₦airaland Forum

Stancity:
Dedicated to my baby gal rmfunky
AND ALSO TO MY Counter Terrorism Squad!!!

Physika
Hilsocial
Ayima
2el
Majidusuf
Babatawa
Gazaliah
iykebesbt1
thespark
Aare2050 [my e-boy]
horladmejy
miccoy
starlight101
ETC

Annybens1993:
awww darling. ..welcome back. missed u

chikaodili345:
Welcome back

Venom104:
Reside in Lagos.. No?

Gazaliah:

Cc iykebesbt1

theSpark:
Fresh out from jail/ban/exile. I feel like Mandela, wrongfully imprisoned . Good to be back

The thought of Annybens1993 kept me going

Where are these guys?
Chikaodili345
venom104
allsmyles
sambest2
babatawa
haliluck
jemimaa01
majidyusuf



I saw miccoy in jail too his cell was too cells before mine. He will be released in a few days time.

Meanwhile barka da Ramadan

theSpark:
Fresh out from jail/ban/exile. I feel like Mandela, wrongfully imprisoned . Good to be back

The thought of Annybens1993 kept me going

Where are these guys?
Chikaodili345
venom104
allsmyles
sambest2
babatawa
haliluck
jemimaa01
majidyusuf



I saw miccoy in jail too his cell was too cells before mine. He will be released in a few days time.

Meanwhile barka da Ramadan

Aare2050:
*drives in from the left*
good evenin e~famz
zitalin stop peepin, come inside, ok?
stancity, chai, 'derezgodoh' allsmyles, good pm my dear dream sch. how has been ur day? you wil always be my 1st choice even if i write jamb 10 times. 2el, i like dis ur monika wella, abeg tell me wat it means.

Physika:
Hw far oga

theSpark:
Missed you more How's the weekend?

Allsmyles:
U sef, u no go gree mai c road?...4dt, ul write jamb tire

Annybens1993:
great..thanks! made wonderful decisions and it's working..I'm excited

Allsmyles:
Hope u ate enof beans sha...wlkum bak dearie

theSpark:
Cool... On the verge of making my own decisions. I hope they turn out wonderful. Meanwhile I share in your excitement.

chikaodili345:
Yes.

merikims:
tanx stan

Gazaliah:
QUESTION:::
What level of intimacy are we allowed between spouses? Are we allowed to flirt, gently touch, kiss, or hug our spouses while fasting?

Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem.
In optional fasts, all the above-mentioned acts are permitted so long as one does not engage in sexual intercourse. In obligatory fasts like Ramadan, one is allowed to do these only if one can control himself or herself. Breaking a Ramadhan fast through sexual intercourse is a serious offence; it entails a severe form of kaffarah (expiation), which involves fasting two months consecutively; if one cannot do this, one must feed sixty poor persons for a single day of fast.
Therefore, no conscientious Muslim should contemplate such activities while fasting if there is a risk of overstepping the boundaries. If there is no such fear, then light touching, or kissing, etc., when not accompanied by sexual desire, is permissible. When the Prophet (peace be upon him) was asked by a young man whether he can kiss his wife while fasting, he replied, "No", but when an elderly person came and asked him the same question, he replied, "Yes".
Reasons for this are clear: While it may be easier for an elderly person to control himself, that may not be the case with respect to a young person.
As far as the Prophet's own example is concerned, his beloved wife A'ishah reports that he used to kiss his wife while he was fasting. But then she added the following comment, "Who among you can control his sexual desire as the Prophet himself was able to control?"
In conclusion, since each person knows his own weaknesses better than others, he should exercise his own discretion in this matter. Thus, he is best advised to take necessary precautions when dealing with mandatory fasts. In case of voluntary fasts, however, because it does not involve any serious consequences if one were to break it because of uncontrollable sexual desire, the issue is far more flexible. May Allah guide us through our little efforts to act only for His sake. Ameen

theSpark:
This [] is the newly approved sigil for the Counter Terrorism Squad.

theSpark:
This [] is the newly approved sigil for the Counter Terrorism Squad.

Gazaliah:
QUESTION:::
What level of intimacy are we allowed between spouses? Are we allowed to flirt, gently touch, kiss, or hug our spouses while fasting?

Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem.
In optional fasts, all the above-mentioned acts are permitted so long as one does not engage in sexual intercourse. In obligatory fasts like Ramadan, one is allowed to do these only if one can control himself or herself. Breaking a Ramadhan fast through sexual intercourse is a serious offence; it entails a severe form of kaffarah (expiation), which involves fasting two months consecutively; if one cannot do this, one must feed sixty poor persons for a single day of fast.
Therefore, no conscientious Muslim should contemplate such activities while fasting if there is a risk of overstepping the boundaries. If there is no such fear, then light touching, or kissing, etc., when not accompanied by sexual desire, is permissible. When the Prophet (peace be upon him) was asked by a young man whether he can kiss his wife while fasting, he replied, "No", but when an elderly person came and asked him the same question, he replied, "Yes".
Reasons for this are clear: While it may be easier for an elderly person to control himself, that may not be the case with respect to a young person.
As far as the Prophet's own example is concerned, his beloved wife A'ishah reports that he used to kiss his wife while he was fasting. But then she added the following comment, "Who among you can control his sexual desire as the Prophet himself was able to control?"
In conclusion, since each person knows his own weaknesses better than others, he should exercise his own discretion in this matter. Thus, he is best advised to take necessary precautions when dealing with mandatory fasts. In case of voluntary fasts, however, because it does not involve any serious consequences if one were to break it because of uncontrollable sexual desire, the issue is far more flexible. May Allah guide us through our little efforts to act only for His sake. Ameen

dossylvanus:
Hello my people!


I am now a sabbatical member of this forum, but I still send my shootouts to all my goons and all the Afagbos in here.




Physika
Hilsocial
Ayima
2el
Majidusuf
Babatawa (Afagbo 1 of Aba meta)
Gazaliah
iykebesbt1
thespark
horladmejy
miccoy
starlight101


Chikaodili345 (My Shakara wife)

ETC

Kbs468:
Jazakallah khairan/khairun

Aare2050:
*yawn*
7:00pm, Why U Cm Dey walk with slow motion na?