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Nigerians knows how to hype cases and do it more than those that introduced it, the last time I checked, it's always a serious case for a young lady to get pregnant out of wedlock but how come it has become a trend now and is even been celebrated.
It's odd and I wonder how these parents rises above the moral implications about it and shine their teeth at the guy responsible for their daughter's pregnancy and again, how come its only among our celebrities that we find those cases? The rate at which it increases by the day ia alarming, hardly will u see a Nigerian artist now (male) without a BABY MAMA. Ok ooo!! Has our babes forgotten that they can still make something meaningful out of their youth that it always occurs to them to get pregnant. Or should I say that they do it to either entrap the guy or get into his payroll.
What if they end up been dumped? An unfortunate average guy will happily take her in as spouse or babe. Well Kudos to our girls. Dem try. But make we dey apply wisdom and self respect in some things, it will help. This issue really makes me angry sometimes but it's their lives shaa, just wanted to share it.

Well some male celebrities do not want to be 'tied down' to a particular woman at a certain stage of their careers because they consider it as being 'restrictive' to what they interpret as 'living the life' and being fathers without being a husband has given them the opportunity to have a child growing up somewhere without the commitment of marriage while they are living the bachelor's life in full, making sure they are forwarding allowances to baby mama and the child, so they can be 'at peace'.

As for the baby mama, some of them are into it in order to be attached to the male celebrity's fame and fortune. It is a means of livelihood for them as once they have a baby for the celebrity, it translates to a comfortable lifestyle.

But in all these it is the child who suffers, knowing he/she is a product of 'calculations' as the father sees him/her as a seed planted someone to grow while he lives his life and the mother regards him/her as a password to access the father's wealth.

This is so anti-family!

Pavore9:
Well some male celebrities do not want to be 'tied down' to a particular woman at a certain stage of their careers because they consider it as being 'restrictive' to what they interpret as 'living the life' and being fathers without being a husband has given them the opportunity to have a child growing up somewhere without the commitment of marriage while they are living the bachelor's life in full, making sure they are forwarding allowances to baby mama and the child, so they can be 'at peace'.

As for the baby mama, some of them are into it in order to be attached to the male celebrity's fame and fortune. It is a means of livelihood for them as once they have a baby for the celebrity, it translates to a comfortable lifestyle.

But in all these it is the child who suffers, knowing he/she is a product of 'calculations' as the father sees him/her as a seed planted someone to grow while he lives his life and the mother regards him/her as a password to access the father's wealth.

This is so anti-family!

Wow!! So on point, it's d babies that suffer it all after all. It's a pity how much our mentality can be limited to.

chocolateme:
Nigerians knows how to hype cases and do it more than those that introduced it, the last time I checked, it's always a serious case for a young lady to get pregnant out of wedlock but how come it has become a trend now and is even been celebrated.
It's odd and I wonder how these parents rises above the moral implications about it and shine their teeth at the guy responsible for their daughter's pregnancy and again, how come its only among our celebrities that we find those cases? The rate at which it increases by the day ia alarming, hardly will u see a Nigerian artist now (male) without a BABY MAMA. Ok ooo!! Has our babes forgotten that they can still make something meaningful out of their youth that it always occurs to them to get pregnant. Or should I say that they do it to either entrap the guy or get into his payroll.
What if they end up been dumped? An unfortunate average guy will happily take her in as spouse or babe. Well Kudos to our girls. Dem try. But make we dey apply wisdom and self respect in some things, it will help. This issue really makes me angry sometimes but it's their lives shaa, just wanted to share it.

Its still far better than abortion gf.