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A Kcb reader sent this mail to me. Please, read it and give her your humble advice. I have also given her my own little advice but I know she will appreciate yours. Read her letter below:

I have been married for 15 years now and the marriage has been blessed with 4 beautiful children. My hubby is a 5 minutes kind of man, making it absolutely impossible to enjoy sex with him. I have never experienced good sex….I mean, never. My sex life was really in bad shape because I only have sex just to satisfy him and perform my duty as a good wife.

My husband is a very nice and wonderful man. He always do his best to make sure I enjoy it but at the end of the day he comes so quickly. To make him not feel bad, I always tell him I did enjoyed it when he asked me after our so called ‘marathon’ sex.

I have never cheated on my hubby all these years, just as he has never cheated on me. With him, there is nothing like all men cheats. I will vouch for my hubby.

The whole problem started in November, when my ex and only boyfriend I had came into the country. His whole family travelled to the US while we were in our 3rd year at the University. When he newly travelled, we were always talking and he promised to come back for me provided I waited for him. I don’t know what happened, his number stopped going through and he didn’t call me at all, may be using another number. For a whole year, I waited patiently for his call. After then, I met my husband through one of my friends. My friend celebrated her birthday and her fiancé came with his cousin who is now my husband. He couldn’t take his eyes off me, to the point I nearly tripped as to how uncomfortable the stare made me.

To cut the long story short, we got talking after several attempts to win me over and with the help of my friend and fiancé, we got acquainted. He was so nice in all ramification, except the ‘sex’ thing. Though, that I noticed after our wedding.

We got married after courting for a whole year. And then, my ex called me one night as usual. I nearly peed on my pant, but thankfully my hubby did not suspect anything as I told him it was my friend and I do not want to pick her call. I called him tomorrow morning and we talked at length as he was apologizing for his silence for that long. Until now, he never told me what happened during that 2 years and I have decided not to ask him again.

I have to tell him of the new development, so he doesn’t call me at night again. He was so heartbroken that he cried on phone and I also cried with him. When he gathered himself, he just asked if I love him and I said yes. He said, it’s ok provided he is good man. I will always be here for you. Don’t hesitate to call me if there is any problem. Let’s be good friends. And that was how it had been until he came this last month.

He invited me to come and see him because it’s been a long time. Atleast, this time we are seeing face to face and not webcam or picture thing.

I had nothing bad in mind and am sure he had none too, because we outgrew our feelings and became just friends. I knew about all the women in his life. Even the one he came back to marry this December, I picked her for him out of the pictures and profile he presented to me.

Things went wrong and we found ourselves into each others arm and you wouldn’t believe it I reached orgasm for the 1st time in my entire life. He was so good that I enjoyed every bit of the sex escapade.

Now, he refused to leave me alone as he claimed the whole spark came back in him immediately he sighted me. He proposed to me on our 4th date, and also promised to take me with my 4 kids when I used my kids as an excuse not to accept his proposal.

Right now, he already applied for our visa. I love my husband so much, but am kind of confused now. Am I being selfish if I go with him because he satisfies me in bed or should stay with my husband and still carry my cross?

Please, advice me on what to do before it’s too late as I can’t think straight now without the good sex experience pumping on my brain.

Thank you all.


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Just jump into a well. You want carry somebody four children go marry another man dey say make i advise you.

This is Super story, a life of.............

This will make a good script for adenuga's production.

This woman must be a naught just like my neigbour who chose to be the fifth wife of a man even though she had alot of suitors then who wants to make her their first wife and now she is complaning of low attention.
She wants her man to stay on top of her for 24 hours durring sex just because he cant do that you want to pack his children and run to another man that stops calling you for having another woman in his life. I pity you.
Women are the greatest problem of themselve.
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Er...how possible is it for a single, unmarried guy to apply for a visa for a married woman and her kids? On what grounds? What would he tell the officials at the embassy?

And just after one night (probably one round) of illicit sex, the guy suddenly wants to marry her and take on her 4 kids? And live in the land of milk & honey, where the streets are paved with gold and money grows on trees? Yeah right.

Two years of silence (probably time spent in jail) and suddenly everything is as right as rain? This Abuja runz guy a.k.a yahoo-yahoo don jam jackpot correct mumu.

So where does the husband fit into all this?

This script is badly written. The sex scene described is very unbelievable, and the storyline is a hot mess with too many loose ends that don't add up.

enoqueen:
This is Super story, a life of.............

This will make a good script for adenuga's production.

I doubt the Alaba market boys will touch this movie script much less distribute it, even if given for free. T'is a shoddy piece of work.

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simplemach:
Just jump into a well. You want carry somebody four children go marry another man dey say make i advise you.

Jst because of sex..

Usual storyline..

Lovers in university.

Traveled out of the country..

Lost communications..

Got married to another man here in Nigeria..

Lover came out of nowhere,proposing marriage to a married woman..

Can't we get another storyline please,this angle line has been overflogged.

Next!

Bloggers sabi lie o..
Kul story anyway

Sounds like fiction to me

You can't always have it complete in one package. The only lady that I am presently dating rates me so high because of how I handle her very well on bed. She is into other 2 relationships for some other reasons and she says she won't let me go easily because of how I handle her. My Philosophy: It is better n comfortable for me to know that the weakness of my woman is multiple relationships so that I can have enough information to love n manage her if eventually I marry her; In other words, I dread ladies who are gameplayers that pretend not to be so.

MizEmpress:
Sounds like fiction to me

It is jare.

Even the pictures are at odds with the story. Wetin concern Oyinbo for this tory??

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