markidoo:
Nlanders check my profile pics n tell me if am LAXER THAN TREESE.

P I T O F H E L L ! ! !

markidoo:
Nlanders check my profile pics n tell me if am LAXER THAN TREESE.

TWATWAFFLE!

Why make sex a priority in marriage and even experimenting with toys? I don't have much words but I would say the little I got. A day is made of 24 hours and you want to ruin every single day of your lives with less than an hour pleasure. What happened to the 23hours? Is it that you cannot find other creative ways to have happiness in ur married life? Is it that you cannot find ways to find satisfaction with your kids, your lovely spouse without sex? When sex becomes a priority in your life, tell me what quality of time & quality of education do you ve for ur kids? There is more things that can give you true satisfaction in life than mere sex (God created sex as an auxiliary to family happiness not a primary factor or he would have written a whole book on it than any book by mankind).
Only the sight of someone you truly love can bring so much delight and pleasure.....if sex is what you both need and not the person involved then the sex has more value than your spouse. (Zoom to the street and get more..Fools)
On another note I know you going thru pains but you just brought that to yourself.... Shift your priority & get value for better things before you destroy ur marriage & blame sex...
Seriously, the world has lost its priority! smh...

treese:
Though he usually says he doesn't care about my self esteem but I don't think this has to do with self esteem alone. I think there is more. While we were dating we spoke about my sex life and body nature. It's not like I had too many relationships but I just knew men say my vaginal is kind of lax. Even wen I lost my virginity the guy called me a blunt liar to my face, saying I claimed to be a virgin when I wasn't.

You didn't bleed and getting in wasn't so hard. That is one ruined relationship that would have been awesome. And probably the last man standing. If you be virgin, you go know, if you not, you will know and I KNEW then that I was.

Now my husband knew this about my body and decides to stick with it. Somehow someway which I don't know after my first child, vaginal got tight, second child too same happened. To a certain extent it helped our sex life because it made him love it. And I could tell it's one of the reasons he probably hasn't cheated..

Just 2 days back. We had a little misunderstanding then I mentioned something about sèx. Quote me if am wrong. Sex is meant for bonding between a man and a woman and that's why God instituted it in marriage alone. So you both can get closer, and in my own opinion when there are issues BTW them the power of sex is to make forgiveness easy. The next thing my husband said is. It's not like am enjoying the sex. It's now feels like been in a pool.

OMG I was HURT. I lost the essence of life immediately, lost the essence of marriage. Out of anger I told him only men with big dicks should complain, men with pencils dares nor. That was my only defence because he said it with soooooo much heartlessness. I cried...i cried so much. This man that I have back sex with so that our sex life would be whole. Sometimes I bleed. Then I said to myself it's not worth it. Then I realised, For him if anything goes wrong with me due to that sexual style, Am on my own. Few hours later I sent him a text that I was sorry for everything not because it was easy but two wrongs never ever make a right in marriage. Can't walk away with two kids can only make it work.

Following day wen I saw he was in a good mood. I decided to ask, then he said I was lax and it has made sex unenjoyable. I wondered y he didn't tell me immediately he noticed and why he had to throw it to my face. But what, it's a man's world. If they don't reap their mean ways here on earth. It waits in heaven.

But trust me since then I have been concerned,Google all I could, nothing much. Even the kegel exercise has always been my practice. I now feel this time he might just look outside wen sex gets all pool like. He said he will buy toys, he said he can't pretend to love it wen he doesn't. Which I agree with. But even the toys can it ever be Like d real things. Sometimes he might want to feel the woman and not want toys. What happens next? I can't encourage him to cheat cos if he does and I find out I would leave with my kids. But I don't want him to. Am confused. So so confused. You know wen a man is concerned he will probably do research with you, find out info call doctors, but he didn't, he just broke the news to me and he's like do something about it or I might not be making out with u again. It's really not fair. Cos some men might possibly not go about it that way. But at the same time, it's like that's his nature. I can only Leave with it or take a walk. But take a walk to where, becos am now lax? But I also hear sex in marriage is KEY, with two kids, and I love him, but thatz still not the point. I DON'T know. Please who does? I have smiling all over the house, acting like everything is fine once am alone i cry again, because the fear is, would there ever be a solution , would I still be tight again, and this is a marriage where sex is sometimes 1 in 2 or 3 weeks, so definitely that's not the reason for my laxity, i will be sad if my marriage gets ruined because am lax. I hope my husband reads this thank God he is a nairalander

That's life for u, full of ups and downs. some complain of tight ones while others complain of lax ones. How be it, all hope is not lost, u can seek medical help from experts. Another issue is this, how adventurous is ur love making with ur husband? How active are u in bed? Some women are so naive and inexperienced in bed, all they know is d missionary style and nothing more and they are not ready to learn. There are more to marriage than just answering Mrs. Marriage has responsibilities. Outside marriage, u may not see them and marriage is not a bed of roses but u have to make it work. There are other love making styles that can spice up ur marriage and make u tighter. More importantly know how to use ur vaginal muscles, u can contract and relax ur vaginal muscles, when u contract them the vagina becomes tight and lax when u relax them. The vaginal muscles are elastic, they can expand and contract, learn to use them. Lastly, do u believe in GOD, if u do pray and GOD will answer u, there is no limit to what GOD can do.

tunde1200:
Get him drugs that will increase size of his penis now.
and have you both settle you problems on the cheating stuff?
and madam you are at fault.

How do you think the other woman will feel, when she realize your cooking for her husband.
She will give you hell and call you Ashewo.

oga which other woman?

treese:
Though he usually says he doesn't care about my self esteem but I don't think this has to do with self esteem alone. I think there is more. While we were dating we spoke about my sex life and body nature. It's not like I had too many relationships but I just knew men say my vaginal is kind of lax. Even wen I lost my virginity the guy called me a blunt liar to my face, saying I claimed to be a virgin when I wasn't.

You didn't bleed and getting in wasn't so hard. That is one ruined relationship that would have been awesome. And probably the last man standing. If you be virgin, you go know, if you not, you will know and I KNEW then that I was.

Now my husband knew this about my body and decides to stick with it. Somehow someway which I don't know after my first child, vaginal got tight, second child too same happened. To a certain extent it helped our sex life because it made him love it. And I could tell it's one of the reasons he probably hasn't cheated..

Just 2 days back. We had a little misunderstanding then I mentioned something about sèx. Quote me if am wrong. Sex is meant for bonding between a man and a woman and that's why God instituted it in marriage alone. So you both can get closer, and in my own opinion when there are issues BTW them the power of sex is to make forgiveness easy. The next thing my husband said is. It's not like am enjoying the sex. It's now feels like been in a pool.

OMG I was HURT. I lost the essence of life immediately, lost the essence of marriage. Out of anger I told him only men with big dicks should complain, men with pencils dares nor. That was my only defence because he said it with soooooo much heartlessness. I cried...i cried so much. This man that I have back sex with so that our sex life would be whole. Sometimes I bleed. Then I said to myself it's not worth it. Then I realised, For him if anything goes wrong with me due to that sexual style, Am on my own. Few hours later I sent him a text that I was sorry for everything not because it was easy but two wrongs never ever make a right in marriage. Can't walk away with two kids can only make it work.

Following day wen I saw he was in a good mood. I decided to ask, then he said I was lax and it has made sex unenjoyable. I wondered y he didn't tell me immediately he noticed and why he had to throw it to my face. But what, it's a man's world. If they don't reap their mean ways here on earth. It waits in heaven.

But trust me since then I have been concerned,Google all I could, nothing much. Even the kegel exercise has always been my practice. I now feel this time he might just look outside wen sex gets all pool like. He said he will buy toys, he said he can't pretend to love it wen he doesn't. Which I agree with. But even the toys can it ever be Like d real things. Sometimes he might want to feel the woman and not want toys. What happens next? I can't encourage him to cheat cos if he does and I find out I would leave with my kids. But I don't want him to. Am confused. So so confused. You know wen a man is concerned he will probably do research with you, find out info call doctors, but he didn't, he just broke the news to me and he's like do something about it or I might not be making out with u again. It's really not fair. Cos some men might possibly not go about it that way. But at the same time, it's like that's his nature. I can only Leave with it or take a walk. But take a walk to where, becos am now lax? But I also hear sex in marriage is KEY, with two kids, and I love him, but thatz still not the point. I DON'T know. Please who does? I have smiling all over the house, acting like everything is fine once am alone i cry again, because the fear is, would there ever be a solution , would I still be tight again, and this is a marriage where sex is sometimes 1 in 2 or 3 weeks, so definitely that's not the reason for my laxity, i will be sad if my marriage gets ruined because am lax. I hope my husband reads this thank God he is a nairalander

This is where the problem lies. and this is a marriage where sex is sometimes 1 in 2 or 3 weeks

If you can find solution to this, you will be very fine.

Also, buy allum and use it to wash your virginal regularly. It will come back to shape.

But you guys have to do something about your sexual libido level. How can sex be 1 in 2 or 3 weeks in your family. Husband and wife are not supposed to go a week without minimum of 1 time in a week, on a good day 3 times in a week.

That is why most families have problem because there is no bonding. Mcheew.

babes i feel your pain ,fear and agitations.well bear in mind that sex is vital in marriage and you have to do all in your power to ensure you play your part well.men unlike us cannot make do with what is available as regards sex.the want maximum satisfaction .since you know you are lax, dont brood over it ,dont solicit for pity,sentiments or 'undetstanding' from him.his hormones lack ths ability to understand love so seek for medical help asap.talk to the gyno.see if there is any option outside surgery and if not go for a surgery.make the first step and oga will complement it.sex is good,sweet and to be enjoyed so seek for thst help first thing tomorrow morning.

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Hello ma, if you don't mind kindly email me your phone no will ring you to see if we can find solution to this. (yes_servicee@yahoo.com.sg)

You can't understand now because you are the person I quoted.

Chidoks:



oga which other woman?

chax100:

P I T O F H E L L ! ! !

If am pit of hell i bet ur boro pit.

treese:
Though he usually says he doesn't care about my self esteem but I don't think this has to do with self esteem alone. I think there is more. While we were dating we spoke about my sex life and body nature. It's not like I had too many relationships but I just knew men say my vaginal is kind of lax. Even wen I lost my virginity the guy called me a blunt liar to my face, saying I claimed to be a virgin when I wasn't.

You didn't bleed and getting in wasn't so hard. That is one ruined relationship that would have been awesome. And probably the last man standing. If you be virgin, you go know, if you not, you will know and I KNEW then that I was.

Now my husband knew this about my body and decides to stick with it. Somehow someway which I don't know after my first child, vaginal got tight, second child too same happened. To a certain extent it helped our sex life because it made him love it. And I could tell it's one of the reasons he probably hasn't cheated..

Just 2 days back. We had a little misunderstanding then I mentioned something about sèx. Quote me if am wrong. Sex is meant for bonding between a man and a woman and that's why God instituted it in marriage alone. So you both can get closer, and in my own opinion when there are issues BTW them the power of sex is to make forgiveness easy. The next thing my husband said is. It's not like am enjoying the sex. It's now feels like been in a pool.

OMG I was HURT. I lost the essence of life immediately, lost the essence of marriage. Out of anger I told him only men with big dicks should complain, men with pencils dares nor. That was my only defence because he said it with soooooo much heartlessness. I cried...i cried so much. This man that I have back sex with so that our sex life would be whole. Sometimes I bleed. Then I said to myself it's not worth it. Then I realised, For him if anything goes wrong with me due to that sexual style, Am on my own. Few hours later I sent him a text that I was sorry for everything not because it was easy but two wrongs never ever make a right in marriage. Can't walk away with two kids can only make it work.

Following day wen I saw he was in a good mood. I decided to ask, then he said I was lax and it has made sex unenjoyable. I wondered y he didn't tell me immediately he noticed and why he had to throw it to my face. But what, it's a man's world. If they don't reap their mean ways here on earth. It waits in heaven.

But trust me since then I have been concerned,Google all I could, nothing much. Even the kegel exercise has always been my practice. I now feel this time he might just look outside wen sex gets all pool like. He said he will buy toys, he said he can't pretend to love it wen he doesn't. Which I agree with. But even the toys can it ever be Like d real things. Sometimes he might want to feel the woman and not want toys. What happens next? I can't encourage him to cheat cos if he does and I find out I would leave with my kids. But I don't want him to. Am confused. So so confused. You know wen a man is concerned he will probably do research with you, find out info call doctors, but he didn't, he just broke the news to me and he's like do something about it or I might not be making out with u again. It's really not fair. Cos some men might possibly not go about it that way. But at the same time, it's like that's his nature. I can only Leave with it or take a walk. But take a walk to where, becos am now lax? But I also hear sex in marriage is KEY, with two kids, and I love him, but thatz still not the point. I DON'T know. Please who does? I have smiling all over the house, acting like everything is fine once am alone i cry again, because the fear is, would there ever be a solution , would I still be tight again, and this is a marriage where sex is sometimes 1 in 2 or 3 weeks, so definitely that's not the reason for my laxity, i will be sad if my marriage gets ruined because am lax. I hope my husband reads this thank God he is a nairalander

Simple matter
Any where u are ask any Hausa woman about a traditional medicine called" Haki Maye" ur husband will be crying while making love with u. Don't boldly ask of it because they won't give u. if it is where I am ur prb is just too small.

The medicine is of two types, one is for drinking and the other one is for external use. it can make u as tit as a girl of 5 years. I don't want to talk much of the Hausa culture but they are wonderful when it comes to matters like this. Girls can have uncountable number of sex and can still get married with the husband fully believing they are virgins. de one for drinking works better.
just send me a mail if u want ur prb to be solved. francisgwazah@gmail.com. de fast u can de better it will be, because I will be going out of north soon... remember surgery is not the best option.

Madam, are you a learner?.. Even asewos get tight pucci, you siddon dey cry because your husband told the truth.

Ika nie !!!
You sincerely want to tell me you won't cheat on your hubby if the case was reversed??.... I don't know about you o but I would.

Look for one ogbonge Babalawo that will prepare ado-dun for you jare.. Your Puccii will be tight and juicy.
Infact your husband will never let go...

I ve strings of brokenhearted guys that wouldn't let go... They cry and grovel... I feel so sorry for them but I just like to sample new guys afterall variety is the spice of life.

Please stop thinking of breaking your home when there is remedy for your case. There is a Vigina tightening liquid to restore your original viginity back to you. Meet me on my Facebook page whatapp:+2348057562168 onclick https://www.facebook.com/pages/Chi_vi-Herbal/474844926015496?fref=ts

sonofananimal1:
ARE THERE NO CREAM TO TIGHT YOUR HOLE

GO AND FIND SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEM AND STOP DISTURBING US, NAIJA WOMEN OF NOWADAYS DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELF AFTER MARRIAGE.

I WILL KEEP ON SAYING, NAIJA WOMEN ARE NO GOOD

you are really son of an animal. Please, show me where the OP said she is a Nigerian.

My dear, men really don't know what they are doing in a hole that they ca not feel and for them it is really frustrating.
My advice is this: Look for people with a lot of experience with this type of issues, funny enough there a lot of information in the ashawo circles, they will tell you what to do, a situation of finding Gold in a mire if you ask me.
There are ladies with cookie jar like express road, and they all do some tricks before visiting people they really see themselves having a life with.
Secondly, there are sex positions that tend to accentuate your asset, depth and width alike and there are others that will tend to make your husband kini a king in the jungle.
Start with the Karma sutra of sex for more information

In all information is key.

There are medical procedure , cheap and uncomplicated but again this will be an issue during birth.

Exercises like kegel for the woman
Cold bathing.
Stoning.


Plus let him try Jelqing to increase his girth size also if he really wants to help.


If all these fails, then at least you tried to save what you have and should never feel ashamed.

tinuolababy:
Which one is make out again?

hahaha, na marriage terms na.

Hmmmmmm this is serious, try alun.

Bridgetown:


The only solution is to overcome the fear of your husband cheating. Because he will definitely cheat to excite himself but if you can live with it and advise him to always use condoms the better for you. I don't think he can divorce you base on that but nagging towards suspicion that he is cheating will cost you your marriage.

I feel your husband pain because I once dated a girl with lax virginal too, i didn't end the relationship but I ran away. There was no friction whatsoever and I felt embarrassed.
Your beloved husband should try and handle the situation with love since you are now the mother of his kids. Sex is not everything in life.

but u said sex is nt everything n u ran away wen u notice ur ex had d same issue, u shud ave stayed behind to resolve d issue, wat if al d girl u meet ar al lax, u ave to abstain n pray 4 ur partner.

4 ur husband to change suddenly it means there is a prbm somewhere, is either d babes he met b4 u, ave tighter vagina dan urs cos a man who claim to luv u n nw reminding u of d issue he knws b4 does nt luv u, u ave to meet ur pastor 4 prayers and ur church marriage committee membas 4 advice cos u can't solve dis issue alone.

pek:
you are really son of an animal. Please, show me where the OP said she is a Nigerian.

AS FAR SHE IS IN NAIRALAND, I CLASSIFIER HER AS A NIGERIA WOMAN

Add me on whatsapp so we can talk nd find solution- 07031148441

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So sorry abt wat u are goin thru in ur marriage. Hw abt u use warm water n little bit of salt, i hear it helps alot. I pray u resolve dis issue btw u too.

.

Emodeee:

Is ur vagina tight?

Funny!


Quit stalking me

Missmossy:

Funny!



Quit stalking me

Iyawo mi, I know it's tight, m just asking noni.

U know I can't leave u, until u se temi.

tinuolababy:
Which one is make out again?

fuckkking her loose pusy.

tunde1200:
Get him drugs that will increase size of his penis now.
and have you both settle you problems on the cheating stuff?
and madam you are at fault.

How do you think the other woman will feel, when she realize your cooking for her husband.
She will give you hell and call you Ashewo.

hahahahaha,guy you don cross boundary o

Insidous:


It is either you are trolling or plain stupid.

Its either you are stupid or a plain presumptuous fool.
If you have anything up there, make your own positive contribution or get off my case, Air-Head.

Ur husband na full time cheat else d laxy nature of ur. DS thing no go too. Baffle am

nortcentrallord:
I understand your pain maam. Everybody has different body make up. Since he was aware of the problem he shouldn't have done that. A more subtle way will help the issue better. You should see a doctor or gynea for consultation and better alternative. Don't listen to all these alum bullshit. Maam, I seriously warn you against the back stuff you allow just to pleasure him.
1. Its a sin even in marriage.
2. The health repercussions are very serious and dangerous. Trust me, only your family will stand by you then that is if they LOVE you. Take note of the capital letter I used in spelling LOVE.
You can make it on your own. The worst mistake you will make is trying to cheat on him or get too close to an ever ready presenting crying shoulder. Especially males. If you cheat and he catches you, it will be to him a confirmation that you have been cheating. He might be cheating on you but hold on. There is light @ the end of the tunnel. It is better to walk away honorably than to be labeled a "cheat". If you succeed, he will come to respect you and see you as his Idol. Trust me, marriage is not a bed of roses. God will see you through.

Why do Nigerians bring up a religious stance into a social or emotional ish thereby condemning the involved parties...Well, what a husband and wife do in their bedroom remains personal and nobody should judge...Was there a case where it was recorded in the bible that the vagina is the only suitable place for sex and the ANAL discouraged? Stop bring up invalid points