₦airaland Forum

crackhaus:
Fair point, but you do agree that it's not women that are being conned into marriage, yes?

I actually think that nobody is conned into marriage. How can you con anyone into marriage?
But I believe that some men AND more women are pressured into marriage. What do you think?

The desperation to get married comes from the years of mind conditioning that marriages is all her life should be leading to and the pinnacle of her achievements.
It's not counterintuitive @ NashvilleTN

Mindfulness:
I actually think that nobody is conned into marriage. How can you con anyone into marriage?
But I believe that some men AND more women are pressured into marriage. What do you think?

Dude/Dudette, I don't know the world you live in but everybody knows that when it comes to marriage, its women doing the conning.
Do you know why? Well I think you do because you already answered it - it is because the pressure is more on them to marry, true on that.

However, I don't see how societal/family pressure equates to women being conned.

Mindfulness:
I actually think that nobody is conned into marriage. How can you con anyone into marriage?
But I believe that some men AND more women are pressured into marriage. What do you think?

@ bolded:

No.

crackhaus:
Dude/duddette, I don't know the world you live in but everybody knows that when it comes to marriage, its women doing the conning.
Do you know why? Well I think you do because you already answered it - it is because the pressure is more on them to marry, true on that.

How can a woman con a man into marriage, except for getting pregnant for him without his consent? And even then she has no guarantee and he has no obligation to marry her, if he refuses.

However, I don't see how societal/family pressure equates to women being conned.

Me neither, this is why I said that nobody is actually conned because I don't understand how people can be conned into marriage.

Pressured? Yes! Conned? How?

tpiander:
@ bolded:

No.

Why not?

much as it would be flattering to believe men are more desperate for marriage than women, the actual facts say otherwise.

unless you are typing from a boko haram enclave?

no offence.

tpiander:
much as it would be flattering to believe men are more desperate for marriage than women, the actual facts say otherwise.

unless you are typing from a boko haram enclave?

no offence.

Who said men were more desperate?

who is doing the lion's share of the conning would be the set of people who are more desperate for marriage.

Mindfulness:
How can a woman con a man into marriage, except for getting pregnant for him without his consent? And even then she has no guarantee and he has no obligation to marry her, if he refuses.

Abeg no vex, are you male or female?

I need to understand how any man/woman who lives on earth can ask me that question.

Me neither, this is why I said that nobody is actually conned because I don't understand how people can be conned into marriage.

Pressured? Yes! Conned? How?

Let's ask Sambarry, I have a feeling she can explain how women con men into marriage...and no, getting pregnant is only just a more drastic tactic...women have learnt to be much more subtler than that.

tpiander:
who is doing the lion's share of the conning would be the set of people who are more desperate for marriage.

Again, who said men were more desperate for marriage?

crackhaus:
Abeg no vex, are you male or female?

I need to understand how any man/woman who lives on earth can ask me that question.



Let's ask Sambarry, I have a feeling she can explain how women con men into marriage...and no, getting pregnant is only just a more drastic tactic...women have learnt to be much more subtler than that.

Enlighten me, how can a woman con a man into marriage?

Mindfulness:
Enlighten me, how can a woman con a man into marriage?

Enlighten me, are you male or female?

crackhaus:
Enlighten me, are you male or female?

I am that I am.

Mindfulness:
I am that I am.

Obviously, you're female...this much drama and suspence over gender is not peculiar to males..

crackhaus:


Obviously, you're female...this much drama and suspence over gender is not peculiar to males..

Ok, how do women con men into marriage? I still don't know.

cococandy:
The desperation to get married comes from the years of mind conditioning that marriage all her life should be leading to and the pinnacle of her achievements.
It's not counterintuitive @ NashvilleTN

I want to know if any girl here over 25 would agree to get into a casual relationship, not headed for marriage

Even those who posted that women are conned into marriage and posted epistle how its a terrible thing in Nigeria

Ask them now, A guy comes to meet her, I want us to have a relationship it would be sexual in nature no financial gain but would never end in marriage and see how many women would agree to it even those who are posting here

You're saying the same thing I'm saying.

They won't agree because they want to get married at that moment if possible because all their life they've been taught they aren't complete without a husband. And that there's something somehow wrong with them if they reach a certain age and no man considers them worthy to be his wife.

Cause and effect.
A fact I've witnessed happening with my very two eyes.

raumdeuter:
I want to know if any girl here over 25 would agree to get into a casual relationship, not headed for marriage

Even those who posted that women are conned into marriage and posted epistle how its a terrible thing in Nigeria

Ask them now, A guy comes to meet her, I want us to have a relationship it would be sexual in nature no financial gain but would never end in marriage and see how many women would agree to it even those who are posting here

Jamean mindfulness and onegai

Since I see that you two are some of those not desperate for marriage.

I want to introduce you to a guy, good guy he wants a relationship, It would be sexual, no financial benefit attached for both parties and this relationship WOULD NEVER result in marriage.

He loves your idea of emancipated modern women who dont desire marriage

Kindly signify interest

raumdeuter:
I want to know if any girl here over 25 would agree to get into a casual relationship, not headed for marriage

Even those who posted that women are conned into marriage and posted epistle how its a terrible thing in Nigeria

Ask them now, A guy comes to meet her, I want us to have a relationship it would be sexual in nature no financial gain but would never end in marriage and see how many women would agree to it even those who are posting here

A woman CAN sleep with a man without having the desire to marry him. The older she is, the better at separating s.exual needs from romantic needs.
A man can be considered a good lover but not 'husband material'. It happens all the time. They play the game, too.

Mindfulness:
A woman CAN sleep with a man without having the desire to marry him. The older she is, the better at separating s.exual needs from romantic needs.
A man can be considered a good lover but not 'husband material'. It happens all the time. They play the game, too.

I know a guy who might be interested in you for a sexual relationship alone. No intention to marry. Are you down?

or lets ask any girl 20 girls on here and see how many would agree to it. Since I see that a lot of these are modern exposed ladies who are not desirous of getting married

raumdeuter:
I know a guy who might be interested in you sexual relationship alone. No intention to marry. Are you down?

Are you the guy?

raumdeuter:
Jamean mindfulness and onegai

Since I see that you two are some of those not desperate for marriage.

I want to introduce you to a guy, good guy he wants a relationship, It would be sexual, no financial benefit attached for both parties and this relationship WOULD NEVER result in marriage.

He loves your idea of emancipated modern women who dont desire marriage

Kindly signify interest

You will have to give them more infos.
They will want to know whether he is clean and well-endowed.

cococandy:
You're saying the same thing I'm saying.
They won't agree because they want to get married at that moment if possible because all their life they've been taught they aren't complete without a husband. And that there's something somehow wrong with them if they reach a certain age and no man considers them worthy to be his wife.

Cause and effect.
A fact I've witnessed happening with my very two eyes.

Are you one of those women that have been conditioned to think like that? Since you are not I would think you are one of the modern ones

So are you game? A No marriage relationship

cococandy:
Are you the guy?

Someone who has seen your pictures and your post about how you are modern and free from this brainwashing of women have to marry. He doesnt want to marry also

Mindfulness:
You will have to give them more infos.
They will want to know whether he is clean and well-endowed.

Are you game? If you are. Just let us know and I would alert the guy to contact you and he would give me updates

Modern woman wanted. That hasnt been brainwashed, no marriage intention Kindly signify

raumdeuter:
I know a guy who might be interested in you for a sexual relationship alone. No intention to marry. Are you down?

or lets ask any girl 20 girls on here and see how many would agree to it. Since I see that a lot of these are modern exposed ladies who are not desirous of getting married

I have never said that I was female, nor that I was single.

I can tell you that ladies do sleep with men with no strings attached and the older they get, the easier it is for them to do so for one reason or another. Don't expect them to admit it in public for reasons such as slu.t shaming.

How many single guys do have for all these babes you're trying to hook up?
Cos we don't share o.

raumdeuter:
Are you one of those women that have been conditioned to think like that? Since you are not I would think you are one of the modern ones

So are you game? A No marriage relationship



Someone who has seen your pictures and your post about how you are modern and free from this brainwashing of women have to marry. He doesnt want to marry also

I agree with you on the bolded.

Mindfulness:
I have never said that I was female, nor that I was single.

I can tell you that ladies do sleep with men with no strings attached and the older they get, the easier it is for them to do so for one reason or another . Don't expect them to admit it in public for reasons such as slu.t shaming.

Mindfulness:
Ok, how do women con men into marriage? I still don't know.

I dey come, give me a minute.

crackhaus:
I dey come, give me a minute.

Patiently waiting.

Mindfulness:
I have never said that I was female, nor that I was single.

I can tell you that ladies do sleep with men with no strings attached and the older they get, the easier it is for them to do so for one reason or another. Don't expect them to admit it in public for reasons such as slu.t shaming.

Does the modern liberated woman still care about slu.t shaming? I thought those are for brainwashed people. Some women dont want relationship thats not news Surely there would be some deviant people in a population

But the truth is ANYWHERE in the world, Women desire marriage and they do so at a higher rate than men. It has nothing to do with culture of a certain country, Its the genetic make up

Men would always desire casual sexx more than females whether they are 15, 40 or 75yrs old. And women would always desire a secured relationship preferably marriage

On the Ashley madison website for cheaters have you seen the ratio of male to female?

cococandy:
How many single guys do have for all these babes you're trying to hook up?
Cos we don't share o.

A lot of single men. More than you only can handle.

Why don't you share? Are you trying to tie him down? Nothing would concern you about his life or where he stays

It would just be casual sexx and no relationship. Just hookup for sex and go your own way. Both parties are going to get tested and always use protection so no disease risk

Are you game?