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Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: Sometimes I wish God can just switch roles . . . make men women and women men . . Just for a day! Some of you men blabbing here will poising your husbands (wives) over night! |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by coogar: 12:37pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon: you can lose the rights if you abuse the privilege. many like you have lost it - be careful.
so your excuse for behaving irresponsibly is hormonal? biko, go for a sėx change. you make a mockery of responsible mothers. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:40pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:ehya sorry ehn keep wishing oooh. Meanwhile, good men are out there sha so its not like all men are bad. Seriously, if you put more effort in campaigning and warning women to learn not to be abusive instead of for men not to "beat their wives" the problem would die down quicker. But you women don't want that I guess. You always want to run ur mouth and expect silence. That's not good rili. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:42pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi: Yes, I am defending her because I know what it takes to carry a baby and birth one . . . and to get beaten-up by your partner over some flimsy fight, and then watch him brag about it And NO, I cannot see myself in her cos not only would I not date such a loser, I could NEVER let him get away with man-handling me. And yes, my husband knows I get a little crazy when pregnant, it makes the love sweeter when I off-load He is not so petty that he would hold that over me. I don't know sha . . . maybe I married a rare specie. 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:46pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
coogar: Let's not make this about me Coogar . . . cos I know you have a tendency to digress when you have nothing of value to contribute! The essence of this thread is to hear the other side of the story. I expected you guys edging him on in his thread to eat your words . . . but Mba nu . . . like TYPICAL Nigerian men you dont want to admit you were wrong. Instead you are here throwing stones at a woman you see is very much hurting and suffering from the effects of an abusive relationship. You guys should change oooh . . . There is God ooh . . 7 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:46pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MizMyColi: u just said d real thing.only God knows wat happened btw the op nd d guy. but no matter d reason a man shouldnt hit or abuse a woman. i have been there and i can only speak for myself. i endured a lot of rubbish for peace sake but instead of getting better it got worse coz he saw it as an avenue to manipulate nd abuse me verbally,emotionally and physically. everyone has a limit to wat they can take in.d moment that limit is stretched, the other side of d person manifests out of pain nd fustration which makes people think one is d bad nd irreponsible whereas d former is d real reason behind d reactions. i had to walk away finally with my child and av moved on a happy person. 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:53pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
That is how my husband's Aunt married a failure of a Man . . . He would beat her senseless over a flimsy excuse. My MIL (the woman's elder sister) tried to intervene and they used her to settle. See the woman accusing my MIL of trying to break-up her marriage. All because she advised her to leave an abusive man . . . Ngwa nu fast forward to 36 years later . . . The woman had to pack her property and run after finding concrete evidence that her husband wanted to kill her. . . she suffered and toiled and took all the abuse for 36 YEARS!!! The useless man nko? Carrying Uni girls up and down and sleeping with new girls every night in their marriage bed . . glad that he is finally free of a a 36YO marriage! A useless man is a useless man . . there is nothing you can do to change that! 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by coogar: 12:55pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon: there's nothing to contribute - the OP didn't ask anyone to contribute but like the tatafo that you are, you have already built a gossip mansion on the thread.
the essence of this thread is the exegesis of 2 adults behaving immaturely. the OP has confessed she's abused her partner and she got the deserved comeuppance. what else is there to admit? any woman that locks a man's shirt deserves a dirty slap!
the same abusive relationship she was the main actor? if she had let the man wander off to go vent, would she have been abused? she was the primary aggressor - she deserves everything that got dished to her......
of course there's God & that's exactly why she got pummelled. next time, she would learn to keep her hands to herself. if a woman cannot win an argument with her tongue, she should walk away from it. 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:56pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
ephee: I am so proud of you my sister . . . Not all of us would have that GUTS!!! 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:56pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:A useless woman is also a useless woman. There's nothing the poor man can do about it we are both right. Game over |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:58pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:Exactly, they were both trading words but the guy resorted to beating her up because he felt he was stronger.. mtcheeeeww 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:58pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: Hmm na wa for d girl oo. I guess she is just used to violence me I cannot do gra gra and let some guy pound my face. I nor get power |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:59pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
coogar:the bolded got me laughing real hard hahahahahaha
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Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 1:01pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:pls read the guy's post. The lady abused him physically several times and he managed the situation till that moment she locked him up. Before you conclude 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:02pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
coogar: This guy would have beat her up eventually . . . whether she held his shirt or not. The guy was an abuser waiting to happen! If you had the brain to read btw the lines, you would see that he is a controlling man . . who wants everything to be the way her decrees, down to the last T! Who art thou woman to dare question him Imagine the joy he got from beating her up, he had to open a thread just to brag. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 1:03pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
fem29:now you see that some ladies are just impossible. The girl had hit the guy frying pan on the head, abused his big aunty(over 4oyrs old) and many more. The guy didn't beat her up until that day she locked him inside and hid the key. And everyone would still expect him to be a gentle man if not he is termed "woman beater" 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:06pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014: Abii oo always saying nasty stuff about women |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 1:07pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:see as you just dey assume things for inside your mind *smh... Read the OP post over and over again and deduce the kind of person she is. Abusive(both physically and otherwise), talkative, her friends got into her head, etc... And you still see no problem with that? Interesting 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:09pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:I'm just wondering how she managed the beating. Me wey fear beating pass anything and guys are strong, one blow and you are down. I can't do what will warrant my man to beat me o, I will just faint. Me wey no get power. They should go settle their differences if you ask me. The guy in question loves op IMO. Op Pele. I don't even know what to say. Please take it easy. 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:11pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: Have I not said severally that OP dey Bleep up I could write an epistle on the things she did wrong I would NEVER use that as a justification for her to get beaten. He had a choice, make her his wife or leave her . . . he did neither. Even though he saw the wreck she was . . . even though she 'abused' him . . . he stayed on. . . and thinks she deserved to be beaten mercilessly? He has a daughter abi? How would he feel if someone punched her to the ground . . . . and then brags about it? |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:13pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Miraijj so you are lurking reading up the shit storm you created . Na wa for you oo, respond to us naa 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 1:15pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:I suppose don leave this thread but my problem is with you stressing more on the guy's fault I personally think the lady is worse than the guy. Even their stories is one proof to make such judgment. Since your own husband tolerate more from you and he is a "rare breed" don't expect every man to be like that. We different. 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:16pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver:Oga, that guy is one hell of an abuser, he even had sex with her that same night. Who knows if he even forced the girl because no woman in her right senses will think of sex after being beaten up/disgraced in the public. . Seems to me the girl was vulnerable while with him.. I may be right to also say that the girl started being aggressive after the ugly experience with him.. Even his words while describing how he beat up the girl, he said "she never got enough"... who knows how mercilessly she was beaten. ... I say it again, for a baby mama to walk away in this society where single moms are seen as bad examples, the situation must have been so bad and uncontrollable. . btw, are you mcdokwe? because the way you go about quoting people and defending the guy is so suspicious 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:19pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver:I think op posted out of anger. She sounds deeply hurt too and that's why the posted like that. Please go easy on her, no women would lock a man intentionally or should I say the story is not complete from from both ends. Husband and wife matter them no dey too put mouth because before you go say jack now them go don settle and we won't be there o. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:19pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: My husband is a 'saint' because he has NEVER laid his hands on me . . . the day he does, all the good he has done in the past will be swept away like yesterday's trash. My point? Somethings are just wrong . . . no matter how you look at it! The girl may not be a good person, but does she deserve to be beaten-up by a common baby daddy? In developed countries he will be in jail now for assault! He should NEVER have beaten her up . . . That's just wrong. And to say she deserved it is confirmation that he is indeed suffering from severe psychological problems. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:20pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Miraijj: Thank you! After I read his rubbish with fellow eediots hailing him I knew he was crazy Thank God you woke up early Imagine a man being the cause of your shame using it to taunt you kwa Congratulate yourself for having the courage to leave,many don't 10 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 1:20pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:Looooooooooooolz* it amazes me you see nothing wrong in her. Well, am not mcdonald or whatever he is called... There is just one thing I hate to see or read or ear. Abusive women. And you all always hide under the "you know we women talk a lot" It gets me freaked out... And for the society thingy, comon I thought you people want feminism to grow? Equality ish, this is what you have to deal with stand criticism like a man, let's see how far you all can go in this present Nigeria... Problem* 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by ladyju(f): 1:22pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Herzumpther:Lol.. my husband is well built and strong. If we are having argument, I stays close to d door. If I just hear that is enough! My dear I don near gate. I can't even imagine him slapping me. I will just faint. I wonder how people cope with abusive marriage. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:22pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
bestestgirl: I have landed like land cruiser 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:24pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Herzumpther:@bolded, ..no be lie.. Nne, I can't endure beatings too oo... I'm naturally not strong, even while in sec school I avoided quarrels because no strength to fight... Yeah, the guy loves her I think too..They should just resolve this privately instead of this whole nl thing, anyway that's what makes nl fun |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 1:25pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
ladyju:Lmao. My sister you are doing the right thing abeg, who wan die. and you know we women, our mouth sometimes fit make Lucifer vex bow to God. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 1:25pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:there you go again... You forgot to mention how lousy and abusive she could have been... Good judgment... No one deserves physical abuse, also no one deserves to be abused verbally you need to comprehend the later. and I put it to you that if you campaign for woman to respect their tongue more instead of men to be gentle men. It will go a long way. But no you don't want that... Loooolz* pls pack your bag and go to America if you want such... For that perspective to work here we men have to agree to it but as you can see we don't so its not gonna work |
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