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I have a friend who got married about 4years ago.The girl he got married to is also very close to me.They dated each other,for about 5years,during their dating, the guy impregnated the girl,and they subsequently got married. The girl has sickle cell anaemia and my friend was aware of her condition, because we all grew up in the same area.The girl looks healthy, because the parents are rich and were able to give her good medicare.The girl put to bed,few months after their marriage, but unfortunately, the baby has sickle cell anaemia also.My friend, travelled to Europe when the baby was about a year old.I was not happy,when i heard he travelled out,because due to the nature of the girl,i felt he needed to have been around her instead of travelling out of the country. About three weeks ago,the younger brother,told me that my friend had married a white lady in Europe and that the lady has even given birth to baby for my friend. My friend, cleverly hid this development from his wife and most of his friends in Nigeria. The issue now is that the wife has decided to fight in diabolic way.She used attend winners chapel,but i was very shocked,to know that she has switched to one very diabolical church in my area in other to fight back.my fear is that due to the stories that have been emanating from that Church, I have a very feeling, that my friend get severely hurt.I don't want my friend to get hurt even though I know that my friend was wrong.My question is,what do you think will be the best way to resolve this matter amicably?cc:lalasticlala

He should split his property into half and gv to d sickle cell wife.. And divorce her

Cutehector:
He should split his property into half and gv to d sickle cell wife.. And divorce her

The girl is financially okay.my friend Nv get money like that. Money nor b d wife problem. D girl is very angry that my friend used and dump her.The parents of the girl said the guy came kneeling down and begging them to allow their daughter get married to him after he impregnated her.

Abeg,our mamas in the house, i dey wait for who na advice o,i nor want anything bad happen to my friend.

Are u sure the story of your friend marrying another woman abroad is true? Have u confirmed it? Why would he go on his knees to beg to marry the sickle cell girl only for him to go after a white woman a short time later? Are u sure it's not visa runs and green card marriage he is doing?

Call your friend and find out the true facts from him. All of you seem to be jumping to conclusions.

5minsmadness:
Are u sure the story of your friend marrying another woman abroad is true? Have u confirmed it? Why would he go on his knees to beg to marry the sickle cell girl only for him to go after a white woman a short time later? Are u sure it's not visa runs and green card marriage he is doing?

Call your friend and find out the true facts from him. All of you seem to be jumping to conclusions.

I have confirmed it, the white lady has even giving birth to a baby girl for my friend.

Sir, do you like the girl and want marry her, maybe you can take over your friend's responsibility?

kandiikane:
Sir, do you like the girl and want marry her, maybe you can take over your friend's responsibility?

Lol,marry her?I am only concerned about the safety of my friend. I lost an uncle who resided over sea,due to some circumstances similar to that of my friend.may be that is why,I am very apprehensive.

Jorussia:
I have confirmed it, the white lady has even giving birth to a baby girl for my friend.

That your friend na mumu o.
Why e do this kain bad tin eh?
. If e no want d babe im for talk from the get go.

Guy pray for ya friend o cos if na me no be church I go go

Jorussia:
Lol,marry her?I am only concerned about the safety of my friend. I lost an uncle who resided over sea,due to some circumstances similar to that of my friend.may be that is why,I am very apprehensive.

Oh, you mean you want to intervene because you feel she might do juju on your friend? I get. No such thing.

5minsmadness:
That your friend na mumu o.
Why e do this kain bad tin eh?
. If e no want d babe im for talk from the get go.

Guy pray for ya friend o cos if na me no be church I go go

I just tire for the guy o.the fake church when d girl go so,the prophet pass babalawo o.One lady wen dey near me,the Lady come vex leave him husband after she don born four children. After about two years,The man come meet d woman for cross river,beg and paid her bride price.wen the woman take leave the husband, the husband come dey friend one woman whom don first gv birth to five children. The husband come send the girlfriend packing out of his house,since his wife is now.The girlfriend come go meet the prophet and after three weeks interval,the man just change his mind,he say make his wife comont for him house.

kandiikane:
Oh, you mean you want to intervene because you feel she might do juju on your friend? I get. No such thing.

Oh really

You never chi chum chin.

Are you close to and in contact with the sickle cell wife in Nigeria here? Are you still in contact with your friend abroad?

Jorussia:
I just tire for the guy o.the fake church when d girl go so,the prophet pass babalawo o.One lady wen dey near me,the Lady come vex leave him husband after she don born four children. After about two years,The man come meet d woman for cross river,beg and paid her bride price.wen the woman take leave the husband, the husband come dey friend one woman whom don first gv birth to five children. The husband come send the girlfriend packing out of his house,since his wife is now.The girlfriend come go meet the prophet and after three weeks interval,the man just change his mind,he say make his wife comont for him house.

Wow
Another Thing you can do bros is beg her for him. Apologise on his behalf. Also call him and tell him what he did was not cool at all. Let him call the girl or write a letter or something. Show some remorse.

What was/is your friend's plan?

5minsmadness:
Wow
Another Thing you can do bros is beg her for him. Apologise on his behalf. Also call him and tell him what he did was not cool at all. Let him call the girl or write a letter or something. Show some remorse.

I am planning on meeting her this week. I know their marriage may be over,i my own,is to see both of them separate in peace.I will beg her to desist from going to that Church, and leave everything for God.

dinachi:
Are you close to and in contact with the sickle cell wife in Nigeria here? Are you still in contact with your friend abroad?

sure, i even saw the lady today.i have her phone number.as for my friend, reaching him via is an issue for me.From my house the girl's parents house,is just about 15mins on foot.

5minsmadness:
Oh really

You never chi chum chin.

Has juju affected you in any way whatsoever or you have done juju on someone and it actually worked exactly as you planned?

Jorussia:
I just tire for the guy o.the fake church when d girl go so,the prophet pass babalawo o.One lady wen dey near me,the Lady come vex leave him husband after she don born four children. After about two years,The man come meet d woman for cross river,beg and paid her bride price.wen the woman take leave the husband, the husband come dey friend one woman whom don first gv birth to five children. The husband come send the girlfriend packing out of his house,since his wife is now.The girlfriend come go meet the prophet and after three weeks interval,the man just change his mind,he say make his wife comont for him house.

Op na wa for you oh, wetin you type put for here?

kandiikane:
Sir, do you like the girl and want marry her, maybe you can take over your friend's responsibility?

Seconded

emilyone:
Op na wa for you oh, wetin you type put for here?

Lol...

That man should come back from wherever he traveled to and resolved the issue at home! Why are you taking aspirin for his headache? If your friend is less bothered about his wife's diabolical plans against him, I guess the best you can do is just to advise him and steer clear.

OP I beg, DO NOT disclose any personal information to any party..

Talk to your friend as a friend to come and beg the parents even though he is not interested in her and talk to the babe to calm down