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My mum ordered me to divorce my wife 8 months ago . Reason is that her mum doesnt respect her and she goes to sooth sayers that they have possed me even though i have taken her back the marriage two months ago which i kept in secret and she was one month pregnant then.
She just put to bed last week. Now we are blessed with 2 daughters. I engaged my uncles to reconcile the matter . They even told my mum that they are taking back my wife for me by force but my siblings keep frustrating it. Thier argument is that if i take her back my mum will be embarrassed in the eyes of her enemies. They fear of comments that will follow it. Even from day one they fuelled the matter.
My mum told me if i take back my wife she will disown me. Please advice

After 2 kids and your mother take your wife her enemy not that your do give your problem at home.I think calm down your mum with the intervention of your pastor or elders.

You are the man bro! Your first family is the one u organised by you(i.e u, ur partner and ur kids).. 1st xtended family(ur siblings and ur parents) is also important since they are once ur first family..

As a man in this case, establish what u wnt first,. If u love ur wife, then take her wholeheartly and you can later work on those ur siblings and ur parents.. Sooner or later, they will see what u're seein in dat ur wife nd they will support u.. Just trend softly so dat nobody will be hurt