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It is no longer news that a large number of relationships crush these days as a result of cheating partners.  
Cheating is a relationship killer any day any time unless there's a mutual ‎agreement among partners where it is no longer considered cheating but whatever they decide. 
Girls cheat so do guys but the one thing a lot of people fail to consider is the real reason their partners cheat and who is to blame.
A lot of guys are quick to conclude that ladies cheat as a result of greed. When she feels she's getting a better package from another guy. 
Guys too cheat! Yes but most times when ladies‎ find out their guys are cheating they either;
1. Start blaming themselves 
2. Start fighting the guy or worse
3. Go fighting the other girl...... nonsense! 
There's either a faithful or an unfaithful partner but there's one big but..... an unfaithful partner is unfaithful irrespective of what he or she gets‎. If she dates Bill Gate she'll still cheat. Even if he dates miss world he'll cheat. These are not the people I am referring to.
Am referring to a faithful partner who becomes unfaithful. 
I'm of the opinion that if your girl/guy cheats then you've missed something. 
A faithful girl will continue to be faithful so long as you treat her right(my opinion). Treating her right isn't always about how much money you can spend. There are still ladies who don't go after the money (TRUE). Understanding her is key and not assuming all girls will crawl at your feet because of your money. Same applies for a guy. Not all guys wanna die inside your honey pot. Guys actually look beyond your appearance to see what you can bring to the table. A guy can teach a girl how to cook, be good in bed, how to manage a home but you can't teach a girl how to support you.
Before a guy or girl (faithful) cheats, it means the other party has left some loopholes. Girls don't always cheat because they find a richer guy no!.
Sometimes it's because they found;
1. A better friend
2. A better listener 
3. One who isn't too busy for the or one who wants a better life for them outside the bedroom.
Guys don't always cheat because they don't find you sexy anymore or because you always ask for money.
Sometimes it's because they found;
1. Some other girl who realises life doesn't start and end around her waist.
2. A girl who feels it's better to plan a home than know all the places with natural hair
3. A girl who knows no matter how much money she has she doesn't automatically become the man.


There are no fast rules when it comes to dating but you can avoid certain errors. 




N:B share your reasons why you think un faithfulness is a ‎major relationship breaker.

Because human wants are insatiable

Law of economics!

according to Abraham Maslow's theory of human wants, Sex is one of the primary needs of humans that if left unattended to, it can cause disturbance to other secondary needs like safety, love. self esteem and self actualisation.
he also noted that a need can be met in an healthy or unhealthy manner.
so, a man who can't perform in bed will make his wife satisfy her need of sex from someone else which is an unhealthy manner of satisfying a need but the need has to be met and vice versa!!!
so, it's both the woman and man that are to be blamed.

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An unfaithful person will always cheat irrespective of whom he/she is dating.
No man/woman is 100%, we've all got weaknesses and loopholes here and there, so OP your excuse of a wholesome package from a guy to curb his girl's cheating tendencies is a joke and a fat one at that!
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gregzone:
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An unfaithful person will always cheat irrespective of whom he/she is dating.
No man/woman is 100%, we've all got weaknesses and loopholes here and there, so OP your excuse of a wholesome package from a guy to curb his girl's cheating tendencies is a joke and a fat one at that!
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so indirectly you are saying there's isn't a girl. Who doesn't cheat?

Mzflexydeeva:
so indirectly you are saying there's isn't a girl. Who doesn't cheat?

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I'm saying directly that "a cheat" will always cheat no matter where she finds herself.
All girls aren't cheats. Don't misinterpret me.
Some hoes are still loyal.
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gregzone:
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I'm saying directly that "a cheat" will always cheat no matter where she finds herself.
All girls aren't cheats. Don't misinterpret me.
Some hoes are still loyal.
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hmmmmmm! I'm not talking of curbing a cheating girl.... every one has d tendency to cheat but with the right attitude you can stop it or with the wrong attitude push them to it

From the look of things, am beginning to see cheating as a natural phenomenon which when the urge comes you hardly resist it.

It's very rare in our society today that significant number of our so called married couples out there usually cheat on their partner ranging from one reason to the other.

BACK TO THE TOPIC: Well, If you ask me now, I cannot categorically tell you that Ladies cheat because of greediness.
Some of them cheat as a result of ignorance.

BobUg28:
From the look of things, am beginning to see cheating as a natural phenomenon which when the urge comes you hardly resist it.

It's very rare in our society today that significant number of our so called married couples out there usually cheat on their partner ranging from one reason to the other.

BACK TO THE TOPIC: Well, If you ask me now, I cannot categorically tell you that Ladies cheat because of greediness.
Some of them cheat as a result of ignorance.

well said