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| 10 Body Language Mistakes To Avoid In An Interview by Sconty09(op): 4:42am On May 17, 2015 |
Body language can betray you in a job interview if you’re not aware of how your body acts or reacts without your consent. From eye contact to arm touching, here are a list of 10 body language mistakes to avoid in your next job interview: 1. Bad Posture Leaning back is lazy or arrogant, leaning forward is aggressive and slouching is just lazy. Instead, sit tall and straighten your back as much as possible. 2. Crossed Arms According to psychology crossing arms often signals defensiveness and resistance. Open your arms at your sides to appear approachable and receiving. This will put your interviewer at ease and make them feel comfortable communicating with you. 3. Hands Behind Back Clasping hands behind the back may signal resistance and could mean to the other person that you’re hiding something. It’s important that you appear open and approachable so don’t try to control your body gestures by keeping your hands still behind your back. 4. Pointing Pointing and excessive hands movement results in invading the other person’s space aggressively. You certainly don’t want that to happen in an interview. 5. Breaking Eye Contact Don't stare, but try to hold your interviewers gaze for one extra second before breaking away. Do this especially at the beginning when you introduce yourself and shake hands with the interviewer. 6. Excessive Nodding Many people nod a lot during interviews out of anxiety and their desire to appear agreeable and friendly. Nod once or twice with a smile of agreement but don’t over do it or you will appear nervous, silly or trying too hard. 7. Fidgeting Stop fidgeting. It distracts your interviewer and you definitely want them to focus on what you have to say not on your moving hands or the sound of coins jingling in your pocket. 8. Unwanted facial expressions It is crucial for your facial expressions to match your tone. If you want to express your enthusiasm for working at the company but your facial expressions convey that the mere idea of that is torturing you, forget about being hired. 9. Shifty Eyes Distracted or upward eye movements can suggest someone is lying or not sure of themselves. It's important to look someone directly in the eye to convey confidence and certainty. 10. Staring While it's important to be confident and look the interviewer in the eye, you have to break away. Locking eyes with someone for an extended period of time can be interpreted as aggressive, not to mention creepy |
| Re: 10 Body Language Mistakes To Avoid In An Interview by sammoe(m): 4:58am On May 17, 2015 |
True. You'll want to appear confident and trustworthy. |
| Re: 10 Body Language Mistakes To Avoid In An Interview by Medley(m): 7:45am On May 17, 2015 |
You don't need all this body posture guidelines if you are your own boss. Lets encourage topics that will instill entrepreneural spirit on Nigerians,else leaders of tomorrow,will always be a future unrealistic term |
| Re: 10 Body Language Mistakes To Avoid In An Interview by Lobolintin(m): 8:46am On May 17, 2015 |
11, don't lie |
| Re: 10 Body Language Mistakes To Avoid In An Interview by Sconty09(op): 3:50pm On May 17, 2015 |
Medley:Everybody cannot be a boss,there re professionals working in facebook, microsoft and thousands of global companies. Surely they need professionals to work and make the company great,even when you have your company or become a boss you also need your workers to be professionals. Some Nigerians are shortsighted and ignorants. |
| Re: 10 Body Language Mistakes To Avoid In An Interview by Medley(m): 8:55pm On May 17, 2015 |
Sconty09:you've made your point,why then result to insults. We all know only a few have the enterpreneural skill and can take the risk to invest in new businesses. My post was made to encourage the ''few'' |
| Re: 10 Body Language Mistakes To Avoid In An Interview by Sconty09(op): 9:32pm On May 17, 2015 |
Medley:I am SORRY,Forgive Me |
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