the lady, but most parents. Imaging Kwara to Kano state and her parents shamelessly accept another man from hir within 5month.

you prefer they may and she slit his throat when he's sleeping

Cromagnon:
you prefer they may and she slit his throat when he's sleeping

why did she start what she can't finish. Did you know how many hours is Kwara to Kano. To alone was almost 50k last year, so you can tell the amount spend.

ajalawole:
my ex left me after 2020 lockdown, we never have any issues just that her parents don't want her to get married then. She is married now, I even send her son first year birthday cake.. you women don't actually know what you want, na sweet things dey kpai Una last last.

Damn...even after all she did,you still went ahead to send her son birthday cake?

Were you not loved at home while growing up or something? What kind of simpism is this?

Your moniker keeps finding new ways to disgrace manhood

lezz:
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Your message should be for men to not commit financially on a girl who they haven't married and not to girls who are already there to look for the highest bidder.

Both you and the op are not wrong……The issue can be looked at from both angles…….

Dont overly commit to pple because u dont know if they are just using you….
And dont think you are smart by using pple, because u dont know if they will leave justice to the universe to decide or they will run you street by their own hand

Gbadugbakun:
The average Nigerian girl is extremely greedy, wicked and heartless.

Bro I know this girl in person.

Broo, this guy didn't do nothing for that girl,, where did y'all get this wrong narrative from?

Firstly her surname is "Umeora".

Secondly this guy didn't do anything for the girl, rather it was the girl that was doing so much for him!.


Let's just say both of them did the little they could for themselves,, but the girl did more!!.


She was just unalived maybe because this guy is way too jealous

highchief1:
u go fit spend 50k for person?the girl ate money and also wanted to go take the last preek.she got what she deserved.no rip to waste.E good make women Dey die small small.All una eyes Dey men money wey una papa and brothers no get.U hardly here of such abroad.Nigerian women are thief’s

Bro,that guy didn't do anything for this girl in question.

I know them personally

luminouz:
Damn...even after all she did,you still went ahead to send her son birthday cake?

Were you not loved at home while growing up or something? What kind of simpism is this?

Your moniker keeps finding new ways to disgrace manhood

Scarcity bro.
Scarcity

I just dey pity d guy he acted reckless but our Nigerian girls can make u do the unthinkable

Bouncing2:
Bro,that guy didn't do anything for this girl in question.

I know them personally

that’s serious.u know I’m not even using them to talk cos I don’t even know them.na case study I Dey use them do.some girls Dey like eat their cake and have it.

Gbadugbakun:
The average Nigerian girl is extremely greedy, wicked and heartless.

Very true i can confirm this statement with my experience those creatures are very mean and soulless only God can truely give a young man the grace to find a nigerian lady who have some conscience in them.

Jennyclay:
then you unstable emotional broke Men should stop gifting what you can’t let go to a woman.

If you gift me anything in the relationship and you want to collect them back after breakup, I will just report you to the police.

It’s a gift and it belongs to me forever

and you think the police will support you ?🤣🤣🤣🤣

Treasure17:
That's why it doesn't make sense to invest in a lady you are not married to. Men should stop all these nonsense behavior. Women are only loyal to their feelings and not your sacrifice.

Prison await you young man.

You are just advocating for something that's not possible in this country everyone in nigeria already knows everything in this country is transactional including relationships. It's practically impossible to tell a young nigerian man who is doing well financially for himself not to spend a dime for the woman he loves he knows that's just the only practical way to prove his love that she will appreciate if he doesnt spend other guys are definitely waiting out there to spend on that lady to win her love.

I'm very happy with what happened to the girl. I'm very very happy. I pray the guys gets a lesser sentence.

W1cked naija gals must learn by force