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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Toks2008:You don't blame him, you are not in support and you feel the OP Bro, stop petting the OP and telling him you are not in support. (Tell him if you are for or against his proposed idea) What is not ideal is not ideal even though it might not be wrong. On behalf of my humble self I will say DO NOT TREASPASS 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:07pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: The bold got to be a joke. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by adusco(m): 2:08pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Its a NO NO for me, why can't u just get a wifey or if you hav a younger sister and spend d moni on her while she does all d chores.getting a housegal ............congii na bastard o if you no get d fear of God. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Profezzor: 2:13pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I think its a bad idea |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
striktlymi: No, I am very serious about it. Have you got a problem with it? |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17: I am serious. I don't want my kids to watch TV as long as possible. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: I don't have a problem with it. Matter of fact, it's a move I would support but I am thinking of how practical that approach would be given that you and your husband may have a need to see a programme or two on television. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by pickabeau1: 2:20pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Toks2008: So can you recommend any professional help agency |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
striktlymi: You lead by example and so you have to be ready to live without watching TV or just watch it rarely. I rarely watch TV, I listen to the radio and I read a lot. I only watch TV once or twice a week for 2-3 hours so it won't be difficult for me to live without it. I will only switch it on for a little when my kids sleep. I have ABSOLUTELY no problem with it. There is too much trash on TV anyway and I don't feel like seeing it. Waste of time. As my kids grow, I will choose the channels they have access too. Not everything on TV is bad. Some programs are educative. And I love films so they can watch a good film with me when they grow older. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by zeongeon: 2:23pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Just be careful before someone jazz u into being her husband. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by tosmartak(m): 2:23pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17: That's if he doesn't get her pregnant first. Best advice already given to you by my brotherman here. Just go and marry even if it's a village girl. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Great! I totally understand that approach and I agree with it. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 2:33pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:u knw som schools tutor children using television. Or do want enroll ur kids into local schools? What am saying really is watching TV is nt bad buh what they watch in it can be bad for them. Anyway, you want what is best for them, buh dnt make them hate you-it won't b fun. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 2:39pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
pickabeau1:lol.....I can |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:40pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17: They don't watch trash in schools. And I trust that most teachers will choose proper and age-appropriate programs for educative reasons and show a film or a scene or a program every now and then and not let kids consume everything a TV program has to offer for long hours. I have no problem with that. Apart from that, where I live children go to school at the age of 6. What am saying really is watching TV is nt bad buh what they watch in it can be bad for them. Exactly but many parents let their kids watch TV for many hours and let them watch anything the TV has to offer during the day. And when you see what is shown on TV even in the morning or afternoon, you should be worried that it will have a negative impact on your kids. I am not only talking about se*xually loaded contents but also about violence and other stuff. Not everyone has to do it like me, no TV at all till they are six but parents should choose the programs their kids see carefully and little kids should not spend more than an hour in front of the TV per day. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: I agree with you that tv is playing a major role in the corrupting of young minds. But if u stop tv, what abt their friends at school, the ones with mobile fones with web access. What abt people who dress like indecesently? Parenting has never been any more difficult than in this period we live it. Parents will need all the help they can get. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
vfactor: True. You cannot control everything and you shouldn't. It would make you and your kids go crazy. What you have mentioned there is the reason why in many countries the educated folks move to areas with other other educated people who are enlightened enough to raise their kids in a certain way. You can partly influence the environment your kids grow in and you can also choose a good school, if you have the means. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 2:58pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:I totally agree with you on this. Will love to have a wife that reasons the same way you do, when the time comes. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Toks2008(m): 2:59pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
favoured234: Asking him not to is like telling a forty somthn yr old single lady not to accpt marriage proposal from a married man so he should follow his heart biko But I won't mind a sexy curvy maid too sha expcially a good cook |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Prymestrr(m): 3:04pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:Such scenario won't augur well ma dear... It's better 2 avoid temptations rather than trying 2 overcome them. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by simdam500(m): 3:06pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
jnrbayano: errrr i don't know how to put this tho..... but no lady is ugly or unattractive...... sure we are able to withstand the heat than one another but then..... if u keep the so called unattractive woman in your house for days.... in weeks her smile will become attractive...... 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
chenor:which job cos I don't undastand wat u mean. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by ChristineC: 3:18pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
cococandy:These things will creep in with time. Discipline may not be enough sometimes and once the chic start harboring any thought towards that corner (trust me she will), brother it's almost done. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by GoodBoi1(m): 3:47pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
To be honest, if you are in Nigeria, the answer is no . Let's be real abeg...ain't movie land |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by pickabeau1: 3:56pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17: So recommend |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by aspirebig: 3:59pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I don't understand op. You stay alone and u want a house help,a female btw 20 to 25 yrs? No naa Bro, are u staying in an expansive bedroom duplex alone? Most people stay alone withou having maids till they are married. Sincerely speaking,I will not allow any female that I know to go and live with a bachelor,no way. It is not healthy @ all,then if you must get a maid,get a boy of about the same age from Calabar or those areas. Op should start a relationship that will lead to marriage. How long will u continue to have a maid as a bachelor? Or,alternatively,depending on your location,get an elderly woman of about 60yrs plus to come and clean your house during the weekends,then allow a trusted drycleaner to handle your clothes,then let another person take care of the cooking or you can consult all those local eatries to cook some good soup for you. That way,no one is living with you @ home and no temptation is there too. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
OP, Get a maid that comes two times a week to clean and cook. |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Curiouscat: 4:23pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: I will be highly interested on how that can possibly be achieved. I mean practically. https://www.nairaland.com/2086042/cheap-affordable-mtn-data-plan |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Toks2008:Toks2008 i go help you find one 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 4:28pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
pickabeau1:u ar nt serious Ok, consult a transgender |
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by joe17: 4:31pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
favoured234:or u ar one #just saying |
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