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Okay, after days of studying the numerous e-fights and e-harassments, I came up with a list. Now this list to some of you may sound foolish, while others may actually benefit from it. Whatever group you decide to fall into, its your business, not mine....

Anyways, here goes:

1. Mind your language.
What words do you use online? Cuss words? 'Clean' words or plain stupid ones? Now do u know that the words you type in can actually be used to judge u? U see a very smart looking person's post containing things like, "Sh*t" or "Fu*k" or any of those vulgar words, what comes to mind? A loose one yeah? Surely u wouldn't term the person responsible and might probably degrade him or her. This paves way for e-disrespect and e-harrassment, take it from me.

2. Watch the pictures you upload.
Now don't get me wrong, you have the right to show the world how sexy and confident you are, everyone does. But the question is, how do u show it? Do u think a picture of your partly 'underboobs selfie' or almost covered butt sends the right message? Sister mi, na wahala u just dey buy. Guys will admire it, yes...but will surely not relent to call u cheap when the time calls for it. And what does that lead to?

3. Avoid open confrontations.
There exists some real nasty people that figuratively poke their e-fingers into your eyes. They openly diss u or turn your seemingly innocent words against you just to get an angry reaction from you. What to do? Ignore them. Another thing you can do is play with words to turn a ticking time-bomb into a beachball. Cunning turn their words into jokes and you'd be surprised that this same 'dissers' would laugh it out with u. But if u can't do this, then log out jejely and return back when u are calm. Just don't diss them back.

4. Follow the rules of the 'Game'.
U click open a thread and see that there are 'invisible' rules as to what to say and how to say it, but just because you want to be different, u break the rules on purpose thereby drawing attention to yourself. Bros, na derailing be that. Whatever comes out of it is your problem.

5. Be nice.
You go through a thread one has actually taken time to construct and post and all u can post is, "You no get time...", or, "Jobless person..." or just anything to irk the OP. Please, if u have anything negative to say, say it within yourself. We don't need to read it. Coming out with negative things will surely attract unwanted attention...wetin u carry ur head carry no go affect another person.

These are my two cents. Feel free to add yours.

Twaci:
Okay, after days of studying the numerous e-fights and e-harassments, I came up with a list. Now this list to some of you may sound foolish, while others may actually benefit from it. Whatever group you decide to fall into, its your business, not mine....

Anyways, here goes:

1. Mind your language.
What words do you use online? Cuss words? 'Clean' words or plain stupid ones? Now do u know that the words you type in can actually be used to judge u? U see a very smart looking person's post containing things like, "Sh*t" or "Fu*k" or any of those vulgar words, what comes to mind? A loose one yeah? Surely u wouldn't term the person responsible and might probably degrade him or her. This paves way for e-disrespect and e-harrassment, take it from me.

2. Watch the pictures you upload.
Now don't get me wrong, you have the right to show the world how sexy and confident you are, everyone does. But the question is, how do u show it? Do u think a picture of your partly 'underboobs selfie' or almost covered butt sends the right message? Sister mi, na wahala u just dey buy. Guys will admire it, yes...but will surely not relent to call u cheap when the time calls for it. And what does that lead to?

3. Avoid open confrontations.
There exists some real nasty people that figuratively poke their e-fingers into your eyes. They openly diss u or turn your seemingly innocent words against you just to get an angry reaction from you. What to do? Ignore them. Another thing you can do is play with words to turn a ticking time-bomb into a beachball. Cunning turn their words into jokes and you'd be surprised that this same 'dissers' would laugh it out with u. But if u can't do this, then log out jejely and return back when u are calm. Just don't diss them back.

4. Follow the rules of the 'Game'.
U click open a thread and see that there are 'invisible' rules as to what to say and how to say it, but just because you want to be different, u break the rules on purpose thereby drawing attention to yourself. Bros, na derailing be that. Whatever comes out of it is your problem.

5. Be nice.
You go through a thread one has actually taken time to construct and post and all u can post is, "You no get time...", or, "Jobless person..." or just anything to irk the OP. Please, if u have anything negative to say, say it within yourself. We don't need to read it. Coming out with negative things will surely attract unwanted attention...wetin u carry ur head carry no go affect another person.

These are my two cents. Feel free to add yours.

That's just it. You are waaaaaayy too cool and that's how I noticed you here on NL.

1 and 5 perfectly describes you.

Wish I was like you but it would spoil all the fun here jawee. Plus the e-fights and all sorts just makes me laff.

Nice List once again dear.

*Muaaaaaahhhhhhh*

But there is freedom to do things, one cant b living in fear of what other people would say .. Its like we fear ppl pass GOD its ridic.. Everyone should be free to do want they want .

Without ppl constanly judging them ...

We need threapy thread here for some ppl .. Dat take offence to words, pics , etc .. .. Taking pics n posing hw dey want its their biz ppl go out of their way to click on profile .. Y .. Do they have to click . Do they have to quote ?they just have something to cht about since they cant come up with better topic .. I just think its soo pathetic ..




Just my thoughts still agree with some of the things Op said sha ..

Lala247:
But there is freedom to do things, one cant b living in fear of what other people would say .. Its like we fear ppl pass GOD its ridic.. Everyone should be free to do want they want .

Without ppl constanly judging them ...

We need threapy thread here for some ppl .. Dat take offence to words, pics , etc .. .. Taking pics n posing hw dey want its their biz ppl go out of their way to click on profile .. Y .. Do they have to click . Do they have to quote ?they just have something to cht about since they cant come up with better topic .. I just think its soo pathetic ..




Just my thoughts still agree with some of the things Op said sha ..

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Lala247:
But there is freedom to do things, one cant b living in fear of what other people would say .. Its like we fear ppl pass GOD its ridic.. Everyone should be free to do want they want .

Without ppl constanly judging them ...

We need threapy thread here for some ppl .. Dat take offence to words, pics , etc .. .. Taking pics n posing hw dey want its their biz ppl go out of their way to click on profile .. Y .. Do they have to click . Do they have to quote ?they just have something to cht about since they cant come up with better topic .. I just think its soo pathetic ..




Just my thoughts still agree with some of the things Op said sha ..

Nice angle to it.

Twaci:
Okay, after days of studying the numerous e-fights and e-harassments, I came up with a list. Now this list to some of you may sound foolish, while others may actually benefit from it. Whatever group you decide to fall into, its your business, not mine....

Anyways, here goes:

1. Mind your language.
What words do you use online? Cuss words? 'Clean' words or plain stupid ones? Now do u know that the words you type in can actually be used to judge u? U see a very smart looking person's post containing things like, "Sh*t" or "Fu*k" or any of those vulgar words, what comes to mind? A loose one yeah? Surely u wouldn't term the person responsible and might probably degrade him or her. This paves way for e-disrespect and e-harrassment, take it from me.

2. Watch the pictures you upload.
Now don't get me wrong, you have the right to show the world how sexy and confident you are, everyone does. But the question is, how do u show it? Do u think a picture of your partly 'underboobs selfie' or almost covered butt sends the right message? Sister mi, na wahala u just dey buy. Guys will admire it, yes...but will surely not relent to call u cheap when the time calls for it. And what does that lead to?

3. Avoid open confrontations.
There exists some real nasty people that figuratively poke their e-fingers into your eyes. They openly diss u or turn your seemingly innocent words against you just to get an angry reaction from you. What to do? Ignore them. Another thing you can do is play with words to turn a ticking time-bomb into a beachball. Cunning turn their words into jokes and you'd be surprised that this same 'dissers' would laugh it out with u. But if u can't do this, then log out jejely and return back when u are calm. Just don't diss them back.

4. Follow the rules of the 'Game'.
U click open a thread and see that there are 'invisible' rules as to what to say and how to say it, but just because you want to be different, u break the rules on purpose thereby drawing attention to yourself. Bros, na derailing be that. Whatever comes out of it is your problem.

5. Be nice.
You go through a thread one has actually taken time to construct and post and all u can post is, "You no get time...", or, "Jobless person..." or just anything to irk the OP. Please, if u have anything negative to say, say it within yourself. We don't need to read it. Coming out with negative things will surely attract unwanted attention...wetin u carry ur head carry no go affect another person.

These are my two cents. Feel free to add yours.

Smallie, all these protocols just to avoid E-harassment?

kishimi8:

mr copy and paste
ah say make ah help ur ministry small

rule 101: If it is long enough, QUOTE IT

sleepking:
mr copy and paste
ah say make ah help ur ministry small

rule 101: If it is long enough, QUOTE IT

Haha..never said it was mine... just wanted to educate her on the existing rules of the Internet..

Twaci:
Okay, after days of studying the numerous e-fights and e-harassments, I came up with a list. Now this list to some of you may sound foolish, while others may actually benefit from it. Whatever group you decide to fall into, its your business, not mine....

Anyways, here goes:

1. Mind your language.
What words do you use online? Cuss words? 'Clean' words or plain stupid ones? Now do u know that the words you type in can actually be used to judge u? U see a very smart looking person's post containing things like, "Sh*t" or "Fu*k" or any of those vulgar words, what comes to mind? A loose one yeah? Surely u wouldn't term the person responsible and might probably degrade him or her. This paves way for e-disrespect and e-harrassment, take it from me.

2. Watch the pictures you upload.
Now don't get me wrong, you have the right to show the world how sexy and confident you are, everyone does. But the question is, how do u show it? Do u think a picture of your partly 'underboobs selfie' or almost covered butt sends the right message? Sister mi, na wahala u just dey buy. Guys will admire it, yes...but will surely not relent to call u cheap when the time calls for it. And what does that lead to?

3. Avoid open confrontations.
There exists some real nasty people that figuratively poke their e-fingers into your eyes. They openly diss u or turn your seemingly innocent words against you just to get an angry reaction from you. What to do? Ignore them. Another thing you can do is play with words to turn a ticking time-bomb into a beachball. Cunning turn their words into jokes and you'd be surprised that this same 'dissers' would laugh it out with u. But if u can't do this, then log out jejely and return back when u are calm. Just don't diss them back.

4. Follow the rules of the 'Game'.
U click open a thread and see that there are 'invisible' rules as to what to say and how to say it, but just because you want to be different, u break the rules on purpose thereby drawing attention to yourself. Bros, na derailing be that. Whatever comes out of it is your problem.

5. Be nice.
You go through a thread one has actually taken time to construct and post and all u can post is, "You no get time...", or, "Jobless person..." or just anything to irk the OP. Please, if u have anything negative to say, say it within yourself. We don't need to read it. Coming out with negative things will surely attract unwanted attention...wetin u carry ur head carry no go affect another person.

These are my two cents. Feel free to add yours.

Very Thoughtful post!


Girl..,

YOU ARE VERY SMART..!!

Your Boyfriend must be very Lucky!!!

Very Thoughtful post!


Girl..,

YOU ARE VERY SMART..!!

Your Boyfriend must be very Lucky!!!

Thirsty niggas everywhere

some people are natural bullies, dey just wait for a prey, innocent as the person maybe, the end up getting harrassed,
my own opinion,

1, if someone quotes u and abuse u, read the post laugh 'lol', i swear, e go pain the person.

2. if another bullies picks up a new abuse, ignore,

this above is maturity.
anything E- na utopia!

6. When u comment do not always go back to read the follow ups.
7. Minimise attention seeking and famzing.
8. Dont comment all the time
9. Ignore irrelevancies. I.e trolls, Attention seeking OP's and their posts etc