guys a friend of mine is so sad right now cos his dad made him believe that his a pure Yoruba guy only to realized that his mom is actually a Fulani woman from zaira...his dad made him believe his mother died some years back.guys I don't know what to type again am the guy pls help me.I can't stay with my dad tonight am ...#tears#

You mean your mum your dad lied she is dead is alive and lives in zaria? You should be happy.

falconey:
You mean your mum your dad lied she is dead is alive and lives in zaria? You should be happy.

I don't know if I sho be happy..or sad.am 23 sir a gruduate how do I face my mommy

phlio:
guys a friend of mine is so sad right now cos his dad made him believe that his a pure Yoruba guy only to realized that his mom is actually a Fulani woman from zaira...his dad made him believe his mother died some years back.guys I don't know what to type again am the guy pls help me.I can't stay with my dad tonight am ...#tears#

My advice to you is to grieve because that is the first step to accepting the news. You should then forgive your father from keeping the truth from you. I am not sure how it works in your culture, but you should try to talk to your father to gain some clarity on the situation. Why did he keep the truth from you? Maybe something happened and he was only trying to protect you? Either way, the Lord's word is to honor thy mother and father. I wish you the very best and I hope that you feel better. This, too, shall and WILL pass!

morethanadoll:

My advice to you is to grieve because that is the first step to accepting the news. You should then forgive your father from keeping the truth from you. I am not sure how it works in your culture, but you should try to talk to your father to gain some clarity on the situation. Why did he keep the truth from you? Maybe something happened and he was only trying to protect you? Either way, the Lord's word is to honor thy mother and father. I wish you the very best and I hope that you feel better. This, too, shall and WILL pass!

I never knew am a product of a broken union

He kept the truth for some reason. . All u gotta do is ask him why..

take it in your stride

phlio:
I never knew am a product of a broken union

And now that you know, what damage has the sudden revelation caused? Has it changed WHO YOU ARE?

phlio:
guys a friend of mine is so sad right now cos his dad made him believe that his a pure Yoruba guy only to realized that his mom is actually a Fulani woman from zaira...his dad made him believe his mother died some years back.guys I don't know what to type again am the guy pls help me.I can't stay with my dad tonight am ...#tears#

Cheers Man this is a good news @ last you'll see mum now

OGeeKush:
He kept the truth for some reason. . All u gotta do is ask him why..

..he said his family never supported d union am the only child.he got married but we lost her.I believe my dad cos I don't look much Yoruba my friends call me white Fulani.
she z a medical doctor in kaduna state..she z not married too.going to see her tomor I don't know what it feels to have a mommy

Evina:


And now that you know, what damage has the sudden revelation caused? Has it changed WHO YOU ARE?

hmmm.okay thanks dear

phlio:
I don't know if I sho be happy..or sad.am 23 sir a gruduate how do I face my mommy

you are 23 and a graduate in this country #showmeyourCERT.

phlio:
I never knew am a product of a broken union

is a sin to b product of a broken union? What effect as it got

falconey:
you are 23 and a graduate in this country #showmeyourCERT.

lol...thank u.am currently serving in lagos

Skillfullulu:
is a sin to b product of a broken union? What effect as it got

thank u sir

phlio:
lol...thank u.am currently serving in lagos

am happy for you, when I was 23rd the highest I had is JAMB reg number.(Now in school)

falconey:
am happy for you, when I was 23rd the highest I had is JAMB reg number.(Now in school)

really good to know sir..u r a gud guy

phlio:
guys a friend of mine is so sad right now cos his dad made him believe that his a pure Yoruba guy only to realized that his mom is actually a Fulani woman from zaira...his dad made him believe his mother died some years back.guys I don't know what to type again am the guy pls help me.I can't stay with my dad tonight am ...#tears#

hey keep ur head up, ive been through worse and besides u should b so greatful to ur dad for all hes given u and thank God ull finally get to see ur mom and the truth finally came out.....u responsible for ur own happiness and like everyone said it doesnt change who u are, U STILL STANDING

phlio:
.. I don't know what it feels to have a mommy

Best feeling in the world bro
Goodluck btw

Op, read my signature.

major466:
Op, read my signature.

thank u bro am so happy now

OGeeKush:


Best feeling in the world bro
Goodluck btw

yea I can testify

falconey:
you are 23 and a graduate in this country #showmeyourCERT.

People graduate earlier than 23 in Nigeria. You don't blame anyone for your slow education.

phlio:
I never knew am a product of a broken union

That is why I said to go ahead and grieve and then have a sit down and talk about it with your father.

How come a friends story suddenly turned to urs?
Na wa

morethanadoll:

That is why I said to go ahead and grieve and then have a sit down and talk about it with your father.

i did dear...am with my mom now

phlio:
I never knew am a product of a broken union

Not that I am proud of my parents actions of conceiving me out of wedlock, but I am a product of a broken union. I do not approve of this, but as an adult, I understand that people make mistakes and in the process, they can be cursed or blessed. Either way, I would like to think of a child being born as a blessing because the gift of life comes our God himself! However, this didn't change that fact that both of my parents loved me dearly. It also didn't stop me from pursuing my dreams or my outlook on them as my parents. Your case may be a little different due to your mother not being there, and I may not be right completely, but am almost 90% positive that your mother will be happy to see you. You stated that you are a college graduate and that is not an easy accomplishment in general, no matter what country a person is from and I can speak for that! She will be proud! Good luck on your first visit!

phlio:
i did dear...am with my mom now

YAY! I hope that everything is going very well for you! Keep us posted!

falconey:
you are 23 and a graduate in this country #showmeyourCERT.

huh?dude i graduated at 21 and no not a private university!
Shuo

morethanadoll:


YAY! I hope that everything is going very well for you! Keep us posted!

yea so well over here...my mom is great am working on their reconciliation I mean dad n mom