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My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by dre11(op): 7:28am On Sep 25, 2015

A woman, Mrs Adenike Dossou, has accused her husband of “fingering” their children while giving them a bath.

Mrs Dossou, a civil servant, who is seeking the dissolution of her 12-year-old marriage to Segun Dossou, an Immigration Officer, at a Lagos Island Customary Court, said her husband always volunteered to bath their children while she handled the cooking.

“I was shocked when our first daughter told me that she is growing and didn’t like what her dad did to her,” she said.

Mrs Dossou said on three occasions, she didn’t find her husband beside her at night, adding whenever she searched for him, she saw him sleeping beside their children.

She said: “I scolded him and asked if he wanted to ruin our children’s life but he didn’t respond. I am in support of the dissolution because I know he wants our children in his custody to continue his misdeeds.”

Mrs Dossou added that the only thing her husband is interested in is charm adding that there were times he wouldn’t go to work but he gets paid.

“I went with him to Cotonou to seal our union in their registry. I was just signing documents; I don’t know what was written in the papers. I don’t love him anymore and I don’t want to give my girls to live with him,” she said.

Mr Dossou, 39, said their marriage troubles started when his wife got a job.

“She is a thief, she steals government’s property. She brought cement and coal tar home. It was her attitude that made us fight and she left me.

I just want our daughters. I don’t love or need her anymore,” he said.

The marriage produced three children between ages 8, 10 and 12.

The president, Chief Awos Awosola, advised them to be very careful with their utterances and adjourned the case till October 7 for judgment.

http://thenationonlineng.net/my-husband-fingers-our-daughters-says-woman/

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by chymystique(f): 7:30am On Sep 25, 2015*

If this tale is true; then That man is Shameless, Disgraceful and Sick!! The woman should ve first pestled his skull or give him a blind eye with her five fingers before going to court to dissolve the marriage so as to teach him a permanent lesson.... This is one of the reasons why most men of these days are afraid to birth female children... Pedophiles everywhere!

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Precious91(m): 7:32am On Sep 25, 2015

He should use vaseline now.Some men sha.Your daughter

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Sunexy(m): 7:33am On Sep 25, 2015

Ridiculous

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Chanchit: 7:36am On Sep 25, 2015

Before you guys start wailing, the man is from cotonou o, cos only the name Segun is enough to set the ball rolling.

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by SAMBARRY: 7:42am On Sep 25, 2015

Smh

raping is ok na.shebi its the fault of the mother the kids were raped.she didn't satisfy her husband so he had to get it from his little children

so says a lot of nl resident sickos lipsrsealed

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by freecocoa(f): 7:44am On Sep 25, 2015

Shame, such wickedness, the women whose children are involved are usually very nice it's annoying, just give that man a mark he'll never forget, then let the courts decide afterwards.

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Islie: 7:45am On Sep 25, 2015

Should a father still be bathing his 12 year old child in the first place

The marriage produced three children between ages 8, 10 and 12.

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by ijustdey: 7:52am On Sep 25, 2015

“She is a thief, she steals government’s property. She brought cement and coal tar home. It was her attitude that made us fight and she left me.

just look at the man defense to the accusations by his wife....

the man is shameless and sick

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 7:55am On Sep 25, 2015*

dat man needs help.... not just NY help but divine help..cos I can see d witches in his family ac concluded is case

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by ijustdey: 7:56am On Sep 25, 2015

I just want our daughters. I don’t love or need
her anymore,” he said.

so, you can continue from where you stopped

I don't know why the wife didn't report him to the police officers and NGO before she takes it to court

they would have deal with the man and stops his mouth from saying rubbish

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by freecocoa(f): 8:01am On Sep 25, 2015

Islie:
Should a father still be bathing his 12 year old child in the first place

Children should be taught how to care for themselves, therefore a child of 12 years should be able to take a bathe on his or her own, but if for any reason he/she can't, then the mum or dad will do.

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Aminat508(f): 8:08am On Sep 25, 2015

Which one is finger again? Olagbara o ! !baba oshi

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Omotayor123(f): 8:18am On Sep 25, 2015

Oh my Gosh!! Crazy Pervert.

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Omotayor123(f): 8:21am On Sep 25, 2015

Islie:
Should a father still be bathing his 12 year old child in the first place

And should that be an excuse to finger them huh

. He's the Father not the Uncle or Brother!

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by utenwuson: 8:27am On Sep 25, 2015

d woman is not jst being truthful, she s jst tired of d man perhaps she s avn a eye smwhere else! how would ur husband volunteer 2 bath a 12 year old gurl n u agree cos u cookin? cooking 4 family of 5? dts y is bad 2 av all female children! u as d MAN ll NEVER be happy!

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by qualityovenbake(m): 8:43am On Sep 25, 2015*

If the allegation is the true, then the man is not fit to be called a father and he doesn't deserve to raise those children.

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by SAMBARRY: 9:08am On Sep 25, 2015

ijustdey:
so, you can continue from where you stopped

I don't know why the wife didn't report him to the police officers and NGO before she takes it to court

they would have deal with the man and stops his mouth from saying rubbish

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Pidggin(f): 9:15am On Sep 25, 2015

Why is he still bathing his preteen kids?

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Islie: 9:29am On Sep 25, 2015

Omotayor123:
And should that be an excuse to finger them. He's the Father not the Uncle or Brother!

It's never an excuse

But, come to think of it.... Is he supposed to
When is he going to allow the child to grow and you know that some girls at this age have grown to puberty

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Islie: 9:34am On Sep 25, 2015

freecocoa:
Children should be taught how to care for themselves, therefore a child of 12 years should be able to take a bathe on his or her own, but if for any reason he/she can't, then the mum or dad will do.

Thank you joor....

That shows that the man has evil motives for him to keep bathing his 12year old child.
Most 12year old girl have reached puberty stage

The man is evil because he never counter the woman accusations if she did lied about him doing that

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Bonapart(m): 9:38am On Sep 25, 2015

End time dads

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by dave2meek(m): 9:38am On Sep 25, 2015

The is stupid

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by tsdarkside(m): 9:39am On Sep 25, 2015

ohhhhh noooooooo......nasty............

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Sijo01(f): 9:39am On Sep 25, 2015

I weep for some men

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by okooloyun1(m): 9:40am On Sep 25, 2015*

Something must be finger!ng the man's brain

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 9:40am On Sep 25, 2015

Yorubber people are spawns of the devil....imagine a man fingering his own daughter....jesus....this people ar really the apes they call them....

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by GodMode: 9:41am On Sep 25, 2015*

was

Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by Owliver(m): 9:41am On Sep 25, 2015

Ewedu people grin

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by MAYOWAAK: 9:41am On Sep 25, 2015

'If you have not tasted Sallah meat by now, you have to enroll for Character Development Classes. Iwa e o da ladugbo.'(you are a bad neighbour in your neighbourhood).

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Re: My Husband ‘fingers’ Our Daughters While Bathing Them: Wife Tells Judge by dedons: 9:42am On Sep 25, 2015

I only came to check the names and i'm not surprised to see that it's the same people.

NORTHERN SLAVES.

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