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When you think of the most confident
women you know, like Malala Yousafzai,
Oprah Winfrey, or even a Kanye West
interrupted Taylor Swift, what is it these
ladies have in common that allows them to
approach life so fearlessly? They carry
themselves with an air of success, grace,
and determination. The energy changes
when they enter a room.They are
memorable.

See how many of this list of pitfalls you
avoid and how you measure up as a
confident woman.

1. They don’t gossip.
Confident women don’t talk about other
women, they talk about their dreams, plans and aspirations.

2. They don’t doubt themselves:
You won’t hear them second-guessing their
decisions. Hesitation isn’t part of their
process. They know what they are doing and why they are doing it at all times. They think their decisions through thoroughly but once they decide, they decide.

3. They don’t follow trends
Confident women aren’t trend followers
they are trend setters. They spend no time
thinking about what is “in” and instead they make choices based on what they like. They are finely attuned to their own needs and preferences. And they are not afraid to ask for what they want.

4. They don’t try to please people
When a woman is self-assured, she does not need external approval. This allows the
confident woman to be her true self and
trust that people who like her, like her for
who she truly is. She leads from her heart
and has the inner-strength to handle
opposition.

5. They don’t waste time on worrying.
Time is valuable so spending it concerned
about what-ifs, should-haves or could-have-beens is not useful to the confident woman.
She knows that worry is like paying interest
on a loan before you have been approved.

6. They don’t have regret
They learn from the past and they recognize where they have made poor choices but there’s no regret. Being able to learn from the past rather than regret it oozes confident.

7. They don’t see failures as defeats
In fact, they are usually the ones who can
tell you how many times Henry Ford went
bankrupt before he became successful
(three!). They recognize that on the path to
success their are always bumps in the road.

The ease with which they recover allows
them to keep moving forward in their
determined fashion.

8. They don’t ignore their instincts
Even when all the facts seem to point one
way, if their gut says the other, that is the
way they go. They know that instinct is our
strongest ally in decision making so they
listen to it religiously.

9. They don’t glorify busy
Productive is different than busy. They get
the job done, they just don’t feel
overwhelmed as they are doing it.

10. They don’t aspire to be popular
They value authenticity in others and only
want friends with whom they share a deep
connection. They like challenging
conversations and this doesn’t lead to
popularity but they don’t care.

11. They don’t want fans they want
supporters
They probably have 900 Facebook friends
and a ton of followers on Instagram but
what they value is the content of their
newsfeed, not the numbers. Quality over
quantity every time.

12. They don’t equate who they are with
what they have
They know that stuff doesn’t define them so their choices in clothing and cars is based on what they like not on how they want to be perceived.

http://globalgists.com/12-things-that-confident-women-dont-do/

Very true... gud job mean. ..

The last one died 103BC

An Example is me

13. They don't fart while sleeping.

I once read this in 1929

Nice one....

Everyone gossips..
Rich, poor, tall , slim, man, woman , confidence or not

Your number 1 - gossiping is total balderdash. Every human gossips!!

LadyBoss1:
Everyone gossips..
Rich, poor, tall , slim, man, woman , confidence or not

Not everyone,don't generalize things that way.

sinizia:
Your number 1 - gossiping is total balderdash. Every human gossips!!

I think you are only being judgmental,its only people that really have free time to waste that gossip.