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Re: Marrying For Comfort by EfemenaXY: 2:19pm On Jan 16, 2013
Biko Debrief 'n Baby123, pls take it easy on me this afternoon!

Limited Edition ko, Limited Edition ni! grin grin

Ladies, good thing you're sharing your experiences here. If nothing, but to serve as a deterrent / warning to other potential victims too. This whole fiasco na survival of the fittest smartest.

Mtcheew.
Re: Marrying For Comfort by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jan 16, 2013
Yels Na, Limited Edition Na, can you identify the guy he bought it from in the hold up? Off course na limited edition
Re: Marrying For Comfort by victorian(f): 2:48am On Jan 17, 2013
grin cheesy. I can't help but keep laughing here......reading all these experiences....its so bad amongst guys , that successful hardworking women, should over Soji, shine yur eyes and brain or else na one chance, straight up..!
They full ground remain.. sad
Re: Marrying For Comfort by SisiKill1: 3:04am On Jan 17, 2013
debrief08: Yels Na, Limited Edition Na, can you identify the guy he bought it from in the hold up? Off course na limited edition
Bwahahahahahahahaha. ....okay this is hilarious.

Limited edition! cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Marrying For Comfort by Charliemorgano(op): 8:16am On Jan 17, 2013
Abj Runz Guys,I met one when i went for an bank test in abuja in 2008,i waz walking down along wuse 2,One car just stopped and was horning when i went closer it was my mate during my university days,i almost fainted when i saw him he was looking like a gov's son driving a posh car he consoled me that despite my hardwork in uni i still couldn't get a job,he said he does suppy for FG,that God has really blsd him,i gave him my CV,i later realized he stays with one hajia (50s) and work in her firm.
Re: Marrying For Comfort by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jan 17, 2013
Charlie, Lol, I am sure you must have been envying him lol, till you saw the Hajiya.

I always tell my friends and relatives not to envy anybody living in Abuja because that flashy car you don't know what they do to get it.
Live honestly according to your means. Hubby and I ran into his service ate with an elderly lady who was obviously trying to be young but we imagined it was his mom or Aunt, I was even squating to greet her when he stopped me and introduced her as his fiancee, meaanwhile he drives around in flashy cars, Range Rover, BMW , Bentley etc.
Young Man who can manage his small honda and live well but for where, greed and lack of contentment.

I found out that the woman is a perm Secretary and he fronts for her while providing other services. He does her contracts etc.
Recently EFCC started a hunt for him and he had to run to his village.

Let's all be content and careful, Through hard work and discipline God will shine his light on you
Re: Marrying For Comfort by EfemenaXY: 4:07pm On Jan 17, 2013
debrief08: Charlie, Lol, I am sure you must have been envying him lol, till you saw the Hajiya.

I always tell my friends and relatives not to envy anybody living in Abuja because that flashy car you don't know what they do to get it.
Live honestly according to your means. Hubby and I ran into his service ate with an elderly lady who was obviously trying to be young but we imagined it was his mom or Aunt, I was even squating to greet her when he stopped me and introduced her as his fiancee, meaanwhile he drives around in flashy cars, Range Rover, BMW , Bentley etc.
Young Man who can manage his small honda and live well but for where, greed and lack of contentment.

I found out that the woman is a perm Secretary and he fronts for her while providing other services. He does her contracts etc.
Recently EFCC started a hunt for him and he had to run to his village.

Let's all be content and careful, Through hard work and discipline God will shine his light on you
Debrief.

Why na? You don start again o! grin grin grin

***giggles uncontrollably...***
Re: Marrying For Comfort by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jan 17, 2013
Efe, You are calling Debrief meanwhile na Charlie start am na.
His big boy friend "pitying" Him for not getting a job wey get permamnent job servicing Hajiya, Na Debrief you come dey call
Re: Marrying For Comfort by armyofone(m): 7:59pm On Jan 17, 2013
Kai! ga ni ga Allah fa.

Sisi kill, you didn't add Ladies and their propensity to consume and collect kudi grin

who want to marry for suffer before? not our portion in Jesus of Nazareth name, amen.
Re: Marrying For Comfort by avr247: 11:01am On Jan 18, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Rotflmao @ Debrief. OMG, are you kidding? I had one pestering me. I said I was not available, but he was not hearing. Then he procceeded to try to sell me some of their banK products and in the same vein propose marriage. I laughed that day in his face to where I almost fainted. I had never experienced such a thing in my life. I agree to go for potential, if you yourself have potential. But be true to yourself, if the guy is just not it, bone potential. Abeg, all these retired scammers cannot have potential, let's be real. They will forever sh*it where they make a living. Is it a curse? I really don't know. Honestly, if someone stole from my mum, that will be the end. Would have just packed the load at the front door in the middle of the night so my mum, and by extension all my family members won't hear. Will just say he left. Chei! This is too much o. Do I blame those who marry for comfort? No. If you have been comfortable all your life, its kind of hard to enter struggling mode especially in naija. Please I hope those preaching potential consider that most of the people reading this live in naija. Me, na love and comfort too. Would rather have married a farmer than a man that begs and lives pretentious or on his father's name. All in the name of potential.[/quote]Its like you don't know the meaning of potentials. It means what you can do on your own with your creative ideas. It doesn't mean your father's name or wealth.
Re: Marrying For Comfort by avr247: 11:08am On Jan 18, 2013
Charliemorgano: Abj Runz Guys,I met one when i went for an bank test in abuja in 2008,i waz walking down along wuse 2,One car just stopped and was horning when i went closer it was my mate during my university days,i almost fainted when i saw him he was looking like a gov's son driving a posh car he consoled me that despite my hardwork in uni i still couldn't get a job,he said he does suppy for FG,that God has really blsd him,i gave him my CV,i later realized he stays with one hajia (50s) and work in her firm.
Shap guy...allow the make enjoy. If d woman dey 20s she for dey stress the young man with infedelity. As e be so hajia won't service any other than him.
Re: Marrying For Comfort by bukatyne(f): 7:26am On Nov 08, 2014
Lol Efe, just the way you have desperate runs girls na so these group of men dey operate oh.

Like the Poster said they have the flashiest, sharpest clothes, sweetest tongue, hire big cars from car dealers.
Target rich widows, rich married women who they sense are abandoned, they always have a business deal to "push".

Governors wives are usually easy preys when they get their contacts as a lot of them feelabandoned and have some money to spend.
One heard I was divorced but didn't research well to know I was remarried, started sending me flowers, expensive perfumes and gifts.
My husband told me to play along, after like one week of spending his money he decided to go for the kill, invited me to dinner at the Hilton, I went in first while my husband came behind, My friend finished showing off his gold membership of the Hilton, His watch and phones, when I ordered I ordered for 2, I had already asked him if I could have company come along, I guess he assumed I was bring another potential sugar mummy.
Any way my husband arrived, na so I get up kiss am introduced him I could see the colour drain off his face, I am sure he was calculating how much he wasted on this "bad business". All the show off stopped, almost turned to open hostility.
Me and Y oga enjoyed our dinner and night out with a "friend" thanked him for a night out and told him "its hard taking time out with kids"

My dear I am sure he will shoot us if he had a gun
LOL! I can imagine the look on his face grin
Re: Marrying For Comfort by EfemenaXY: 8:47am On Nov 08, 2014
^^ Haha!

You're only just seeing this? cheesy

Gosh, I miss Debrief. I really, really do... cry cry
Re: Marrying For Comfort by bukatyne(f): 9:54am On Nov 08, 2014
EfemenaXY:
^^ Haha!

You're only just seeing this? cheesy

Gosh, I miss Debrief. I really, really do... cry cry
I am just seeing it grin

I miss Debrief too angry
Re: Marrying For Comfort by ladygogo: 5:50pm On Nov 08, 2014
EfemenaXY:
^^ Haha!

You're only just seeing this? cheesy

Gosh, I miss Debrief. I really, really do... cry cry
grin grin So hilarious.

I miss Debrief too. embarassed

Aisha actually reminds me of debrief. lol

Are you Debrief? Aisha.? grin
Re: Marrying For Comfort by Nobody: 6:14pm On Nov 08, 2014
ladygogo:
grin grin So hilarious.
I miss Debrief too. embarassed
Aisha actually reminds me of debrief. lol
Are you Debrief? Aisha.? grin
I wish
Am here mentee, spent a lot of time with her, learned truckloads.
I am a little less refined lol, she is a lot more posh and weigh funnier
Re: Marrying For Comfort by ladygogo: 7:32pm On Nov 08, 2014
aisha2:
I wish
Am here mentee, spent a lot of time with her, learned truckloads.
I am a little less refined lol, she is a lot more posh and weigh funnier
Are you serious? You guys know each other? What a small world?

You see. The apple doesnt fall too far from the tree. grin

lol.

My regards to her when you see her. From one of her nairaland fans.

Aisha can you try and cajole her to come back? grin grin grin


ok.i'm done famzing. cheesy
Re: Marrying For Comfort by Nobody: 7:49pm On Nov 08, 2014
I miss her too.
Great lady.
Aisha reminds me of her but d difference is there so one will easily know its not her.
Maybe her twin sis cheesy
Hilarious thread!
Abuja guys, even as spinster,I dey fear them more than lagos guys.
They r pro.

As per d ladies,
I was told"don't ever do home cell stuff, ,don't say I didn't warn u"
Whatever that means and I agreed o.
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