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Go to any mechanic shop and learn the skill. Go into any welding shop and learn. There are many skills. Learn one or many and you will never go hungry.

gracias124:
there is this place where I worked for over 10 years, they maltreat and manipulate me, whenever I get angry and left they would say hunger will bring me back. 9 days ago they refused to give me the money I worked for, I was angry and left they said the same thing, and tomorrow I will go back due to intense hunger as they predicted, God knows I hate that place but it seems like my life depends on that place.
I feel like I am cursed, I am angry but I don't have any option, I feel like crying thinking about going back there.
but I can't stand the humiliation I am facing due to hunger.

meobizy:
Go to any mechanic shop and learn the skill. Go into any welding shop and learn. There are many skills. Learn one or many and you will never go hungry.

I should have learned since but now I think it's too late for me

You haven’t tried and have already killed the suggestion. You like suffer be that.

gracias124:
I should have learned since but now I think it's too late for me

You are not cursed, you are being mistreated, and those are two very different things. Ten years of withheld pay and manipulation is exploitation, not bad luck, and hunger is the reason you keep going back, not a lack of sense. Start by writing down every month you were not paid, with dates, because that record matters if you ever report it to a labour office or seek help. Then give yourself a small, realistic way out: pick one skill, learn it in short daily sessions using free lessons online, and build slowly while you are still earning. It is not too late, people start over much later than this. Talk to someone you trust about how heavy this feels, and please do not carry it alone.