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I met her in our teen age, we were friends, so close and innocent back then, that no strings were attached to our relationship. I had always waited for a girl that will agree with my spirit, so I won't give excuses later; this took place 2005/6.

2013 we met again, I told her my mind - that I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but she declined saying that we are too close to get into relationship.

I just discovered she is the one I have been waiting for without knowing and now am feeling the pressure of flirting which I don't want to do.

Guys pls how do I get her to agree with me.

Thanks for your help.

Reasons why she said no.

U came too quickly with the "I want to spend the rest of my life with u"

Acted like a "brother" and not like a boyfrnd

U weren't tall, dark and handsom

U weren't buyn her gifts

philomental:
I met her in our teen age, we were friends, so close and innocent back then, that no strings were attached to our relationship. I had always waited for a girl that will agree with my spirit, so I won't give excuses later; this took place 2005/6.

2013 we met again, I told her my mind - that I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but she declined saying that we are too close to get into relationship.

I just discovered she is the one I have been waiting for without knowing and now am feeling the pressure of flirting which I don't want to do.

Guys pls how do I get her to agree with me.

Thanks for your help.

Show her you are the best pick she can have. Try to be outstanding.. Don't act like a brother.
Try to be more romantic without flirting

Cutehector:
Reasons why she said no.

U came too quickly with the "I want to spend the rest of my life with u"

Acted like a "brother" and not like a boyfrnd

U weren't tall, dark and handsom

U weren't buyn her gifts

SHE SAID THEY'RE TOO CLOSED TO START ANY RELATIONSHIP.
SHE FORGOT TO MENTION THOSE PARTS YOU MENTIONED
INCLUDING THE PART THAT SAYS HE'S ETERNALLY BROKE,UNROMANTIC AND UGLY,

OP.. SHE'S KNOWN YOUR FORM FROM DAY ONE AND SO SHE DON'T THINK ITS PRETTY YOU BOTH START TO PAM.
GET YOURSELF TOGETHER MY MAN, TRY ANOTHER DAY!

swaggzo:

SHE SAID THEY'RE TOO CLOSED TO START ANY RELATIONSHIP.
SHE FORGOT TO MENTION THOSE PARTS YOU MENTIONED
INCLUDING THE PART THAT SAYS HE'S ETERNALLY BROKE,UNROMANTIC AND UGLY,

OP.. SHE'S KNOWN YOUR FORM FROM DAY ONE AND SO SHE DON'T THINK ITS PRETTY YOU BOTH START TO PAM.
GET YOURSELF TOGETHER MY MAN, TRY ANOTHER DAY!

lol

am so grateful to all of you, I am really learning. Actually at a point I acted as a brother, now I know it doesn't work that way.

I hope I will update u guys, as progress is made.