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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 12:59pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Toks2008:ur 5th point summarized it all. Dats y I suggested him taking a wife. Meanwhile, our ladies shud face reality wen it comes to dis issue of marriage o. Com to fink of it, how many self-made bachelors do we av in d con3 compare to available sprinters? No wonder only the real women(those who look for not the guys that have it all but who they can help get all with) are getting married. God Help Them Help Us |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
markpenk: Surely you are playing with KONJI 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by stigman(m): 1:01pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
remsonik: No be fight na 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
striktlymi:best thing get a beautiful one in case (u no wat am talking bout). |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by chenor(f): 1:04pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I am interested in the job. Where do you live b1327: |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 1:08pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
netizenbuzz:it wil make more sense, if u dnt look at my comment from your feminist point of view. Tnx |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
cococandy: When she sample her backside twice while cleaning erection will defitely kicks in |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by cbrass(m): 1:14pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
elantraceey: @striktlymi she is here. Go for it bro |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Forwetinnah: 1:15pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
alutacontinua: Smh..so after 'helping' keep the house in order, she go "help" am straight him waist too ? Women don suffer |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Ma'am, you ve been gone for too long. When you return, you ll realise that times have changed. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Sunshinelady(f): 1:18pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
veave:. Exactly my thoughts |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by markpenk: 1:19pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Ha...lol . He said he wants a househelp, I'm merely saying none of them should look like one of those chics. Otherwise, it's byebye to bachelorhood lol. . nacosprof: |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 1:22pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
maryhaam:ok. let me av a look @ ur CV so I can recommend u to d OP what do u fink about that? |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I wouldn't encourage a female help for a guy no matter how proper her upbringing is. If he is in a relationship, his mate can come around once in a week and they concentrate on doing the house chores ranging from shopping, cleaning, cooking and the likes and totally give up the house-help idea (What are friends for if not for inconveniences) If he is single the more reason why he should not have one, it will gradually lead to familiarity which might not be the initial intention and possibly actions you might not be too pleased with (You know what is in your mind but never can tell for the next person). If female house-help is the only option, Charley give it up... Sleep in the dirty house and eat bread or eat out till you finally get married then both of you can decide what to do with the house. I can bet you wont die.. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by ohluyeemeekar(m): 1:28pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
[color=#990000][/color]House help go dey help him in all areas ni ;DHouse help go dey help him in all areas ni |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Originalsly: 1:29pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
striktlymi:I hear you...what's the problem?....people do that all the time...just that you get a relative to help you. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
favoured234: Thanks for the candid advice. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
#basketmouth proposal https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RtUTvraSIko&itct=CB0QpDAYCiITCNrQ-tGzicMCFRd9HAodphIA01IpYmFza2V0bW91dGggaHVtaWxpYXRlcyBoaXMgbGFkeSBhbWF6aW5nbHk%3D&client=mv-google&gl=NL&hl=en |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Toks2008(m): 1:31pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
veave: Lets face it, the OP may not spell it out. I guess he is just like me, responsible,decent and careful else he wont be asking for advice. I don't know the OP but im very sure he must be very matured for marriage but maybe the right lady is not just forthcoming or he is probably still hustling his way to millions and as a man he can not continue to stay like that so he is actually considering taken a maid with a salient taught of easing off sexually and i really don't blame him even if i am not in support. Nevertheless he can go ahead if he is compeled to because maids make good homes too,remember as i wrote, they are simply victims of circumstance and if not for the fact that whites slept with black maids or slaves,we wont have African americans. No one is interested in wasting time woing one ini edo or breaking protocols to see one Genevieve when we have sweet young ladies who are hotter than kIM K and also great home makers too. Let me share a funny story that opened my eyes to the fcat that some of these maids are damn hot and i had asked for forgiveness over the silly act. There was a time during my separation with my wife that a lay friend had to travel out and asked her maid to come spend 3 weeks just to help me out as per home-keeping. Trust me friends, i have never seen a boobs so full,firm and fresh and so available without the stress of buying recharge cards,driving down to woo and overspending at a fast food restaurants. Let me stop here but believe me,some of these maids are more than what we think. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by maryhaam(f): 1:35pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17:ok bozz |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17: So how else am I to look at it lol? And why so defensive? You sound scared of feminists. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17: So how else am I to look at it lol? And why so defensive? You sound scared of feminists? |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Toks2008(m): 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
favoured234: Nice idea and this can only come from a lady but just as you wrote, if he has a date i guess a house-help will not even cross his mind so im dead sure he is dateless and then you must understand that most lades are not too virtuous for the other one you wrote about coming to help out so it still boils down to his urgent need to have a lady be it house maid or otherwise to help him out. Do you know when last i ate home made food? i cant even imagine myself entering the kitchen or making meals call me lazy for all i care and trust me, if i see a lady that is available and decent enough to marry today why wont i concede? Honestly sis, you are a woman so you can never understand. I feel the OP big time. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by veave(f): 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Toks2008: Omagaooooo!!! Are you trying to say that you support op in summary? I put it to op that he is looking for cheap disguised sex. Since he doesn't want my fisrst advice, then he should take my second one. Make sure she has these criterias. Tall, beautiful, a graduate. Your house should also be her part time job. Thank you... |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
dicefrost: Times have changed everywhere but at least in other countries people do not quote the Bible at every opportunity. I am sick of this holier than thou attitude when self-control is foreign to so many Nigerians. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Davidson267(m): 1:44pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:keep wondering like stephen wonder |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Davidson267: Ok, I will. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
vfactor: The media plays an important role in all this, you are right but it should not be an excuse. Therefore, parents should control their kids' media consumption STRICTLY. My kids are going to grow up without TV. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 1:54pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
netizenbuzz:No dear, am not scared of them, just that I hate having my ego bruised and that is one unfortunate thing a feminist knows how to do perfectly well, all d time. BTW, are you one? |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Toks2008(m): 1:57pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
veave: Lol! If i write sometimes people get a wrong notion. I am a pragmatic writer and i say it as it is and this does not translate to my intent. However i quite agree with your pont that he just might be looking for a disguised sex but that cheap part is what i dont agree to. I can get quality sex for N500 so why should i pay 10k or more a month for same so that is not cheap. You also recommended tall,beautiful and ofcourse a graduate and i will say thats your own view for me, just give me a sweet curvy maid even if she can only speak pigdin no problem. But jokes aprt dont you think how ladie are making stuffs difficult? A man comes for you and you strat giving him stress by proving hard to get then you become elusive and this guy really wants you around and on the other hand he can get another lady that can provide some basic needs for just 10/15k a month and you still want him look away from that option habba. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 2:00pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:yeah! We knw u ar kidding Right? 1 Like |
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