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oftentimes i hear people say "work on your self esteem" without giving you tips on how to do it..


so, i am asking ' how can one work on his self esteem?'

Bleep the world n i still rock

Guy its a long process that deals with confidence...not a days job

fijiano202:
Guy its a long process that deals with confidence...not a days job

do you have any contribution to make?

OP
1.I believe d way an individual looks affects d way he/she carries his/her self. That's y u don't want to meet certain ppl wen u r dressed poorly.
2.Challenge urself. Ppl wit low self esteem lyk hiding; they lyk sitting @ d bck so try d first or second row.
3.Realize that every1 is human nd is probably insecure abt somtin. We all av flaws.
4. Realize dat u r nt always on d spotlight. Ppl wit low self esteem tend to tink dat all eyes r on dem. Dis is nt always tru. Ppl r busy.
5. Be you. Drop d fear. Av fun. Every jaga jaga is a new style. Be mouthy too(personal experience) always b ready to defend urself verbally around bad belle ppl.
6.Be resourceful. Knw a little abt everytin. Ppl applaud intelligence. Knowledge is power.
7. I overcame low self esteem wen I realized dat am d daughter of a King. I realized God has placed a lot in me nd by aving low esteem am limiting d expression of this gifts. The world awaits my manifestation. (Romans 8:19). I don't want to keep dem waiting#winks.
My 2 kobo.

oyomii, nice. this is what i need.
thank you.

SkinnyDude:
oyomii, nice. this is what i need.
thank you.

Happy I culd help.

oyomii:
OP
1.I believe d way an individual looks affects d way he/she carries his/her self. That's y u don't want to meet certain ppl wen u r dressed poorly.
2.Challenge urself. Ppl wit low self esteem lyk hiding; they lyk sitting @ d bck so try d first or second row.
3.Realize that every1 is human nd is probably insecure abt somtin. We all av flaws.
4. Realize dat u r nt always on d spotlight. Ppl wit low self esteem tend to tink dat all eyes r on dem. Dis is nt always tru. Ppl r busy.
5. Be you. Drop d fear. Av fun. Every jaga jaga is a new style. Be mouthy too(personal experience) always b ready to defend urself verbally around bad belle ppl.
6.Be resourceful. Knw a little abt everytin. Ppl applaud intelligence. Knowledge is power.
7. I overcame low self esteem wen I realized dat am d daughter of a King. I realized God has placed a lot in me nd by aving low esteem am limiting d expression of this gifts. The world awaits my manifestation. (Romans 8:19). I don't want to keep dem waiting#winks.
My 2 kobo.

You seem to be ignoring our conversation

All I can say is live in the moment, it's about the journey not the destination

juicydiceyjoe:
You seem to be ignoring our conversation

Nope.

oyomii:
Nope.

If it were not so..i would have not told you

oyomii:
OP
1.I believe d way an individual looks affects d way he/she carries his/her self. That's y u don't want to meet certain ppl wen u r dressed poorly.
2.Challenge urself. Ppl wit low self esteem lyk hiding; they lyk sitting @ d bck so try d first or second row.
3.Realize that every1 is human nd is probably insecure abt somtin. We all av flaws.
4. Realize dat u r nt always on d spotlight. Ppl wit low self esteem tend to tink dat all eyes r on dem. Dis is nt always tru. Ppl r busy.
5. Be you. Drop d fear. Av fun. Every jaga jaga is a new style. Be mouthy too(personal experience) always b ready to defend urself verbally around bad belle ppl.
6.Be resourceful. Knw a little abt everytin. Ppl applaud intelligence. Knowledge is power.
7. I overcame low self esteem wen I realized dat am d daughter of a King. I realized God has placed a lot in me nd by aving low esteem am limiting d expression of this gifts. The world awaits my manifestation. (Romans 8:19). I don't want to keep dem waiting#winks.
My 2 kobo.

Simply put, short and precise. #5&6 are my best weapon. Nice comment

mytym:
Simply put, short and precise. #5&6 is my best weapon. Nice comment

Tnxxx a lot. If u lyk 5 den u must be mouthy ooo.

oyomii:
Tnxxx a lot. If u lyk 5 den u must be mouthy ooo.

yea, for me #5 means Any tongue that rises against you in JUDGEMENT, YOU shall condemn!

mytym:
yea #5 Any tongue that rises against you in JUDGEMENT, YOU shall condemn!

LMHO. Cheiiii!