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Ewuro4:
All these EXes palaver ehn? Una no dey happy in your marriage Abi na by force to marry ni?

Be like say una dey marry for wrong reasons too.

Lodge her in hotel. Alone or for what reasons exactly is her visit about, to cuddle? And she's aware you're married yet reduced herself to this arrangement? Wow.

Karma is a naughty lady folks.

5minsmadness:
Hehehehehe

Not sure thats a good idea o.
I think from the explanation the whole thing was an impromptu visit. Its even possible the ex had "ideas" but the guy couldnt forcefully get rid of her. He didnt invite her, she dropped in unannounced. The hotel thing was suggested by him to prevent her from sleeping over in his house. I guess he didnt want to tell wifey immediately so she doesnt start rushing down from wherever she is or worrying or whatever.

I still maintain its cache information. trash to be disposed of without raising brouhaha. I could be wrong.(Or i could be right.)

5minsmadness:
Like I said, it was kind of an impromptu visit (she called him out of the blue that she was on her way) It was when she started staying long he suggested a hotel. Of course he will pay na, abi are you not a gentleman, would you let her pay?

5minsmadness:
A friend of mine is having a guilty conscience. His ex came to visit him over the weekend from another state when his wife was not at home. Even though he took precautions to prevent any untoward advances by lodging her in a hotel away from his home, he is still wondering wether he should let his wife know that she came.

Ladies would you want him to tell you or is it unnecessary information?

DuchessLily:
She dropped in unannounced?? How did she Knw the Wifey had traveled/ is not around??

Abeg tell us another lie

LordReed:
So she stayed in his house for awhile before going to a hotel? And still the wife wife was not informed that another woman was in her house?

This is not the kind of thing you do without thinking of your spouse even when you have no ulterior motives. First off if my wife is away I will not allow another woman (excepting close family) to stay overnight. Secondly if I am going to receive guests my wife will be informed especially when I will be financially responsible for their stay. Lastly, as much as I want to be a gentleman only an emergency will make me consider being financially responsible for an ex's accommodation. I can drive her to the hotel after picking her up or even take her around town if free however my wife will be duly informed.

rbekins:
Bcus of tread like this makes it hard for me to comment some times. First of all how old r u? And if u don't have anything reasonable to post, u should not come here bcus u r opportune to have MB and post garbage. Mtcheew....walks out....

5minsmadness:
If u had followed the story at all instead of going into a paranoid fit you'd realise that she didn't know whether the wife was around or not. She didn't plan to come when the wife was absent it just happened and it's possible she decided to take advantage of it. She came unannounced. The wife was not at home. He entertained her. When it seemed she wanted to stay over he sent her off to a hotel instead of her spending the night. She may indeed have had ulterior motives. He didn't.
Now he's wondering whether to let the wife know what happened or forget about the whole thing.


It's cos of reactions like yours am telling my guy to keep mum.

5minsmadness:
A friend of mine is having a guilty conscience. His ex came to visit him over the weekend from another state when his wife was not at home. Even though he took precautions to prevent any untoward advances by lodging her in a hotel away from his home, he is still wondering wether he should let his wife know that she came.

Ladies would you want him to tell you or is it unnecessary information?

DuchessLily:
I followed bro. I read and understood very well what u wrote.. U can read again urself .. Even if u modify, I quoted u.

... Ex came to visit when d wife wasn't around. .... OK let's assume it was a co-incident she visited when d Wifey wasn't around

If its d woman who did this, I bet u wouldnt think of the word "paranoid" when u judge her...and type , 'that bit¢h ain't loyal'

5minsmadness:
Nope, I don't do that.
There's nothing to modify. Read it again.
Am not supporting his actions. If u read earlier u will see where I said we already chastised him. The issue now is whether to tell his wife about the incident or let sleeping dogs lie.

5minsmadness:
A friend of mine is having a guilty conscience. His ex came to visit him over the weekend from another state when his wife was not at home. Even though he took precautions to prevent any untoward advances by lodging her in a hotel away from his home, he is still wondering wether he should let his wife know that she came.

Ladies would you want him to tell you or is it unnecessary inform ation?

5minsmadness:
Congratulations. Well said. You're a model husband.
Now this guy has done this, should he tell his wife about it or not?

5minsmadness:
A friend of mine is having a guilty conscience. His ex came to visit him over the weekend from another state when his wife was not at home. Even though he took precautions to prevent any untoward advances by lodging her in a hotel away from his home, he is still wondering wether he should let his wife know that she came.

Ladies would you want him to tell you or is it unnecessary information?

5minsmadness:
Congratulations. Well said. You're a model husband.
Now this guy has done this, should he tell his wife about it or not?

5minsmadness:
A friend of mine is having a guilty conscience. His ex came to visit him over the weekend from another state when his wife was not at home. Even though he took precautions to prevent any untoward advances by lodging her in a hotel away from his home, he is still wondering wether he should let his wife know that she came.

Ladies would you want him to tell you or is it unnecessary information?

5minsmadness:
Wait, wait, come first...

Hands him t.fare

Oya gerrarahia!

Chillisauce:
So your friend dey play away match you come here dey ask nanscence question.
I wonder if N'a the woman ex come over. You will be here asking questions

Stillfire:
The ex is so disingenuous. Who goes to a married ex' house, purposely overstays till night and gleefully accepts being lodged in a hotel?

I would like to know and he would be given a good lecture in relationship etiquette, he will apologize for his foolishness and promise not to make such mistakes again.

5minsmadness:
A friend of mine is having a guilty conscience. His ex came to visit him over the weekend from another state when his wife was not at home. Even though he took precautions to prevent any untoward advances by lodging her in a hotel away from his home, he is still wondering wether he should let his wife know that she came.

Ladies would you want him to tell you or is it unnecessary information?