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| A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by MRSANITY(op): 2:18pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
They both have a kind of stigma in Africa (will change with time though), which is more acceptable, in other words guys which of these two will a young man marry and tongues will not wag, ladies which will you prefer your brother to marry. honest opinion needed. |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by efemenaslectura: 2:23pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
It's up to the man to decide the kind of woman he wants to  live with/wifethe day society becomes anybodys yardstick that is the day you will never achieve anything worthwhile in your life let's see what the next person has to say 1 Like |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by docmoses(m): 2:25pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
just incase... |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 2:26pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
hmmmm... |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
It's not up to my power to accept anyone as their relationship/sexual lives is none of my business. Lastly, I can't marry any of them. |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by histemple: 2:38pm On Jul 08, 2015*. Modified: 3:08pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
When it comes to issues of marriage, love and compatibility becomes the two most important considerations. More so, the choice of a partner between these two ( single mother and childless divorcee ) has no generally acceptance preference as it is dependent on the individual's assessment criteria. However, in a situation where both have equal ratings aside their status, and maybe they were just victims of circumstance (lets say the single mother was a victim of circumstance like rape and the divorcee was unfortunate to have inadvertently married a man who already has wife or wives somewhere else) then I will prefer the divorcee for my brother. 3 Likes |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by RoyalRoy(mod): 3:04pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
[color=#000033] Everyone has a preference when choosing a lady to wife. To be honest its hard picking the woman with a child and never married. Call it stigma or societal hypocrisy but its hard to just choose her cos of the stereotype belief. As for the divorcée, I can marry a divorcée provided I have a clear picture of why she is now divorced. A case of wife battery and adultery on the path of the man is a good reason to look past the divorce and still marry such woman. But of the divorce came because of health reasons.....caution is indeed a good virtue. Lollz [/color] 3 Likes |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by pickabeau1: 3:09pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
FrancisTony:May I ask why you cant marry a single mom> |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
pickabeau1:She's just like a second hand to me. |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by cococandy(f): 3:25pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
The one that best suits my dream partner at the moment 1 Like |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
its up to the guy to marry whoever he wants but to answer the question, i think the divorcee would get less stigma depending on the reason for the divorce |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by pickabeau1: 3:35pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
FrancisTony:coming from you, defender of women... Interesting 3 Likes |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by CBNIM: 3:38pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
FrancisTony:seriously SMH for you! so even if she's got all the attributes and qualities you've always prayed for, plus you're certain you both are compatible, you'll ignore her for simply having a child ? and will prolly rather settle with a chic that will prolly make sure your life is miserable and a living hell simply cos she's without a child? some people sha! well to each his own! @op, it all depends on the personality of the individual (lady) in question. if we're compatible and gat love for each other, I don't see why I won't marry either of them. 2 Likes |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by CBNIM: 3:41pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
cococandy:a million likes for you! 1 Like |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 3:44pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
pickabeau1:I won't post what I can't do. CBNIM:Thank God for the emboldened.  2 Likes |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by raumdeuter: 3:47pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
I would choose the divorcee |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by pickabeau1: 3:55pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
FrancisTony:ok are u sure u were not among those criticizing posters who will not marry single moms sayn they r stigmatizing them?  2 Likes |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
pickabeau1:No, and I can't remember such thread. 2 Likes |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Neither. The baby mama would invariably connect me to her baby daddy. Ain't nobody got time for drama. Per the divorcee, I'd be sceptical about marrying a woman who bailed out of her marriage before she could even get pregnant. That's a fvcking huuuge red flag. I'd bang them both, though...with protection. |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by pickabeau1: 4:11pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
FrancisTony:ok...no problem |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Haywhymido(m): 4:33pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
:-Xincase of incasity |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by MRSANITY(op): 5:13pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Timbuktou:lol |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by RoyalRoy(mod): 6:14pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Timbuktou:[color=#000033] Bad man Muchacho... Lollz. ***Plot Twist*** What if the pot got too much honey and you get stuck? #Lobatan.  [/color] 1 Like |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
RoyalRoy:Believe me, hombre. Ain't no woman got nearly enough honey to get me stuck.  . Well, not anymore. |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by RoyalRoy(mod): 7:14pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Timbuktou:[color=#000033] Ain't we all been there? Lollz....... [/color] |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by coogar: 7:48pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Timbuktou:https://38.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lm17mdWmDF1qinvcko1_400.gif 1 Like |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 8:00pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
RoyalRoy:You know what they say, "kids won't learn to respect fire until they get burned". . Had my fair share of burns. |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
coogar:Coogar, I just spat out my half-chewed suya and Stout. People are looking at me funny. |
| Re: A Single Mother Who Has Never Been Married Versus A Divorcee Without A Child. by austine4real(m): 9:40pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Divorcee all d way |
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