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"voice money good o poverty na disease o eh" *tearz cloth of and starts runnig unclad*

safarigirl:
LOL.....you don't know my line of thought. I don't believe in love for a number of reasons, but contrary to your assumption, it has more to do with trust than money.

A lot of people claim to love each other, but there is no trust. Trust is what makes a relationship, not something as fickle as love

yea but trust can b misleading some times. If u give some people total trust they will at a point take u for granted and say " I know he trusts me, if I cheat on him/her, he/she won't notice" or sometimes dey may nt have bad intentions but dey will start relating too freely with d opposite sex and b4 u know it temptation will set in and u start hearing things like "I didn't know how it happened", "It's d handiwork of d devil", "he took advantage of me".

Coolguy89:
true love is a feeling one developed for someone which u can't do witout d person,u think of him or her evry time,u wil always wanna be togeda evry day evry time.

what if dat same person u love truly gets an accident and becomes very ugly and u have to b spending 1million naira for every 90days for her life support will u still love her enough to spend dat money considering she is now so ugly?
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God forbid dat it happens oo but answer me.
Assuming u have d money but not in abundance/excess. If no then u should know dat love is conditional

tempem:
anyone who preaches money is evil, he/she is evil.

you dey vex ne?

kenex4ever:
yea but trust can b misleading some times. If u give some people total trust they will at a point take u for granted and say " I know he trusts me, if I cheat on him/her, he/she won't notice" or sometimes dey may nt have bad intentions but dey will start relating too freely with d opposite sex and b4 u know it temptation will set in and u start hearing things like "I didn't know how it happened", "It's d handiwork of d devil", "he took advantage of me".

and if you give someone all your love, they'll take you for granted and say "even if I cheat on him/her he/she will forgive me because he/she loves me"

So really, how is love better?

autofreak2020:
If God want everyone to become rich in life, why are some prophets rich and others are poor in the scriptures? Jesus and solomon are typical example and

Jesus wasn't poor. Being rich also means living comfortably which Jesus lived.

Moni does nt bring happiness lolz moni does ooo

safarigirl:
and if you give someone all your love, they'll take you for granted and say "even if I cheat on him/her he/she will forgive me because he/she loves me"

So really, how is love better?

love is better because u can love some1 completely but don't trust completely. If u really love some one den u can tolerate his cheating but on d condition dat he won't cheat again. If u love a cheater u can change him with time by forgiving him and talking to him on y he should stop. One day he will have a rethink and then kneel down n cry to u for forgiveness and then swear with his whole heart not to cheat again. So love>trust

kenex4ever:
love is better because u can love some1 completely but don't trust completely. If u really love some one den u can tolerate his cheating but on d condition dat he won't cheat again. If u love a cheater u can change him with time by forgiving him and talking to him on y he should stop. One day he will have a rethink and then kneel down n cry to u for forgiveness and then swear with his whole heart not to cheat again. So love>trust

You can't claim to love someone if you don't love yourself.

If you can tolerate someone repeatedly cheating on you and causing you heartache in the process, then you don't love yourself. Hence whatever relationship you have with someone who emotionally abuses you is not love.

Bu like I said, love is whatever you want it to be at any point in time. It's a figment of our imagination, there's no fact there because it has no certain definition, it can be twisted to suit the concept of whoever wishes to apply it.

But love does not really exist

kenex4ever:
what if dat same person u love truly gets an accident and becomes very ugly and u have to b spending 1million naira for every 90days for her life support will u still love her enough to spend dat money considering she is now so ugly?
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God forbid dat it happens oo but answer me.
Assuming u have d money but not in abundance/excess. If no then u should know dat love is conditional

yes! why not as long as u love her,to me I won't mind cos I knw hw is she befr,I wil do wat ever it takes to keep her alive unless its beyond my power.

Money is definately a servant. Serve your gift to the world & money will serve you forever.

blemon44:
money is the root of all evil

The LOVE of money is the root of all evil.

safarigirl:
LOL....a lot of people have this feeling in the first 6 months-1 year of their relationship.

Is it love? It's highly debatable. Love is what you want it to be at any point in your life. You can have a crush on someone and term it 'love' because they have the same symptoms- you want to be around the person all the time, you think of him/her constantly and feel incomplete when said person isn't in your life....same could be said of infatuation and even obsession.

Your definition can hardly be termed one of 'love' even less 'true' love

u just don't believe dat true love exist? Or u have been through a heart break

Coolguy89:
yes! why not as long as u love her,to me I won't mind cos I knw hw is she befr,I wil do wat ever it takes to keep her alive unless its beyond my power.

it's easier said dan done o. But I know some people can do it if dey really love d person.

Coolguy89:
u just don't believe dat true love exist? Or u have been through a heart break

me, heartbreak, dem no born their papa well.

Nobody has broken my heart o, even boyfriend I never get. I'm just not interested in relationships or the concept of love

safarigirl:
You can't claim to love someone if you don't love yourself.

If you can tolerate someone repeatedly cheating on you and causing you heartache in the process, then you don't love yourself. Hence whatever relationship you have with someone who emotionally abuses you is not love.

Bu like I said, love is whatever you want it to be at any point in time. It's a figment of our imagination, there's no fact there because it has no certain definition, it can be twisted to suit the concept of whoever wishes to apply it.

But love does not really exist

ok dear, I give in! Thanks 4 ur time.

safarigirl:
me, heartbreak, dem no born their papa well.

Nobody has broken my heart o, even boyfriend I never get. I'm just not interested in relationships or the concept of love

sorry to ask, are u a student or graduate?

kenex4ever:
it's easier said dan done o. But I know some people can do it if dey really love d person.

dats it,am one of dem

Whoever say money can't buy happiness didn't know where to chop.

safarigirl:
me, heartbreak, dem no born their papa well.

Nobody has broken my heart o, even boyfriend I never get. I'm just not interested in relationships or the concept of love

lol and u must marry na,or u go marry witout loving d man

Coolguy89:
lol and u must marry na,or u go marry witout loving d man

there's no rule that says I must marry and 90% of people do not marry who they love. They marry because others are marrying and the other person is available at the moment

kenex4ever:
sorry to ask, are u a student or graduate?

both. I've graduated and I'm now a student again

safarigirl:
both. I've graduated and I'm now a student again

from O level to University?

kenex4ever:
from O level to University?

yes....and nect thing you'll say is "I haven't experienced life, so I should wait till I do"...or something along those lines

safarigirl:
yes....and nect thing you'll say is "I haven't experienced life, so I should wait till I do"...or something along those lines

hahahahaha, noooooo!
Y am asking is because u said u don't have a bf yet, so I felt u might b a reserved but exposed girl. It's nt common for a "sharp" girl like u not to have a bf.
If u had said u r a university graduate I would have fainted.

Two facts about money.

1. Money is spirit
If u handle money well, it will multiply if not it will fly away.

2. Money makes u wise.

Once u hv money, u will start thinking big and u will hv multi-million ideas.

kenex4ever:
hahahahaha, noooooo!
Y am asking is because u said u don't have a bf yet, so I felt u might b a reserved but exposed girl. It's nt common for a "sharp" girl like u not to have a bf.
If u had said u r a university graduate I would have fainted.

I fit graduate and I go still no get bf. The way I'm uninterested in relationships is almost disturbing.

safarigirl:
I fit graduate and I go still no get bf. The way I'm uninterested in relationships is almost disturbing.

u need to start loving and trust someone too(though trust nt completely). It's not too late, u r still young so u can take ur time to select a trustworthy guy.
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Don't assume things dear, fall in love while u r still fresh and beautiful. It's a beautiful thing! If he breaks ur heart, take it as a lesson n b wiser d next time u fall in love again.

kenex4ever:
u need to start loving and trust someone too(though trust nt completely). It's not too late, u r still young so u can take ur time to select a trustworthy guy.
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Don't assume things dear, fall in love while u r still fresh and beautiful. It's a beautiful thing! If he breaks ur heart, take it as a lesson n b wiser d next time u fall in love again.

maybe later. I'm not cut out for all the drama right now

safarigirl:
there's no rule that says I must marry and 90% of people do not marry who they love. They marry because others are marrying and the other person is available at the moment

hmm owk

safarigirl:
maybe later. I'm not cut out for all the drama right now

ok dear

pelumiiakinboye:
In Haggai 2:8 the Bible says Money belongs to God! Anyone who think Money does not bring joy should transfer all of his/her money to my account. I wil share pictures of how happy i am with d fellow's money.

Chei, see how you equate Joy for happiness?!
Joy is priceless..