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Some one should please help me....I've been addicted to pornography and masturbation for the past 7years I'm really tired of it...i hate myself when ever i indulge in it but yet i just can't stop it.....any sexaully explicit article i see arouse me n i will eventually end up masturbating b4 the images or flashes of those content can leave my mind....i donno wat to Do n how to come out of it.....just. Today i was going through my facebook page when the thought came.....i ended up watching porn and masturbating inside my fathers car....someone shud pls advise me on wat to do....i don't want to continue in this mess again

luckidoc:
Some one should please help me....I've been addicted to pornography and masturbation for the past 7years I'm really tired of it...i hate myself when ever i indulge in it but yet i just can't stop it.....any sexaully explicit article i see arouse me n i will eventually end up masturbating b4 the images or flashes of those content can leave my mind....i donno wat to Do n how to come out of it.....just. Today i was going through my facebook page when the thought came.....i ended up watching porn and masturbating inside my fathers car....someone shud pls advise me on wat to do....i don't want to continue in this mess again

Reach me via jacksonh58@yahoo.com.

This your case need serious delibration in the national Assembly but unfortunately the speaker is not on seat now.

Stop been alone everytime try use your free time in doing something, u merely idle that's why u doing all this? U just said your Dad own a car when u bored bring out water and start washing the car or sweep all your compound by the time u finish u would be too tired to think of indecency, and u wuld just go get some sleep and if u wake up and u still feel the same way bring out water and wash the car again.


N:B Ainishe lohn mu eh sheh isekushe

Always rub pepper on your hand , so that anytime the devil trys to use you , u wud remember there is pepper on ur hand.......................... And you know what it means to rub pepper on ur tools ;DAlways rub pepper on your hand , so that anytime the devil trys to use you , u wud remember there is pepper on ur hand.......................... And you know what it means to rub pepper on ur tools

@Balash, lol! Simply put, just give ur life to Christ and go for deliverance thereafter! The Lord will deliver you. Am so sure!

Jackeeh:
Reach me via jacksonh58@yahoo.com.

have sent u an email hop u recievedd it

my honest advice....

Do away wit your smart phone already and get a NOKIA 3310..

also get a job... no matter hiw meager, to engage your mind. ..

also counselling may help.

Another self-service thread this Monday.

Ehhmm, ehhmm!
Houston, I think we have a major problem.

luckidoc i feel ur pain.,dont worry,.,it will be over.

Now firstly, self-servicing is one deadly and sinful act, that kills our spiritual life,.and takes us far awy from God.

When it becomes an addcit,.it can be danngerous,.cos you wnt hav self control.,and it would be problem to you,.you cant pray,coz you'd always feel guilty when praying.


Now, op the first step is to talk to God, beg him ti help you stop the act,that you cant do it alone.

Secondly, get some worship or soul lifting songs and put them on ur phone,. Hillsong united,.don moen and even frank edwards, play these songs whenever you feel tempted,.they'd help you alot,to change your mood.

Lastly, avoid indencecy, stay away from it, and be addicted to the word of God.

Coz indecency wont help you in time of troubles, but God will.


May God see you through

Hawx:
@Balash, lol! Simply put, just give ur life to Christ and go for deliverance thereafter! The Lord will deliver you. Am so sure!

Give life to jesus ke! nowadays all this young guys cant be advised with that O, if u tell them that they will just say okay and thats all? he said he constitute his habit through social media, its better we help him curb that first before anything else.

chibwike:
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Lastly, avoid indencecy, stay away from it, and be addicted to the word of God.

Coz indecency wont help you in time of troubles, but God will.


May God see you through

that's where the prob lies cos it always look as if indecency is just a click away....i really want to get my self with sometin creative. But those are very difficult to come by

Goodluck on your recovery journey

luckidoc:
Some one should please help me....I've been addicted to pornography and masturbation for the past 7years I'm really tired of it...i hate myself when ever i indulge in it but yet i just can't stop it.....any sexaully explicit article i see arouse me n i will eventually end up masturbating b4 the images or flashes of those content can leave my mind....i donno wat to Do n how to come out of it.....just. Today i was going through my facebook page when the thought came.....i ended up watching porn and masturbating inside my fathers car....someone shud pls advise me on wat to do....i don't want to continue in this mess again

if only people glowed a certain pink/red color for days after mas.turbating or havg illicit s-ex.


The shame wud kill d desire.
Or if a sign appeared on peoples fore heads saying i just w.anked/fornicated/commited adultery.

Realize it is a sin and ask God for forgiveness.

Make up your mind to stop hurting God through that means.

tardell007:
I really feel your pain bro,porn addicition's a silent vice that's slowly consuming our society with thousands of porn vids available at a click.its also an easily hidden addicition that no one would know you afflicted with as one can always hide when viewing and yanking off.
Op in your case you are deeply sensitized to porn and artificial sexual stimuli.a very strong synapse has been created in your brain between the neurons.what's a synapse?
A synapse's a communication gap between two neurons whereby electrical information are transmitted. New synapses are created in our brain when we learn new things and the more we perform the task the stronger it becomes which makes us perfom it effortlessly,just as in the case of learning how to drive a car and then within few months one becomes a master in the art that he/she can even drive with just a single hand on the steering.
You said you've been addicted for seven years,you can imagine the strength of the synapse for porn formed within your brain.
I'm saying all these so you can understand the science of your addiction,as they say knowledge is power.once you know what's happening in your brain it becomes easier to unhook yourself from this mess.
Op keep in mind you that you can return to how you once were.all you have to do is to perform a reboot.I'm pretty sure you would be suffering from e'rectile dysfunction now due to dopamine dysregulation in your brain.what this causes is that you wouldn't be able to get e'rect with a real naked girl.oh no why's is this happening? You may ask..the real reason is that you've overstimulated your brain with thousands of free and available porn online and probably wired your sexuality to porn,that's if you started out with porn.your brain has becomed used to becoming overstimulated causing a hike in dopamine.
Your brain doesn't know what a real woman is and she's simply not overstimulating enough unlike porn where you can view thousands of va.gina at a click and at the end you fail to have an erection.
A reboot simply means abstaining from all form of sexual stimulation both artificial and natural allowing your body to heal.the recommended duration of a reboot's usually 3months or more.during this period avoid anything sexual and give your body adequate time to heal after suffering from many years of abuse.
This process's usually not easy though but be prepared to withstand it and endure.it becomes easier as time goes on.you going to suffer from numerous withdrawal symptoms just like individuals coming of crack and hard drugs.remember this is an addiction and your brain is now suffering the same changes as theirs.be prayerful and strong as it is not going to be easy.just be prepared for very very harsh withdrawals which means some reformative changes are taking place in your brain.Goodluck and above all always remember to be prayerful as you wouldn't find it easy at all.peace

thank. U very much I'm really grateful..pls can u. Attach ur. Email so i can give u prrogress report

luckidoc:
thank. U very much I'm really grateful..pls can u. Attach ur. Email so i can give u prrogress report

you welcome.marnautovic0@gmail.com

^^ Good advice right there. Seriously. You can find a lot more information about rebooting here (http://yourbrainonporn.com/reboot_your_brain).

It takes a lot of hard work, and no amount of "God save me" will do it. Might even make you worse, really. Knowing that you can just get 'forgiven' every time you jack off, would probably make you a repeat offender

The real harm in p0rn use is that it can get addictive, depending on your personality and frequency of consumption, and could rewire your brain away from real sex. Some people have found their tastes morphing to crazier sexual themes (transgendered, tranny, bestiality etc), as they constantly need more and more shock to be stimulated. Note though that the harm is heavy p0rn use, not jacking off.

Read more on it. Free yourself and f.uck real girls.

If you have God in your life, you won't masturbate. The first thing you should do is to go for confession. Don't just stay at home and confess, go to a priest and confess everything. Start receiving holy communion, but don't do it in sin. It will strengthen you. Then become more prayerful and ask God to come into your life. Maybe you have a spiritual spouse, cos they usually trigger all these.

Hawx:
@Balash, lol! Simply put, just give ur life to Christ and go for deliverance thereafter! The Lord will deliver you. Am so sure!

deliverance from what exactly

johnydon22:
deliverance from what exactly

I wonder o.

This is what we have degenerated into. Instead giving the poor guy practical advice, we are here shouting deliverance.

You have a topic like this and yet put your facial pix to full glare on your profile, bro, whatever happened to decorum? Smh