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Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by cococandy(f): 2:58pm On Jul 28, 2015
There's something you're not saying.
You mean she's been blamed for the man losing his job and the MIL losing her husband?
Seems like a lot of superstitious ish is going on there.

Pls get to the root of the matter as soon as possible for those kids to have peace and some kind of stability in their lives.
obiksam:
If some are witch how do you know. She is the one that is a witch, debolic and suffering from spiritual husband for her to be running out. She can't pray nor read the bible she will instantly fall asleep. I believe that it is the mother in-law prayers that is forstrating her. Because when he married her the mother in-law lost her husband after one year he lost his job after another a year and half she has runaway more than three times and keep coming back and the fool never care to ask and no why and where she have been running to until this last one. So please don't think that the mother in-law is a witch
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Ewuro4: 5:37pm On Jul 28, 2015
obiksam:
Her wife left him 4 months ago leaving him with his two children, he have tried talking her back home but she refused rather than ranting abuses on him, So he decides not to call her again, suddenly his mother received an sms from her calling her a watch that she should confess and she also sent him same sms calling him and his entire family watchs.
He called the father in-law to warn her daughter to stop such act since she dose not want the marrage. But she continued sending rude sms to his mother. Now he wants to summon her at CHOKO NA EZE in Nbaisi Imo state for her to come and defend her sms why she should call his mother witch.
House kinded advice what should he do. Summon her or just let the fool be .
Maybe it's just me but Something's not right with your story sha. I think you're denying that woman access to her kids hence her rage & uncouthness.

You want to kill her? What is the repercussions of this ritual?
What is hidden to onlookers is open to God. Leave her alone, Let her have access to her children . Let God judge everyone.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 10:40pm On Jul 28, 2015
[quote author=EggovinMma post=36356170][/quote
Do you want to hear some stories about her own family back ground? Eggo just be truthfull for once, forget what so ever that must have happend is it right for her to send such massage to her mother in-law
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 10:47pm On Jul 28, 2015
cococandy:
There's something you're not saying.
You mean she's been blamed for the man losing his job and the MIL losing her husband?
Seems like a lot of superstitious ish is going on there.

Pls get to the root of the matter as soon as possible for those kids to have peace and some kind of stability in their lives.
Not that she is been blamed for anything. But if you look at the senario that has occured in his family since she was married,who is a witch here. Even when he loose his job they where still doing ok.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 10:55pm On Jul 28, 2015
Ewuro4:
Maybe it's just me but Something's not right with your story sha. I think you're denying that woman access to her kids hence her rage & uncouthness.

You want to kill her? What is the repercussions of this ritual?
What is hidden to onlookers is open to God. Leave her alone, Let her have access to her children . Let God judge everyone.
Don't think, nobody is denying her anything she left by herself and the hubby tried to talk her back home with the help of elderly people but she refused. To the extend that her father told him that marriage is contract. So when she left for four months now why sudden sms calling his mother a witch. Na she be witch infact na only God go save her
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Richy4(m): 3:29am On Jul 29, 2015
For her to call your mother a witch, that means she played a major role in your separation.

What role did she/ didn't she play in your union as man and wife. Why did i even ask this question? When i already know the truth.

The thing is bro, i know where you came from because i came from the same state as you. Some of our parents don't fancy their sons marrying from another state or town. If you can tell yourself the truth, you will discover that she doesn't like her one bit from the beginning and would have preferred you marry local.

And most times it will be written all over their faces. Why didn't she call your dad names? That was because men always understand. And knew what they equally went through before they marry their present wife who is now mother in law.

If you wanna work on your relationship or marriage, keep your mom and siblings out of it. ie if they will agree to stay clear because that part of town are known to be possessive of their sons. And outsiders are meant to stay clear. But if you don't want to, let the girl be to nurse her wound and bruises
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Ewuro4: 4:47am On Jul 29, 2015
obiksam:
Don't think, nobody is denying her anything she left by herself and the hubby tried to talk her back home with the help of elderly people but she refused. To the extend that her father told him that marriage is contract. So when she left for four months now why sudden sms calling his mother a witch. Na she be witch infact na only God go save her
Don't mean to sound rude sir but I do not believe you your story doesn't sound convincing. A sane woman will not leave her children behind without a reason, someone/thing is definately chasing that woman. But that's by the way.

@calling grandma a witch, does that make your mom a witch? What's with summoning her to ritual grounds , for what? Are you in the right state of mind atall? even when your mom is raging as a result of this, you're supposed to be the tension buffer , no, instead you opted to be irrational and ready to go for the kill when you could've apologized to your mom on her behalf and stop beating the dead horse.

If not for anything, she's still the mother of your children and will forever be in their lives so you gonna have to learn to tolerate her regardles of your differences.

Simmer your brain sir, you have two kids to raise.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Nobody: 7:06am On Jul 29, 2015
[quote author=obiksam post=36376616][/quote]She reacted to something equally bad.But no, out of respect, she should have desist from calling her a witch. I just don't want to pass the blaame to the woman aalone.She has her own side of the story to tell as well.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 2:53pm On Jul 29, 2015
Richy4:
For her to call your mother a witch, that means she played a major role in your separation.

What role did she/ didn't she play in your union as man and wife. Why did i even ask this question? When i already know the truth.

The thing is bro, i know where you came from because i came from the same state as you. Some of our parents don't fancy their sons marrying from another state or town. If you can tell yourself the truth, you will discover that she doesn't like her one bit from the beginning and would have preferred you marry local.

And most times it will be written all over their faces. Why didn't she call your dad names? That was because men always understand. And knew what they equally went through before they marry their present wife who is now mother in law.

If you wanna work on your relationship or marriage, keep your mom and siblings out of it. ie if they will agree to stay clear because that part of town are known to be possessive of their sons. And outsiders are meant to stay clear. But if you don't want to, let the girl be to nurse her wound and bruises
Be carefull before you comments on issues like this on social media. You might be from east and what you most have exprienced in life is quit different from the topic. His mother is from the same state with her but not from same LGA. They said if a path road is good then you work through it again. Then who told you that the mum and siblings are interfering in issues. My if you can't comment on the topic just pass bye.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 3:05pm On Jul 29, 2015
Ewuro4:
Don't mean to sound rude sir but I do not believe you your story doesn't sound convincing. A sane woman will not leave her children behind without a reason, someone/thing is definately chasing that woman. But that's by the way.

@calling grandma a witch, does that make your mom a witch? What's with summoning her to ritual grounds , for what? Are you in the right state of mind atall? even when your mom is raging as a result of this, you're supposed to be the tension buffer , no, instead you opted to be irrational and ready to go for the kill when you could've apologized to your mom on her behalf and stop beating the dead horse.

If not for anything, she's still the mother of your children and will forever be in their lives so you gonna have to learn to tolerate her regardles of your differences.

Simmer your brain sir, you have two kids to raise.
Good. Well his mother is not angry about her sms instead she even tell him to go and recouncil with her wife, But that she dosent want to wish her bad all because of the kids. So right now her only concern is for her to repent. In order words he has made up his mind.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 3:21pm On Jul 29, 2015
EggovinMma:
She reacted to something equally bad.But no, out of respect, she should have desist from calling her a witch. I just don't want to pass the blaame to the woman aalone.She has her own side of the story to tell as well.
you are right. assuming she sent such sms to only to him, no problem about that. But we are talking about respect here. They have never fight or exchange words. So what comes about calling her a witch
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 3:55pm On Jul 29, 2015
House she called this morning and he didn't. why, because he is tired of her abusing words. Then he called her father to tell him to talk to her duaghter not to call him again when she left out of her wish. Do you people know what her father replied? This same man that told him two months ago that marriage is contract. Well he said " You would have listen to her" On what ground? That was his reply, then he said i will pass your massage to her. What an insult. Let me put more light to this.
Ok you are leaving with your hubby in a particuler area best known to your hubby why he decides that you people should reside in that area. suddenly you don't fill comfortable again why, he asked, Nothing was the answer. Later i don't want to stay in east why. Nothing. So if a woman decides not to leave where his husband is comfortable enough to care for her and she left why send a witch sms again. After staying in Lagos for one month during the time the hubby was talking to her to come back she told the husband to relocate with the kids to Lagos to do what, on what grounds. So house please a woman has every right in her home but not when your hubby founds out what you are up too.
The reason why his hubby wanted them to stay in east,is this, Not that he is from the east,but she is from delta, born and brought up in Ogun, So the hubby was like come and learn this part of our great nation. wAHALA
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by marbee(f): 4:05pm On Jul 29, 2015
This modern world juju house shocked I think you people should let the woman be,if you know so well you are not a witch,why summon her to a juju to kill her undecided
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by marbee(f): 4:16pm On Jul 29, 2015
The story has many parts,the second part you accused her of many things:
She has a spirit husband,
She can't read bible,
Her presence has brought only misfortune

I think you and your family are the once accusing her here.For a woman to leave her two children willingly, there is more to the story.

Just remember she is the mother of your children, don't deprive the children of their mother for superstitious reasons.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Ewuro4: 4:56pm On Jul 29, 2015
obiksam:
Good. Well his mother is not angry about her sms instead she even tell him to go and recouncil with her wife, But that she dosent want to wish her bad all because of the kids. So right now her only concern is for her to repent. In order words he has made up his mind.
She will repent, be the bigger person and extend an olive branch.

I pray you both can work things out and be a family again.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Ewuro4: 5:01pm On Jul 29, 2015
obiksam:
House she called this morning and he didn't. why, because he is tired of her abusing words. Then he called her father to tell him to talk to her duaghter not to call him again when she left out of her wish. Do you people know what her father replied? This same man that told him two months ago that marriage is contract. Well he said " You would have listen to her" On what ground? That was his reply, then he said i will pass your massage to her. What an insult. Let me put more light to this.
Ok you are leaving with your hubby in a particuler area best known to your hubby why he decides that you people should reside in that area. suddenly you don't fill comfortable again why, he asked, Nothing was the answer. Later i don't want to stay in east why. Nothing. So if a woman decides not to leave where his husband is comfortable enough to care for her and she left why send a witch sms again. After staying in Lagos for one month during the time the hubby was talking to her to come back she told the husband to relocate with the kids to Lagos to do what, on what grounds. So house please a woman has every right in her home but not when your hubby founds out what you are up too.
The reason why his hubby wanted them to stay in east,is this, Not that he is from the east,but she is from delta, born and brought up in Ogun, So the hubby was like come and learn this part of our great nation. wAHALA
Oga your own too much oh ..

Brb. I'm tired jare. I got my own palaver to tend to
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by cococandy(f): 6:13pm On Jul 29, 2015
Revise and punctuate pls.

This is kinda hard to read. I couldn't understand it.
obiksam:
House she called this morning and he didn't. why, because he is tired of her abusing words. Then he called her father to tell him to talk to her duaghter not to call him again when she left out of her wish. Do you people know what her father replied? This same man that told him two months ago that marriage is contract. Well he said " You would have listen to her" On what ground? That was his reply, then he said i will pass your massage to her. What an insult. Let me put more light to this.
Ok you are leaving with your hubby in a particuler area best known to your hubby why he decides that you people should reside in that area. suddenly you don't fill comfortable again why, he asked, Nothing was the answer. Later i don't want to stay in east why. Nothing. So if a woman decides not to leave where his husband is comfortable enough to care for her and she left why send a witch sms again. After staying in Lagos for one month during the time the hubby was talking to her to come back she told the husband to relocate with the kids to Lagos to do what, on what grounds. So house please a woman has every right in her home but not when your hubby founds out what you are up too.
The reason why his hubby wanted them to stay in east,is this, Not that he is from the east,but she is from delta, born and brought up in Ogun, So the hubby was like come and learn this part of our great nation. wAHALA
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 10:09pm On Jul 29, 2015
cococandy:
Revise and punctuate pls.

This is kinda hard to read. I couldn't understand it.
Then pass
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 10:13pm On Jul 29, 2015
marbee:
This modern world juju house shocked I think you people should let the woman be,if you know so well you are not a witch,why summon her to a juju to kill her undecided
He dose not intend to summon to kill her but for her to come and prove how her mother in-law have bewitched her. Nobody is killing each other here
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 10:23pm On Jul 29, 2015
[quote author=marbee post=36399437]The story has many parts,the second part you accused her of many things:
She has a spirit husband,
She can't read bible,
Her presence has brought only misfortune

I think you and your family are the once accusing her here.For a woman to leave her two children willingly, there is more to the story.

Just remember she is the mother of your children, don't deprive the children of their mother for superstitious reasons.
[/quote
Please nobody accused her of anything it happend. What i am saying is if such events happens between her arrival to the family who is the witch. What more to the story please explain. And nobody is depriving her of seen her children, marriage is not by force. The issue here is when she left without looking back why sudden sms calling his mother a witch. Do you know the meaning of that.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by delishpot:
obiksam:
House she called this morning and he didn't. why, because he is tired of her abusing words. Then he called her father to tell him to talk to her duaghter not to call him again when she left out of her wish. Do you people know what her father replied? This same man that told him two months ago that marriage is contract. Well he said " You would have listen to her" On what ground? That was his reply, then he said i will pass your massage to her. What an insult. Let me put more light to this.
Ok you are leaving with your hubby in a particuler area best known to your hubby why he decides that you people should reside in that area. suddenly you don't fill comfortable again why, he asked, Nothing was the answer. Later i don't want to stay in east why. Nothing. So if a woman decides not to leave where his husband is comfortable enough to care for her and she left why send a witch sms again. After staying in Lagos for one month during the time the hubby was talking to her to come back she told the husband to relocate with the kids to Lagos to do what, on what grounds. So house please a woman has every right in her home but not when your hubby founds out what you are up too.
The reason why his hubby wanted them to stay in east,is this, Not that he is from the east,but she is from delta, born and brought up in Ogun, So the hubby was like come and learn this part of our great nation. wAHALA
No communication in this home. The hobby picked a place to relocate his family for reasons best known to him alone? Shey the woman na chair ni? Shouldnt that reason be known to her too? Just move her to the east to" learn about that part of our great nation" she be tourist?
Abeg, make una try learn to love each other through open and honest discusion


And what is the insult if Baba says he will pass his message to the daughter? Were you expecting him to kill her through the phone as soon as you reported her?
I believe this women has surffered in that family o. She kept leaving and returning these many times for the kids sake. I guess this last time she refused but wants access to her kids which you have denied her. She then felt mama was behind it all abd then sent that message. Please if you have nothing to hide post a screen shot of the said SMS lets see. No judging from croped out section of the SMS.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Blonchilli(m): 1:22pm On Jul 30, 2015
obiksam:
Her wife left him 4 months ago leaving him with his two children, he have tried talking her back home but she refused rather than ranting abuses on him, So he decides not to call her again, suddenly his mother received an sms from her calling her a watch that she should confess and she also sent him same sms calling him and his entire family watchs.
He called the father in-law to warn her daughter to stop such act since she dose not want the marrage. But she continued sending rude sms to his mother. Now he wants to summon her at CHOKO NA EZE in Nbaisi Imo state for her to come and defend her sms why she should call his mother witch.
House kinded advice what should he do. Summon her or just let the fool be.

Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 9:56pm On Jul 30, 2015
[quote author=Blonchilli post=36427893][/quote]Well, your post has nothing to contribute in this topic. So just passby.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 10:25pm On Jul 30, 2015
delishpot:
No communication in this home. The hobby picked a place to relocate his family for reasons best known to him alone? Shey the woman na chair ni? Shouldnt that reason be known to her too? Just move her to the east to" learn about that part of our great nation" she be tourist?
Abeg, make una try learn to love each other through open and honest discusion


And what is the insult if Baba says he will pass his message to the daughter? Were you expecting him to kill her through the phone as soon as you reported her?
I believe this women has surffered in that family o. She kept leaving and returning these many times for the kids sake. I guess this last time she refused but wants access to her kids which you have denied her. She then felt mama was behind it all abd then sent that message. Please if you have nothing to hide post a screen shot of the said SMS lets see. No judging from croped out section of the SMS.
Well, if there where no communication then why did she relocate with him at first. you know what i thank God for those of us that raid Business / human/ economics managemant. Secondly, nobody is killing each other, and you are not with them for you to start believing this or that. Fine she keep running out in slightest provocation to where and why did she always come back. The point is this he is not stopping her to see her kids but why sending such sms to him and to his mother after four months. Be kinded is it right? Marriage is not by force when she left without looking back so what did she want. As for the the juju matter as long as his mother is not a witch no need for that. Silent is the the best answer for a fool. And bible said VANITY UPON VANITY IS VANITY.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by delishpot: 10:33pm On Jul 30, 2015
obiksam:
Well, if there where no communication then why did she relocate with him at first. you know what i thank God for those of us that raid Business / human/ economics managemant. Secondly, nobody is killing each other, and you are not with them for you to start believing this or that. Fine she keep running out in slightest provocation to where and why did she always come back. The point is this he is not stopping her to see her kids but why sending such sms to him and to his mother after four months. Be kinded is it right? Marriage is not by force when she left without looking back so what did she want. As for the the juju matter as long as his mother is not a witch no need for that. Silent is the the best answer for a fool. And bible said VANITY UPON VANITY IS VANITY.
I only made my comment based on what I read. Ok, If I miss judge nor vex. Its just not easy to judge such a case from just 1 persons perspective. I have had a friend who beats his wife. 3ce she left and came back due to financial reasons and people advicing her to save her marriage. first she left without her baby other times she left with ther kids. Till today he believes he did nothing wrong beating her and even starving her(she was a fresh graduate) he even verbaly abuses her. They are no more together and he goes around telling people she left the marriage. he never mentions his role in the whole wahala o. He says she is too stuborn and that she has big eyes and is wanting to go LovePeddler around. You will never hear him talk about his beatings, his abuses or anything he did. He has married 2 girls after her now and they all left him too. If you dont kniw him personaly, you will think he couldnt hurt a fly. But the guy na green snake under green grass. I have seen a lot.
Anyhoe if his hands are clean(cos I knoe there are also evil and stupid wives out there) then he should ignore her and try his best to take care of his kids.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Blonchilli(m): 12:02am On Jul 31, 2015
obiksam:
Well, your post has nothing to contribute in this topic. So just passby.
Thanks angry angry

Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 5:13pm On Nov 13, 2015
The past is gone the present With God has finally vindicated my guy. He just got two jobs. Offshore things With Agip and assistant pa to the Abia state special adviser to governor. God has finally answered him.
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by SAMBARRY: 8:02pm On Nov 13, 2015
grin grin
edwife:
All these dramas because an ex wife called her ex MIL a witch? undecided

Why will the hubby and family take it seriously if they are not? Jeez!
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Vikky014(f): 9:04pm On Nov 13, 2015
obiksam:
Her wife left him 4 months ago leaving him with his two children, he have tried talking her back home but she refused rather than ranting abuses on him, So he decides not to call her again, suddenly his mother received an sms from her calling her a watch that she should confess and she also sent him same sms calling him and his entire family watchs.
He called the father in-law to warn her daughter to stop such act since she dose not want the marrage. But she continued sending rude sms to his mother. Now he wants to summon her at CHOKO NA EZE in Nbaisi Imo state for her to come and defend her sms why she should call his mother witch.
House kinded advice what should he do. Summon her or just let the fool be.
na waoh.calling them a WATCH KWAhuhODIKWA RISKY OO. MAYBE SHE IS A CLOCK
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 10:42am On Nov 14, 2015
SAMBARRY:
grin grin
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Neither the hubby or the family where worried about it. The fact is that the guy done blow
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by obiksam(op): 12:40am On Aug 29, 2017
Big blow.thanks but she is now a prostitute. ASHAWO full time


obiksam:
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Neither the hubby or the family where worried about it. The fact is that the guy done blow
Re: Her Wife Sent Sms To His Mother Calling A Witch by Eketem: 1:43am On Aug 29, 2017
obiksam:
Big blow.thanks but she is now a prostitute. ASHAWO full time
Your obsession sha. Keeping tabs on her for years
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