Happy birthday Joyfulmama
May God Give You all your heart desires
Now n alWays
Enjoy ur day
By dis time next year u Will celebrate with your kids

Good day everyone and baby dust to you all. I started following this thread a couple of days ago and I have been pondering since then if I should share my dilemma. I started TTC some months back and got on fertilaid 2 months ago. Before then I had a missed or rather delayed period (I tend to have an irregular cycle once i get stressed). I was hoping fertiliaid will help regularise that and boost my chances, but it's been 2 months and this intermittent spotting won't stop. As in I could spot like a few drops bi-weekly or every week. Am so worried and too scared to go see the Gyno. Has anyone experienced this please. Help!

@joyfulmama happy birthday to you
wishing u God's best
long life,prosperity,wealth,children and good health is and shall ne your portion in Jesus name Amen
love from me and everyone #muaaaah @joyfulmama happy birthday to you
wishing u God's best
long life,prosperity,wealth,children and good health is and shall ne your portion in Jesus name Amen
love from me and everyone #muaaaah

PweetyJay:
Good day everyone and baby dust to you all. I started following this thread a couple of days ago and I have been pondering since then if I should share my dilemma. I started TTC some months back and got on fertilaid 2 months ago. Before then I had a missed or rather delayed period (I tend to have an irregular cycle once i get stressed). I was hoping fertiliaid will help regularise that and boost my chances, but it's been 2 months and this intermittent spotting won't stop. As in I could spot like a few drops bi-weekly or every week. Am so worried and too scared to go see the Gyno. Has anyone experienced this please. Help!

Welcome 2 d family. I pray ur stay will b brief n fruitful. I'll suggest u get a gud Gyneacologist n run som necessary test to check if der is fibroid or infections of any kind. Pls avoid self medication wtout being monitored my a Gynea or doc. Let me live it here 4 oda mamas 2 touch light it.
@Joyfulmama, happy birthday n many happy returns IJN. Amen.

@joyfulmama Happy birthday. may you live long to see your children's children. God bless your new age

Gooday fruitful mamas!@joyfulmama HBD by dis time next year u will celebrate with ur twins In Jesus name. Pls mama hw do u cope with dis ttc at home and at work? Its realy taking a toll on my job I hardly concentrate again and am a teacher. What can I do to be myself again. I did mfm deliverance in august, I and DH also went for september Holyghost service from Abuja yet no show. AF showed dis morning, I knw God will answer evryone of us soonest but wat can I do to get dis bad feeling away?I just feel like not doing anytin just to stay in door. The only time I seem happy is wen am in church. God bless us all.

@joyfulmama, hbd. By this time next year, u will be with it bundle of joy.

rejoice03:
Gooday fruitful mamas!@joyfulmama HBD by dis time next year u will celebrate with ur twins In Jesus name. Pls mama hw do u cope with dis ttc at home and at work? Its realy taking a toll on my job I hardly concentrate again and am a teacher. What can I do to be myself again. I did mfm deliverance in august, I and DH also went for september Holyghost service from Abuja yet no show. AF showed dis morning, I knw God will answer evryone of us soonest but wat can I do to get dis bad feeling away?I just feel like not doing anytin just to stay in door. The only time I seem happy is wen am in church. God bless us all.

Apply 4 some days leave n change environment 4 d main tym. Go to were u can open up n hav a gud gist wt som1 who can understand u. Like ur Mum, elder Sis or a friend who is also ttc or come to my place. In general u just need somtym off dat environment because u r depressed n it will affect d children u r supposed 2 takia lyk ur own. Ova 2 oda mamas 2 help suggest.

this might interest some1

http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2015/10/ftsf-to-give-free-treatment-to.html#more

@ginababy thks for ur resp I realy appreciate. I don't realy have family members in ABJ marriage actually brought me here last year. All my frnds dat got married after me all have dere baby now so is difficult to even relate wit dem even my best lady. I got married Jan last year. Church activities also keeps me busy apart from dis teaching. I taught of resigning but won't d situation be worst especially dis TTC dat consumes money and DH won't even give me mony for any supplimment. He does not even like me reading anytin TTC.

@ rejoice,i support what gina said
U can take some days off,just try to be happy,fink on oda tins that God has done for U
I undastand my sister
Do tins that makes u happy
A living dog is better than a dead lion
There is hope for us as long as God dey
Cheerup gal

@rejoice03 its well with you bae.... Just like gina said u just need to Change environment and probably find someone you can open up to.. Baby Dust love

@janix2& pweetiebabe thks my E-sisters thats why am relating my feelings here am feeling much better now. I have this feeling each time AF is approaching and to tink dat I feel ovulation pain and AF is regular makes me just want to to realy see wat can be wrong inside my womb cause DH is fine. Is as if God shld open my eyes to see inside of my womb so I can realy knw wat is going on.But I believe God Knows it all and he will fix each and evryone of us IJN.

@rejoice03 it's well my sister. Please be strong and seek refuge in Jehovah God cos your testimony is near. Don't quit your job. We all are in this journey together and must surely conquer it together. Please be peaceful and calm. Love you oooo.

@lysunny thks so much I love u too and dis E-family I will just manage till d end of dis term after which I will go for a comprehensive fertility check up I pray DH cooperate sha. I read most times as guest bcaus if DH shld catch me on NL my phone will go for it.

PweetyJay:
Good day everyone and baby dust to you all. I started following this thread a couple of days ago and I have been pondering since then if I should share my dilemma. I started TTC some months back and got on fertilaid 2 months ago. Before then I had a missed or rather delayed period (I tend to have an irregular cycle once i get stressed). I was hoping fertiliaid will help regularise that and boost my chances, but it's been 2 months and this intermittent spotting won't stop. As in I could spot like a few drops bi-weekly or every week. Am so worried and too scared to go see the Gyno. Has anyone experienced this please. Help!

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Dear Sis , I urge you not to entertain fear, it is always better to nip any problem in the bud . Pls go and see a gynecologist .

@ Joyful Mom , happy birthday to u. The Lord increase you on every side n grant u all the good desires of ur heart. May he cause u to sing a new joyful song. amen
@ all . My father in law invited me to this programme if u can make it , it will be cool .
a prayer n fasting session for expectant women / families at MFM headquarters Olasunbo street, Unilag second gate . date is oct 17th 2015 . time 5pm- 7pm come fasting

@Rejoice03 dearie, as your moniker says, u'll rejoice very very soon by God's grace.

I was in the same state as u few months back, and i overcame it by embracing what i feel, as in i acknowledged that i desperately want to be a mother to a wondaful baby, but there was nothing i could do about it, if u want to cry please do, come in here and rant but after all that, pick and dust urself up, don't remain there, get going, think of a short course u can take, read a book, get ur old school notes to read(u go laff tire), watch comedy/comic movies, google different dishes and try them out, rearrange ur house and change ur routine if you can, try and improve ur look, gossip about pple just do something different. Once u r at home alone and the tots are about to set in look for by force work to do or cook a special meal for hubby and just celebrate urself. Don't make kpekusing a routine, initiate it and be spontaneous, just be happy, look and feel sexy

Most of all i must say God gave me the grace to come out of it, cos after taking all sort of tests, using all kinds of supplements, worrying, charting, symptom spotting, crying, fasting, worrying some more, crying some more, and being heartbroken whenever AF shows up, I asked that God should help forget about TTC and help me to be happy, cos there was nothing i could do on my own. Honestly these days i see babies and bumps and not feel bad

ur dh must be my dh's twin brother, cos no TTC for where he dey unless u want here sermon (((((e-hugs)))))

HBD @Joyful Mom, God bless ur new age and give u a gift u can only open after 9 months . Have fun

@Ayaayo thks and amen to ur prayers I will try ur suggestions. DH even tld me to forget ttc but at times I observe his feelings even though he won't speak about it. Am only praying for d grace to wait for God's appointed time without fretting. Thank u all. once I get home I will log out am thanking evryone who has responded to my rant and those dat will still respond. I wil be reading as guest once in a while. Love u all.

@rejoice03, please don't be depressed, though it's not easy but the Lord will encourage you all the way. Just try to always do those things you find pleasure in doing in other to occupy your mind with some other things rather than allowing TTC to be eating you up. For me that's how I use to take my mind off sometimes o. May the lord help us and crown our efforts and it will end in praise by the grace of God. Fertility dust to all.

@Joyfulmom, happy birthday, surely you will celebrate with your children around your table next year as the lord will give you BFP as your birthday gift.

Mamas using castor oil packs for any ailment please come n share testimonies with me ooo

@ Rejoice dear, all d mamas here have said it all. For every delay theres a reason. Just keep praising God, it will definately happen. It can only be delayed but cannot be denied. I always use that to console myslf. Thank God we have understanding and God fearing men in our lives. So dear rejoice ur name says it all.

@ Joyfumom happy birthzday dear, by dis tyme next year ul be celebrating your biirthday with ur bundle of joy dear.

@precy22 and Glo27 thks ma@Lysunny I don't knw hw to read NL mail so I can't reply thks.

rejoice03:
@ginababy thks for ur resp I realy appreciate. I don't realy have family members in ABJ marriage actually brought me here last year. All my frnds dat got married after me all have dere baby now so is difficult to even relate wit dem even my best lady. I got married Jan last year. Church activities also keeps me busy apart from dis teaching. I taught of resigning but won't d situation be worst especially dis TTC dat consumes money and DH won't even give me mony for any supplimment. He does not even like me reading anytin TTC.

Dh nt supporting is d more reason 4 ur depression. I was in ur shoe some tym bak. All I did was pray abt it n reporting my dh 2 my pastor's wife, leta my pastor had a counselling session wt us n advices dh 2 support me both physical n spiritually bt he discourages local herbs. Now my dh is more dan ready 4 anything n I'm nw at rest. Thank God u r strong in fellowship n u can also do same or just pray n God will touch his hrt. It is nt just ttc dat is ur pblm, it is dh nt supporting dat is d biggest problem here. Face d devil dat is standing in between u n dh in prayers n it will liv ur home.
Bt no b wt fight ooo. Small small.

Flakeey tanks for your advice. Please how do i know whether my cervical mucus is hostile or not.
i have googled and will try that but some of them i have been doing.

@Mubzay dh did his fluid analysis last 3 months was 25 million, he does not have watery sperm.

@Mamakendra i have not tried instead cup but will try it. please do you know where i can buy it and
how much it is.

@Oluwashindara01 Amen to your prayers. you shall have your triplet, for me i want twin

@Joyfulmama Happy Birthday May God crown you with your Baby when you celebrate next year. i wish you
God's favour and blessings.

@rejoice as you name implies you shall rejoice soon. Just believe and trust God.

@Ginababy, men generally shy away from expressing their pain and hurt, it doesn't sit well with them to feel helpless. If dh acts like he doesn't support ttc, its just his way of managing the situation and not allowing u to stress urself over ttc, deep down he is just as concerned as u r, but expressing it differently. I have come to realize this with my dh. also sometimes when one spouse is actively ttc the other tends to be relaxed about it. i see that happening to me and a lot of mamas and papas here.

I can type for Africa shaa!!!

Legendymama, show face na, abi na ur white teeth make u show

Happy Birthday joyfulmom! Its a season of blessings for you.

Rejoice... It will end in praise soonest. Remember, the darkest hour of the night is the hour before mmorning. #hugs#

Janix2:
Mamas using castor oil packs for any ailment please come n share testimonies with me ooo

Abeg put hand for dis questn

Rejoice03
Please check your progesterone level.
Implantation could be the problem.
Low progesterone also causes depression too.

Please concentrate on your self n feed your body in preparation for baby.

I have started buying baby things o. Can't shout.
In fact as Hubby saw some things, he started joining me and is really into ttc now.

Asking questions n wanting to know what's up n what he can do.

Just ask God for wisdom n direction but happily live through each day.
Your miracles are on the way.

Hugs

@chyvia. I dont know where one can buy the instead softcup. Me I need it too. I have googled for places one can buy it in naija, but came up with nothing.
Its well sha. You can also ask around, you may be lucky.
It shall end in praise.