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Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by lolaxavier(op): 10:09am On Mar 29, 2015
We've seen candidates say things against each, we've heard of members of rival parties exchange blows. What we haven't heard is marital discord over rival political candidates.

Not until now.

Ikenna Ohaegbulam, a Buhari (APC) supporter, came on Twitter to express his pain when he discovered his wife voted Jonathan (PDP).

Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by TrishaP(f): 10:12am On Mar 29, 2015
Hehehe.. for better or for worse. grin
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by lolaxavier(op): 10:20am On Mar 29, 2015
I once posted a topic related to this situation last week. I feel regardless of your political inclination, your family members are entitled to still vote for their choice. The fact that the husband has his candidate for whatever reason does not mean the wife and children must follow same. In my opinion, this gentleman has only decided to make it an issue just because he wants to exercise his superiority as the head of the house but truth be told, that should not apply in this case. INEC did not issue PVC family by family. It was done on an individual basis. Hence, everyone is entitled to vote their choice.
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by UrennaNkoli(f): 10:22am On Mar 29, 2015
Me seeing someone voting for a person like GEJ makes me shake my head in pity for such fellow
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by Babalegba(m): 10:22am On Mar 29, 2015
It goes the other way too, the wife could feel betrayed that the husband voted against her choice.
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by lolaxavier(op): 10:25am On Mar 29, 2015
UrennaNkoli:
Me seeing someone voting for a person like GEJ makes me shake my head in pity for such fellow
Me too but sticking to the main subject matter, I still feel everyone has the right to cast their vote for the preferred candidate...
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by SlimBrawnie(f): 10:30am On Mar 29, 2015
I used to say "I'd rather live in a country with failed economy than a country where I cant carry my bible" However, now I believe whoever wins, God wins!!! He knows the end from the begining, let His perfect will be done.
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by PassingShot(m): 10:34am On Mar 29, 2015
SlimBrawnie:
I'd rather live in a country with failed economy than a country where I cant carry my bible. Well, whoever wins, God wins!!! He knows the end from the begining.
Why won't you be able to carry your bible? Bible will suddenly become too heavy to carry?

undecided
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by lolaxavier(op): 10:38am On Mar 29, 2015
SlimBrawnie:
I used to say "I'd rather live in a country with failed economy than a country where I cant carry my bible" However, now I believe whoever wins, God wins!!! He knows the end from the begining, let His perfect will be done.
huh huh huh
Not sure how this ties in with the post..
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by imsuboi(m): 10:44am On Mar 29, 2015
in an issue as sensitive as this, I'll maintain a neutral stance and just view(read) comments

Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by Jwonder(m): 10:46am On Mar 29, 2015
Stupidity in it's highest level..
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by bimflash(f): 10:50am On Mar 29, 2015
this is kinda funny tho
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by Nobody: 10:51am On Mar 29, 2015
Something similar happened in my PU yesterday.....the wife was still adamant to vote GEJ while the hubby was still trying to convince her to vote Buhari. It was very interesting listening to them...both speaking Igbo and intermittently adding English. grin
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by saintfizzo(m): 10:52am On Mar 29, 2015
In as much as the wife has her sole right of choice of candidate.... I understand d husband's sentiment, the suffering in this country is too much to withstand wickedness of leaders and allow it's continuity,he shld hav had a healthy argument with d wife b4 28th, plus he ain't got to worry... GMB is sure to win.

SAI BABA
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by yorke1: 10:54am On Mar 29, 2015
Your wife is wiser than you.
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by lolaxavier(op): 10:56am On Mar 29, 2015
saintfizzo:
In as much as the wife has her sole right of choice of candidate.... I understand d husband's sentiment, the suffering in this country is too much to withstand wickedness of leaders and allow it's continuity,he shld hav had a healthy argument with d wife b4 28th, plus he ain't got to worry... GMB is sure to win.

SAI BABA
Sorry to say, I don't think your argument holds in this instance. Come to think of it, what if the husband had wanted to vote for GEJ and the wife wants GMB...We all know we want a change but what do you expect the wife to have done in this case.
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by lolaxavier(op): 11:06am On Mar 29, 2015
Babalegba:
It goes the other way too, the wife could feel betrayed that the husband voted against her choice.
Well said...Thank you.
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by nerodenero: 11:10am On Mar 29, 2015
How can you lose trust for your wife over polithiefcians who never say what they mean and will never mean what they say? Polithiefcians don't have loyalty and trust in their dictionary and yet a foolish man wants to lose trust for his wife over these thieves.

Mature men keeps their family together and only a weakling like this man tears his family apart over nothing.

What is marriage without trust?.Anyway, I wish you the best in this your endeavor.
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by lolaxavier(op): 11:18am On Mar 29, 2015
nerodenero:
How can you lose trust for your wife over polithiefcians who never say what they mean and will never mean what they say? Polithiefcians don't have loyalty and trust in their dictionary and yet a foolish man wants to lose trust for his wife over these thieves.

Mature men keeps their family together and only a weakling like this man tears his family apart over nothing.

What is marriage without trust?.Anyway, I wish you the best in this your endeavor.
I don't know how it should have even been an issue at all in the first place...
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by lolaxavier(op): 1:16pm On Mar 29, 2015
yorke1:
Your wife is wiser than you.
huh huh huh
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by Igwe9(m): 1:20pm On Mar 29, 2015
That man is a fool, what if he is wrong and the wife is right.
He should hold his grievances until the end of the tenure of whoever wins.
Re: Man Feels Betrayed Because Wife Voted Different Candidate by lolaxavier(op): 1:22pm On Mar 29, 2015
Igwe9:
That man is a fool, what if he is wrong and the wife is right.
He should hold his grievances until the end of the tenure of whoever wins.
I quite agree..
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