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| He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by cokacoola(op): 6:55am On Nov 21, 2014 |
We meet during our Nysc days. he was every woman dream, caring loving nice and understanding. He propose to me after our nysc and we were doing fine until he got tired of job hunting and deside to relocate to london, we always on phone regularly for the first one but after then he change and stop calling and his number stop going.....I went to his parents to comfired what was wrong they told me that nothing is wrong that he usually call them with his new line, i ask for the new line they refuse give one silly excus and told me that he is coming next year. My problem now is that there is this new guy disturbing me for marriage, he is so serious even told that if i acept his proposal that everything will happen this december!! But am confuse, should i wait for my fiance till he return or marry this new guy?? MATURED ADVICE ONLY |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Nobody: 6:57am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Dnt wait..pls marry this new guy u r seeing with ur naked eyes.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by turasumon(f): 7:04am On Nov 21, 2014 |
follow ur heart my dear sm opportunities are meant 2 b once in a lyf tym.. gud luck |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Nobody: 7:11am On Nov 21, 2014 |
A bird in hand is worth more than another bird in London. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by esmeralda1(f): 7:13am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Dear op, I will not advise u wait for mr. Londoner, neither should u rush into marriage with smone u don't know. I'm weary of pple promising marriage hurriedly without knowing their character so be patient with this person b4 going any further with him 4 Likes |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by gede7744(f): 7:31am On Nov 21, 2014 |
l beg sis marry this new guy o! d guy in obodo oyibo who knows what he is up to? if after u married he shows up, just give him ur blessings. since he stopped picking ur calls and even change his line then d fault is his shey na obodo oyibo? u too go go very soon even in style so make he no use that one come they form 2 Likes |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Nutase: 7:37am On Nov 21, 2014 |
marry me and forget about them. 1 Like |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by englishmart(m): 7:38am On Nov 21, 2014 |
bros, are you she-male? As in hermaphrodite? In this thread, you were male,www.nairaland.com/2000888/what-oga-daughter-asking-me in this other one you are female. Wetin happen na ?  2 Likes |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by englishmart(m): 7:40am On Nov 21, 2014 |
turasumon:see as una dey believe this boy! You think he's female? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Esmeraldar: 7:49am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Wait ke, i know a lady who waited and is still waiting for over 10 years now. 1 Like |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by englishmart(m): 7:50am On Nov 21, 2014 |
cokacoola:[b]grammar sha 1 Like |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by slimyem: 7:53am On Nov 21, 2014 |
How can you be waiting on someone who disappeared on you and has chosen not to contact you for over a year? ...makes zero sense!  1 Like |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by yuncka: 7:56am On Nov 21, 2014 |
If U luv d new guy, dnt pretend all in the name of waiting for a guy who left U for almost a year. Am realy suprised at U, lyk seriosly? R U sleepin? Or r U in coma? Dis guy left U for almost/over a year now. And from all indications he doesnt want to have anytin to do wit U. Please if U luv d new guy and U see in him a husband and a friend, cal me so I can be d priest of Ur weddin. But if d Londoner's spell is too strong, pls cal me so I can import hankerchief for U. |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by ERCROSS(m): 8:07am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Cocokoola..  |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Nobody: 8:20am On Nov 21, 2014 |
what do you mean by a guy distrubing you for marriage Why are you putting the cart before the horse it sounds like the proposals define the relationship for you . . . . .one reason why so many women are left high and dry is becasue the men know how desparate some of you are to hear the words " I want to marry you" before you even give them the time of day or tell them your name. You have not learnt your lesson. The one who proposed before he went to London abandoned you and gave his parents strict instructions not to give you his new number . . .so much for the proposal. Here you are again saying a man is chasing you for marriage. You are thinking of whether to accept his proposal. Meanwhile, How much do you know this mew man? how good is your relationship with him? have you been out on dates? what kind of man is he? do you even gel together? are you friends? is he a man of integrity? is he trustworthy? How does he react when he is angry? does he respect you? do you laugh together? are you even on the same wavelenght? Youve said nothing about all of that; just that the man is ready to marry you next month. I hope you dont go from frying pan to fire and your case will not be that you will marry the guy next month and then come back in feb saying he is on BB 24/7 with his ex girlfriends and he does this and does that . . . .. Simply becasue you married a stranger!! 5 Likes |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by dannydaniels(m): 8:33am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Your finger no be keyholder.abeg free d guy |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by cokacoola(op): 8:55am On Nov 21, 2014 |
englishmart:whats happening here please |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by cokacoola(op): 8:59am On Nov 21, 2014 |
ERCROSS:how u dear  |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Wendy80(f): 9:09am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Are u an hermaphrodite? From ur previous post u are male, sometimes female. Na wa oh. |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Nobody: 9:35am On Nov 21, 2014 |
gender reassignment is not a new thing  Dramaland! |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by jmoore(m): 9:40am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Consult Andyblaze for advice. Fake story. |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by cokacoola(op): 9:50am On Nov 21, 2014 |
jmoore:who is andyblaze please |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by jmoore(m): 9:59am On Nov 21, 2014 |
cokacoola:The guy you see whenever you look in the mirror. 1 Like |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by ERCROSS(m): 10:41am On Nov 21, 2014 |
1 Like |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by cokacoola(op): 10:56am On Nov 21, 2014 |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by pasqal09: 10:59am On Nov 21, 2014 |
cokacoola:U beg me? When? |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by cokacoola(op): 12:20pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
pasqal09:u no see my mails  till 2032 I tell you say i won reserve the account for my children |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by cokacoola(op): 12:23pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
pasqal09:u no see my mails till 2032 I tell you say i won reserve the account for my children... Please uplift the ban bike |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Nobody: 2:11pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
MARRIAGE is now a PENSIONABLE EMPLOYMENT.. |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Nobody: 2:13pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
MARRIAGE is now a PENSIONABLE JOB.... I can assess u ,from your post. Because he said, if u agree dat he would do everything in December.... WOMEN. and MARRIAGE... WOMEN THINK MEN are not interested in marriage... Men don't like being rushed into such a lifetime commitment without making plans for such. Only for the same man to receive INSULTS when he is not meeting up with the demands of the lady... TAKE YOUR DECISION YOURSELF... so that u wouldn't blame anyone tomorrow... |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by Nobody: 2:15pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
cokacoola:How long have you not heard from your fiancé? How well do you know the new guy? Have you got feelings for your fiancé and / or the new guy? |
| Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by omotuntun: 2:56pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
@OP, thing with your brain, dont let your i want to get married control ur head. Someone you just met say he wants to marry you, good! it can work, the tendency is very low. I have seen someone with the same thing just like you re now. She even cursed the day they got married cos it is just like the same way. I never said you should wait, you can use ur head to cool down, cos initially the guy want to come in to you based on your problem. Marriage no be beans o. Chaircover has already made a great point out there. Which is just the truth..... Its either you take it, i am sure you cant leave the truth if not, We go expect another post from you soon hopefully! |
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